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Success is not an accident. Failure is not a mistake. “Anyone who has reached any great heights in life did so because they did things differently to the majority.” The majority do not reach any great height because they do things the same as everyone else. “As a society we are conditioned to believe in what we see and experience around us the most. We are conditioned to believe in the opinions and limitations of those closest to us.” It’s time to break the mold, it’s time to avoid the biggest dreams killers and begin learning how to make our dreams our reality.
Here are the 7 biggest dream killers you should avoid at all cost.
The fear of failure: This is perhaps the biggest dream killer of all. Ironically, those who don’t take action because of fear of failure, fail by default because they are living a life they do not want to live, a life less than their potential. Failure is nothing compared with the feeling of regret. Worst case scenario, you learn a big lesson and grow from the experience. Keep going until you achieve and grow.
The fear of success: Most people don’t reach the height they know they are capable of because of the fear that they will be left out if they achieve it. If no one around you has achieved at high level, there may be a fear of not fit in with the crowd. Success can be a lonely road; courage is often needed to endure the judgment and feeling of not fitting in.

Lack of work ethnic: If you aren’t prepared to work for your dream, you will never live it. Nothing worthwhile in this world will come without big effort. Are you willing to put the work required to get to your dreams?
Excuses: You can have results or excuses, but you can’t have both. Successful people take ownership of their success and their failures. If it doesn’t work out, ask yourself how you can do it better next time. If it doesn’t work out, don’t give up, Work Harder. Try a different approach, do whatever it takes to get to your destination.
Toxic Influences:
Family, friends they all mean well but often they can impose their perceived limitations on you. Just because they couldn’t do it doesn’t mean you can’t. Just because no one in the family has been successful before, doesn’t mean you can’t be the first. Respect everyone’s opinion but believe in God because his thought towards you are the thoughts of good and not of evil to give you an expected end.
Lack of discipline: Discipline and consistency are traits of winners and all successful people. Every-now-and-then is not good enough. You must be committed to work on your dreams and goals every single day and make it more important than all those insignificant things that hold you back from success.
Unwilling to learn and grow: successful people all have one thing in common: they are life time learners:- as warren buffet once said, “The more you learn the more you earn.” Never stop educating yourself on a range of topics, developing your skills and growing into the person you know you can become.
Remember: If you want success you can have it, but it comes with a price. Learn and model the most successful people you resonate with. Avoid the people you least want to be like and avoid doing things they do.

https://evhiemenisa..com/2018/11/the-biggest-dream-killers.html?m=1

Some of the world’s most famous and profitable businesses were started by students. So why not be one of them and start your own? Microsoft began in Bill Gate’s Harvard dorm room. Mark Zuckerberg started Facebook as a 19-year-old Harvard sophomore. Google got its starts on the Stanford Campus as the computer science project of doctoral students Sergey Brin and Larry Page, and thousands of other students companies thrive in every industry. Even if you’re not aiming to be another Bill Gates-maybe you just want to earn some extra cash with a summer landscaping business, mini-importation and drop-shipping business- you’ll have to navigate some unique challenges as a young entrepreneur testing the business waters.
HERE ARE 7 TIPS FOR YOUNG ENTREPRENEURS.
1. DO WHAT YOU LOVE: All successful teen businesses have one factor common: their owners love what they do. So choose a line of business that aligns with your interests no matter what they are.
2. KNOW WHAT YOU WANT: Are you willing to leave school if your business takes off? Or do you envision your business as a side project? Being able to answer questions like these will help you organize your time and priorities.
3. BE RADICAL: In your late teens and early 20s, your thinking is fresh, original and full of energy. Don’t be afraid to try something no one’s ever done, create an off the wall product or shake up an existing market by changing factors (such as a service or delivery model) those established companies take for granted.
4. FOLLOW THE RULES: Being a young entrepreneur doesn’t exempt you from registering your business, keeping records and paying taxes. Following these simple rules now will save you from legal and administrative headaches later.
5. MANAGE YOUR TIME: Running a business while going to school is stressful and difficult. Understand what is required of you in your separate roles as a student and a business owner, and employ planning and organizational tools- for example, a well maintained appointment book, Microsoft outlook or an online time/project management system to make most of your valuable time.
6. USE SCHOOL RESOURCES: Being a student isn’t a handicap in business; on the contrary, it can be an advantage. Your campus offers free computers and internet connectivity, a host of potential employees and /or volunteers and the expertise of professors who would be happy to share their knowledge and experience with you. You’re literally surrounded by people and resources, so make the most of your situation.
FIND A MENTOR: Buddy up with a local entrepreneur or business leader with record of achievement. Your mentor will help you understand the risks and challenges of business, provide a sounding board for your ideas and help you find investors for your company.
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I want you to know that no matter where you are in life, no matter how low you have sunk, no matter how big your situation, no matter what you are going through; this is not the end, this is never the end of your story and this is not the final chapter of your life. I know it may be hard right now, but if you just hang in there, stay with me for a little while, you will find that this tough moment will pass and if you are committed to using this thing, using it to build your character, finding a greater meaning for the pain. You will find that in time, you can turn your life around and help others who are going through the same struggle.
The world right now is the middle of a mental health crisis. It is estimated that almost half the population suffers from depression at some stage throughout their life, rather than join the queue, it’s important that we learn why we get down and how we can change it because believe it or not, we created our own negative feelings and we can also make sure that we turn our life around and be a positive change for others. The reason anyone gets depressed always comes down to the consistent thought we think and the consistent believes we hold, the point here is that anyone that is depressed is so because there is an external factor that get materialized in their life, they have lost something outside of their control or don’t have something that is out of their control.
In school we are taught how to get a job, when no one teaches us how to live in a state of happiness, no one teaches us how important our conscious and unconscious thought and associations are. Does our happiness not worth more than the job? Yes it is. And before you say happiness won’t pay my bills, happiness will pay your bills, when you realize you will be ten times more energized, focused and take positive actions in your life when you first chose to develop yourself as a priority and then get to top of the world. I have seen some people who many will consider to have it all in their life because they thought they were not good enough, a thought, a believe within them told them that they were not worthy. This people that many would jealous of, many envious off where not good enough. You must value yourself enough, to take the time every single day to work on you, to engage in something that ensures you are a positive influence on the world, but that doesn’t mean life will certainly be perfect, the same life challenges will show up but if your mind is strong, if your mind is at peace then your reactions to the challenges in times will be very different, your reactions will be “how can I make this work” not “ why is this happening to me ” and then others will look to you not with pain but with hope because your strength will become their strength, their hope, you can really be that powerful. You can ditch the victim’s story; you can leave the pain behind and focus on how you will react next, how you will react positively or you can read to get your mind in a positive place. Take steps to ensure you will be in a better position next time and soon you will be in top of the stair case, don’t give up, you are worthy, you are more than worthy, you deserve to experience how great life can be and you owe to the world; to be that positive to others, to inspire others who will look to you and say “he did it” “she did it” and “I can do it too”
If you are suffering from depression please seek help.
Talk to someone.
Commit to work on yourself.
Life can be great, you can happy.
You are worthy.

https://evhiemenisa..com/2018/03/depression-this-not-end.html

Never stop doing those little things for others. Sometimes those little things occupy the biggest part of their heart. Pls be good to all women/men because you don't know who might be of help to you.
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