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Elesta:
I'm not much of an obedient or submissive person. U know what they say about first borns. I grew upI telling my siblings what to do,so I'm not used to taking instructions from someone

Elesta:
I'm 8 over 10

AmberQueen:
9/10

No 6 is off my list bcs to deal with d men of our time,a lady has to be smart.

Hence,I cannot help been too smart....

kika23:
bosun11

They shouldn't atall.... That's the idea

joshrare:
Agbaya, get up mr man

You are embarassing your princehood

Ninapha:
change is the only constant thing na. We only pray that we chager for the better. Lol. Men also change ooo.

Well ur fear is not out of place cos u are human but do u know why Job in d bible was peculia? Cos he was afraid of 'change' like all challenges only look out before time how to manage 'change'. Else u wd be swallowed up.

Pls aways appreciate her and make her know u cherish her subtleness and wd always be proud of her if she holds on there.

But what if after marriage, other unforseen challenges crip into the marriage, wd u stand by her? Most times its how u handle such situations that determine how consistent a woman wd be with her attitude. Remember i said attitude and not character. My rgds to her.

Ninapha:
oh dear, she wd come around if u can be open. Dont do more than urself to pls someone. Just be urself, always listen to candid advice from her but be incharge sir.

Ninapha:
then i agree with the person that said its easier said than done.

U know what my mum said to me, my daughter, there is no other fomular to sucess in marriage except submission, perseverance, respect.

If a spouse has respect for u, changing or learning positive things from u becomes easy and reference point. Eg, i can say i learnt to keep very minimal number of friends such dat wd not distract my attention. I use to be into fashion but i learn to invest no matter how small from hubby.

Like hubby used to be very temperamental but learnt to be calm from me and he wd always use it as a reference point. Like my wife wd say' swallow those word' dat way u can keep calm.

If u are talkn abt nature, eg snoring, sleepn with open mouth. Lol etc yes u are right but if u are talkn about acquired habits eg. Drinking and smoking excessively, allowing him keep those friends that only bring problem into my marriage, no ma. I will pray untill they scatter.

I cd tell u alot but wait untill u are married, its a whole institution and u can never graduate. Best of luck.

U are a helpmate and u are there to help in every area but with respect and submission and dont forget ur knees.

cococandy:
Nigerian guys and girls deserve each other

See that fat girl saying one boyfriend can be a married man. Just to pay her bills

Smh

Hussaini709:
Pls smone shld take my babe. I cnt bliv wat I saw!

opcon:
1 quest, r u still a virgin?

missberrypop5:
hehehehehehehehehe, nice story. When will you update episode 2? I'm following o.

kozaic:
Ok.
Next thread.

cdamsel:
I dey as you leave me bros

clevvermind:
These are ten things you should never do to your wife.

1. Never cheat on your wife.

2. Never deny your wife sex.

3. Never beat your wife. Whether slap or blows.

4. Never call your wife names such as witch, whor'e, b'itch, fool etc.

5. Never hate your wife. Only love your wife.

6. Never cease to buy your wife good gifts.

7. Never cease to give your wife money for market and her upkeep.

8. Never cease to pray for your wife.

9. Never cease to call your sweet names. Always tell her sweet words.

10. Never cease to defend and protect your wife.

So help us God.

Pamcrest:
Some of u guys are just mean, always showcasing faults in women.....haba! Yet u will still pursue women any day anytime.
Any man exhibiting this same behaviour is also a bad boyfriend, a lousy lover and a chronic loser!
Let us women be abeg. That's what makes us who we are.
My humble submission