₦airaland Forum

Wealthyone:
Despite the fact that I will never abort a pregnancy or support it, I believe ibadan poly is still convincing with points.
Though, he made errors by spelling Rid as Ride , yet, his article is concise despite few references.
LASU, I support ur notion and u started well by defining what abortion is but the write up didn't [s]I'm already writing too much when I'm not one of the judges[/s]

JesusDWay:
Your IELTS result is eligible(your hubb's own is better) but there are other factors that are considered. Go to CIC's website to find out the other things that are required - http://www.cic.gc.ca/english/immigrate/skilled/apply-factors.asp. You must also have sufficient funds

udeyokay:
Guru in the house please I need your advices ,is it okay to change primary occupation from business to using the OTHER column specification in the application .Then I wil write that I'm doing business pluss teaching.
I need some suggestion I want to submit my application please
I was delayed on Dec last year
ThanK you.

Walspring:
I think there is weekend and week days, dunno if they can beat it down and also do you stay in Lagos

Walspring:
Can you afford #30,000

zeezahbee:
Do you want to pay for that ?

taryour:
Nothing makes one religion better than the other. It all depends on your choice of religion and your belief. Serving one true GOD and doing unto others what you want done to you.

juman:
Study both religions.

I am a muslim and I know much about my religion. I am pleased being a muslim.

mhonghorll:
@op

i understand your fears completely. The truth is when i read your post this afternoon, i showed it to my wife and asked if she's the one that posted it. what i am trying to say is that i am in the same shoes as you and ur hubby( my wify and i are from Islamic background but we chose to be Christian). Same way ur inlaws are begging you to convince ur hubby is the same they are begging my wife to convince me but I STOOD MY GROUND VERY WELL. She (wify) was even promised a car . Some things i would like to share with you regarding my experience and how we (wify and i) managed the situation. Pls PM me so that we can talk privately

Bplati:
Hmmm, sometimes I wonder what's attached to this religion such that I was seriously begged to convince him and promised me that I'll get anything I want in this world. This issue no be small matter o. I'm just scared not to offend anybody else I'll look them in the face, then one will be tagged as a bad wife... One can imagine the extent they can go spiritually. I don't want any attack or whatsoever. Scared they can manipulate my hubby into marrying a Muslim of their choice.

bellong:
Parental curse can only have impact if the child did something wrong... "As birds by wandering.. curse curseless shall not come."

When you are pressured, tell them their son is the head of the family and whatever he decides is what you will abide with. So they should talk to their son.

taryour:
Op please let the word DISOWN sound to you like they are going to wipe you out of the surface of earth. You are no longer bearing your maiden name and your husband is now man enough to make decisions. You both have your own families now and responsible for every actions you take.

Go ahead with whatever religion you choose too and feel very comfortable with. No one has any right whatsoever to threaten you on which religion to go by.

You don't have to do anything, just keep your stand and remain confident. Best wishes

bellong:
Are you guys still dating or married?

The constitution of the Federal Republic of Nigeria accords the right to every individual adults freedom of choice of religion.

I want to believe you guys are above 18 and I don't see any reason why non-violent threat from another adult should disturb you.

It is left for you and your husband/boyfriend to take a stand and stop being diplomatic about issues. It has not been resolved because they know you guys are weak in your decision. Therefore, the pressure wouldn't subside but will keep increasing.

Once you take a known stand and defy their threat to do whatever you want, they will either disown you or allow you to practice whatever you choose. There is no need of entertaining fear, the ball is in your court.

wakacome:
Disown you people because you are practicing the religion of your choice as married people??some families are pathetically ignorant!!!!!!as long as you people do believe in GOD and they do not believe in the devil then i do not see any reason why any family should do such....nonsense....