foyeks2001:

Hmmmm... Some fathers Sha.
Thank God I married an opposite of my dad.
We bless God for our lives.
Truly, mothers are jewels.

Lucky u.
Am currently dating a girl with such a father and she always look for a reason to believe dat i would be jst like her dad.
This have really been affecting our relationship.
Its hard to convince her otherwise.

jaxxy:


That's what sharp guys do. This guy messed up. The lady has now gone with who she loves or can fool and marry. It's a wake up call. He shud have enjoyed himself and kept his family priority atleast. Nobody is a saint.

True talk
Men should neva let a temporal p_ssy he gets outside affect his parmanent and future (family).

foyeks2001:


Do you know I'm actually crying now cos I have just been reminded of my childhood.
It was terrible bro.

Sorry bro
Am also a victim
My father nt jst chases women.
He does it in front of his children,
Doent crare abt the welfare of his children despite all the money he has,
And even when we decide to ignore him and make ends meet, he would look for one or two problems to make.
Have ur own dad arrested u jst 4 little things?

jaxxy:


I not even bashing him for cheating, alot often cheat bt abandoning ur family i will bash u hard. It's a terrible and irresponsible thing.

U now say u fell inlove with a gal outside who's only with u for ur money? Are u not the most stupid?

True talk bro
I knw men who chase other women but they neva let it get to kowing ther parants and abandoning their 0wn family.

cococandy:
I can bet this story was concocted to get reactions from people.

Eryactly.
Its obvious cus its too good to be true,
And no man would agree to dis mistakes, not to talk of bringing his apologies to nairaland.

jaxxy:


A wise man never forsakes his family, A sharp guy never falls "inlove" with a strange woman when he has his own wife and family. A great man never invest more in a strange woman than he invests in his own family.

U are not wise, not sharp, not even Great. U are completely stupid and foolish. I won't Insult u further cos u have seen the light and want to change hopefully u do.

1st step love ur WIFE and be a responsible Dad/Father and Husband. A woman is a flower and shud be cared for bt u abandon the flower in it garden and went to prune and water another man's flower/garden now u can barely recognise ur own flower. U better water ur flower and garden and make it grow again or even God will not forgive u.

Love u wife and make her who u want her to be. Help her to grow, don't look down on her or discourage and frustrate her. U abandon them and u want them to appeal to u. It doesn't work that way. May God help u change ur wicked ways and do the right thing now.

Yes he did bad but it doesnt call 4 d insult.
Any body could be in such position.
(but nt me sha)
Men getting tired of their wifes is a common occourence.
It only takes a wise and humble man not to cheat and maltreat his wife.

foyeks2001:

Hmmmm... My mother experienced more than this. According to her, when she threatened to leave my dad, he said, he would take all of us to his mother in the village. My mom said, she was like, your mother that couldn't take care of her own children. We were seven in numbers, my mother couldn't afford to divide her kids. Even her female boss in the office promised to rent an apartment for her, she refused.
Everything changed when Abdusalam came to power and increased civil servants salaries and then, my mom was transferred to Abuja, then my father became jobless. He apologized and even went as far as asking people to plead on his behalf. My mother fed this man until his death last year.
This story of this man reminded me of my childhood. We the children went thru hell with our mother. We give God the glory.

Sorry for your loss.
But
It is a common attitude of men who cannot take responsibilities of mariage and overcome pleasures.

Greatlee54:
I won't judge you but u need to ask God for forgiveness then you sit your wife and kids down and go on your knees to beg them. If your wife truly loves you she will forgive. I actually blame your gf and her mom who knew quite well that you are married but decided to destroy your home. Heaven will not forgive them

Am sure his wife would forgive him.
A woman who would keep quiet upon all those trials is virtous and offcorse loves her husband.
As for the sidechick nd her mother, i dnt blame dem. They only colected gifts frm father christmas.

CliffordAde:
This fiction is madddd!!!

Very mad
Madder than Terry G

Richy4:


I just have a question for you... Where did you hear all these? Are u a social worker? Or u witnessed it first hand..

I have noticed that most stories making around nowadays on social media/ online are just friction and fabricated just to make people talk / traffic..

Honertly wen i read it too i knew it was made up cus a man would hardly admit these mistakes.
But it is a very important topic dat needs to be addressed nd every man needs to read.

I believe this is a true live story

But

What i dnt believe is dat a man would admit he did all this to his wife someday.

Well,

From my experience, she would always have a place in he heart for you as long as you can assure her your a changed man.

So dont ask me were you shld start from.

Start frm anywhere and she would apprecieate d change.

She might resist, for a while but just keep making her happy and she would love you.

Women like dis are d best a man could ever have.

Make your wife happy.