Let's not forget this one

Avalani:


I appreciate your post especially since I sense that it's coming from a good place.

It just occurred to me though that if our roads and drainages built by our able government weren't so bad and poorly maintained, maybe this would not be so regular.

thanks for the support, I appreciate it.

I remember when I was in Final year at the University of Lagos, I had just finished my second semester exam and decided to go home to rest for a bit after exams. This faithful Saturday morning, it had rained during the night and so I didn't see no reason why I should not go home and enjoy my weekend. I put on one of my best clothes and headed out. I boarded a Danfo bus heading to yaba, the road was flooded and unfortunately for me, the drivers windows were out. I sat down majestically at the front, on getting to WAEC busstop, a Sienna car drove past on high speed, splashing water and soaking most of the passengers in the bus. Through the back windscreen of the Sienna, I could see the lady in the front seat turn back and was laughing hysterically.

I had never felt so downcasted in my life as I felt at that moment. I thought it could never get worse until I got to ikeja and another slowpoke splashed water on me, I could feel the tears build up in my eyes as I wondered what I did wrong that day or if I was jinxed.

It's been 3years now since that fateful day, heading towards Lagos island now, I saw a Honda car with plate number LSR5... , zoom fast and splashed water on a cart pusher, the driver loved what he did and did it again to another passerby, I felt so angry in my spirit that I had to get the plate number of the car and write out this piece.

It's so bad that alot of car drivers feel they have made it in this world and that Pedestrains should be treated with disgust during raining season. This is a bad attitude and we must put a stop to this.

Thanks for reading.

beautiful, see as time flies

pls how do I get to 80 awolowo road, ikeja from Ogba. thanks

finalboss:
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please help me out too... God bless you... Nothing is small please

0168051255 GTB

I did

Amelian:
You need a break from relationship with any guy. Focus on other things that makes u happy. Cause your reservoir of feelings and love has been drained by your exs who do not care and there's nothing left for u to give in a meaningful relationship, anymore.
So relax. Bury the past.. Avoid love relationships, just be friends with both positive ladies and guys.
At least for. One year.. Enjoy the freedom and peace of true friendships.
Then after one year, that reservoir is filled up again, ready for the next new guy that will come. Into your life..
But stay out negative love relationships.. It will. Only take u back to square one or even worse.
So simply relax and tell every other guy seeking to woo, 2 wait or they can. Move on.. If they can't wait. Because you, yourself comes first.

tnx so so much

odrims:





yeah I agree with you on the first partner basis....I had to log in ......in order to comment because this issue is very sensitive ...my own advice is we are determinants of what happens to our lives....take your mind of relationship for now and live a happy life...do things that make you happy (not alcohol tho) a good guy would surely walk in .

tnx so much

oluwalfa:


Wow! You almost got me there.

Thanks to everyone, i really appreciate your care and concern. I do promise to heed to ur advice. Tnx once again

Draei:

As long as you table down time to get to
know more & more abt them. You should be
able to see who is who & also along the way,
some of them might change/give-up...

u r ryt, tnx once again

Draei:

i ain't gonn tell you which to go for buh
give it more time to know more about each
of 'em then follow your instinct/heart.

owk, I will do dah
Do hope my instinct doesn't fail me

Draei:

How long have you known these
4 guys you mentioned. ..

one for two years, the one that cheated for five years and the remaining two less than six months respectively

Cholls:
my sister you dont need to be confused......when your time comes you will surely win........meanwhile, Best to accept your issues and work them out improve yourself, in the mean time don't hide them and be real

I will do my best
Tnx

annayawchee:
well U have to sit down and think about what you really want in a relationship and secondly use your brain more than you heart....

tnx so much, wud do dah

iykekelvins:
Don't beat yourself up dear.

When you find a mature guy that loves you, and wants to go into a relationship with you. You'd know..

tnx so much, I appreciate

firstking01:
I hardly make comments on a thread i didn't read but from my perception and observation it seems to me like you are still very young and perhaps naive in this thing called relationship...my candid advice, wait till you are of age with a mature mind.

tnx

soberdrunk:
My dear you are suffering from what i call "IPSDS"--- Ideal Partner Standard Defieciency Syndrome, you have subconsciously created a standard for the type of partner you want in your mind, using your "first love" as yardstick, in other words you will continue moving from one partner to the other because you have not 'completely' healed from the first heartbreak and you are looking for a guy who is like a doppleganger of your first guy in looks and behaviour. The ways to overcome IPSDS are--------

1) You find a way and get back with the first love.

2)You see a shrink that will help in the "total" recovery process.

3)You get lucky, meet a very amazing guy that has big cassava and knows how to use it.(by the time he gives you overdose of cassava you will receive your healing)

4) Alcohol therapy(my favorite )

5) Shiloh, Mfm or Synagogue

mmmmm, seeing my first partner again wud be awkward considering the fact that I wouldn't want him to have the knowledge that I haven't forgotten bout him. Tried the alcohol once, didn't like the outcome. I just wish everything wud be fine

Cholls:
my sister why do you worry so much?!......dont you know there is time for everything.

really?? When will my time come?
Why is it late?? I'm confused

yomi007k:


Well sorry abt dt.


U dont need to pressure ursef into it.



Although d world is full of good n bad ppl, if u dont meet a good person jus try n be one.

mmmmm its kinda hard to accept dah but I will do my best. Tnx

MrCork:




...ermm sweeeery quit tryin to impress me simply becuzzzzz am from pekam London.....you from the village. .you no it.. I no it. We all no it

aaaahn aaaahn nawa ooo

desquad:
you can ask me again ,,, come lemme finish your heart completely


TEAM FŪCK BOYS!!!

mmmmm tnx, if u know how I feel ryt now, u wudnt say such I tell u

annayawchee:
Yes you can love again but for now stay away from relationships divert your energy and time on something meaningful.

please help me out. Cos I diverted it to my education, friends and leadership roles but even so I still come back to this same spot

yomi007k:




Ur only thinking ds way because u think ur young n u hv not met a guy u really like.

I don't think so, cos I really do want a beautiful relationship...
Most times I fantasize about it...
I really do need help cos I don't think I want to go through a hrt break again, I'm really scared.
I didn't want to bring this here but I had to, even as I type I'm in tears wondering y my relationship life is upside down and if I wud ever have a lovely relationship

My name is Broadsway and this is a summary of my relationship life, please do read and give me a tangible advice. Tnx

I started dating In senior sec sch to a guy I loved and who never loved me back but only dated my cos of my popularity and the attention I gave him, breaking up with him I dated another guy just to forget the first guy and also hoping this wud be better but it didn't turn out well, he tried wooing my girlfrnd by insulting me, I confronted him, he apologized but I couldn't stay with him, I just zereod my mind off him even though he showed he was sorry. Some times later like 3yrs after met another guy but it didn't last, this last one was the most terrible but I wud ignore it cos it brings tears to my eyes.

So right now after 5yrs from my second relationship and days of training myself to avoid relationships and just be friends with guys, I find myself with people that love me and wud want to spend their life with me, but I can't reciprocate the love any longer, I feel like I am deceiving them, I like dem, even one has stayed with me through all my pains and lafta and also there is the guy who is the second guy who wooed my friend still asking for a second chance and a lovely guy dah I met recently who i see as an angel and lastly there is a guy who has spread my qualities to all his fam members and frnds and I know he loves me dearly.

My main reason for writing this is to know if its possible to make my heart love again and if it can which one of these four guys shud I stay with?

Tnx

PoliticalThuG:
nah nah.. That will not happen. I am stinking rich and the money i have made will not finish any moment from now. I have alota investments all over the countries

woooow, dats gud.... like I said success in ur search

PoliticalThuG:
my view about money is that it brings happiness in our homes.. Many homes have been broken cos of lack of money.. I wud not wan my home and marriage to break.

oh dah, now I understand but also remember that money attracts the ladies but god forbid, wah if suddenly u are in a tight corner, wah wud keep the marriage alive

PoliticalThuG:
i have made all the money i wanna make.. I have come to realise that it is time to settle down with a good nigerian lady and have my kids.. Thats all. That is my view about marriage

I checked ur posts and topics, most revolve around money, even dese revolves around money, my guts tells me ur d kind of man who feels since he has money, he can boss any female around, see u have made ur money, dats gud but change orientation concerning it... wish u success in finding a good wife

PoliticalThuG:
i have made all the money i wanna make.. I have come to realise that it is time to settle down with a good nigerian lady and have my kids.. Thats all. That is my view about marriage

I checked ur posts and topics, most revolve around money, even dese revolves around money, my guts tells me ur d kind of man who feels since he has money, he can boss any female around, see u have made ur money, dats gud but change orientation concerning it... wish u success in finding a good wife

PoliticalThuG:
ofcours i am. Get two cars and a house already

dahs not all dah matters!!! how is ur temperament? wah is ur view abt the female gender?? wah is ur definition of family and marriage? what are u values?? I can also make my money, so marriage ain't abt money cos wen trouble comes, it ain't enof to save me..

r u marriageable?? all dese guys dah are too full of themselves...