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Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by tareigns(m): 6:47pm On Dec 01, 2014
ireneony:
there is nothing wrong being a terrible girlfriend but there is something wrong being a terrible wife
look atyiww
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Pamcrest(f): 6:48pm On Dec 01, 2014
Some of u guys are just mean, always showcasing faults in women.....haba! Yet u will still pursue women any day anytime.
Any man exhibiting this same behaviour is also a bad boyfriend, a lousy lover and a chronic loser!
Let us women be abeg. That's what makes us who we are. grin
My humble submission
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by madjune(m): 6:48pm On Dec 01, 2014
Shebi that Ugandan maid na somebody's girlfriend?

Just thinking.
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by naijaboiy: 6:50pm On Dec 01, 2014
Fabdedon:
i wish seun go allow us sell likes..lol..i get 500+likes...u?MrNL
LoL...3000+ cheesy
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by kcid(m): 6:50pm On Dec 01, 2014
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Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Fabdedon(m): 6:51pm On Dec 01, 2014
naijaboiy:

LoL...3000+ cheesy
see me learner..lol
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Nobody: 6:51pm On Dec 01, 2014
quivah:

hmmm see where you are heading to now..

yeah, it should! let's hope she isn't stubborn and those xters are not part of her now or even habits.

Yeah, let's hope so.

FYI,

She isn't that bad. grin

Just some stuff that make humans imperfect grin
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by OnyeEgo1(m): 6:51pm On Dec 01, 2014
Oskilala:
99.9% are as terrible as hell these days. angry

pls don't marry dey wait for d unterrible one na

what apun to being a MANAGING DIRECTORsad

every girl in dis darn world av one or more of dis trait, man up n train dem

stop ranting MAN UP!!
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by M4gunners: 6:52pm On Dec 01, 2014
Evathyst:
Proudly a terrible girlfriend! Apart from being a control freak, I also don't get along well with people outside. Especially when I'm on a date. Even I don't know why



Anyhow sha, will take out time to work on myself. Besides, tnx 4d acknowledgment. I know wetin u want make I talk, but no luck tongue
Hahaha i trust you.
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Adesolomon2014(m): 6:54pm On Dec 01, 2014
I Hate Dat Shit Lyk Die...She's At Fault Nd Xpect Me 2 Cum Beggin...Trust Me,ma Pride Cus Knockin Indeed
Smartini:
Then 99% of Nigerian Ladies are terrible girlfriends. "If he loves me, he'll change for me". Funny thing is that she's at fault, yet she expects you to come crawling on your knees all the time cuz she's the "princess" ...


One's greatest mistake could be giving his girlfriend the upper-hand in a relationship of making her feel she's indispensable...
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by quivah(f): 6:54pm On Dec 01, 2014
imoleay0:
The OP is discussing my ex-gf, she successfully wasted 3years of my life.

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When I thought I have reached my bus stop, she called me a cab. [/size]




I will never forgive her.
cheesy cheesy cheesy

some guys deserve that tho.. but sorry for your loss.
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by OnyeEgo1(m): 6:55pm On Dec 01, 2014
hismond:


my dear, u can't kill yourself, but i can take you to where u can hug a transformer, d transformer will do d killin

wickedness cheesy:cheesy
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by RaeMystix: 6:56pm On Dec 01, 2014
TheRealAdonye:

Loool..

Thank you! grin
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Adesolomon2014(m): 6:56pm On Dec 01, 2014
OnyeEgo1:


pls don't marry dey wait for d unterrible one na

what apun to being a MANAGING DIRECTORsad

every girl in dis darn world av one or more of dis trait, man up n train dem

stop ranting MAN UP!!
mehn Bozz,am Sure U No Send Nani...Baddoo Nla
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by bosun11(m): 6:56pm On Dec 01, 2014
cdamsel:
Hey you long time kiss

whats sup?am good o and you ??
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by bosun11(m): 6:58pm On Dec 01, 2014
Pamcrest:
Some of u guys are just mean, always showcasing faults in women.....haba! Yet u will still pursue women any day anytime.
Any man exhibiting this same behaviour is also a bad boyfriend, a lousy lover and a chronic loser!
Let us women be abeg. That's what makes us who we are. grin
My humble submission


see them
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by OnyeEgo1(m): 7:01pm On Dec 01, 2014
Adesolomon2014:
mehn Bozz,am Sure U No Send Nani...Baddoo Nla

walahi ogami e dey for dia blood, dey can't help demselves, na u d guy suppose TEACH am ni, just like as u get ur own mumu button, na so she self get her own emotional/weak button find am press am
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:02pm On Dec 01, 2014
quivah:

cheesy cheesy cheesy

some guys deserve that tho.. but sorry for your loss.

Thank you.
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by KingBish(f): 7:12pm On Dec 01, 2014
Very well said.
Thank God I'm not a terrible gf.
My baby boy (I see in my dreams every night) doesn't deserve that
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by veevean1(f): 7:12pm On Dec 01, 2014
lalasticlala:
We all know that men and women are not made equally. We all have our flaws and our setbacks. However, there are some women out there who really don’t fit the mold when it comes to being a good girlfriend. While some men will openly speak out about it, others will keep it to themselves, never revealing how much their relationship sucks from their point of view. In case your man is a part of the latter group, here are signs that you may be making his life miserable.


1 You’re Extremely High In Maintenance

You nitpick at anything and everything andare extremely high maintenance and not afraid to admit it. You only wear name brand clothes and you can only be wined and dined at upscale restaurants. Money makes you happy and all eyes have to be on you, no matter where you go. Men don't really like high maintenance women much, so your must-haves and needs may be taking a toll on your man.


2 Everything Is About You

No matter where you two go or what you do, it has to be all about you. Every plan that the two of you make has to be approved before it can be put into motion. You expect your man’s day to revolve around you, no matter what else is on his schedule. You make it a point to remain his first and only priority.


3 You Pretend Like You Trust Him

At the end of the day, no matter how much of a face you put on, you know you don’t trust your man. You look through his phone and his laptop on a daily basis. You often accuse him of cheating on you or of some sort of infidelity. Though you tell him you trust him, you really don’t. Trust us, he sees through the charade.


4 You Forcefully Try To Change Him

Your man will be who he is, just as you will be who you are. While relationships require change and morphing from all parties involved, this change should happen naturally not forcibly. If you are a woman who tries to change the person she is dating, then you’re definitely not doing yourself any justice. There is no sense in trying to change someone, especially the person you’re dating.


5 You Openly Criticize Him

Constructive and useful criticism is often welcomed by most people. However, if you’re the type of woman who will openly and publicly criticize your man, just know that you’re doing more harm than good. While you may think that the criticism you’re offering is worthwhile and helpful, your method of delivering said criticism gets rid of any positivity that ever existed. If you’re going to criticize, do it nicely and privately.


6 Communication Isn’t Your Forte

You aren’t the best at communication, despite knowing that you have to talk to your man if you want things to work. You aren’t keen on talking about your feelings or thoughts when things are wrong. You also tend to bring up problems at the wrong times. You’re better at texting your feelings than talking about them in person.

7 [bYou Don’t Get Along Well With Others[/b]

When the two of you hang out with other people, your guy always has to worry about whether or not you will get into an argument with someone or not. You don’t play well with others and you’re not one to hide that fact. Having to constantly go out in public with the fear that you may start trouble is definitely not a good feeling for your man.


8 You’re Controlling

You like to have a firm grip on your man and his schedule. You have a lot of say in what he does on a daily basis, including when he sees his friends and family members. Dating a controlling woman is extremely hard for any man, and it can definitely be an ending factor. Though you two are dating, there’s no need to feel the need to have full control over each others’ lives.

9 You’re Never Wrong

Whenever anything goes downhill or completely wrong, you always point the finger at someone else, including your man, even if the blame is solely on you. Constantly pointing the finger and always brushing off responsibilities onto the other is a good way to slowly but surely push a man away. In your eyes you’re an angel that could never do wrong, but we all know that isn’t true.

Source: http://madamenoire.com/286181/signs-youre-the-girlfriend-from-hell/

I'm sure Nairaland babes are good. They are not terrible babes.

I don't think d above listed applies to only ladies, d topic should read signs u are a terrible partner
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:13pm On Dec 01, 2014
I tink am only quilty of no 6. If I'm hurt or angry I just absorb it all rather dan talk abt it or complain. I juss dnt understand y, thou I guess cos I don't want to upset d oda party.
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by cdamsel(f): 7:35pm On Dec 01, 2014
bosun11:


whats sup?am good o and you ??
I dey as you leave me bros cry
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by bosun11(m): 7:49pm On Dec 01, 2014
cdamsel:
I dey as you leave me bros cry






grin grin how i take leave u aunty... trust you v been good
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Nobody: 7:57pm On Dec 01, 2014
Hmmmmm! I think d above listed shld be applied to both partners and nt girls only cos some guys are guilty.
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by piagetskinner(m): 8:08pm On Dec 01, 2014
Ure sooo correct Op...I knew a girl that had 96.23% of the attributes listed
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Alarib(m): 8:14pm On Dec 01, 2014
ireneony:
there is nothing wrong being a terrible girlfriend but there is something wrong being a terrible wife


Uve got terrible thinking....
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Uchesis: 8:30pm On Dec 01, 2014
10. Faking org.as.m
biko if you are not digging him romantically, don't pretend! what's the point of building his ego(sexually) and losing out on yourself . tell him upfront(but codedly) . all but few women do this, its just not right.
you are terrible! tell that guy he's not trying, stop giving him false hope. that's why most of 'em come on here to brag about their sexcapades(which most dont hold water but unknown to them) and these girls who have bfs that brag here will be laughing silently. y'all girls whose bfs ain't really /not trying at all, tell 'em to help 'em to help you !

but remember, codedly o.
have read a lot about these fake orgasms , I don't think its right at all.

all those fake moans, there's God o!

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Oya com swear say u neva fake org.asm b4, expecialy after u don receive bank alert or pin. LOL
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by jamesbridget13(f): 8:33pm On Dec 01, 2014
u re dame right. my fiance must be dame jumping for joy then cos ...................
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Nobody: 8:34pm On Dec 01, 2014
hismond:


my dear, u can't kill yourself, but i can take you to where u can hug a transformer, d transformer will do d killin

Wickedness in high places angry

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Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by hismond(m): 8:50pm On Dec 01, 2014
Kachisbarbie:


Wickedness in high places angry

it's not called wickedness, it is called being ur brodas keeper, all I want to do is keep u whr u won't even date not to talk of being a terrible gf
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by ajimega: 8:52pm On Dec 01, 2014
Aprime:
Now you've help identify a problem.
Where's the solution.... cheesy
seconded problem identifiers with no solution
Re: Signs You’re A Terrible Girlfriend by Missmossy(f): 8:54pm On Dec 01, 2014
Hahahaha today is our day grin

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