damselabi:
Says who....wots b biggie in having dat,Isnt dats hw its suppose to b

are u new in d world we are today ?

Elesta:


I'm not much of an obedient or submissive person. U know what they say about first borns. I grew upI telling my siblings what to do,so I'm not used to taking instructions from someone

interesting but am sure you wont expect your hubby taking instructions from you though....
does it mean you are not materialistic and you are sensitive to his needs?

holatin:
are u new in d world we are today ?

Am nt new bt dia r still girls dat has those qualities

DAMSELABI : Am waiting for your comment about this topic ooo

princeozzilly:
My friend, you are certainly not married, huh, the opposite of submissive is "nagging", "quarrelsome", "opinionated" etc. Trust me,you won't survive one week. You don't have to believe me, I dare you to marry such a woman then we can chat again in the future.

even the wisest man solomon says it is better to live on one corner of a roof than to stay in a mansion with a nagging wife

bosun11:
DAMSELABI : Am waiting for your comment about this topic ooo

wot shud I say oooo...

princeozzilly:
1. She must be God-fearing
2. She must not be materialistic
3. She must show signs of being a good home maker
4. She must show signs of discipline
5. She must always be sensitive to your needs
6. She must not be crafty or being too smart
7. She must be humble and obey the man
8. Even if she is the rich one, she must be submissive (forget about all these feminist rubbish) a woman cannot make a home without a man.
9. She must not disclose her man's short-comings to a third party, not even parents.
10. She must always be cheerful.

If you are a Woman, score yourself over 10 and let's see if you are a good wife material.

if a women is not smart, how will she know when the husband is cheating on her?

bosun11:



interesting but am sure you wont expect your hubby taking instructions from you though....
does it mean you are not materialistic and you are sensitive to his needs?

How can I expect a man to b taking instructions from me.I go just c that man finish

damselabi:
Am nt new bt dia r still girls dat has those qualities

how many Ve you met ?

holatin:
how many Ve you met ?

Enuf to knw dia r girls lyk dat

ladies/women these days have been beclouded by the 21st century mentality*they are no longer soft-hearted as they used to be-they've grown stony hearts

damselabi:
Enuf to knw dia r girls lyk dat

hmmmmmm introduce me to one

12 over 10 cos I always intend to add more,trust me the over caring soul that I am,lol! But trust me again,you can do dis and much more but the man who dsnt want you,dsnt want you,my take!

holatin:
hmmmmmm introduce me to one

hehehe ....I ll put it in mind

damselabi:
wot shud I say oooo...

comment jor

udysweet:
12 over 10 cos I always intend to add more,trust me the over caring soul that I am,lol! But trust me again,you can do dis and much more but the man who dsnt want you,dsnt want you,my take!

when you finally get married and you do all this, any man that treats you less should be HANGED !!!

She must not be too smart? Seriously? I no dey sew cloth with that kind wife material o.

Elesta:

How can I expect a man to b taking instructions from me.I go just c that man finish

in that case, you gotta drop your ego in your matrimonial home, tell God who is the head of your house to direct your man to lead your household with wisdom.....

VickyyB:

It's not hard to do.

You are right. I don't need to be materialistic.
But, any girl who's materialistic shouldn't be blame because you guys objectify our beauty and we objectify your money. Draw-draw

What a short-sighted way of reasoning. If she must be a home keeper, there's no way she shouldn't be materialistic.

Good

Like seriously?

Stùpidity and low self esteem.

In what ways?
It's 50/50. He obeys me and I obey him.

If I am rich, I would be submissive and he will also be submissive.
A man can't make a home without a woman.

Good! A man shouldn't do the same.

Same as men.


10 over 10

Not a good evaluation

Try again

princeozzilly:
1. She must be God-fearing
2. She must not be materialistic
3. She must show signs of being a good home maker
4. She must show signs of discipline
5. She must always be sensitive to your needs
6. She must not be crafty or being too smart
7. She must be humble and obey the man
8. Even if she is the rich one, she must be submissive (forget about all these feminist rubbish) a woman cannot make a home without a man.
9. She must not disclose her man's short-comings to a third party, not even parents.
10. She must always be cheerful.

If you are a Woman, score yourself over 10 and let's see if you are a good wife material.

U r right sir...a good woman generally shud possess dis attitudes n more.

bosun11:



when you finally get married and you do all this, any man that treats you less should be HANGED !!!

Ebuf Men ll still nt b contented... its nt by dat o.We shud all just pray God gives us our own bone.

damselabi:
Ebuf Men ll still nt b contented... its nt by dat o.We shud all just pray God gives us our own bone.

you are right though and Amen to that but i cant treat a woman that treats me this way less of a QUEEN..such a woman deserves the best..my opinion though

charlove:

i like you. you are real.

Thats' whats' up. Thank you. Yknow, I get that a lot even in person.

I do keep it real-

damselabi:
U r right sir...a good woman generally shud possess dis attitudes n more.

explain your defination of materialistic because that is 1 of the odd points i find in that list

Lool@hanged!
Hmmm men...I've had my fair share of them,it hasn't been palatable all through. I must say,but one must not giv up totally because of one hurt or the from some quarters.
Not all men will send all these things listed o,except God touch their heart. They rather marry bitched who makes their lives hell and I think some of dem deserve such tho,lol.

bosun11:



when you finally get married and you do all this, any man that treats you less should be HANGED !!!

bosun11:


in that case, you gotta drop your ego in your matrimonial home, tell God who is the head of your house to direct your man to lead your household with wisdom.....

I hear oh

bosun11:


explain your defination of materialistic because that is 1 of the odd points i find in that list

Frm my own point of view, dias no1 who dosent lyk gud tins money can buy bt if it gets to a point wia all u kia abt is wot u want to buy n money dwn u r materialistic

damselabi:
Frm my own point of view, dias no1 who dosent lyk gud tins money can buy bt if it gets to a point wia all u kia abt is wot u want to buy n money dwn u r materialistic

hmmm..u nailed it..thanks

Elesta:

I hear oh

okay oooo

udysweet:
Lool@hanged!
Hmmm men...I've had my fair share of them,it hasn't been palatable all through. I must say,but one must not giv up totally because of one hurt or the from some quarters.
Not all men will send all these things listed o,except God touch their heart. They rather marry bitched who makes their lives hell and I think some of dem deserve such tho,lol.

yet not all me deserve this...but me i deserve most but not all...some other points..i really dislike them...

My babe is a woman then

Chiadanin:
Grade is 7.5/10. Dang it. I scored higher than I wanted or expected. Being a wife ugh.......I have panic attacks and possibly anaphylactic to that word. I prefer partner. It sugarcoats it for me so wifely duties are super palatable.

PS. I took half point off 2 ( I like nice things); 6 ( I am too smart and crafty where it matters); 7 (obey really?- not a dog.) 9 (yea..no, some has to know about your sheningans. At least a psych. To keep me from going bananas); 10 (ha!! U wish. What do I look like pollyana barbie doll).

Yea...thats how I roll.

You don't stay in Nigeria or you have overstayed abroad. You no longer talk like African!