₦airaland Forum

MufasaLion:
Every time, I always get this validation and conviction why great men of both science and religion were never BLACK.

spiceadole:
Same career women that you guys always attack?
Can't cook
Too busy
Denies you sex
Cannot be controlled
Not submissive
Not respectful,etc

Lol.
You are just confused

ufotunang:
...I am.not against a guy taking care of a woman...but no guy or man can solve all the problems of a woman ...a woman that is always depending on a man to carry all their problems and burden and family problems is a lazy woman that does not want to work but depends on men to solve all their problems and carry all their burden and family problems... they are some women out there that are very successful in life and achieve a lot because they decide to work and also use their talent and skills in achieving things in life and be successful without depending much on guys to carry all their problems and burden..
How long will a girl be depending on guys .
Will a girl be depending on a guy forever ...if Natasha, okonjo iwella, yemi alade, all those Nigeria female footballers..super falcons , players , female ministers in Tinubu government were all depending on men and they were not focused and did not work they would not had gone higher to the level they are now and they will not have been successful in life and not have achieved anything but be a liability

ufotunang:
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Just get a career lady..a lady that is already working.. to date and marry in future ..she will not stress you much and not depend on you much for financial help and be a much burden to you...since she has her own job or businesses...but all this girl's that are idle and unemployed will stress you and over burden you and put you in financial pressure in which you will regret later

Sandralight:
I have know him for years when I was more active some years ago, we don old for this site 😑
Most times I think he is just using these stories to while away time

Lovelydaisies:
What about single fathers? They don't exist? For every single mum, there's a single dad.

dominique:
So you expect to be prioritised over a sick child? Because you're having a bad day, a sick helpless child should be cast aside so you can be petted? You need to change your username from Dpsychologist to Dpsychopath

She will prioritise YOUR children over YOU! Know this and know peace. It's better you don't have kids if you expect to be prioritised over them

StoryHaven:
Oh, I didn't make it clear. The Guy is the son of the woman not my brother's son. My brother was trying to scold the boy that at the age of 16 bedwetting is wrong. The woman got angry and it all turned to a quarrel.

StoryHaven:
Oh, I didn't make it clear. The Guy is the son of the woman not my brother's son. My brother was trying to scold the boy that at the age of 16 bedwetting is wrong. The woman got angry and it all turned to a quarrel.

Sandralight:
Dude the Op other monikers are Sirchiboy, ibtxxo and etc, if you spend time in nairaland you will see his different stories and how he is 46 years old and have nothing to show for it, to me it's obvious he is looking for a woman that will hustle for him while he wait around.
I grow up in Delta state and I have seen so many men like that depending on their wives while they lazy around.

I have no problem for women supporting their husband as long as the husband is also hustling too, I will support my partner because I believe when 2 partners works together the home is run smoothly.
My advice was for specifically the OP because all he does is complain and complain

StoryHaven:
My junior brother was dumped by his American wife. The son who is a teenager was still wetting bed and na my brother dey do laundry. He complained and quarrel broke out. The lady said blatantly she prefers to choose her son over him and the whole thing led to separation. Now they are divorced.

Eriokanmi:
Marrying a single mum is very risky, except husband is late. The magic of the past can be brought back to life in one sec. Remember he once occupied that space before you rear head.

Satazaa:
I am somehow dumbfounded about the latest object of bashing nowadays aka single mom's, they get ridiculed, abused and blanket condemned without people knowing thier unique stories on they fell into being single moms, some became so by falling for men who are terrible and phisically abusive, alcohol addicts, betting addicts, armed robbers, outright bone lazy men who dont work while thier wives farm etc are so called husbands too to this women that we are foolishly heaping abuses on, so if you don't thier stories yall should shut the Bleep up and go get a job

Truvelisback:
These are the side effects of drugs.

Taeeba:
I pray we win, let something put smile on our face

franchasofficia:
Great nation.

America remains the greatest nation on earth.


That ICE agent should be allowed to face the full wrath of law because I watched it and he was absolutely wrong in shooting that woman even though the woman too was wrong trying to flee with her car in that reckless manner that looked like she wanted to runover the ICE agents which prompted the shooting


I always advice people, don't dare a man or woman with gun.....always apply caution knowing that a single mistake can take your precious life away and only the living will be protesting on your behalf while you are gone forever

Saazt20:
Why waste so much money for nothing?

Kobojunkie:
Sorry, but those sort of lies no be my thing. I am at least glad this one over here is finally cutting the purse strings of those on this side who have been taking advantage of the system for so long. 🥱🥱

I don't like it when able bodied individuals think it is OK to game the system while depriving so many others of the opportunity they deserve by it. Yes, there are probably some old folks eating cat food because they can't get money to eat from the same government. 🥱🥱🥱

pocohantas:
They always have to add that part.
Every man is paying all the bills online.

As for OP's brother, I had to go read his story well. He has to be responsible for the child. He might not see the child immediately until he is calm, but if indeed they had a bond, then he a phone call would suffice until tempers are calm to know what next.

Kobojunkie:
Op later insists that the breakup was due to the woman refusing to give a portion of money she gets from the government with the man as if he deserved a share.🥱🥱🥱

My guess is the man may be off with another welfare maid somewhere else , repeating the same pattern, and not telling his family. Some habits are hard to break once one starts. 🥱🥱

Abbeytoy:
He said he paid the bills, and his wife confirmed it.

Abbeytoy:
Don't try to be smart by half...

I am not really interested in thier issue and I never blame the wife in the narration. All I want is how to convince him not to abandon his son.

Kobojunkie:
This story get giant k-leg. How come your brother dey pay rent and all yet na government give them apartment and your brother pays child support ? Where in the world is this? 🥱🥱

The marriage should rightly end but since government no dey sleep for where dem dey, demand the woman go straight and ensure she file for divorce from the man in courts and ask that child support payments should be reviewed so that she can get more from your brother in the event that she is to raise the child all by herself and case closed. 🥱🥱🥱

As for the child, the woman should set him up to receive therapy and try her best to get him to accept what has happened now that he is still young and can maybe handle it much better. One thing she should absolutely never do is lie to him about the circumstances that led to the man also abandoning him. He gains more from knowing the truth and not having to have his brain diddle with lies for a long to only for him to be shattered later by the truth. 😩😩😩

babakb:
Tomorrow if the child grows up and considers his father "A collateral damage" you will jump and blame the woman and accuse her of poisoning the mind of the child against his father.

Majority of men hate their children but they will never admit it, you will realize this whenever divorce occurs.

Abbeytoy:
In the last two years, things have not been going well with my brother and his wife. My brother will call me and lament about his wife's behaviour, he told me that anytime they have a misunderstanding, this lady changes the key and locks him out in the cold. Though he's the one who pays the rent and all the bills, the lady gets child support and spends lavishly on unnecessary things while the apartment is given to his wife by the government.

But the last one she did, my brother left the house and swore never to have anything to do with her again. Even my brother did it to the extent that he requested the DNA of the son; unfortunately, he's the owner.

This lady has been begging everyone, and both her parents and some family members have travelled down to our place to plead on her behalf, but my brother insisted he's not interested in the marriage again.

He was scouting with one of our cousins before, and we thought that when he got tired, he'd move back home as usual, but this man has gotten an apartment and does not let anyone know the location.

The worst of it all is that he did not talk to his 7-year-old son and didn't take on any responsibilities for him again.

The boy keeps crying to see his dad, but my brother keeps saying her mother is only using him to get his attention, saying the boy will see him when it's the right time.

This lady called me last week and said he wanted to pack from the house and my brother should come move all his belongings, but my brother sent me back to her that she should throw everything away, he mentioned that the lady can frame him up or call the police for him and turn to legal battles.

I believe whatever happened between them, the boy did not cause it, and cutting off his only child emotionally and financially is not self-protection but abandonment.

I know marriage can end, but fatherhood should not. You can abandon marriage and still fully show up as a father. The two are not the same contract

All the family are tired, and even I, his closest brother, am tired. I only want him to be a responsible dad to his only child.

Please, what can I do? I really love my brother and want peace for him, however I pity his child.

airsaylongcome:
Rwanda is now a City?

airsaylongcome:
Lololol 😂😂😂

I honestly thought we had gone past these o! People still drop these scuds? Damn

kushercain:
I got this puppy recently. I wasn't around so I had a family member arrange everything. The delivery (from Abuja) and feeding it for like 2 months till I came back.

I told her to get a German Shepherd but when I came back I could tell it wasn't a German Shepherd. I automatically thought it was an Alsatian.

The dog is so energetic, like he cannot rest for a second except when I lock it in the cage. It likes to play and my other dog (Eskimo) avoids him like discrimination levels lol.

Anyway he's about 4 months now and i believed he was an Alsatian, till this morning I released him in the compound and he ran around for like an hour (I kid you not)

I asked chat gpt what I can do to make him calm down and posted his picture only for chat gpt to tell me he's a Belgian Malinois I.e those dogs used for herding sheep, races etc.

I checked the pictures online and the resemblance is quite uncanny. But I'm not really an expert on dog breeds.

So to the experts in the house, please what breed is this dog?

iwaeda:
She didn't serve, period and she doctored are certificate.