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When it comes to parenting, balancing love among the kids has always being a problem, this is because these kids are different in their ways and the one that is more useful to us gets the best attention and praise, forgetting that praising one kid than the other has more negative effects than positive one.

Naturally, the reason behind praising one kid than the other is to create a kind of determination in other kid’s heart to be better, but we ignore the negative effects this brings. In fact, it has more negative effects than a positive one. So, what are the effects?

Effects of Praising One kid than the Other
It affects the self-esteem of that kid
Praising one kid than the other is automatically telling the other child that he or she is not good enough for you.

Understand that the way a kid understand situation is directly as you tell or show them. That is why they argue with parents on whatever their teacher tells them.

Whatever their Aunt tells them is what is correct, that is to tell you that they are direct in learning, so praising one and leaving the other have a clear meaning to them. It’s an adult that understands self-love, a kid doesn’t.

Whatever you tell them is what they believe. So, such a child could find it difficult to face life because such kids will always feel they are not good enough or ready.

It Causes Hatred among the kids
When you praise one kid, you are indirectly creating unnecessary fumes between them. The less praised one gets threatened by the praised one and before you know they grow with it.

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Depression
When there is a self esteem problem, then depression is almost inevitable, such kid starts thinking why.... continue reading https://braveachiever.com/parenting-praising-or-favoring-one-kid-than-the-other-negative-effects/

Hey babe, how are you? How is your day going? babe, I feel we need to talk. The truth is, I understand having someone to call yours is awesome, but being in a relationship with the wrong person is the fastest way to lose weight, how? Because such poisonous relationship takes away your rest of mind, mental peace, and it makes you pay less attention to important things in your life, so automatically, loss of weight and high bp is inevitable.

How does it start? The whole story usually starts when you start thinking you guys will last together, not knowing your partner is only using you to wail away his time or using you for the fun of the moment. I understand that pain, which is why I’ve drafted out some signs to note so as to know whether he is using you or not.
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Signs that he is wasting your time
Before going into details, let me quickly ship this in, always pay attention to your man’s behaviour, it will easily help you detect if you are wasting your time or not. Now let’s get going


shying away from marriage talks
Naturally, the goal of a serious relationship is marriage, but the moment marriage talk comes, he will either look for a way to quickly make it end or look uninterested.
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Never talks about you guys future
When you are with the right person, when he talks about the future, you are always included. Whatever he says, it’s “WE” instead of “I”. when he talks about the future, you are always in the picture.


Doesn’t protect you
In this regard, I will plead with you, never say yes to a man that allows his family disrespect you, even behind your back. Trust me, if he is not man enough to defend you, then going into marriage with such person will be a problem because you will have to leave the rest of your life trying to please your in-laws.

The right person will not allow any disrespect either from friends or family. He makes his family be at peace with you.

He can even buy a gift for his mom or family members and pretend you bought it for them.

Only gives you attention when he is interested in sex
Such men are a parasite in a relationship, they only want you to come over or they come over when they are in the mood, if you are in such relationship, please come out of it unless you are in for the fun and not something serious.

Always Busy
The right person will always create time for you, it’s no

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This question has always been one of the top questions that pops up when in the early matured age of guys. However, you will be shocked that there are certain things that will tell when you are ready for marriage and none of those things is age.

If you have not read my articles about sensitive things a guy should avoid in a relationship, you can read it here as it will help in broadening your knowledge about this article.

The reality is, a man could get married at 40 years and divorce 6 months or keep struggling in that marriage for years, or divorce few years after, while another man could get married at 24 and still stay with the partner till death without struggling to make things work. It’s funny, right?

So, really, the question about “what age” is not really the right question, because marriage is more than age, its much about “are you ready?” So how will you know you are ready? Follow me, friend, let’s find out.

How to know if you are ready for marriage
When you are emotionally mature
Here, I will also discuss cheating, but before then, let me ask you like a guy, can you control your emotions? Or do your emotions get better of you when it’s extreme?

The reality is, don’t prepare for the best when marriage is involved and don’t prepare for the worst, Just be ready to make things work with your partner.

Yes, you guys know the in and out of each other, despite that, you guys still have misunderstandings ones in a while, right? Now imagine leaving together for years under the same roof.


Hey bro, I’m not trying to scare you, because I can tell you are imagining it already..lol.

What I’m saying is, be ready to tolerate some things. She’s not perfect, neither are you. So don’t expect her without flaws, there is no one without flaws.
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Tolerate her imperfectness to avoid broken marriage or domestic violence.

It is when you understand her weakness and accept her that you can enjoy the marriage, this is because you will be able to overlook certain things and just enjoy her good parts while helping her to work on her flaws.

Extra tip: there is nothing like “I m a perfectionist, so my marriage must be perfect”.

No bro, you have to lower your standard, marriage is not about perfectness, its about understanding your partner, enjoying her and helping her grow more, trust me, you will enjoy her.

Cheating
Be discipline emotionally, I know you see many pretty girls and you are sometimes pushed to flirt around. There is no medal for it, so don’t bother.

Have total control over what is between your legs. In marriage, it is only meant for your woman, no one else.

When you are financially mature
Bro, stop having this mentality that without money it will work out. This isn’t the stone age where a dollar can feed the whole house.

Let’s be real, a dollar can’t feed you 100% for breakfast talk less of feeding two people.

That means you need to work hard to enough to feed two mouths conveniently before thinking of going further with marriage.

It’s your job as a man to provide for your spouse.

I tell guys “what makes you a man is not what is between your legs, but rather your ability to understand, accept and carry out your responsibility”

Extra tip: Brave Achiever also said ..continue reading.....https://braveachiever.com/how-to-know-you-are-ready-for-marriage-as-a-guy/

Today, marriages are no longer as charming and dream-worthy as it used to be. The rate at which marriages crash is alarming which has even made some change their view about marriage.

So, if I’m correct, you are here because you want to know more about those things that kill marriages faster.

Before then, if you have not read my article about the types of partner to avoid before marriage, you can read it here as that will further enlighten and help you understand this better. So now, let’s go into details.

Things that kills the joy of marriage which you must avoid
Secrets
Except if you are planning a surprise. Keeping secrets or hiding some sensitive things from your partner could be the beginning of the end of that marriage. In marriage, talk about everything, don’t feel it’s not necessary, what you feel is not necessary might be very important and could even save you later if you open up on time.
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There is nothing like “I can handle it”. If there is anything that keeps marriage fun, its constant communication even when the two of you are not on good terms.

And if you are looking for one powerful tool that keeps marriage, its trust, and trust is not automatic my dear, you earn it. One better way to earn it is by not keeping secrets.

Let him know almost everything so that he won’t start having trust issues with you when he eventually finds out himself or from an outsider.

Difference in beliefs
Having different belief has destroyed many marriages and has even led to domestic violence of some. If you are married and belief is causing the problem, it’s better to sit and sort it out or separate if none of you is ready to make adjustments.

Current case study is Kim Kardashian and her husband Kanye West.

The new change of belief of Kanye is already bringing little problems to the table because he is trying to enforce it on their daughter which currently as at the time of this article, doesn’t go well with Kim.

Don’t ever think of going into domestic violence to solve it, it affects the kids in so many ways, you can read more about the effects of domestic violence on kids https://braveachiever.com/effects-of-domestic-violence-on-kids/.

Brave Achiever said “When the husband is religious and the wife is not or vice versa, there is going to be a problem except on rare occasions. If you have not gotten married, don’t hope your case will fall into the category of rare occasion. Prevention they say, is better than looking for a cure”

So, don’t be blinded by love, don’t be self-centred, think of your kids too, they don’t deserve confusion.

Domestic Violence
You can say this is the easiest way to kill the emotions of your partner. This is the mostly associated with men

The day you raise your hand on her, that is the day the foundation of that marriage starts shaking.

As a woman, if he hits while in relationship, then imagine what he will do when he have full access to you after marriage.

If he hits you in relationship, I will suggest you don’t think of marriage. And if you observe he has anger issues, let him completely solve it before marriage.

Your life is very important

Cheating
Cheating is no more “breaking news” when it comes to reason for broken marriages, and it’s not gender-specific.

In fact, it has the highest percentage of the reason people leave marriages and relationships. This is why I always advise people that marriage doesn’t cure cheating. If your partner can’t solve it before marriage, don’t think marriage will perform the miracle

Listening to friends all the time
As funny as it sounds, it will surprise you to know that many marriages ended because either of the partners was listening to friends and trying to please them.
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Kids deserve to grow as kids, with beautiful experiences, memories and should grow as normal kids. As parents, we need to understand that we are the number one set of people our kids see, we are the first mirror they look at. So domestic violence or arguing in front of the kids is something the parents should avoid because it has adverse effects on them much more than we can think off.

Our kids deserve the maximum love and attention they could get so as to grow up the right way and with the right mentality. Domestic violence is a poison that could have everlasting effect on our kids.

When parents fight or have extreme argument and the kids see everything, a message is being passed to their brain. But to what extent will this affect the kids. I guess we should find out.

Effects of domestic Violence on kids

Low self esteem

In one of my Articles, I explain that parents are the number people to either boost or kill the self-value of a child. When Dad beats mom or Mom beats Dad, maybe the parents are having heated argument and the whole house is on fire, the kids get scared.


Some cry because they hate it, it gets them very angry and crazy. Sometimes it makes them feel and think they don’t deserve you. They feel less valued, they are always moody in school and when they are alone, when they go out or in school, they don’t want to come home because the experience they are passing through at home is bigger than their age.

Depressed

Mentally, they are not stable, emotionally they are extremely down. They feel like running away and never coming back. If parents are always arguing, it puts the kids in a state they think to the extreme.

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This usually comes after being depressed, and must have thought of the best possible solution to avoid seeing the same problem again.

Suicide is the most dangerous effect of domestic violence on kids. Recently, a religious man shared with me a story of how he met a teenager on her way to commit suicide. He talked to the teenager and was trying to encourage her to move closer to God.

After a short chat, the girl open up that she’s on her way to kill herself.

Very surprised, this man asked why, because whatever will make a teenager think of suicide must be something bigger what her age could take. Then she opened up “It’s my parents, they are continue reading[b][/b] https://braveachiever.com/effects-of-domestic-violence-on-kids/

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Kids deserve to grow as kids, with beautiful experiences, memories and should grow as normal kids. As parents, we need to understand that we are the number one set of people our kids see, we are the first mirror they look at. So domestic violence or arguing in front of the kids is something the parents should avoid because it has adverse effects on them much more than we can think off.

Our kids deserve the maximum love and attention they could get so as to grow up the right way and with the right mentality. Domestic violence is a poison that could have everlasting effect on our kids.

When parents fight or have extreme argument and the kids see everything, a message is being passed to their brain. But to what extent will this affect the kids. I guess we should find out.

Effects of domestic Violence on kids

Low self esteem

In one of my Articles, I explain that parents are the number people to either boost or kill the self-value of a child. When Dad beats mom or Mom beats Dad, maybe the parents are having heated argument and the whole house is on fire, the kids get scared.


Some cry because they hate it, it gets them very angry and crazy. Sometimes it makes them feel and think they don’t deserve you. They feel less valued, they are always moody in school and when they are alone, when they go out or in school, they don’t want to come home because the experience they are passing through at home is bigger than their age.

Depressed

Mentally, they are not stable, emotionally they are extremely down. They feel like running away and never coming back. If parents are always arguing, it puts the kids in a state they think to the extreme.

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This usually comes after being depressed, and must have thought of the best possible solution to avoid seeing the same problem again.

Suicide is the most dangerous effect of domestic violence on kids. Recently, a religious man shared with me a story of how he met a teenager on her way to commit suicide. He talked to the teenager and was trying to encourage her to move closer to God.

After a short chat, the girl open up that she’s on her way to kill herself.

Very surprised, this man asked why, because whatever will make a teenager think of suicide must be something bigger what her age could take. Then she opened up “It’s my parents, they are continue reading https://braveachiever.com/effects-of-domestic-violence-on-kids/

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I’ve written this open letter to every brokenhearted person that have been cheated or survived abusive relationship.

You thought everything was going to end well, but it instead turned to pains. The truth is, I understand how you feel.

I understand the fact that you felt peace when the whole story first started

The fact they were calling and looking out for you. it looked like they wouldn’t live without you. you lay down and think of them, having this peace of mind that you finally found the one.

I perfectly understand how everything looked like it will end with testimonies, and how you would share it to people on how you met and how tough it was but you made it through together.

Is it the pain of how much time and efforts you have invested in the relationship in every possible way just to make things work out fine?


Or is it the time you have put in, even when it was not convenient for you?

I know of how you brought yourself so low and got disrespected but still didn’t care because you believe love tolerates

I know you ignored what people said about trusting the opposite partner after investing so much.

The truth is, I feel every single pain you’ve passed through, and I know it aches when you still remember like it was yesterday.

The reality is:

You have not done anything wrong by continue reading https://braveachiever.com/my-letter-to-the-brokenhearted/

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You know, while growing up, I used to feel parents are only responsible for making sure kids do their assignment, not knowing it’s way bigger than that.

So without wasting your time, let’s go straight to what we have for today

Before then, we need to understand first the meaning of role

what is role?

According google, role means responsibility, we can as well call it function. Now now that we get the definition, let’s move on to what is next.

Now, what are the roles of teachers in the life of their students?

From the word “teach” we can understand that.... continue reading https://braveachiever.com/roles-of-both-parent-and-teachers-in-a-childs-life/

Today, I will be sharing with us a story. One that will make you understand more about love and why you shouldn’t take it for granted.

Please pay maximum very detail here

There was once a man who bought a land, after acquiring the land, he saw the prospects and the richness in the land, so decided to plant something on it.

He later planted maize and the maize was growing so great. This encouraged him and he started nurturing the farmland, taking good care of the crops, giving maximum attention, scaring away rodents.
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As he was doing all these, his relatives, friends and people passing by were all warning him about one thing, “why putting all your eggs in one basket? What if someone else takes over the land and take over your harvest?” “or something happens and you are unable to reap the harvest?” But he usually answer that “it’s not possible”.

At some point, He literary spent almost all he had on the farm because he was certain that by the time he harvests, all his efforts will be rewarded and those abusing him and those calling him unintelligent will eat their words and learn something positive from his story.

At some points, what people say started getting to him and he was asking “what if these people are right, what if I’m just planting for someone else to harvest?” but still, he summoned courage and told himself.....continue reading https://braveachiever.com/the-painful-love/

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Relationship is not meant to be bondage as most people now see it to be. it is called relationship because it does not involve only you, it has to be an agreement between two hearts that wants the same thing. People ask me, why is it that relationship nowadays end in the twinkling of an eye?

The truth is, there is no definite answer because we have many factors, but I’ve been able to come up with some relationship tips that will be beneficial to any reader. follow me, lets go deeper into this.

If you are not enjoying your relationship, all you need might just be little tweaks and things will become smooth. So why not try this powerful Tips and your relationship life could be back on track.

Powerful ways to enjoy your relationship
Respect Your Partner

Respect looks simple but it’s hard to give, giving regards to your partner is very important because it makes them realize they have a say in the relationship and their voice counts. But understand that respect and tolerance are two different things, you are respectful does not mean you should tolerate some things and not speak up.

Stop Being Bossy

This is mostly attributed to men, being bossy is part of https://braveachiever.com/7-powerful-things-a-guy-should-avoid-in-a-relationship/ in one of my articles. A relationship is coming together of two people to build something serious, not coming together of the boss and a worker for a common aim. So understand that your woman deserves to be heard, don’t just tell her to do things all the time, sit down like.... continue reading https://braveachiever.com/powerful-ways-to-enjoy-your-relationship/

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We live in a world where cheating is becoming increasingly normal, and when it happens and the cheater is caught, the most popular excuse has always been “it’s an accident?”. So Is cheating an accident as most cheaters claim? I guess we will find out soon.

“its an accident” is becoming the national anthem or pizza of most cheaters which will lead us to the discussion of today. Is cheating an accident? Your comments are appreciated. Now, let’s get straight to business before the stew on hot plate gets cold. Lol.

Before going deeper, let’s analysis what an accident is, shall we?

What is an accident?

An accident is an unfortunate event that happens unexpectedly in the twinkling of an eye. Something bad you didn’t prepare for. At least, that is the google’s standard definition

From this simple explanation, we can say no one enjoys an accident, we can as well say accidents are painful. Let’s move on

If a man decides to commit suicide and then runs to the front of a moving truck and it hit him, can we call that an accident? Partially because, to the viewers, it’s an accident, to the driver of the truck, it was an accident, but to the victim, it was not an accident because it was what he wanted and then planned his way towards running to a moving truck.

I hope you are following the breakdown? Great, because the little explanation from the definition of an accident will help more as we go deeper in answering the question of today.

Is Cheating really an Accident?
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Permit me to be raw in this article, it will help me in being real with you.


What are those things that will take place before cheating?

Cheating is a gradual process, so lets get to the steps involved

Chats or talks would have taken place
Visitation agreement would have chipped in
Intimacy would then come in after the visitation

Now, let’s assume intimacy was an accident, let’s assume the two kissing and romancing was an accident, we can agree that cloth removing isn’t an accident neither can we say lovemaking happened by accident?

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Let me call our attention back to when I said accidents are unfortunate events and no one enjoy it.

So can we say the same for people that cheated? The answer is NO, so if for a moment you enjoyed yourself, why call it accident when in reality you could have easily stopped if you didn’t want it? or have you seen anyone coming out to say “when the vehicle crushed my leg, I enjoyed it?” the question is funny but that’s the reality.


Only someone that was sexually harassed can say he or she didn’t enjoy sex

Bottom Line

Is cheating an accident? I’m sure you can answer that now. Cheating is not an accident, no one enjoys an accident, you enjoyed the moment and went for it at once. So it was not an accident.

I also want to know your view. Your comments or view will be much appreciated. Cheers

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Most times, what we have passed through could get the better of us if care is not taken. Life is full of ups and down. We all face situations that threatens who we are, our value, confidence etc. what is low self esteem and how can it be taken care of? sit back, be calm, relax, you could take a pen if possible and jot things down.. lol . but i promise to touch every aspect of it.

Low self-esteem has done a lot of damage and at the same time claimed many lives. Some people today don’t have what it takes to face life just because of an unfortunate situation. Several things can make us have low self-esteem and we must always be ready to fight those things.

What is self Esteem?
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You can say self-esteem means self-worth or self-pride, self-respect or personal value. They are all correct. How we will go in life depends on our self-worth, how we feel about ourselves, our confidence etc.

We can naturally say we have 3 different stages of self-esteem. Low self-esteem, moderate self-esteem and high self-esteem. Today, we will be analysing low self-esteem and how to conquer it.

Here are some events that causes low self esteem

Sexual Abuse

This aspect has pushed many females to depression and suicide. Some females commit suicide due to the fact that they were raped and as result of that lost interest in continuing their life. They believe their self-pride has been taken away, their confidence has been crushed and there is no reason to live. Those that summoned courage to live on still have that hole in their heart due to the occurrence of that unfortunate event.

Play Group Rejection

This is mostly associated to kids. Play groups are meant to sharpen the brain and at the same time makes someone feel good about him or herself. Automatically, they are meant to increase or boost the morale of one another through playing with each other. If they instead choose to reject each other due to probably because one of them is disable or less intelligent or just different to others in a weird way. That alone can first make such child moody, sad, and could find it hard to fit in life if care is not taken.

Comparison

Comparison is one of the fastest ways to kill self confidence in someone. Even in a relationship, comparison is of the ways of killing the relationship gradually. But we are not talking about relationship now, so let’s look at comparison from a parental view. From parental side, when a child is compared to his or her mates, it’s only in few times that the child feel determined, most times it kills the happiness of such child and instead of encouraging, it makes the child feel worthless or less valued.

When parents fail to impact confidence into a child, that child can grow up to become the lonely and sad type and might never get anything right in life. Also, parent should not write off their child about anything because that child may never regain the self-esteem needed to succeed again.

And as an adult, comparing yourself to others that have made in one way or the other could kill your self-confidence because you will start seeing yourself as valueless which is not supposed to be

Repercussions of low self esteem

Depression
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This is a state of mind that people enter before contemplating on suicide. When self-worth is low already, any mental stress or situation could push such fellow to depression in a very short while. Also, when parents compare kids or their children to others that are doing better than them, it takes away the self-worth of at least 70% and push them to extreme mental imbalance.


Suicide

This shouldn’t come as a surprise if you ask me, majority of youths committing suicide nowadays is as a result of low self-esteem. A student committing suicide because of low grade, a guy committing suicide because a girl left him or a girl killing herself because his man left her is all as a result of lack of self-worth or self-love. If they love themselves, they will understand that we come to this life once, so taking their own life is wickedness.


When there is no self-love, one could settle for anything that comes his or her way. When a woman or man tolerating what could eventually kill him or her in a relationship, it’s mostly as a result of lack of self-love, no self-worth. So such fellow would feel where will I get another man or woman, forgetting his or her own happiness is very important too.

So when there is no self-love, you become a slave to whatever comes your way and whoever comes your way because you will feel less and you will not have a standard of how you want your life to be.

Lack of Quality Vision for yourself

When you don’t love yourself, you focus about a quality life is shifted, when your mates are dreaming about working hard, and having their dream job to have a comfortable life, someone with esteem problem will continue to manage even when he has chances of going into a big business and succeed, that lack of self-confident is drawing him back and making him see more disadvantages than advantages.

Few ways to conquer low self-esteem.

Strengthen your Best Qualities

We are all unique in one way or the other, that’s why it is important to ask our friends to tell us about what see in us that is unique. After knowing this, then it will be easy to work on the good qualities mentioned

When we help others, probably in one way or the other. We will feel good about it and gradually, that self –esteem could come back to life.

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Change the Way You View and do Things

Changing the way we used to do things could help us discover that little spark that will boost our morale. This method is most advised when you are not sure of how to gain your esteem. So changing the way used to handle things have proven to help some people re-discover who they are.

Work on your Weakness

Learn to understand that no one is perfect, so when you make mistake, laugh at yourself and try doing that thing again instead of making it roadblock to your believe. Laughing at your mistake is somehow making your weakness your strength.

Learn New Things

Life is full of adventures, so learning new things is a wonderful way to boost our self-confidence. So don’t just sit in one place friend, rise up and learn any new skill or craft.

Value Your Self

The truth about life is, you have to love yourself first before anyone can love you. That also means that you have to value yourself first before anyone can value you. When you value yourself, love yourself and respect yourself, no one will. If you don’t value who you are or what you do, then an outsider might not be able to help you as well, but when you always present yourself to people in a special way. It’s not like you are lying to them, it’s just the truth about who you are inside you.

Conclusion

Self-esteem is a very important if we want to be great in life, nobody can make it with low self-esteem. Don’t let people ridicule you with the positive things you couldn’t do, remember people won’t listen to your excuse for failing, they will only hail you when you are successful. You can do it, come out of your sad shell and unleash the greatness inside you.

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Marriage is just like an exam, you don’t prepare for an exam in the examination hall, you prepare before the exam.

And knowledge they say is power. But without proper knowledge, plan, and understanding of what marriage entails and how to deal with certain issues could make marriage turn to death trap or hell for one.

So today, I will be saying a few things about the type of partners you should avoid and you can still call it the type of partners you should not get married to.

First, let burst your head a little, research shows that married people are mostly happier than the singles, and they are much happier than divorced people.

Here is where I am going, the research further divided the married category into two groups, which is happy in marriage and struggling in marriage.

After the research, it was confirmed that the percentage of those happily married is extremely low compared to struggling ones.

It was then concluded that most singles are happier than the “struggling in marriage” ones. I’m sure you are not here to join the struggling train, but the successful train. So let’s move on to the types of partner you should not get married to.

Types of partners you should not get married to

Doing you a favour type
It’s an act of disrespect for your partner to think they are doing you a favour by marrying you. It means they don’t see you as their type. In other words, they will never treat you right, because you are seen as a burden and they only with you because they pity you.

Religion Fanatics
When it comes to religion stuff, tribal talks, how does your partner react? Trust me, this type of people kills and restricts the fun in marriage, no going out on dates, no going crazy beside each other.

Technically, there is no freedom of expression. You try to make them realize, and they refer you to religion. You live like a robot, expressing your emotions are restricted, you are mentally alone. Do you want to live the rest of your life this way?

Especially men that fall to the category, sexually, they are not romantic. When it comes to making love to their wife, they just climb their woman with no pre-intimacy. Be careful not to fall for this type of partners.

Domestic Violence type

This is mostly attributed to men, so this is an advice to women or ladies, if your husband to be have ever slapped you or beat you up, I don’t think you need a wise man to tell you what awaits you in the future.

Let me be real with you, the percentage of women that are not happy in marriage today, one of the reasons is domestic violence. Planning to marry a physically abusive man is a one-way ticket to grave because there will be a day he will hit you in a place that will first send you to a hospital before death, that’s if you are lucky you don’t die on the spot.

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