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#NuffSaid [quote author=Okija_juju]@ OP

You read Accounting for your first degree..

I will advise you to take the job offer from Diamond Bank. Accept the offer of admission from any University that offers you one and defer it. Give Diamond Bank two to three years of your life, then return to school for your MSc.

I tell you this because your employability would be maximized with a 3-year job experience on your resume plus an MSc compared with No job experience and an MSc. The MSc you can control, the job you can’t. That’s why I would say take the job and defer your admission.[/quote]

So shld I jst break up or give her space and time to make a final decision

NobiGod: Answer to question 1- You're a sure thing when others doesn't work. Who wouldn't want a back up plan?

Answer to question 2- She has to tell you that to keep you interested, her puppy. She's throwing you a bone knowing
that you got nowhere to go. Sorry to tell you this bro, she doesn't love you in a romantic way. She likes you as a friend but also doesn't want to be single in case the preferred guy disappoints (selfish). Her friends like your personality and think you're good for her but they're not her, and only her feeling counts here. REMEMBER ONLY HER FEELING COUNTS NOT HOW YOU FEEL TOWARD HER.

Please try as hard you can to move on and look for someone that will make you number 1 in her life like others have said here. This is a very bad place to be, trust me.

@dav I'm interested

@maxi..I nid thr fiverr ebook too pls send it to free2danceluv@yahoo.com
@david..what are the tinz one can do for people on fiverr that can earn one money

This case is different cos she tells me she did truly love me and she gives me stuffs too,most of her frnd knows abt us,even wen I found out she was cheating on me,one of her frnd pleaded on her behalf,so dis case is totally different,what I'm still worried about is
1.Why won't she just leave me alone if she doesn't love me?
2.If she loves me,what's it that its keeping her with her ex? Dia is something dia

fuckluv: No! She will NEVER change. Ur case is similar to a guy who wouldn't let me be and believe we r dating. i told him several times that i av no inkling of love 4 him bt he just wouldn't hear of it believing wiv time i would change. We even celebrates our dating anniversaries every year. Funny enough he knew of my relationship wiv someone else and has even been warned by my friends to stay off me that i'm in a rltnshp but all these fell on deaf ears. This continued to d xtent that when i finally left him, he cried his eyes out and went on all fours pleading wiv me to have him back, sending msgs till he fell ill that i began to feel pity 4 him. Meanwhile during d dating period, i bought him nothing nor give him respect, i'm always on d receiving end, he would send cards and i wouldn't bother to call him wiv it, i did these deliberately. still these does not deter him, he's always finding excuses 4 my faults.. See i could go on and on. Now he's been shouldering my birthday parties and he's never tired. So if u want to end up like him keep giving second chances when d handwriting is on d wall.

I dint make up my mind,I'm only sayn ow I feel atm,I'm confused,that's the state I'm in right now,I'm seriously confused

Golden Lady: Don't ask for advice about something you've already made up your mind about.

Is that the best option.don't u fink she can still change? Change is the only constant tin in life

Golden Lady: Leave that chick alone unless you're a glutton for punishment and please don't mistreat the next girl because you've been played by this one.

I can't do without this geh,God pls help me...thanks y'all fo the advice

I dnt knw,I jst want a proof that she won't cheat again,I really love the girl so much

Exponental: How many chances can u afford 2 give?

1.The truth is av neva checked her chats b4 until d 1st tym she confessed that she was cheating,d very 1st tym I saw her chat wit her frnd wen dat 1 her frnd said 'afterall u aint cheating on him' was by mistake,she actually wanted to shw me a chat she was avin wit a frnd of mine
2. There is always a 1st tym tho
3. She is always the one bringing the marriage issue up bt really,I really love her too and I wish to marry her

digitalgeorgy: 1. Stop touching her phone. Its nt a matured act.
2. This is the first tym am hearing that a 9ja girl has been in 2 relationshps and is still a virgin. But na waa ooo. Aftr kissing and touching, una no they hit??
3. Why deciev her with marriage-gist when you are nt sure of that. I gux dats y she keeps begging you when you are angry.

Thanks all for ur advice,seems ery1 is sayn the same tin..SPACE

1..Yes,I'll take her bck if she can prove to me that she will neva av anytin to do d ex again
2. She is in her early 20s

mikeywise: @OP , am not sure u still love her after all these heart break.
can u please answer these questions:
1. assuming u find out that her ex has dis-virgined her, will you
still want to take her back?
2. how old is she?

I want a solution..pls help a broda

infodollarman: no more no less

Bro,wat d'u suggest I do,I really love the girl but I dnt wanna b lyk a fool

Flashaldrin: Dude, their is nothing like 2nd chance in a relationship. Once trust is broken, it can never be mended.

But what do u tink I can do..I dnt wanna b a bck up plan

Sapphire86: Hmmmm without saying much, I think u r her safety net. If it doesn't work out wit others, u'd always b d fall back plan. Sorry

Pls NLers help me out,I av this babe av bin dating for about a year nw and we are always talking about marriage..she often tell me ow special I am to her and that I'm the only 1 she has eva been talking to abt marriage,always telln me I'm the best eva blah blah blah...I really love her so much and I trusted her so much,so I dnt choke her,she was very free. On the 2nd of September last year,I mistakenly saw a chat wit her frnd wia the frnd said 'its not as if u r cheating on him' I tink we had a small misundastanding den,so wen I saw that my trust was re affirmed again and erytin was goin on well until december wen I started seeing some changes.I asked her abt it and she said notin is apnin dat I shldnt kill mysef ova sumtin dats its real,so I dint ask her again bt deep down in my mind,I knew sumtin was wrong...few days lata,we're 2geda,cuddling,kissing and touching and wen I noticed we was into it very much,I pushed the questn to her again and she started feeling sober and afta few tricks of peting her,she confessed that its true that she jst started seeing her ex again few weeks ago that she only wanted to get bck @ him bt didn't knw dat she wld fall ..I was shocked and dissappointed and I cried cos truout the tym we've bin 2geda I was 100% faithful to her..she started begging me that she was sorry that I shldnt leave her that she loves me wholeheartedly but she was jst confused,I rmbr that 9t,she called me approximately fo 1hr 25 mins,begging me and I told her I av forgiven her and truly I forgave her dat day cos I really love the girl..we saw again the ff day and wat I saw shocked me cos she was still chatting wit the ex like lovers bt I dint say anytin till I left her..later on dat day I told her I wanted a break,that I tink she nids to really tink if I'm the 1 she wana b wit or the guy bt she kept begging me that its me she wanna b wit fo d rest of her life and she wanna av my baby blah blah bt I told her no,I nid a brk...she sha kept begging me for two days and told 1 of her frnd to beg me too and that 1 did and she told me that I shld pls forgive her that its me she truly loves that she has let go of the ex,so I forgave her and I moved on wit her cos I really really love the babe...
Few days ago,I was chanced to be wit her fone again and I wanted to confirm weda she has deleted the ex off her bbm I got the biggest surprise of my life,the guy is still there..then I decided to read their chat and I was more perplexed at wat I saw...my gf was asking the ex wen he wants to marry ,asking the ex if sum1 (the ex's female frnd) knew they are dating cos the ex used the girls pix as dp and she told him she was jealous abt that...
I'm now so confused and its killing me softly cos I dnt knw wat to do..been askin mysef lotta questions lyk
1.Does she truly loves me lyk she claim?
2.Ok,if she truly does,why is she still goin bck to her her fo dat mata
3. If she doesn't love me,why does she always tell me its me she wanna b wit me wen she can always go wit the ex completely and leave me alone.
NB: I'm not giving her money oo and I dnt fink is about a good s3x cos she still a virgin,yeah a virgin cos even the day I saw the last chat wit her ex,I still confirmed the virginity. Nairalanders pls help me out,I'm goin crazy,I dnt knw wat to do.