This thread is yet another one.

When he couldn't get women, he said all Nigerian men are ugly. Today? He wants you to know he can get women. When he didn't want children, he suggested all men be made eunuchs. It was obvious from his words then that he would renege on his preaching. Guess what? Guess who wants the buggers? When he felt he was the only one on a career path, he preached it as if others who weren't on it were all idiots. After a while? He's discouraged people who visited the section from it. Right now? He's the chosen one if he's finally left his country, but don't you dare try it. Expect the helpful pessimism.

If he criticizes it, know he can't do it thus doesn't want you to. But he wants it. Oh, he wants it.

chidiokay:



why naw ?? is it the weather why are people sounding dull you suppose know customary law is a sub under the constitution we have different laws drafted to address different cases,
we have, common law, civil law, criminal law, customary law, even entertainment law and they all have there jurisdiction ..

which kind friendship you and folake4u dey do wey you no sabi anything

Ghost of Hitler, save these boys.

chidiokay:



I understand we live in a civilized world, most of you are just quoting what is made up in your head not on the paper i.e customary law

lets be pragmatic, we all know davido father is rich n educated but Wale is 1st son owns the lion shares in his company, even when he bought davido a record label who did he make the chairman
My late papa no get property, for those that want to judge But my children i will ensure things are shared in proportion to seniority ... i strongly believe equality does not exist in God dictionary and i don't see oyinbo ways as superior

Why haven't you used this your beloved customary law to run your country's government? Why can't you use it to hold anyone to book? Could it be that if it exists it is inferior to higher courts?

Why do you only believe in it when it is time to rip off a woman who is the rightful owner of the deceased man's home by law? Why haven't you used this wonderful court to determine the winner of gubernatorial elections?

chidiokay:



i have made it clear Nok can be just anybody but in the advent of no will is my stand point is the 1st male child stands to be the major beneficiary, even the court will have no choice than to validate him based on customary law .. judges don't rule by opinion or feelings it what the book says

The highest court can do is, compel a sharing formula but the eldest male son still get the most of the properties & would manage it,

Becos it is property sharing everybody want equality right ... lets assume it is a problem or debt, papa is gone who is expected to front, will the mother & sister exempt the male son just like they did

Why? Was he the partner to his father who co-owned the home with his father?

DonBenny77:
That house belongs to you if you are the only male , even if you have a thousand other properties in that city.
I hate oppression.
Don't mind those fools dragging you. They are from poor homes they envy anyone with a successful father. Their useless dads left nothing behind because they owned nothing hence they are pained. Na son dey inherit papa property. Go and complain to your real blood relatives.

In what law, and in which country is this emotion of yours enshrined? The more one read posts on this forum, the more one should stick to the tech posts only.

People can conceal this better there.

toffyz:


Alaye park well jor, which right does Ashawo have

Even animals have rights, how much more a human? You are probably one of those men who jubilate when women are killed, because to you, they are all prostitutes who are out of your reach.

Repent of your evil thoughts.

MufasaLion:
Dirty and cheap women. Only weak and men of low self-esteem patronize whores.

Says the virgin boy

oluwaseyi0:
Hookup is far bigger in this country than we are willing to admit

Even girls that have job still manage to add hookup as side business

Who patronizes them? Women?

pocohantas:


That is a man.

The name screams (m). But why the mixed logic? Will they go into a 216 phase?

RealityKings:
Did your father pass the bungalow as a will unto you or the other kids?
If you Dad did not write it as a will down to you, remember the house belongs to your mother because she would claim the property was hr effort and that of her husband

How many people in 3rd world nations write wills? Watching succession series is giving the wrong ideas about reality.

UDUJ:


Check her profile you will see the scary looking face.

It's the ugly ones that always have a list

Just like it is very poor men that have lists and imaginary traditional standards, all because they can't afford what they really want.

Tightpussy2024:

It is obvious targeted at women alone. Its verbal abuse only when coming from women. If its from them, it is called "holding women accountable", "truth doesn't care about your feelings", "stop policing free speech"

Case closed. You see it all over the Internet, though mostly in Nigerian spaces.

You are giving man vibes with your username, yet you write like someone else...

obiekunie01:
all a wife has to do to mess her husband is to put on reddish brown face rouge, activate her phone you bought for her your wth your hard earned money and record herself shedding crocodile tears claiming you have killed her with domestic violence and viola! the world of simp and vagabonds will come for you screaming CRUCIFY HM! CRUCIFY HM!

none will eve care to verify the dumb story she posted.

that's the shitty world we find ourselves in.

but trust me after getting burnt severely, i learnt to beat them to the game - both emotional and otherwise.

Show us statistically how many women who are battered and got that way through your above submission. You have a man who admitted to beating his wife and this is what you can come up with?

Cococabdy is indeed right about this thread. What do we expect from a Hezbollah supporter anyway?

LilMissFavvy:
If a Nigerian*man is quarreling with his fellow man, he will be careful not to begin a fight, if he's arguing with the police or uniformed men, you see them behave so well, no matter the provocation, but when once it is their wife, they *beat* her up. When your wife wants to speak up you term it em0ti0nal abu$e, what stops you from arguing with your m0uth?
You use your fi$t cuz you know that most females are weaker physically than men. The 0nly reas0n hu$bands *fight* their wife is because they know $he's physically weaker.

Government needs to stand up for women all over the world, if you can't handle emotional abuse by:
*Walking away.
*Treating your wife right.
*Teating your wife as your equal

THEN KINDLY STAY SINGLE AND FORGET MARRIAGE.

Exactly.

I'm yet to see a man who is angered by another man, or verbally insulted, and his first thought is to beat him up. Men don't justify battery, except if it is a woman being battered.

If men could beat up men and get away with it, then they would've been doing it without any serious provocation.

Did any of you read past the part that validates your political inclinations? Did you read the actual content of the clauses in question?

This forum houses some troglodytes. Talk about misinformation.

1Sharon:
https://www.nairaland.com/jarus


Jarus say something

He's already said enough.

Giving nairaland vibes on Twitter. Perhaps the other content of his posts will save him.

1Sharon:


Lol. Alot of these polygamous men tend to marry women they're already sleeping with. They just get tired of sneaking around. They marry these women and bring them into the home for easier access.

You would expect him to at least admit this.

How can an already married man date and marry another woman unless he's cheating? The hypocrisy is amazing. Religion— opium of the masses.

JaySmart4422:

Obviously you are in such kinda relationship wish you luck with that

You're using the same logic that made you jump to conclusions incorrectly again.

Lionessza6:


The ones who wake up everyday to make sure that we have a way better run government than Nigeria .

The ones who build us dams , roads , proper schools and hospitals....the things your own men failed to do for 60 years .

The ones who make sure that we come up number one on every imdice in Africa be it healthcare, Education, Clean drinking water etc....the things Nigerian men failed to do for you .

The ones who build us regular ( townships)hoods that look like this;


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4agxHaLUG8Q?si=FTt24rUpYP2eJscv

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=mA1w8akH1LU?si=yvNvOcTXkkyYbciy

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fushoGdtASM?si=Dd6jtE0v0MPTInpK

Or you preferred to talk about the criminals like rapists and thugs? . We surely have those too but their are in huge minority compared to those who make SA the place to be even for your parasitic and envious men. Why do you think your men beef ours for everything including us?. . They'd rather insult you to impress us than actually getting together to come up with ways to better their own country and environment .

She was comparing criminals. It's the same cross section of men, no matter how you try to paint it as el Dorado.

I should know.

And please, the generalizations about "you" are needless. Other nationalities don't have to be jingoist before they are recognized here.

HellraiZA:


* The ones that own the biggest and highest paying soccer league in Africa

* The ones that hosted the 1st and only soccer world cup in Africa

* The ones that paved the biggest road network in the entire Africa.

* The ones that introduced Africa's first high-speed train.

* The ones that produced musical legends like Lucky Dube,Hugh Masekela,Brenda Fassie,Merriam Makeba,Yvonne Chaka,Mafikizolo,Malaika,Lazarus Kgaudi,Sipho 'Hotsix',Dr Victor,...young legends like AKA (RIP ) ,Cassper Nyovest,Nasty C,Dj Maphorisa,Master KG,Kabza de Small,Young Stunna,Focalistic,Katlego Mphela,De Mthuda,Samthing Soweto,Nomcebo Zikode,Lady Zamar,Shekeinah,,,yoh i'm out of breath I'll continue next time.

* The ones that put their blood,sweat and tears on the line and built Cape Town,Durban,Port Elizabeth,Pretoria,Johannesburg,East London,also small cities like Polokwane,Kimberly,Mafikeng,Nelspruit,etc .They built it all with no help from outside.

* The ones that run the biggest tourism industry in Africa

* The ones that everybody want to talk about whenever they are trying to kickstart their failing YouTube or TikTok account lol.


That's who👉🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦🇿🇦

🙅🙅

These are alien "facts".

Sheistoopretty:
Nice!!!!!

This is highly commendable of South Africa! I think South Africa is far better than Nigeria. Their men are hardworking and innovative, not like nIgerian men that what they only know is to drink alcohol, smoke, kidnap and do Ritual. Nigerian don't have brain for innovations and technologies, It is very sad

Nice one South Africa!

LMAO.

Which South African men are you talking about?

cococandy:
But not every Muslim man married more than one wife. If he didn’t tell her before they signed the marriage contract that he will definitely be marrying again in the future, then he’s 100% at fault. IDC what their religion says. As long as there’s a possibility he made her believe she was going to be the only one and then switched decades later is so foul I can’t quantify it.

Not every Muslim man will do it, but it is permitted as Muslims. Once you're a woman in the religion you can expect it. She knew there would be the possibility.


It's just one of those things. And it happens a lot. This is why Maryam Sanda killed her husband. He wanted a second wife. At least, that's what the men told the world.

ThierryJay:


Several notable personalities in Nigeria have been polygamous without any issues and some are even Christians. Nobody asks them why they want another woman.

Jarus is a well-known devout Muslim. Not sure why anyone would question his decision to go polygamous.

Does such devotion involve woman battery?

Why are you all so reluctant to call out the wickedness he did? So many excuses and diversions all in a bid to play ostrich.

Why are you all concerned about everything but his admission on domestic battery? Imagine if he killed her while beating her, you all would hold brief for him. Maybe you would say that women talk too much and make men beasts.

Maybe it would be a celebratory thread when he would've gotten remarried.

Well, good luck to him and his wife. Hopefully they will reconcile.

TheSuperX:
Why are you concerned? He's a Muslim and has the right to marry more than one wife, what's wrong with that? he wasn't cheating on her with a side chic, he just want to marry.

How to you know he was not cheating? Because he's a man?

Why did he bring it to Twitter? What is he trying to prove? Is he trying to manipulate all the men to believe he is innocent, or what is the point of his tweet?

He's a grown man. He should have done better. And you cannot say he was not cheating, unless you are his private part.

cococandy:
People really believe it’s their right to marry other spouses even though the person they are currently married to is unhappy about it?

Hmm

If they're Muslims then she knew it already. Every Muslim woman knows this.

Problem is his arrogance in believing he could buy her compliance, and telling the whole Twitter in a bragging manner. His logic is painful. He expected a colony of misogynists to back him up, forgetting that X is not nairaland home of the incels. Clearly he hasn't given her as much as she believes she can be bought with, and he can't meet up.

The good news for him is that like most oppressed women, like most women who want to be beaten to prove their value as good women, she will like to reconcile with him and finally accept her religion.

airsaylongcome:


The problem is that you aren't even providing any insight about the software you are using. I asked you the name of the EMR and the database it was built on. And you responded "Electronic Medical Record built on SQL". That answer said a lot. Anyway good luck finding a solution

Well, maybe they're not familiar with such things. Or they don't wish to disclose.

Eunoiaa:


Braaaatttttttttttttt! I've missed you 😭😭😭😭💛👐.

I just randomly came across your moniker now, and I realised it's been so long.

It's been just a few seconds, yunno. You've been missed, too.



I can see you've been active yourself.

JaySmart4422:
Sister sorry he is only using you to pass time

When your mates have their children in the university you are here shamelessly announcing you are dating a man for 12 years

Keep wasting your time

Old age will correct many women

Which mates? A lot of you have a lot of uncalled for "advice" for women.

She is 34.

smileyoo:
Why are they covering their faces ?
they were not ashamed when they were committing their shameful atrocities, moreover they have no more any integrity to protect.

You can ask that again.

Why don't they let everyone see their faces, so that if anyone encounters them they will know who they are and make informed decisions?

spiceadole:


A casket carrying a corpse usually looks like a mere piece of wood to many ,until the dead body is that of their loved ones!

Exactly.

Farfalla:



This generation of men need to understand that marriage is hard work.

Hard work. They aren't like their fathers who could man the home single-handed and kill lions with their bare hands.

The slay pappys of today have no virtues.

spiceadole:
See the brother.
E don reach his sister,he is lamenting.
Same guy would have been capping nonsense if the victim was another person's sister just like his gender above looking for ways to justify this heinous crime.


Men are wicked.

Ugly truth.

A lot of them have sisters, and while they spend time castigating and slut shaming murder victims, they forget the twisted guys like themselves looking for how how to kill other girls who aren't their sisters as judgement, because of some misplaced entitlement they have. When it (their entitlement to all the beautiful girls they crave) doesn't get met, they begin to justify evil. Too many bitter incels and red pill advocates.

The guy sounds like a good guy, because it's his sister that other men have killed.

May the deceased get justice.