₦airaland Forum

SILENTandSMART2:
lol all is well but your writeup jusss get as é be

Edit am for me naa
Then hook me up with the fresh, appropriate version so I'll do the needful

Fvckyouall:
Nice to see men devoted to active service, marriage na scam it's bondage get a baby mama and live life with peace of mind

Word!

Fvckyouall:
Lol well meditation is still an option or you can chop it off

Haha uncle bros
Na marriage I say I no like... I'm still �% a full fledged citizen of fvkkery

Fvckyouall:
1) true

2) there are many other ways, .........try meditation

3) you never know until you try

#3 hell nawww

ZIINI:
Wahala

Where

Ryan03:
of cause I want to get married and I respect the institution of marriage but not enough to want to force it on anyone. Even having kids is not by force, the earth will not disappear because some people refuse to marry or give birth, I believe in respecting the choices of others as long as it's not causing harm to theirself, others or the environment and I don't see how not marrying is doing any of these

In summary, live and let live.

This mentality cannot be taught in schools. It's just common sense and an acceptance of the world the way it is.

I'm not sure our generation will live to see when Nigerians are as free-spirited as this, most especially when it comes to religion as well, cos everybody thinks their own way is the sure way. smh...

Boxer007:
Bros just date a guy & avoid women. Females are evil sir

1. Females Are Evil... Dat 1 dey

2. Avoid Women... Cure konji how naa?

3. Date a Guy... Chai bros e better make I just manage evil women

DAramis:
Bro, try and put the write-up in good format, maybe it will attract wider viewership and more comments form those already in the Union.

Lastly, I have noticed that, Nairaland promotes marriage violence incidents (always on front page) which is having an effect on how people view marriage with the exception of where the former married banker allegedly cheated. This increases the perception that, things are bad and evil always in marriage unions.

I will try and reduce the amount of news I view in this regard from this year. Need a healthy perspective rather than the gloomy news people read always online.

Measured and constructive. I see your points. Kudos!

Boxer007:
Bros. Gay marriage is way out: the solution. Preach!

Even that one has "marriage" involved, which is what we're trying to avoid

DAramis:
In summary, being single is good but being married to the right or even good woman is better. If it is not, God would never have taught it wise to give Adam Eve as a companion in the garden of Eden.

May people be able to find the right person without being clouded with superficial things. NB: The right person could be that semi-illiterate, came from poor home, not beautiful (or handsome), etc.

Gratitude for your reasoned and reasonable input.

SILENTandSMART2:
i don't read the shit you wrote but i saw your topic,

aswear dats the best way , if you ask them they will give you the best answer,

I'm sorry if you no like the way i talk about ham sha

Apology accepted. Always. At least that could salvage what's left of the silent and smart impression.

SILENTandSMART2:
Ask your mom and dad dat question

Yea, it's probably better to stay silent and be assumed to be smart.

Kestolove:
My brother go ND marry and have kids,stop consoling urself if u don't have d means to..

Like Tunde Thomas who had the means to abi?
Madam, treat the message pls and forget the messenger.

Wazzaowner:
I am not an agent, just wanna help, I got my appointment on the 17th Dec, I want to use the same method I used to get mine to help peeps here.

Fair enough. Will it cost wazoo... If so, how much pls?

Divinedaddy:
wot about using domiciliary account?

anything wey make you put your trust in 9ja banks, dat one na baaaad ma-kate! Bad market...

It will work o, don't get me wrong, but you may be expecting your last grandchild when the money reaches destination

Divorce everywhere!
Two lovebirds today can turn to two mortal enemies the very next day.
Even here on Nairaland, besides the FCMB Oga scandal, only yesterday I remember seeing almost the spinal cord of a wife whose husband opened a window into her body with a machete, supposedly because of food. Food ooo...
Pre-wedding photo shoots everywhere. Down on one knee proposals competing for most romantic cos they all want to copy what they watch on Telemundo.
Give 99% of these couples only one year and you'll see them carrying face like dog poop inside the car cos the man is incensed that the woman takes forever to wear makeup.
The world just seems to continue running in an endless cycle of GIGO (Garbage In Garbage Out). Just like our jungle Nigeria, where the ancient men of the 70s and 80s, who were promising to pave way for the "leaders of tomorrow" but yet somehow continue to lead their papa until thy kingdom come, marriage continues to be built and be collapsed on the same promises of forever when initial love be shacking everybody. I can't even point too far. I will judge myself first. My own parents' families, on both sides, with at least 12 marriages I can count now, have maybe only 2 or 3 still standing. Even my very self, after dating a girl for only months, the thing dey tire me. Even seeing her naked after some time doesn't arouse konji anymore.
I just wonder how married couples do it and cope for years upon years. See, my observation is that most couples now, especially due to our tradition in this part of the world, ENDURE, not ENJOY, their marriages.
The stigma of a failed marriage makes people just endure a loveless marriage where romance is dead and buried.
But, go to other more advanced countries, wey no holy reach our holy holy Nigerians, the millennials are starting to avoid marriage altogether.
I concur. Rather than lose the love I have for someone's daughter and start treating her like trash, or vice versa, where I end up like the FCMB saga victim, e better make I just dey my own. If I want to born, I find one whitey giv am belle, get halfcast pikin, and life goes on.

DISCLAIMER: This is my own personal experience and opinion. I am not asking anyone to buy into it. Go ahead. Marry. Live long. Best wishes.

xrayfab:
Please guys I need help on the safest and fastest way to pay fees from Nigeria.

Safest and fastest would definitely be to find someone in Europe (heck even in US Canada etc.) to do a bank wire transfer in your name, after you've settled how to reimburse the person.
Once they can help you, it's guaranteed same day or one day at worst.

kingsolomonjnr01:
oga u fail am... na 4

funny. you for reason am well before you declare my failure. it remains 2. ask op

2
There's nothing teasing brain here. it's too easy plz

DrFunmisticGlow:
Please, if passport has mistake and you want to change the details, like date of birth and so on? Like how much will it cost?

At least 150k, and that's not even inclusive of sworn court affidavit fees, newspaper publication etc.

gokecont:
good morning my good people, please wch poland university is given admission for bnc (1st degree) this january for management department and his test of english from your secondary still important while Appling for a course in Poland, thanks in anticipation

try Vistula... I believe there's still a Management program open for applications until Jan. 15

otiokpo:
dont deceive people o. a lady is heading the festac passport office and even the immediate pas officer in charge was also a lady

Don't mind these opportunists
Whoever listens to that one can only have themselves to blame

thomasGcook:
]Hello house,
I don't stay in Abuja,please does anyone know if a friend can help me authenticate my documents at the ministry of foreign affairs and ministry of education at Abuja , please I need replies it's urgent
Thanks

My guess is, it can be done, especially if said documents are originals and do not carry a photo of you attached.
Your friend could simply claim the documents as his/hers. After all, their main interest there is the fees to be paid

Hmm. That one above na police case

thomasGcook:
Hello house, please does anyone know if someone else can help me authenticate my documents at the ministry of foreign affairs and ministry of education at Abuja , please I need replies it's urgent
Thanks

Someone else?
You need to rephrase your question to enable understanding.
However, what you need done can only be done at those places, period.