₦airaland Forum

LilMissFavvy:
I can't support this lady. The guy should not marry her. A woman who has the mind to ab0rt 7 pregnancies is ev!l. She has control over her body, yet kept on getting pregnant and ab0rting.

He's probably worse than her. He kept going back to a murderer. And he probably demanded she aborted them. He's beating her in the video. He sounds really backward and poor.

AbosedeFalade:
It is obvious that you do not have even a common data to watch the video and also lack ability to comprehend. According to you "She's asking for "settlement" Settlement of 300k. Smh." No, although she asked for settlement, but the 300k is separate and specifically a loan she said she gave the guy and now expect him to repay her.

They're conveniently ignoring the fact that he's a gold digger and gigolo. And he's violent.

Evil men like this one later take their wives to churches and hospitals, looking for a child but they know how it happened. They may even pretend to be faithful at that time. And trust the boys here who would know nothing of his wicked past to blame and accuse her.

Now she's proven you wrong, anger won't let you see that it is the truth.
Diversions here and there, is it that you people can't keep to the topic? More is about how she's a bad woman. Lol.

If you encounter a person with all the "standards" on this thread, dump him.

The internet has really deluded many young men.

meobizy:
Another rat-eating topic. Nigerians will have the effrontery to be enraged whenever white people claim the animal is our delicacy.

All countries eat rodents.

Western hemisphere in particular eat squirrels and other road kill.

People can eat rats, but why eat this spotty one?

This is how people wouldn't leave bats be, and the world had to pay for it.

WatchYourSix:
If u are not very light skinned , I don’t see the point of having tattoos……

. It always looking weird …

Or dirty, at times.

He's so angry at how slow she is when getting into the car. He's going to grow old himself holding the door open.

Red pill from nairaland guy.

Amalekki:
That's our people for you. Even the ones that attempted ordinary WAEC exam 5 times talk with authority on what they know nothing about.

How many Nigerians even work multiple jobs in places like UK, US & the likes? They just pick one or two extreme stories and stamp it on everybody. Most even analyze abroad using minimum wage as if an average Nigerian in those places ever earn minimum wage in any job

The writer is a frustrated man who made it to some place outside the shores of Lagos.

Since then, any opportunity to trash women gives him a fresh article. His articles have dwindled in what little intellectual content they ever possessed at the beginning as he has since exhausted his trove of attacks on women, but he's refused to understand that.

Hence his ill informed and boring writeup. Kudos to anyone who could read it all.

puresoul0827:
It is a very serious matter o. Someone has been beheaded. What should we call this, is it a case of murder or manslaughter?

ultraviolet27:
Even if bats aren't consumed at all they will still taransmit their incurable diseases to man because they leave quarterly eaten fruits left hanging on the trees which humans can pluck to eat and most of their half eaten fruits can be consumed by monkeys,pangolins,snakes and squirrels which men also eat so the viral diseases can jump species to these other mentioned animals to men.

I wonder if hiv wasn't first gotten from bats then transmitted to apes(chimpanzee)then transmitted to man because all the incurable, deadly viral diseases in these world bats are it's natural hosts and incubators and the diseases don't kill them so all bats in this world needs to be gotten rid of how I hate that creature!what is even it essence self? nobody should tell me they are part of the ecosystem and they get rid of rodents like rats ,mice etc because snakes,salamanders,owls and other birds of prey also does that!
and many past animals have been extinct and still the world is still continuing!

You need to see how many they are in oau(obafemi awolowo university) campus.

Lol! You definitely don't like them.

My major issue with bats is that they come into cities and they don't stick to the bigger trees or outskirts. Instead they fly blind, swooping down and biting as they go right overhead. They're pests in the city. They want to live in your house and kitchen cupboards, too.

Sadly, they are needed for the ecosystem balance. And some people love their droppings.

There should be a way of culling them ethically. People should stop eating them, but only because they're more trouble than a full belly.

It's only a matter of time before bats and their eaters bring the world another one.

Tcapello:
Must be a hard thing to do for people to mind their business.

Even harder if he's in their faces. Wasn't there a thread about him just last week?

Where are his kids or his wife or ex wife?

highchief1:
he lost his chill when he moved to Ghana.from there he got into heavy drugs and got hiv.the same fame that makes people also breaks them.

The HIV part seems doubtful.

He appears to be taking some sort of stimulant or depressant. If he had HIV he wouldn't be alive with all that.

engrajoo1:
Well, it's up to u not to get my point or misquote me. However what I'm driving at is not that she's punished for not waiting for me. The main point I'm driving at is the choice of person she chose because she feels she's getting too old..... The fact that you are getting too old to marry does not mean you should compromise some standards and settle for rubbish all in the name of pressure to marry

That was your point to an extent, if you'll be honest.

We see it here frequently any time such a thread comes up. It's always brought up.

Amovingman:
Hope women on nairaland can follow your wife footsteps for their husband or boyfriend

Can you follow his? He didn't get her by Wishing. He laid the way

People, he's back like he never left.

His anger at his kids is always hilarious. And his choice of words... between Cyriacus Ibekwe with his tales out of Igando and this guy, who do you rate better?

Cc: Ishilove

Gentlesoul2021:
Pathetic and they still wants to bring in a woman to their suffer head...

To want a woman without the leadership to do so is faulty. She will resent him with time if she has to be both the man and woman at once. And then he will say she got disrespectful.

Luv ain't enough.

MrSly:
Naira land feminist entered the thread. When it gets to spending you remember men lead but when the die is cast you crawl back to your illusiin of feminism. Men are now wiser.

You want women to become men for you and you will still remain a man?

Leave the red pill rhetoric behind. It has feminized too many young men.

You're even bickering like a woman while supporting the emasculation of men. It's not even logic but denial of true manhood. If you prefer to, keep waiting for women to become men for you.

engrajoo1:
This is one of the best and realistic response I've seen so far... Let me share a bit if my experience

I'm a civil engineer in which I own my own construction firm and equally has a farm that I own too. On one of the projects I undertook two years ago. I met this beautiful Igbo lady in owerri. She's a BSC holder and very hardworking. She owns a thriving restaurant. Long story short we started a love affair. She's 31 at the time. Two months after our relationship she wanted us to start wedding preparation. I told her we should chill a little so we can get to know each other and culture better aa I'm yoruba and she's igbo. One month later when I traveled back to Lagos to ṣee my other projects. With in one month that I went to Lago she said she's with another person now that I don't seems serious.
I laughed and when I assess the person she wanted to get married to. The person is a jobless and skilless 33years old man. They got married two months later and she set up a shop for her beside her restaurant. Lo and behold the marriage didn't last five months.

The lady undertook 99% responsibility in the marriage rite. Infact she indirectly paid her own bride price.

I told my workers then that the marriage can't last because the guy is a gigolo.
Someone that can't take responsibility of their life up until 30+. What magic do u want to perform at that age

To the poster. Trust ne your sister will learn in the hard way and she'd wish she had waited a little longer

Alright.

She was punished for not waiting for you.

And you were rewarded with a shiny new wife in the two months where she didn't wait for you. Because to Nigerians 31 for a girl is the time to drag out relationships with men who don't appear to want the same things they do.

If y'all don't give a story where the woman was punished for leaving her relationship with you, you won't be happy.

Gentlesoul2021:
This same guy has been advised by the general pastor to upgrade to the latest aluminium window fabrication which he didn't take serious but wanting to be a pastor.

When men are lazy and things don't work out well for them, in Africa they become pastors. At least they'll get easy money through that.

MrSly:
He is saying that if your sister was the stark illiterate with not job and the man the well learned one, you would not create a thread here lamenting. So why the double standard? That is his submission.

What standard? You want women to do everything for you and you'll still bear the title of men?

Nairaland boys don't know what they want.

Except maybe to eat their cake and still have it, while competing that women should become men and men should remain men.

Men will destroy the family structure and still want to have it. Modernity and men are a disaster, because men are too fickle nowadays. Internet men, mostly. Weak men.

Sirleo05:
if a foreigner have sex with an indigene , they will call it rape , but fellow indigenes have sex together is never a problem

This is similar logic to what got him in trouble.

BlackViper:
Only someone who doesn't understand how forensic evidence works will make an ignorant statement like this.

You mean that only rapists would make ignorant deliberate statements like that.

Reminds of the international serial rapist user on this forum who gave that same logic for why he was innocent, and Nigerian men here believed and were reinforcing the flawed logic. Until he was proven guilty by forensics.

Both backgrounds are dark green.

What BS.

Reliability of 20 year old cars.

Diamond098454:
Yes
The parents of the girl can offer the guy a very good job

Don't bother. They won't believe it if it doesn't fit their useless narrative.

But all of them want a girl from a wealthy family because such girls do exist.

VIKTO83:
Does u girls love men who treat u soft in d first place?
U love cruel men.

Which girls?

Would you say this to your teenage daughter if Edet Akpan had forced himself on them?

Some of you need to learn humanity first before misogyny.

VIKTO83:
The child would have become an adult before the man comes out from d prison.
Now the future of the unborn baby is altered for denying him father's care while growing up.
And if u leave the man, the crime he committed would be ever before him.

Indeed, this life mo balance.

In all this, where is the sympathy for the girls life that he destroyed?

Some of you are quite wicked.

Dpzeewonder:
If you like don't hustle and make good money..... You will understand later, see the way they open this man's face to the public as he is not a bigman criminal.

His face was exposed because he is a criminal, so that if you see him, you wouldn't let your teenage daughter near him.

I hope that helps you to sympathize more with children at risk.

Prototype with humans as tall as the first floor. Comical looking.

If you weren't providing, who did you expect to? Who did you expect to do it for you for the past 17 years?

The way some men whine is irritating. Aren't you a man any longer or do you want to become a woman to escape your privilege as a man?