₦airaland Forum

Who was firing rockets at every Arab country the past 2 weeks? The cowardice is astonishing.

grandstar:
Indoctrinating who? The boy is gay.

Most gays find out they prefer the same sex as young as 5 years old and in their teenage years.

So it's not a gene?

ZombieTAMER:
This is not funny bro

That Old man should be jailed

he's inductrinating kids to this waywardness

Possibly. And it should be investigated. Not because it's waywardness, but because potential grooming took place.

But the guy looks really happy. And not sure if he's really that young. Looks 20-ish.

Maybe because her own kids are uglier than her.

Today it's been one ugly post after the other on this forum.

Dunno about you, but that boy didn't look unhappy in the thumbnail.

The old man should be probed, but only because he's ugly. And it's not because he's old that he's ugly. He's just a very ugly man.

Diamond098454:
How can a woman beat a man? With which hand? I don't believe this story

Honestly, it reads like click bait.

Something single women do daily. Man cries out, indeed.

dawnomike:
They'll defraud people of their hard earned money, then come to oppress hardworking Nigerian youths.

Mrs Ikeji, whose Instagram username is ‘prettyfident’, uploaded a post thanking God for blessing her family with “another mansion in another city”.

“Forever grateful, Lord,” she captioned the post of the sprawling mansion on Instagram.


Exactly why religion is dangerous.

The woman who was scammed leaves something to be desired. If this guy said he needed foundations that needed a boost, why did she never follow up on his donations as someone in the space. Surely such a large donation from such a prominent individual would call for a dinner of some sort, or show up in their books. And if it were true, he wouldn't be interested in Romania.

Magnoliaa:
Nothing, you may proceed.

Lol. Watching from the moon.

pocohantas:
Trust me they won't. You just have to phrase your question to be female-bashing. Yesterday there was a thread asking men married to uneducated and unskilled women to share their experiences and they took that thread to 7 pages. Less than 5% stood up for these women. The remaining 95% called them liabilities. But if it were a thread highlighting the Pros of working women. Same men would have gathered to tell you working women are not submissive, while praising SAHMs.

I only pity women who actually listen to them. There's no winning with their logic.

One would think that SAHMs are their dream. But nothing is more dangerous than a lazy and broke Nigerian man: he's a needy, fragile gold digger.

Sigh.

airsaylongcome:
Wait, I'm coming I need to get four bullets to shoot at sight

All for the other guy, yeah?

airsaylongcome:
Thef definitely are not "both correct". There's a reason they put the caveat "particularly in India and Nigeria". Those two aren't native English speakers

As if Nigerians and Indians are normal. In these two countries, their bullets strip dead men to their boxers.

airsaylongcome:
Pretty much the same way Nigerians carelessly throw around "birds of the same feather...." When the idiomatic expression is"birds of a feather..."

Later we will be wondering why US/UK insist we take TOEFL/IELTS

What did you meant in the last line? Am asking for clarity, pls. Shoot at sight.

pocohantas:
Lol! They are plenty o. If you ask the question the right way, these same guys here will agree. For example, rather than asking women to share their experiences, ask "Why do career woman marry deadbeat husbands?" 😂😂😂

That will be juicy. But here's the thing: deadbeat guys will drown out any other voice on such a thread.

There was one deadbeat thread though. Man, that was a freaking good one. Ah, the deadbeats were up in arms and it was horrifying the things they did. And they were Cameroonian deadbeats being outed

The number of deadbeat men is geometrically proportional to the number of kids they birth with one woman. Can't remember what that thread was called.

elipheleh:
1. Good home maker is not an excuse not to develop one self. Its for her personal benefit and the children benefit.

2. How can you claim to love someone and you're comfortable letting them remain stagnated on thesame level year in year out?

3. What happens to my children if God forbid I am no more? Will she ship them out to become house boys and girls? How will she step up if she doesn't get it right now?

4. The linen is not dirty. Nothing secret about it. She didn’t commit any crime. It is reality. Women you girls hate being told the truth and you girls hate correction

5. I am not euphoric. Rather I contributed a piece of my mind as per the topic. Howbeit, let younger upcoming men learn from it and avoid making the same mistake

Education just isn't her thing. Just like a lack of education just isn't your thing.

Bet she's not giving you concerns on any other way. So why are you so hyper focused on that one little thing? She's a good woman. Just try to see it.

adebayosun02:
I can say that thank your God that she did not agreed to travel abroad with you. It would have been worst off.

But he also didn't get to travel.

This man!

elipheleh:
No she won't. Thats is too stressful for her.

She no even get strength to kill chicken.

I dey tell you say no get strength to even cut meat into pieces while cooking. I make sure the abbatttoir people cut the meats into sizes when I go to buy meat and other things for the house

And she is God fearing. Though my life is hidden in Christ

pocohantas:
My aunty is married to one. Sadly she isn't on NL. All she does is disturb me for money. There are many women married to such men.

A real Nigerian, lazy, jobless man? That can't be right. They're all billionaires. Slaying animals for their family's dinner or raking in millions nightly to sustain the lives of their lazy wives and children.

Saladdin:
Lolzzzz. You just reminded of that guy. Nairaland's one and only Obavog. Very bizarre person

Obavoh is viewing. Lolllllllll!

airsaylongcome:
Imagine the nonsense! Calling someone 7-husband 7-children to denigrate her but his Oga still wants to “taste”. Ph00lish “data boy”. His Oga can only look and imagine. He will never ever know the “sweetness”

franchasng:
Lolz


Just be a valuable woman that offer value to her man and family and leave the rest, no matter where he decides to go out of foolishness, he will forever remember you and may always run back to you if the space is still vacant.


Do your best, it's better to be a woman that offer value than to be a liability and a squanderer, there will always be uncountable men that will appreciate and value you and treat you right

What is "value"? Does it refer to the money that Nigerian men claim women don't bring? Because if it's the other things, then women have always brought unquantifiable value.

If it's money, good news. Women have jobs and make money too. Nothing special there.

airsaylongcome:
For your SP to be chasing a woman with 7 husbands, that says a lot about your SP and the woman. Men want to be the "master" of many wives, not to be the one chopping what many men don chop remain. It's evident that your SP hungers for leftovers. But in this case, the left over is premium and your SP will NEVER taste of it

Wicked man.

Whois:
That's Lagos for you. What's suppose to be common sense has turned to confusion. People have turned most two lane road to three lanes and it has become a social norm. I once argue it with a Lastma he wanted to extort me because I waited for traffic light on a two lane road, he said I was on the third lane :

No, it's terrible. A "sparkly new" road with lines clearly visible, and they are driving anywhere else but within the lines. I expected a "new coastal highway".

So you were supposed to jump the traffic light? 98% of the Lagos denizens are sick. Only few people there think properly. Very few.

franchasng:
Its subjective and based on individual experience.


Agreed, some ladies can make life a living hell for their partners while acting like all is well.


Many ladies enter into marriage empty handed and expecting their husband to become a commando and spider man Pope John Paul The Bill Gates at the same time, it can be frustrating if you are married to such women at the long run, reason many men regret getting married.


The truth is, in Nigerian setting, marriage seem to benefit women more than men, especially when the man is financially successful, the only thing he benefits is having children and heir in wedlock, outside that nothing else for most Nigerian married men and reason some see marriage as a waste of time.


I addressed some issues on a new thread on my profile for single ladies to learn.


Many well to do men are regretting getting married because they married valueless women whose only contribution is sex that many married men even get bored of over time due to over-familiarity and the natural male trait of desiring new experience at some point.


So to all single and married ladies reading, this is a wake up call for you all, try and become valuable woman that contributes immensely to the success and growth of the man and the overall family finance to avoid your man having this kind of regret of marrying you at the long run.


Marriage in this time and era is beyond providing sex and keeping the home, domestic staffs and side chicks can provide those, be more than just that, be a valuable woman, strive to be a contributor to your husband and family's financial growth and wellbeing, peace

TLDR
Men's standards in Nigeria have changed.

Women—men are ready to sponsor and beautify the lives of side chicks and anyone else they fancy without them doing more than you do. But if you marry them, they expect you to bring them money... and something ethereal they've decided on in recent years, something even they can't define but they refer to it as "value". And even that won't secure your position. You need to be a nun and adult actress, you need to be boss lady and house wife—all in one. If you strive hard enough and kill yourself pleasing this god, guess what? He'll just get with his side chick and make her his wife pillar fall guy wife. Very inventive, right? The cycle continues. Men will keep preaching their message so that they keep benefiting from the arrangement and getting potbellies after marriage. You'll never hear them talk about men who can't lead, men who aren't heads, men who have no value.

The message of women sells. And sells really fast in Nigeria.

Babatunjo:
So I was at dinner with a friend this week. Guy has been married for about 8 years now... married almost immediately after uni. Tall guy, always had fine girlfriends back in school. You’d think na him go dey hype marriage pass.

Out of nowhere, he just sighed and said he regrets marrying… apart from the kids.
His advice shocked me.

He said if he were single again in 2026 Nigeria, he would never marry. That I should just find a woman, have between 1 to 3 kids if I want, make her comfortable, take care of my responsibilities... but avoid marriage completely.

I laughed it off, but then it hit me:
My boss had told me something very similar some time ago.
Then I remembered a former neighbour... fine wife, two kids, lovely family pictures on social media... he also warned me not to rush into marriage.

These are not bitter, broke men o. These are men society would call “successful”.

So now I’m asking myself (and una): Wetin really dey happen?
Is marriage quietly becoming something different from what we were sold?

They told you not to marry, but they're still married. And you believe them? Really.

It's the way of people/ men to decry the very things they love. Maybe it's some form of chivalry. Or just for the hell of it. There was one here who pushed vasectomies and baby mamas. Guess who is sharpening his loins for his first child and the woman he is going to marry?

But the way nairaland boys keep bringing it up, you'd wonder who keeps marrying women everyday. Y'all will grow up one day.

jesusjnr2020:
Jesus please come quickly and save your sheep from the hands of these wolves that come in sheep clothing.

This one's fakery is clear and not disguised yet some are blind to it.

But people still sit at his feet, as they do coza man.

It's interesting how all these men accused have the same look. They all have the same kind of face, age, hairstyle, beards, dress sense and accusation. They represent something. The only difference between this one and the rest is that he came out to apologize. But he's not going to stop.

These people can't even drive reasonably despite roads having lines drawn clearly on them.

Are these people so against common sense that they prefer to be lawless?

"At one point, I accidentally stumbled upon her phone and noticed that she is a classy lady."

She's not classy. She's loaded. It's why he needs to remain calm.

Seun:
Wow I had the same surgery that she had.

You?

Did it cost that much or little, and is that guy lying about the cost involved?

segyoms:
I experience one in Bariga while driving towards St Finbars the guys face had scarce all over his face..very scary,the guy obtained me telling me if I don't give him money he will break my widescreen..God should keep protecting me and family and friends.

It never occurred to you to crush him. Or he wasn't ugly enough for you to?