Please don’t go near water if you don’t know how to swim, no shame admitting you can’t swim. RIP

emeritus007:

Guy, your uncle no wan help you.

wow thanks

kkkp:
What is your uncle doing with his slots all this while Is your uncle not a member of any committee All the job slots allocated to him ,who is he giving it to

he keep telling me there is no job on ground, I don tire sef and of course he belongs to a committee.

Pass11:


Anytime you hear about any MDA that is recruiting tell your uncle about it,I think that can help you out.

told him several times , he is always telling me there is nothing like that even if I come with facts

It seriously hurts anytime I go through this thread and I see people giving update about the next mDA recruiting and it seems like I can’t get it. Four years after leaving school and all I have to show for it is npower and what even make it more painful is, I have an uncle who represents a senetorial district in South east and have I have been on his neck all this while , he keep telling me there is no job.

I almost believed him at some point, but with what I read here daily I know certainly he doesn’t care about me/ he no just wan give me job. When there is life there is hope. Make I just gather the little I have an apply for my masters degree program. We go again next year

I know I don’t owe him anything but I believe he should use his position to help others, things northerners won’t do

SavageResponse:


A person can live a fulfilled life without being married!

marriage is the most celebrated anniversary on this planet,,
Funny how you guys are always saying it is overrated. It would never get outdated billions of years to come. A person who chose to live happily without getting married should do so, but every one person willing to live alone billions are seeking companions

pocohantas:


Yenyenyen! They ignored guys in their prime. But when your gf breaks up with you to marry a ready man, you will come crying on Nairaland.

Some of you here have been dating your gfs for years without marriage. If they leave you now, another wailing go start.

You marry early? All Naija women want is marriage. They don’t build themselves

You say make you stand before marriage? Double wahala. Evening newspaper, borehole pussy. Edede! Who go marry this one?

Abeg make una getaut!

you have made absolutely no point and you are derailing already, how is girls leaving thier boyfriend to get married to already made men come into play here.

FutureIsFemale:
[s][/s]It's the other way round. Men are the ones begging women for marriage. Some now prostrate to propose.

lalasticlala seun mynd44 Dominique justwise rule 2.

you are a blockhead, nothing upstairs. Always putting emotions before logic. Carry your nonsense feminism out of my thread and let reasonable people speak

SmellySperm:
Marriage was not meant for everyone

likewise money, children, heaven and good things. People who see marriage as an achievement should be left alone

Mynd44, lalasticlala front page please

isaiah4life:
Marriage is overrated.

I disagree, marriage is not overatted, it has always been the building block that held our community together

I was discussing with a friend of mine during one of his visits this past weekend, we talked about politics, football and a whole lot of interesting topics. We were in the middle of discussion when we tuned in into this popular reality tv series on dstv, “finding the one”. So we switched topic

I was trying to explain to him why we have many ladies looking for suitors in Nigeria and the main reason being this harsh economy. I told him no man would want to settle down until he has something to fall onto and has a good job that can sustain a family but my friend thinks otherwise.

He said the reason why some ladies get really old without suitors coming their way is because they must have ignored a lot of guys during their prime (20-28) and once reality set in they become desperate.

I told him I have a sister who is perfectly fine and doing well but good men ain’t just coming her way, but he just wouldn’t agree. I can’t believe people still think this way in this 21st century. He was telling me no matter your looks and all someone must approach you, I had to calm him down what if those coming your way ain’t even somebody you can settle with. Guess his reply? You just have to endure and get married like that.

This a guy went on for some hours before I just decided to call it a quit and told him we should just enjoy our football match.Personally to me I think nobody should be forced into marriage when he /she ain’t ready.

I just want to seek you guys opinion, he will also be on nairaland reading this. Should the sole reason of not being able to find suitors be attributed to youthful exuberance alone? Do girls who find it difficult to find a man must have been to choosy in the past? Your opinions will be highly appreciated

Please does anyone know the MDAs under housing

Sonnobax15:

I didn't really have an idea tho..But please anything that may likely haunt you in the future,e go better say make you refrain from am now . To at least avoid stories that touch las las

thanks bro. I just want to be sure if we are compatible, lalasticlala move this to promise land please

Good afternoon my people, how is work going. I have been meaning to ask and I have done some research on google but I still can’t find a straight forward answer to my question

Can someone with genotype AC get married to SS?. The first time I did genotype test was when I was about to go for youth service. I did it at a general hospital and it came out AA.

I have been nursing malaria quite frequently and during one of my visits to my doctor he asked my genotype, I told him AA and he asked me to go for another test. Mind you this is a different hospital from the first.

Result came out and it read AC, believe you me that was the first time I heard about such. I was even kinda scared but doctor said it’s fine and no cause for alarm.

The issue now is I have been dating my girlfriend for over a year. She is a SS which makes us compatible ( like I presumed earlier ) but with this new revelation I don’t even understand anymore.

I had to get tested at a different hospital and it came out as AC again, so I’d stick with that. I haven’t informed her yet though. I’m thinking of proposing this December already. Please are we going to have healthy kids? I really love this lady so much and I can’t afford to lose her.

Uba should please send regret mails and let us know our fate, Congratulations to those who made it to the next stage. We move

I doubt if these mails are in batches o, is there anyone that received after the first batch of people announced theirs?

edi34:
Received mine, Goodluck guys

can you please share a screenshot if you can? what’s the next stage about interviews?

DammyDarling:
Check your email guys,
progress mail dropping

when did you receive yours, I pray they are still sending more or that’s all

intergral:
To be honest most of the Slot being sold are those given to Southern Senators and MOR.... The Northern ones give their own to their people it is only when the recipient decides to sell his or her slot...
Tomorrow they will be shouting marginalisation while it is the people representing you guys that has sold you out....

as in the thing is very annoying. I could remember back in 2012 when I finished uni. I was very sure I would get a job as soon as possible because my uncle then was a sitting senator. I even stayed with him during my youth service in Abuja. That's how 3 years went by because I was expecting him to give me a job. Time went by and I just knew I couldn't continue like this.

My mum begged him several times he kept saying he is on it. This is my fathers elder brother. He almost turned me to his house boy during my stay with him. I wash his cars, do chores around his house and even became his wife's driver for some time.

I never cared because I thought when I would hit, it would be a big job and a high paying MDA. I was working because of what I was after. I left in 2016 for good and borrowed money to start selling phone accessories. If I have stayed I would probably be his official maid by now.

Throughout his time in the Senate he never gave any family member a job, neither would he support you with funds for business. I'm glad I left and I thank God for how far I have come. Southerners need to do better.

lilvicky68:
Age difference is making you confused..I think you're not ready to settle with an older lady..

I'm not concerned about the age, financially too she has an edge, but she is more concerned because she thinks age is not on her side

I'm in a very confused state right now. I met this girl a couple of months ago at freinds wedding and I never thought it would get down to this

I'm a young gradute in my late twenties just getting myself together. I can afford basic needs and I earn a decent salary.

This girl I just met is way above my class she is also older in her early 30s we both love each other and she is perfect in her own ways. The problem is she wants to settle down as soon as possible, but the problem is I have a lot of plans and a whole lot of things I want to do.

I want to go pursue my masters degree program very soon. Infact I have been given admission just waiting for resumption. And I don't see my self settling down anytime soon. I still have a lot of things I would want to accomplish before settling down.

I don't want the contribution to be one sided. I want to contribute as possible as I can but she seem to be in a hurry. She said she has enough to take care of us. But this is not how I planned my life. Although I earn enough to support a family but I don't think I'm ready. I don't want to hurt her feelings and I don't want to lose a good woman as well. What should I do