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Angelfrost:
Yeah... But, it is better and more dignifying to make your own wealth as a human being with a brain.

God didn't create you solely to be a leech on the wealth of others.

God bless you for this reply.

Angelfrost:
Lol... Op, you were really making sense until towards the end when you switched up to Gender Bias.

You should have just maintained your neutral tone and kept the topic balanced.

Excusing infidelity among men as natural and even "understandable" says a lot about how lowly your mentality is especially regarding relationships.




Anyway... I agree with your first paragraph. Holding on to partners that have moved on emotionally from us is just plain dumb.

Ok I'm really sorry

Talkisneeded:
You,that has decided to jump into a thread without assimilating properly

Don't waste your precious time responding to some people on this forum please 🙏.
I know her too well, and I understand how controversial she can be on this platform, so leave her. Some women talk like they have equal right as Men. This is Africa. Women who have failed to understand this simple fact are suffering seriously in their marriages.

Some family members are the same people staging their kidnaps in order to extort money from their rich relatives

Samantha125:
I'm curious, when a man cheats, it's understandable for who?

So, that was the only thing you were able to read and understand from the whole write-up. This post isn't for you then

How many times will such Posts make the Frontpage here?

Why recycling same posts?

There are better, educating and informative posts hidden in some sections which you guys have decided against moving to the frontpage.

Please Guys, never hold on to your partner when they obviously do not deserve you.

You deserve the best, especially from a man or woman whom you intend settling down with. If they are cheats, Let them go.
If they are violent, let them go.
If you're enough for them, and they respect you and the relationship, they would not cheat. Never keep hold on to a cheating partner, cos the first time you caught her or found out, isn't her first time. Even the Bible supports divorce on ground of Infidelity.

Let them Go. Everyone is important, but nobody is too important. Everyone is Replaceable.

No matter how much you love them, let them go. When a man cheats, it's understandable. But when a woman you want to get married to, cheats, there's every likelihood that she won't stop, even in marriage. A wife who is a serial cheat is likely to terminate her husband's life at the instance of her lover.

Don't say you were not Informed. Don't be a SIMP at this young Age. Don't.

ediko5:
Brahamimo or whoever it may concern.

Firstly, whenever you met a lady who calls her father useless and irresponsible please run away from such a lady even if the dad is truly irresponsible because you'll soon join the league of her father. Imagine a girl child claiming to disown her own dad because he didn't train her in school. She's been damaged emotionally by her mother and she has a bitter mindset towards men.

Also, it's funny if you're even thinking twice about such a lady because it's crystal clear you'll bear full responsibility of her children and it's also clear she has a huge entitlement mentality.

It's even funny how a single young man will be thinking about marrying a single mother of 2 even she's a widow (you can't tell what killed the husband). The even make matter worst, a liability single mother because it's obvious she's been funded by different men.

Another question is how did her husband die, what killed him ? Because a lady who disowned her own dad will not think twice about harming her husband

You've said it all Bro

SamuraiXXX:
Where did you see account number on his profile?

So u think I'm lying or what?
Check his signature on his profile, except he has removed it.

Kobicove:
You're dead broke and you're trying to have sex with a single mother of two who is struggling financially...if you mistakenly get her pregnant do you have money for baby food or diapers?!

So, a broke guy shouldn't have sex again?
This una mentality nawao.

Dem tie the girl hand make she no get money?
Some of u guys are the reason these girls are misbehaving. Simps everywhere

ednut1:
150k and must be staying around banana.Nigerian elite ehn

Human-beings are very wicked to another. Even you

Johnchrix:
Can 150k afford rent in banana island.
Daylight modern slavery

Daylight robbery?
But you're here begging on nairaland.
Are u ashamed of yourself for exposing ur account details here?

Sonnobax15:

You had only 3k and she withdrew #2600? . At least,she left #400 for you which you can use to recharge airtime and call anybody to send you money

Well,ask any good tailor around you and she'll tell your those characters she has displayed are good enough to sew a very big red flag.

The guy already left her. He said he can't add more poverty to himself.
May God help her.
She's from a dysfunctional family

From My Inbox:

Hi, good morning. Please Sir, post for me but Hide my Identity.

Three months ago, I was in a Keke(Tricycle), while on the way, I was joined by a co-passenger, a young lady. We interacted for some time until I alighted the Keke. While i paid my transport fare, I also paid for her. Hers was #500. We exchanged contacts, & parted ways that day.
For two weeks, I didn't call, chat or messaged her. In fact, I didn't save her number, I forgot to do so that day. It was after 2wks that I remember I took a lady's number, then I began to search my call log, but I still couldn't figure out her number cos I had lots of strange numbers that had called within this period. I felt sad that I couldn't find it. However, it occurred to me that I should check my Truecaller app to see if I could find it, and thank God I was able to find it when I checked and saw her name on the Truecaller app.
I called, I introduced myself, we exchanged pleasantries. We chatted and we began to know each other. She said she's a single mother of two, and that she lost her husband last year. She's 26. Has an ND and helps her elder sister to sell at her provision shop. I began to show interest in her when she started giving me greenlight. I visited her, we hanged out and had a few drinks. She likes to drink all these hot drinks and spirits as well. She's short and dark. I paid for our outing and gave her some money before we parted that day.
She isn't a bad girl. But the situation of things around her is what is frightening me. First, she is the only one fending for herself and two kids. She pays the rent, pays the kids sch fees and everything, according to her o. I asked to know what her late husband's people are doing to help her situation, but to my surprise, she claimed nobody in her family or late husband's family is supporting her in any way. I asked of her own dad, she said she's disowned her dad because the man is irresponsible. I asked how, she said the man isn't responsible to her and her siblings. He married another woman and he only cares about the second wife. I asked again, "Was your dad not the one who trained you in sch"? She replied by saying, what's secondary sch education?. I told her that she should be grateful that she has a father who was able to see her through secondary sch. Telling me that she disowned her father just because of his inability to train her in tertiary institution is not really something I can accept, except there's another reason. But no matter the reason, you must reconcile with your dad. I told her.
Another troubling issue is that she's trying to push her children's responsibilities on me. Sch just resumed and she's stylishly telling me about the kid's sch fees. Who does that?. Whenever we are chatting, she will be asking me why I hardly ask about her kids. She moved into a new house just last month, in the new apartment, there's no light, the room hasn't being painted and so many facilities are not there. She's always complaining to me.
She visited me for the first time yesterday. We romanced and kissed, but this girl refused to let me sleep with her. I pleaded and pleaded but no way and I had to respect myself and bear the pains of my swollen scrotum. I couldn't even walk due to pains. I believe guys understand what I'm saying here. Managed to see her off to the road to get a bike, went to the POS and I gave her my ATM card to withdraw her transport back home. I showed her what I had in my Opay. I had just 3k there and this girl withdrew #2,600 when #500 can take her home. I was surprised but I hid my feelings from her.
Now she's telling me that I don't love her, I only want sex, that why should I be demanding sex on her first visit to my house?. In my mind, I was like, so I'm now the fool who has being giving you money all this while?
You keep collecting my money without thinking it's too early to get money from me, yet it is too early for you to give me sex?
I don't know if she's thinking I will Marry her or shoulder the responsibilities of her kids. What nonsense. I'm even suspecting that she didn't lose her husband. In fact, she never married. She was just whoring around till she became a mother of two.

Run from single mothers especially as a young man who's still trying to survive. The werey even get male bestie wey she save as Haruna-Love with love emojis.

I want to Block her now.

Mynd44
Lalasticlala Nlfpmod Seun

Fake news

Fake news.

Maybe, APC moles planted in ADC

Rizzputin:
Crying is all part of female manipulation. She 100% slept with him and is trying to find a way back


Find another woman.

Ok sir, my lecturer. Professor emeritus

YemyTemmy:
You deserve better and i wish you well, but remember say i don swear down say if u go back make something do you....

I await your testimony for something good....try dey attend GEHGEH UNIVERSITY also

Abeg try remove the swear na 🙏🙏.
U don dey make me fear now.
She's being crying throughout, begging here and there. Using different lines to call and text me cos I blocked her everywhere. She said she didn't sleep with the guy

Germi9:
I swear broh..
Pls don’t forgive a cheating woman. They never change.

Sure bro.

Thanks so much Sir 🙏

torqque7:
Hi how are you? your location says Anambra is that accurate?

What's your problem sef?

torqque7:
🤣🤣🤣A SIMP saying he is not a SIMP..how hilarious..oga you are a simp for accepting a cheat back in the first place and also asking her to choose between you two..An alpha would have simply ignored her confession of cheating and continue knacking her while his emotions are no longer in the relationship but looking for a new queen..Asking a girl to choose is a weak move...

When my ex cheated on me with a yahoo boy,I didn't ask her to choose,I just kept knacking her but I was upset about it but I expected it cos na Edo girl who is a student so I know it was just a matter of time before she go cheat..Anyway las las the knacking sef no come dey regular cos she noticed I had checked out emotionally and she hated me and I had a new babe that she hated too..she give herself brain and she move lol..Even though I no go lie me sef cheat on her wella but his it from her until I caught her then my own was no longer hidden again she knew I was now seeing other girls so she grew this hatred for me..na you cheat na you still come dey form vex🤣🤣

Ok Mr perfect, Mr Alpha and Omega, I agree. I'm a Simp. Thank you

YemyTemmy:
Baba....e pass that level, i was once in that shoe and was stupid enough to forgive infidelity, the thing reshaped and damaged some things in me, i wont wish such for any noble man, unless u are a player, u fit take her back make una dey play dey go till you are tired

I've dumped her and I'm not going back.
I'm not a player, I don't double date either

ruffkenny:
[You are even lucky it happened now,would have been worse if you had married her before u found out she is a cheat,once a cheat always a cheat,As a man if u ever forgive a cheating partner,u will loose your self worth and gradually u will loose yourself, your values and principle,Go and do thanksgiving for dodging a bullet..,quote author=Brahamimo post=136782723]

You've spoken like a real elder. I really appreciate you sir.
Nothing is ever going to make me accept her again. I've already blocked her everywhere and deleted whatever that is related to her. I even blocked her friends and siblings plus her mum. I warned my mum never to call or pick her calls else I'll have issues with her . I did all these today but I Already blocked her like four days ago

Thanks so much Sir

ruffkenny:
You are not her level bro,move on..
She can never be faithful to you,so u got no right to forgive her,that's weak, No real man forgives a cheating woman except he is not man enough..
Actually that is being simp..Remember that u will never have peace of mind if u decide to unblock her and be with her..U can't marry such a slut,let your family know,get a better girl on your level,more mature and who would love and respect you,goodluck.

You've spoken like a real elder. I really appreciate you sir.
Nothing is ever going to make me accept her again. I've already blocked her everywhere and deleted whatever that is related to her. I even blocked her friends and siblings plus her mum. I warned my mum never to call or pick her calls else I'll have issues with her . I did all these today but I Already blocked her like four days ago

Germi9:
E shock you Abi? 😃😃

I swear e shock me. U want make my popsy kpai me?

He will say " it is better not to have a child at all than to have a child who is Foolish"

Whois:
..

I didn't offer at all. Why she kept coming back is why she became suspicious

Okay

Another APC mole spotted.

Oga, you go wail tire. Just dey play!😂

Chizzyferd:
Oga op for your own good and mental wellbeing please call it a quiet now that you still can before water pass garri

Exactly. I already did so

7demons:
Bros, I don't know if you will see this message, but I hardly log in these days on Nairaland or even if I do, probability is that the first 2 pages has been already occupied.

I Don't know how old you are? Probably in your mid or late 20's or early 30's.
Take everything you read on the 1st 2 pages here with a pinch of salt.
It's nature of humans to cheat. IT IS BOUND TO HAPPEN. That should be least of your worries if you're SURE of the relationship. It hurts but it's part of human nature. It's bound to happen.

As the World Technologically advance(Globalization and Woke society) more of these are bound to happen. It will be a normal trend.
But the real question here is; How do you want to protect your relationship?
If she comes back begging, with sincerity please accept her back and work things out and that should not be the norm for you to start misbehaving.

Lastly this term Redpill is controversial.
Please use your brain and do not digest every story you read on line cos all our struggles are different.

Thank you so much brother.
I appreciate. Most of the commenters who are bashing me and calling me all sorts of unprintable names are even worse than me. Some of them still wash and cook for their wives and girlfriends. They are more of simps than me.

Germi9:
[b][/b]told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

If not for this part that I read I was going to call your father and ask him questions.. that’s why I advise men to always have options .. see as over thinking wan finish you now

😂😂😂😂😂😂
Abeg o

dauntless15:
Probably someone who isn't loved at home, wether na low self esteem you get abi you deliberately like to be trampled on despite how insecure you sound, break things off guy what's forgiveness, if you're so cool with being cheated on and you've forgiven no need bringing it online, infact give her more benefit of the doubt and see if it ends well, na simp you be fr.

Must u be uncouth?
What's the meaning of "Someone who isn't loved at home".
If you don't have anything meaningful to say, just stay quiet please