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When you meet an intelligent person, you know. That's if you're also intelligent.
When you meet someone who's rich, you also know.
When you meet a civilized and enlightened person, you can also tell.

So, how do you know if someone is from a poor background?

Attitude is key here. There are some persons who come from a rich background but may appear poor especially in how they look. While some from poor background may appear Rich physically.

Vanity upon vanity.
All is vanity.
May God help us to not waste our resources on frivolities

As a country, We have, in all indices, completely regressed and worsened by Hunger, inflation, unemployment, poverty and insecurity

50JBL:
no atom of sense he/she always forming woke

Honestly

9japride:
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Nothing like standard, let's be realistic for once. Same way some ladies will tell you nothing is happening between them and their male besties as if to say we humans are saints and free from falling into temptation.
If you like don't take advice. I believe you are still young.

Ok sir, I will heed to your advice.

9japride:
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Leave talk. Don't they have sugar mummies? Nobody holy pass. Please just be careful.

You shouldn't be judging people by your own standards

9japride:
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It seems you are just catching cruise? Maybe you don't know the extent African man can go if one is playing with their wife.
I believe the woman has a beautiful body so that one might be affecting your judgement.

Nothing really concern me about any woman body o. This is a woman I call "mummy", so I don't know what you're saying.

Fenrir:
Seriously, what is so fascinating about a balloon!!

You can buy a pack of 100 cheap as chips of any size, I truly feel bad for you if the highlight of your childhood was a balloon

You're commenting tooo much on this topic please

Kobojunkie:
So, all of this is merely because she is a married woman? If she had been single, you wouldn't have taught much about it, right?

2. Single people no dey do juju, right?

3. You say yes when you really don't mean to say yes? It isn't that these people come at you brandishing a gun to your head, so why make it seem they are bad when the choice is yours to give?

You're not someone to reply to..
You're oga Mr abi na Miss or Mrs "Know it all" so continue..
I can't engage you

mastermaestro:
How e be pass? Get over it bro! Yours is not the worst out there! Get over it! I don't like when men are acting like sissies and becoming too emotional. Kill the past and move ahead! If you kill yourself, na you lose bro. Toughen up!

You're the one acting like sisi not me.
Keep your advice to yourself to yourself and let me express myself in Peace. Its always easier for some of you to be in our corner typing whatever u like

softy:
Tell her that your sister (younger or elder) has taken it on a visit last night.

Never wear it again.

There would be female drama and manipulations from her. Malice and unnecessary castigations will fill her head. Let her be disappointed on this issue. You are not her relative, family or husband. From ordinary joggger to something else. Dont bother yourself. Stand your ground. DO NOT GIVE IT TO HER. She is greedy and unsatisfied. She is covetious wing very deep longthroat.

Many working destinies have been switched off through unnecessary "generousity".

What of the husband angle? Thus is life is funny. The more you look, the less you see.

90% of wise men and women have advised against giving that jogger out, listen. Do not give it out.

Okay Sir, I will do as you've said.
Thanks for this idea

Smallpikinshit:
leave am make he dey play. He dey even proud telling us. Make d husband katch U.

You're acting your moniker and I am not surprised.

Mariangeles:
This is just sad.

I've always said it that it is better for parents to sell akara together with their children, than to give them away, in the name of hardship.
There is no excuse for giving away your children.
It is very important for children to have a happy childhood.

May God heal your heart. 🤍

Same thing I said. No parents should release their children to anyone no matter who they are. They will damage them mentally, socially, emotionally and even physically. Its so sad. I can't say anything else.

Itiskdg121:
Many people experienced this, but they later surmount the emotional impact.

You will be fine, with time.

You won't understand how my childhood was. You won't. I would have preferred death than what I went through

id4sho:
I get you bro, ahead ahead, dey well. Let love lead, no shaking

What love are you talking about?
What is love?

You're preaching love, do you know what love actually means?
You think it's about talking?
You humans are very mean

I hate topics like this cos I didn't enjoy my childhood because I didn't live with my parents. I was suffering in the hands of my uncle and his terrible wife. I wasn't even allowed to go to sch. Was always abused, insulted, emotionally and physically assaulted. Till date, I don't know what love is. I can't love, and I don't want anybody to show me love. Loving me seems like you're about to hurt me.

May God judge all those who suppressed my childhood and denied me love. Thank you for making me timid even as an adult. But no worries, I'm trying to overcome it

Efuaye:
May you heal from your past wounds, whatever they are, and have the courage to face life's realities!

Please kindly check your notifications.
Thank you

Greedy human-beings everywhere. OBI has helped you guys a lot

You rode on his back to victory and now you're betraying him

Efuaye:
Your word is a lamp for my feet, a light on my path. Psalms 119:105

I could have quoted Google or a ChatGBT, but I resorted to a more authentic source whose accuracy on life's matters cannot be disputed.

Oga, please leave bible for now. Go and love your neighbors as yourself first. We know una type. If I knew u in person, I wouldn't come an inch near you because of this. You're being overzealous. Most of your kind hide behind the bible to be mean and callous to people

A4alpha:
Fake fake and deceptive, Op is codedly advertising his nonexistence village deity , if it's true when not get the juju jump inside central bank and tell the director to load N10Billion in your car boot.

Some of u reason somehow honestly. You don't believe in the potency of deity, but you believe in the existence of the Devil. You're still a learner

Efuaye:
Job 3:25 "For the thing which I greatly feared is come upon me, and that which I was afraid of is come unto me".

May your fear not be confirmed!
FEAR is False Evidence Appearing Real.

Peter 3:13 "And who is he that will harm you, if ye be followers of that which is good?"

Since you're already uncomfortable with your intended kind gesture, don't give her yours but rather buy her exactly your type.

Thanks for your input.
But was the Bible necessary here?
Any small thing una go just quote bible as if una be better people. I fear those christians who rush to quote bible at the slightest occurrence

Mindlog:
Be assertive and DRAW THE LINE.

You have no business giving her your used joggers nor buying her a new one, such conversation is inappropriate as it should be with her husband.

Sometimes I just wonder how some married women do things. If my potential wife ever tries such, and I get to hear it, I swear, I'll send her packing. Because na so cheating dey take start. This is pure oju'kokoro

muyico:
, u supposed to buy new1 and give her, instead of d1 u don wore b4,, no be only women pants they use dis days
Any clothes can work for juju dis day!

Okay sir. I told her same, but she refused and insisted on this particular one. Besides, I don't have money now to even get a new and similar one. I bought this one for almost 15k just two months ago and I don't have such money now

muyico:
U made big mistake, if she carry go meet herbalist nko?? Trust no1, were century of lack of trust, brother dey use his own blood brother for juju, talk less of neighbour

Please make me understand the mistake that I made

I consider this act really very inappropriate, indecent, preposterous, utterly absurd and ridiculous for a married woman to request for such a commodity from a small Boy like Me.

So, I have a neighbor(female) who owns a Hair Saloon. She also deals in other essential commodities. Her shops are closed to my house but her residence is far from mine. We see everyday except on Sundays, since she doesn't open her shops on Sundays. She is in her late 40s now and has three children, the eldest child(daughter) is already an undergraduate. The woman is Igbo while the husband is from the middle-belt and shares same tribe with me. It was when she discovered that I share same tribe with her husband that she drew me closer to herself since I also do business with her from time to time. Her shop is situated very close to my apartment and as a result, we See everyday!
Here is the issue, I have a joggers that I wear especially at night and early mornings, more of night wear. I've just obtained this joggers two months ago and I can say, it's very fine. Lots of persons have hailed it. A bit expensive though!
While I wore same to the woman's shop, she first said "this your trouser look like woman own o". Truly, a part of how it is designed looks feminine but of course, we know how crazy fashion has evolved over the years. Its unisex wear anyway. But when she said it looks like joggers for women and ladies, I began to lose the utility I had for the joggers, I even had to stop using it, until I asked a friend if same trouser actually looked feminine, but he said No. In fact, it's for guys. I now told him how a woman said its feminine, he replied by saying, "no mind her, e be like say she wants make u dash her". We now laughed. I resumed wearing it. And last night, the woman called me while I was alighting the bike to please give her the joggers. She was so serious. I thought it was a joke but no, it wasn't. I asked her, " abi make I buy u another one"? She said no, that she likes this particular one. I said ok, let me wash it tommorow(today) and bring it when it's dry. She now became so happy and began to sing.
Throughout the night, I was asking myself why a married woman who isn't my relative would demand for my personal effect. This is what I've already used and I don't consider it proper sharing it with her. What if her husband gets to find out?
Hope say she no wan use my joggers do Juju?
I dey fear o.
Naira Guys, please advise Me, cos I'm confused here. I like giving my stuff to people even till I'm left with nothing and become stranded. I'm tired of being generous to people. Sadly, when I have a pressing need, no family member or friend can help me out. So many missed opportunities due to lack of instant support. I only derive joy helping people in my own small way as long as it makes them happy.

Nlfpmod Seun

I have a cousin(f) who lives in Delta state and works for a man. I think she works as a housemaid or something, she's my second cousin actually, and we have not seen or talked to each other on the phone for nearly 18yrs now. She's a distant relative.

I was told she stole her Boss' Money and ran from Delta to the village. We are from cross River State. When she returned home, she was everywhere flaunting her possessions and spending with reckless abandon right in the Village. A typical village where there's no light or mobile network.

Her mum was never bothered to ask her daughter how she made such amount of money by just merely working as a house girl. I heard she stole over 2MILLION naira. Her dad is late and she's the favorite child of her mum despite being the overall last child of over ten siblings from three wives.


When she finished squandering the money, she left the village and returned to same Delta State, and in less than a week, she ran into her former employer whose money she had earlier stolen. The man used Jazz to lure her back to the City. He confessed to it. Immediately this cousin of mine was arrested and locked up. When the village uncles were informed about her arrest in Delta state, the mum began to cry and she pleaded with her late husband's kinsmen to rescue her daughter.

Truth is, these villagers have never seen or touched 200k in their entire lives, so it is absolutely impossible for them to raise that money and pay back. They are all peasant farmers living in total poverty.

There's a very strong Deity in my village that is capable of solving almost all issues, especially issues of this kind where someone is in police net or about been sentenced to prison for a crime. This Deity when consulted, has the potency to overrule every judgement, once you get the jazz, travel to where the case is ongoing, go straight to the person in charge of the case and order him/her to release the suspect, the instructions would be obeyed instantly. It hypnotizes.

My uncle and another man want to go and get the jazz so they can travel to Delta State and get my cousin released. She's already been remanded. Now, the downside of this jazz is that after it has finished doing the job you instructed it to do, it will make you forget, like format your brain and make you forget to go back and appreciate it right in the shrine. It only needs a local female fowl. Just that. But after it works, you will completely forget ever using the services of the Deity and when that happens, it takes your own life in place of the fowl. It always needs blood. It gives me jobs as well.
My uncle and another relative are planning on getting this jazz tommorow and I've done everything to discourage him But no way. I've sent others to him to discourage him but no way. I'm not in the village and even reaching them via calls is a big issue cos there's no network there. No mast.
There's almost no way that one of two people going to get that jazz will not die. One of them will definitely kpai as soon as the jazz finish doing its job. And it is the person who stretches his hand to collect the jazz in the shrine that will die. Even the second person will forget to remind the other person to go back and appreciate the Deity.


My own dad is late and this is happening in my maternal village, my mum is unable to stop her brother from embarking on this dangerous adventure.

Atarakpa:
The jazz work wele nii. Omo fear the owner of that restaurant. If I know that restaurant I will step my foot there for the fear of the unknown

This is the comment I have been waiting for.

This is confirmed jazz.. they do it in my place. When someone steals and escapes, and they can't get Access to his pictures, they lure him back with jazz. If d thief like, make e run to London, e go run come back now now

Happy Birthday, Mr. Gomina

May your days be longer than all the bridges and flyovers you've ever constructed for Lagos