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Biodun1929:
I have so many. Damn! I was so shy back in the day and thought that was how I will be forever.

Imagine, I was on my own jejely in year one, reading my book and minding my business. Although I had a girl I used to talk to, but just as a friend. Then one day, the girl's friend came to meet me and asked why I haven't asked the girl out. What?? I said. And the girl said her friend likes me that I should ask her out after classes.

That's how my heart started beating. Lol. Girl that I normally talk to on a regular was now making my leg shake, and making me sweat like Christmas goat. The girl even asked me what was wrong with me. Lol. That's how I opened my mouth and said with shaky voice, 'bimpe said I should ask you out.' Worst day of my life. Lol! The girl started avoiding me after that incidence.

Bimpe said I should ask you out??
Guy, na you carry the Champion's cup for this thread

2018PROFSUNDAY:
Ok now she's a bread that's why you're toasting her. The word WOO is the correct word to be use.for example I wooed Cynthia yesterday night.

You no serious.
You no know say "toast" na slang or pidgin?

jimcaddy:
I will never forget my own experience. In fact i have many experiences. But the one i remember was one light skinned chick was transferred from a school in the US to my secondary school. See accent. Fine, cream chick. I instantly started liking her. But a lot of guys back then were on her case as she was the latest in town. But i liked her genuinely. I remember I would write her love letters and the send one of my friend to deliver it to her, while I would run out of the class to hide so she doesn't see me. I remember buying her a box of chocolates on Vals day and wrote a note professing my love for her. But what pained me the most was that after eating the chocolate, she still didn't look my side.

Hahahaha, you no well o.
You sure say she know who send the chocolate?

goshen26:
Smile



I followed a girl from the beginning of a long Street to the end without saying hello.

There was this strange force that held my voice


I was just walking after her without moving close, I was scared but refuse to believe it was fear

Hahahaha chai! You no well

iTroll:
Hell, a hairy gorilla might even behind this account.

Might?

Is.

luminouz:
Cmon baby,don't be shy!!!

Guy, I rebuke you!

luminouz:

Who you dey kiss??
Inyanmma!

MiddleDimension:
yes they are. and that's because the world has deceived people into thinking they are no dangerous one bit.

Women are not dangerous.
Some women do and have done dangerous things.
But, no one is also perfect even though we can be perfect.

zuby4real10:
I have already made my decisions a long time ago, so nairaland advice has nothing to change.

Yes, that na my point.
Nairaland romance section dey very vocal about not dating a girl not working or that asks you for money or that the parents are poor.
And I feel say na wetin push you to leave the girl against your better judgement.
Because you like the girl from wetin you write but for her background abi?

Na NL romance section boys handwork be that.
To me o.

See the last line of your first comment, "love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills."
This one na popular NL line naw.
You think say na you form am?

The thing enter you subconscious unknowingly

AfroKnight:
That nurse is a psycho. What does she stand to gain by doing that?

Yes if you call her psycho, I agree.
Evil people dey naw

If you know how to search Nairaland please do, you will see the thread.

But whenever you want to do a DNA test, do it for your self and also do for your wife because your wife may be innocent.

Westernlove:
Mumu...... Davash22 see one of your mumu students wey no dey gree stay for class receive your lectures.....The Niggur behind that Fake Handle will be Smiling Sheepishly lol......

Very fake handle.
See the kain girl picture wey e use, come see as e dey type.
Virginia ko, pretty nice.

AfroKnight:
Yes na. That’s how one man said he discovered from the embassy that he can’t travel with his 3 kids because all of them are not truly his. Just imagine!

Sadly, he pummelled the woman beyond recognition. He risked incarceration because she deceived him for years.

But I read the story here of a nurse that was switching babies at birth purposefully.
She switched about 81+ babies.

The Family wey that one don destroy!
Because the false accusation wey the wife no go fit deny na im be that.

What I will advice all men,
When you do DNA, check whether the kids are not just only yours but also your wife's.
Na the true DNA test be that.

As per when you do DNA test, test whether the pikin na your own. Also test whether the pikin na your wife own.

gnykelly:
what about you, are you double now?

Person wey join clique of guys wey dey curse women up and down NL, how e wan take double?
He must change or mature first.

Enugupikin:
You're even blaming the man and saying he presented himself as a Messiah..nothing I no go see oo just because the young man got full of his senses

He liked the girl.

luminouz:
Reason with ur brain next time hommie...


If you can't get the joke...buy a Pokemon and put it where the sun don't shine

Modified.
Don't worry, Go go bless your handwork.
Just ask and believe.

luminouz:
Gimme her number

No shame.

zuby4real10:
and how does she worshipping me helps my life. Will she still worship me if I stop caring.?

I no say make you dey with am if you no wan dey with am o.

But no dey let all this NL school children dey confuse you with their yeye advice o.
If person love you and appreciate you no mean say na desperation o.

I wan attach picture to this my comment.
The two boys wey you go see for the picture, na the kind children wey dey mostly comment for romance section.

Ehn Jumia. What right do you have to ask for BVN?

Poloyanabo2:
They look good together...
God bless their union.
Oh i can't wait for 2023 to get married.

Lol, you no serious

DeckXavier:
and most men have acted terribly?? I'm just inferring.

No.
Men are not terrible people.
Few men act terribly

But na woman the guy really wan talk about. E just dey add men join am so that them go say e balance am.

Na wetin I sense sha.
You no sense am?

MiddleDimension:
i also mentioned men too. read it again

I noticed.
But I felt you were being smart, women seemed to be the real object of your focus.

Raalsalghul:
More reason I opined he was smart for bailing out.

He may be smart but, that wasnt a smart move. Him like her way.

bonnyhope:
You have already fallen for that cooked up story of hers just to give women credit

Why does it hurt you to see women get the credit in relationship?

zuby4real10:
She was so desperate to the extent that even if she wants to give or collect something from me she has to kneel small. Always calling me her husband. She is more than 100% nice and submissive.she is the only lady that I have ever see that didn't wait for her man to introduce her to his family. I don't even know how she got my mum's number nd start communicating with her. I single handed sponsored her 3 years NCE education. From the comments I am seen here on nairaland is as if as I am the only man that sponsored a lady's education with out regrets uptil date. My only problem with this lady is that she and her family are so poor to the extent that they see me as their meal ticket, as if as am the best thing that ever happens to them. I thinked about the liability of marrying this girl and her family own I run. Uptil now the lady is still waiting and begging for me to come back. She is always asking what she did wrong. I beg I no fit kill myself, love and loyalty alone can not sustain a marriage cos they can't pay bills.

She was worshipping you because you paid the bills.
How else was she supposed to show her gratefulness?

MiddleDimension:
i think the modern world is tilted in the favour of women.
the truth is that all genders have terrible people among them and that's why
in this day and age when every thing is in the favour of women, it is important
not to get naive and think women are not terrible people capable of immense harm to men
and while we keep ourselves aware of that, let us not also think that men cannot be terrible people
as we have seen from the comments in here.
so on issues like this, it is important we are wise and know what we say so we do not make
way for another equally bad behaviour.

Women are not terrible people oga.
Few women have acted terribly.

MiddleDimension:
so terrible the comments i am reading here.
from now on, i will be careful the sort of things i say in public.
i could be emboldening some terrible men who think they are smart
and as a result, go about deceiving their ladies.

I came to the realisation by the help of God.
He has instructed in His word to keep watch over the door of our lips.

Victoria25:
��� all the comments I have read so far here are women persuading their man,please what about in a situation a guy is the one rushing The lady into marriage?

Them say share your story of the pressure wey you experience, you refuse.

Klass99:
You're just crazy

Interestingly I was gisting with a male friend from Edo State this afternoon, just catching up and I asked about his uncle.

He informed me his uncle is now divorced from his wife (an Edo woman) and things had gotten so bad, as per threats from the wife that the uncle pleaded with his brothers to deliver him from this woman

I asked him why are your women so strong willed and strong headed? Their blood dey hot pass the men sef.

Pure lies.
Fabrication

Davicl:
Girls should learn from this and make the right choice early enough.

You believe that lie??

lenghtinny:
Well life happens.....

But first of all, you guys should stop thinking it’s her beauty that’s affecting her chances...

When the time is right, marriage will happen. I for one believes marriage is not something worth getting depressed over.

You dey believe that one yeye lie?

Raydos:
Well I have no experience, But my Sister Is going through this right now, She was a Very pretty girl back then in School to the extent almost every guy want a piece of her, But she turned them all down!!

There was even one brilliant guy that really loved her so much that He even went as far as Writing Exam for her, Imagine taking that risk for a lady?? He doesn't even care if he get caught and get rusticated! He loved .y sister so much

But upon all these, My sister still turned him down, The reason For this is not farfetched, She was a very Pretty girl and she feel she can settle down anytime she want, She think guys will always want her cos of there pretty face!!

Fast forward to 7 years later, She's not Yet married now, Depression Has finished her, She couldn't celebrate her 34th birthday last year, instead she just Stay indoors and cry all day!!

I really feel bad seeing her cry, It moved me to tears, She's isn't as attractive As she was when she was 25!!

Why you dey like naw?
Who force you to write this long epistle?

Must you paint women bad to drive traffic to your blog?

Can't you write a story that paints women in good light to drive traffic to your blog??

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