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wallaze:
Boss leave that babe now
No let anyone use you as option B you self na spec
It's either she stays loyal or you kick her out of your life you no be 16yrs old boy number of years you dated doesn't transcend to the emotional trauma you will experience if you continue with her

You're completely right bro.
I appreciate you a lot. God bless you Sir 🙏

iInjureHerYansh:
I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.


You did well
The only fcck up you will do is if you ever take her back again
Her type na only for nacks nothing more and less

Thanks bro 🙏

Adele200:
Bro, just end it right now. I ended my first relationship after we already did introduction. As in , I went with my parents and also collected wedding list from her parents. And also fixed wedding date. I had to tell myself the truth after those things I detest kept reoccurring.

At this moment, all you need do is tell yourself the TRUTH.

Wow.. I'm so sorry for your experience. What were the things she kept doing that u detested?
Do u mind highlighting me?

Whois:
Once a cheat, always a cheat. The screenshot is a chat this evening btw an ex and me .

Mind you I was the one that broke up with her but she no won gree cut communication except she first do me strong thing She probably want to get loan from me before she Ghost me but I dey expose than her. I am aware Women can be very manipulative. Know this and know peace.

So why did u now offer her loan twice before the third request?

YemyTemmy:
I don swear already for you say if you pardon and resume this relationship, make God take you home!!

You deserve much more than this shitty babe... Leave her and leave her for good, let no one convince you that a cheating woman will change..... She is set up to kill u... Don't ever go back to her, u will end up raising kids that are not yours

Haba!
E never reach this level na. U wan use swear finish me?

emmabest2000:
Kiddo take this advice and thanks me later
First , there is nothing like love in relationship, what you have to find in a relationship should be understanding

Second , Good guy attracts bad girls
If you no get it forget it

Senior man, I gat u bro.
Thanks for your advice

Difrent:
You did right. She clearly will be insubordinate.
And will toy with your emotions
Your woman is out there somewhere you only need locate Her. Wish you all the best

Thanks so much Sir

Pegi23:
He isn’t a simp. He is just properly home trained and emotionally available

Thanks so much dear

Pegi23:
Oh dear. If u are really done with your now ex

You can come to me let me show you true and real love.

Only if u are done with your ex. Because the way I can show true love is the one I will destroy u if u mess with my heart.

I love me a loyal man. My type of guy I want

I'm here and open for relationship.

I already quit

Stephen0mozzy:
What happened to standards!!!!
What happened to real men.

Are you afraid of finding someone else who will respect her own body and your relationship so much that infidelity is not even an option?

You should heal from whatever makes you feel that you don't deserve better.

Btw, if I'm the one. We stopped dating already.
Infidelity is a red flag so big, it soils everything else.

Thanks so much. I'm out already

Viserion:
whatever you do, don't accept her back.

You shouldn't have accepted her back in the first place. Let her continue with the first guy

Exactly. I'm out

id4sho:
Why did you have to forgive her after finding out she cheated on you
You messed up big-time bro

I really messed up. I did. Honestly!

Hamachi:
Stay firm: If she truly respected and loved you, she wouldn’t have left you with no choice but to sign out. Don’t let her incessant calls weaken your stance.

Protect your dignity: Picking her again without proof of genuine change would put you in a weaker position, and resentment would build up.

Allow space: You need time to heal, reflect, and regain your emotional balance. Even if she keeps reaching out, you don’t owe her a response right now

You acted wisely by leaving when she failed to respect your boundary. Forgiveness doesn’t mean tolerance of repeated disrespect. Stay firm, focus on your healing, and remind yourself that being loyal, faithful, and principled is not weakness — it’s strength.

Thanks so much 🙏🙏🙏

Pupanchie:
Girls or women r pigs bro, I can understand from ur perspective and for ur peace of mind, l can only advice you to cut all ties with the lady for your own peace of mind and let her family knows you r no longer dating just in case the new man will eventually use her for sacrifices, do not forgive a cheating woman, and never ever take back a cheating woman as if you do, just believe you are digging soon to ur grave, shilom

Thanks so much brother. God bless you for your kind words. I appreciate

Sonnobax15:

Tho it's painful but you gotta move on with your life bro ..

The thought of your woman being fvcked by another nigha will forever leave an ache in any man's heart so long they're're still together...So it'd be better if you just let her go and be with the other guy . .....She ain't worth all these stress you're subjecting yourself to..

Thanks so much brother. I appreciate deeply

EvilMerodack:
You forgive a lady that cheats on you?

Most of you live life with zero principles. No dos and donts for those coming into your life.

Just cruise.

And if you try to justify this, it means you're just a ba-by in a adult bo-dy

Hummmmmm

Nazgul:
You did the right thing by blocking her. And please stay true to your stand, and if you value your mental health, don't go back to her.

Thanks a lot Sir

JAOS:
The new guy she found is better than you that is why she hasn't ended things with him
From your story I can tell you are the only one holding the relationship if you continue with her know that you will always be sharing her with the guy if you can afford to lose her now then break up with her if not just be sharing her with him with protection for now while looking for a better option then break up with her later

No the guy isn't better than me. I already got details of him.

Think about anything, in all ramifications, I'm better than him. Remember, a cheat is always a cheat. You can satisfy a woman sexually, care for her, gift her, respect her, yet she would still cheat

You suspected that your girlfriend was cheating on you. You noticed this based on her utterances and attitude.

You asked her, she denied. For months, she kept denying. Later, your own male friend confirmed it that your babe was actually seeing someone else. Your suspicion was now confirmed.

You had an altercation, a heated argument with her, and in the process, she sent you a message telling you that she actually cheated. She went further to put the blame on you for not being emotionally absent at some point in the relationship.
She apologized, you forgave her. After a week when the dust had already settled, you brought the matter Back. You asked about the guy she was cheating on you with and she said a few things about the guy.
You asked her to choose either you or the guy and she chose you. You then asked her to breakup with same guy and show evidence that she's indeed broken up with him. She said okay. After a week, you asked if she had done so, but she said she hadn't and was yet to.

How would you handle this?

Meanwhile, this is someone you've been dating for two solid years and both parents are even aware of your relationship. She's someone you both had agreed to marry in the next two to three years from now. This is a lady you're six years older than. A lady her friend told her to dump me simply because her friends felt that I'm too handsome for her and my level pass her own. She was the one that told me this.

It is really painful hearing your own woman telling you that she cheated while having an altercation with her. It hurts deeply, especially as a man. This is a lady you have never cheated on and she is aware.

I told her, I'm not ready to share my woman with anyone else. I don't double date, so I don't expect my woman to double date either. And since she's reluctant to leave the guy, I have signed out of the relationship. I told her on WhatsApp, I blocked her on same WhatsApp and Facebook. It's being four days now, and she will not allow my phone to rest with her incessant calls. I already gave her enough time to do what I asked her to do. To leave that guy, but she downplayed it. I'm not a Simp and will never be, no matter how much I love a woman. I was even lenient enough to forgive her in the first place, but the deal breaker was her reluctance to do the needful.

I will never steal in this life. Never never never ever

autoez:
Ask ChatGPT

All these juvenile behavior sef.

autoez:
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I don't flaunt my possessions or disclose my profession to others. I reside in a safe and respectable neighborhood. My lifestyle is far from extravagant. I avoid going out late at night or early in the morning, and I steer clear of unfamiliar places with questionable histories. It would be quite a challenge for anyone to consider robbing me, as they wouldn't even know who I am. I don’t frequent bars or clubs, and I certainly don’t have any side chick that could put me at risk. Plus, my wife is not one to gossip like many others. So, yeah, we’re definitely not on the same level. 😉

You and who are not on same level?

autoez:
I have never been there but i read news everyday. Same with Nigeria. Nobody has robbed me, i only see news of people been robbed

Lol... You're really very funny bro.
The fact that you haven't been robbed here doesn't mean Nigeria is safe. You've not being robbed because, maybe, the potential robbers already aware that robbing u would amount to nothing

autoez:
Go to America and see daylight robbery and shootings. You'll love Nigeria of you find yourself in such an event.

Have you been there or you just hear stories about the place?

I've given up on this country. It's not going to work again

Rest in peace.

Please the family should bury the corpse near the river and not at home.

justi40:
Please spell words correctly when you post, and try to use perfect grammar and punctuation.

You can do better bro.
Someone like you and I just died and the best u could do was to type this ?

Nawao

Hemanwel:
It happened recently?

Two years ago

blacksam01:
So sorry bro... Is it recently..?

Thanks bro.
It was Two years ago.

It still hurts me daily

Cum4me:
are you for real tell me more about this. What state and how did it happen.

It's Real. And it still hurts me daily

Hemanwel:
Honestly, this story alone traumatizes me. I am so sorry about it, bro! May God comfort you and your immediate family!

Kai! Kai!!

It still traumatizes me a lot.

Its still fresh in my head.
It hurts