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Lamanii22:
Are girls that desperate to get married Girls! Y'all needa work harder and smarter, that guy will come for you....

Decimus:
Yes, there are women like that.

Just go to school and be gainfully employed, have a great career, or have something reasonable that fetches you money and don't be a liability. Then you won't lack suitors even into your 40s.

Tesvin:
He wanted to turn her into a laughing stalk

dalass:
...and low bank account type looking for a beautiful, rich and above 30 to take advantage of... Na wa for you oh... Radarada

sassysure:
Really

I didn't know o.

There is nothing to gloat over on any single man or woman.

Parker6:
If this is the case, then we shouldn't have desperate women.

adewumiopeyemi:
I will rather fight for love other than beg for love

Ulunne777:
. I then asked him if that was all a wife means to him. Idiot. No introductions whatsoever.

They are plenty oo. Ulunne is a wife material oo. E NO get wetin I no see

Ulunne777:
First arrangee. Came back for Xmas and we finally met. He said if I agree before the end of the week we will marry. I refused, Oga wedded another woman end of the week. I marvel at women . You marry someone you are meeting for the first time in less than 3 days.

ravensckar:
Honestly, when I read one-sided write ups like these, I feel appalled. Ain't there two sides to a coin any more? The so-called 'desperation' from ladies may not always be what you think. It could be a way of saying their own mind is made up. They have no more time to waste.

Now, let me shock you with my own story. When I met the lady I'm married to today, she told me straight up that she's not in for any long term relationship. She's almost done with school and that if the relationship won't lead to marriage, I should jejely excuse her. Me being the 'guyman' that I was then, I wanted to chop and clean mouth. I sha played along with the intent to chop until I'm full. Now, therein lies my confusion; the said lady in question was everything I wanted in a woman (beautiful, educated, well behaved, God-fearing and highly industrious). But I have just one problem; I wasn't ready for marriage. Money no dey, even the job I was doing then, salary was around 70K.


She sha encouraged me that we should pull our resources together and that we'll survive. Long story cut short, I decided to give it a shot. After all, person wey dey ground no get anywhere to fall to. We got married in less than 4 months of dating. When I mean married, I mean a proper and elaborate wedding. Brethrens, today we're still together. Yes, she's not perfect just like I'm not as well, but we are still happily married.

It was later I understood the reason for her 'desperation'. She had wasted too much time dating some Bleep boys, hence, she felt she has no more time to waste. To her, if it's not going to lead to marriage, then, she shouldn't even venture into it. What we guys see as 'desperation' to some ladies, it's called making up their mind.

KevinDein:
You'll find most of the guys that post on this thread were actually involved with older women.

It's not uncommon.

sassysure:
U want to marry me
I am a married woman of course.

Just wanted to let you guys know it ain't easy on babes too. In dormitory, I was nicknamed one guys name because he couldn't give up. Till I went to uni.

He is one of my cousin's friend. Took my picture( don't know if its with his permission) from his house and enlarged. Hung in his sitting room.
When he finally got the message that I don't want to marry him, he went for another person. It was around Easter break and I came home from school, was jisting with a nebor when I saw a convoy of cars,asked and was told it's the guy. This guy still stopped, walked up to where me and the elderly woman were. Thank goodness for that woman. She deflected what would have hung me finally. I saw this guy with the wife drove pass me the next day, he stopped and came out to greet me. I have to involve the head of his family. I sneak in to my village towards late evening, use apiam way and enter my house through the backyard. Stay with my mum without coming out till I leave. All because of men. They will be at the compound with the elders and I will jump fence from the back and disappear straight to my mum's hometown.

Girls get it worst. They will ruin your reputation. They will go to beer parlour and make u the topic of discussion.
A babe almost blinded me with very long cane simply because her so called boyfriend wanted to marry me. His dad mandated him to marry me. Have never met the guy. Actually bypassed him on his way to my house to see me
He don't know me either. It wasn't easy for me at all. Some babes get guys who want to befriend them, I get suitors. Had few,very few guys who want to befriend me and all were outside my state.

Some will stalk you.

So when u guys are busy making it look like babes are all over you, know that your brothers are killing themselves over other women. They spent money, they can go to any length.

The way men aggressively pursued me actually had a very negative effect on me toward men cos it was suffocating and too clingy. Yeah, at a point my mummy got worried cos I never responded positively to any.

You want to know about what women pass through in the hands of men, u will never find it here, go to hair salon or campus and you will be shocked to see the level men( not boys) with money and class will go to have a babe answer his name.

Rozz:
liers everywhere as if they are not the same persons pestering ladies with marriage up and down.Pls let me breath mtcheww

oyetpel:
Why do we always gets emotional?
All the advices the guy wrote is reality, but does that mean he wants the same for his daughters?
If a lady is not well to do, and a married man is ready to finance her and get out of lack, what's wrong there?


Most of our great grandmothers are first wife, 2nd wife, 3rd wife e.t.c.

Some women are big today because they were financed by rich married men, some of them might not want their daughters to do the same, and their daughters can even choose because they don't lack money to go through what their mother did.


Everyone is trying to secure their future man.

Taeewo:
Okay you win and i loose.

kryptochats:
it is but..

NockMedia:
Age ain't nothing but a number, but when you grow old as a man, you will understand the advantage of marrying a younger woman.
When you become weak and frail and your wife is also weak and frail because she is older than you...how do you cope if you don't have money to hire a nanny or your kids are gone?

estyvino:
Again, this virus no waann rest abi?

Earlystar698:
Tunde claims his trip was to visit his wife, daughter of NIMASA DG, who just delivered a baby. He reportedly secured special landing rights at the Lagos Airport from Hadi Sirika, Minister of Aviation.

Newcreature2020:
Question? why aren't the market place or malls having these same rules? Now it's obvious the fight is against the church

SarkinYarki:
We will soon put an end to Bill gates if he is not careful

OK2NVME:
This is the nigger that Bill Gates bribed 4 months before we even heard of Corona in August, 2019 to push a bill to pass contract tracing of a virus that wasn't even a pandemic at the time.

See how he looks like our own Yaribanza speaker

OK2NVME:
When we said there was a conspiracy to sterilise and tag you using the deliberately unleashed bio-engineered CoVid-19, some idiots will be calling us ''conspiracy nut jobs''.

Now that the WHO has been finally exposed in being actively complicit in aiding the Chinese government's cover up of the origins of the virus from the Wuhan BSL4, the deliberate spread of this virus as well as doing all it could to dismiss Hydrochloroquine as an effective treatment - which by the way has just been announced by the highly reputable Medical Journal, Lancet as the only effective treatment for Corona- new information has come to light exposing further even to the blind and deaf, that Bill Gates had already negotiated a $100 billion dollar contact tracing contract with the Satanic US Democratic party on the hopes that they will win the 2020 elections.

This is not all. After conducting a simulation in October of 2019 of a global pandemic spread of a CORONA VIRUS, same Bill Gates was telling the whole world that we will not get back to normal until we all take his vaccine and his satanic chip.

The same bastard Bill Gates even had a bill in progress in the US congress that was aptly named HS-6666 to that effect . Same bastard Bill Gates that has bribed that Yaribanza bastard speaker with $10 million to pass the satanic NCDC bill that will enforce you and your family to be slaves of Microsoft.

Now, idiots that can only process 2kb of information at a time who were insulting me and every other sane reasonable and sensible person that spoke up on the conspiracy to enslave you should be able to see this. But I highly doubt this. Even that useless jobless Mod that kept banning me and deleting all my threads here will not see it.

If Bill Gates' poison and vaccines were a choice, I would never raise one single voice against it and would have been here promoting it to most of you here to take it so that your stupidity dies with you. But since that wasn't the case as Bill Gates wanted every one of us vaxxed and tagged like sheep, that is the reason I took it personally to warn all you goats before you get us into more trouble than the Buhari and APC your foolishness caused us.

Homeboiy:
Even you op won't read this epistle

Taeewo:
How is BVN personal? You only need to release it to a trusted and registered organization that wont compromised you privacy.

If na private why u come dey release am to open account from other bank?


Search Ayo Fayose BVN on Google.If BVN is private,EFCC will never published it..

MrPRevailer:
Well if the Devil loves/craves worship as God does,
He also craves Jewish followers as God does.

Sapiosexuality:
Besides the Frankfurt school, a league of nations is already in place.

GworoChewinMaga:
and so it is the Jews who can be held responsible for the general decline in morals.

GworoChewinMaga:
‘In the absence of clear moral guidance, children naturally make choices based on feelings. Powerful
Powerful peer pressure, freed from the values which stem from a divine source, ensure that ‘shared values’ sink to the lowest common denominator.

GworoChewinMaga:
Dr. William Coulson recognised the psychological damage Rogers’ technique inflicted on youngsters and rejected it, devoting his life to exposing its dangers.