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Hmmm,,,shey the song will give me money

If you are in my shoes you will understand

bro..cry..go to some beach or lake and just sit and cry..cry better cry..do it for one week..accept your weakness..wallow in it for a week..feel like a loser for a week and then cry..take a break bros..money go always come ok..for a week feel very week,hopefully you mind would expel all the negative thought and weakness from your being..then fire down again..na man you be..stay strong and focus...the game is getting hard..reason you need to play harder.

Hiss..see as I dey jealous una...me na all those mama I bang oo..for ashawo quarters..hiss..no girl look my side..but I stand outside welwel o..my guys them fine and they hold small..anything they want to bang them babe I go dey outside..always the one to stand outside..life.

Really want to know too.

Sixfeetbelle:
You'll stand for a guy you know nothing about because you believe you know more about ladies?

Gosh! Everyday on this forum I'm reminded that men don't care about women, not in the slightest bit.

hiss..but it is okay for a woman to falsely accuse a man of rape..see how all of you females and some men just ignore the fact that she lied..now you guys want to shift focus to other events.. just looking to make sure he is a tagged a rapist..why not out rightly stand against this evil she did..if na your brother or son they in this situation..would you be happy when others ignore that he was lied against and they are rooting up on other cases just to make sure he is brought down??..make una dey fear God oo...women!!..very manipulative people

Uprightness100:
It is officially confirmed that Sin removes sense from humans..

See how 2 grown ups are messing up themselves Worldwide all because of the iniquity and sin of Immorality..

Whether Doctor raped her or not, He is now seen and known Worldwide as an alleged rapist..

Flee From All appearance of iniquity..

It will help you here on Earth and in Eternity..

shut up..how is he a rapist..na una kind dey encourage these evil girls to do this..you nor even care how the bros go dey feel,you are here talking rubbish..na lie she lie for him head oo..and you know it..but here you are still shaming him and asking he should hide in shame..this world self na wa oo..don't you people think.

All this comments...lol..this bros go get bp oo...him go dey close mark he babe now...bros go dey close early to rush come house..lol..na think you don put yourself sir..wahala

mrex911:
Hi Nairalanders, ur advice is seriously needed here. No insults pls.
I've been struggling with Masturbation and pornography addiction for the past 15 years.
I've tried all I could to stop but all to no avail.
I've prayed and fasted so many times with no tangible result. What happens is that;
I'll stop for like six(6) months without endulging in it. But once am down I see myself in the act again.
It has been filled with ups and downs all dis years.
Anytime I endulge in it the aftermath is filled with regrets, guilt, shame and loss of inner power.
I always fill sad and empty afterwards.
I really don't know what to do again, I seriously need help. My relationship with God is as take here.
Pls help a brother.
U advice will be appreciated.

boss there is but one way out of this...don't view it as a sin..it's all in the mind..you see it as a very bad thing and thus your being goes with that..I am sure you would blame all your misfortunes on it as well..and it might manifest as so because you believe it has the power to..just first..stop seeing it as a sin and seeing yourself as a failure or lose first..then your head go clear to go on stopping it.

Mummymahdi:
Oga is not everything about sex, for God sake The man himself didn't deny beating her, let's say its only slap , is it justifiable to always slap ur woman? It's not fair. And till date percentage of women that suffers and die in the hands of men can't b compared with women that kills or abuse men. Some women are what u described while some are so positive

true it cannot be compared but that doesn't mean they don't happen and when it does,it never gets any attention..if you can tell me how women are different from men,aside from the vagina and penis(reproductive system) I would really love to know.. alot of people make out the woman to be a weaker being..I really don't understand why..you have same hands,same body as us..why then is it normal i when a woman insults and in some cases attack a man it's okay but once the man slap or beats this said woman he becomes a beast..like they are both humans what's so special about not hitting a woman..what is really the point behind it..same head..same hands..same 2 legs.. see the way you replied me calmly..I tried my best to also do same to you..that's life and respect..I would be mad and maybe a beast if I had replied you with insults.. if that is the case then those men are fools and beast.
But I have not seen where a man is respected and he goes ahead and still beat you..you even don't have any business with such people because they are not normal.

2 faced evil people...there are cases of women killing thier husbands and all but no one would open a smelling thread about that..but once it's a woman we nor go hear word...did you people see the husband sitting on the woman's stomach...hiss..me that grew up with many sisters...I know one thing for sure..you women are manipulative and liars..born liars..once they feel hurt or attacked they go all out to frustrate you and they are very evil.. na the man I blame sef..if na me I nor want again..let her go and look for another man..she think say man dey outside When go appreciate her after 4kids and a widen pussy and turn belle..hiss..men doing women favours since day one but una go still dey worry us..let her go na..i go even give her the 4 kids..I nor want..let her care for the 4 of them if she nor go lean under 1 week.. she needs the man hence she can't leave..na the man I blame..he is weak..woman call you outside and damage your name you still take her back..until I see where the man said he did all she accused him of I don't care for her...from all my dealings with women I know you lots are liars and manipulators..crying for public sympathy...open mouth talk say all I did was only tell him to spend wisely...lol..like who believes that...say woman to calmly tell her husband to spend wisely on side chicks...I sure say she attack the man..insult his mother and his family..maybe even throw things at him..after getting the reaction of the man them go con claim victims..saying all I did was only advice him..like we nor know say una mouth they smell with evil and provocative words...2 faced evil humans..that's what most women her..

Aburada abeg pass me the connect.. thanks

VivaNG:
What are you saying?

in general don't try to make your family happy at your expense...do things for yourself and what makes you happy.. the society or even your family would not like it..but trust me your peace and happiness is greater.. and don't rush to get married.

Me I always tell myself this would happen oo..so now I am not even planning to get married.. I sat my baby mama down and we talked..I told her she is only 30yo and I am 24yo..that is it possible I would be the only guy she sleeps with in the remaining part of her life same with me if she would be the only woman I sleep with...there was silence...we have 2 kids...I opened a business for her..sometimes she makes 100k a day from her business..as of now she is the one handling and funding the house but me I don't allow all that to enter my head..I done tell her..look you can leave anytime you want..me I am here for you for life..I gave her a car..her mom usually comes to our house to stay for weeks and sometimes months..I just tell her say babe..marriage is like a bondage..we really don't need to get married..at least not yet...I don't want to hold her down and I don't want her you hold me down..my mind is already fixed.. I still go out and have my fun..she confessed to me how she did hers but said since she had our first child she has not done anything with anyone..me I don't believe or trust anyone but I just took it as she said it..I wasn't pained because I already prepared my mind that I can't be the only one she would fancy before she dies...she be human being too...I told her that she can do her thing oo..but just respect me and take care of the kids..hence I gave her a life..I trained her in school and changed her life...she said she's not leaving me ever..again I don't believe and would not because of today go and marry...we would stay like this for a while when we done old small we go marry..and one thing I learnt...never ever displease yourself because of your family..be it your wife or your kids..do whatever you want..if you are a womanizer keep at it..just use your head..if you sleep out keep at it..if you drink and smoke keep at it...because the moment you let them(family) change or try to change you ..you would have some hatred towards them for limiting your fun and trying to ruin your life..trust me I have been there.. i am young oo but I have seen things in this life..don't change your ways..because las las same people you try to change and live a good life for and sacrifice all you have just to make them happy can still come around and hurt you saying you did nothing for them and you are a bad husband or father...all your effort wasted..na that one go pain you pass...so me I still do my thing..I only respect my girl and let her know she is my Queen for life as long as she wants..she's always going to be my number one and the mother of my kids..but marriage for now is no no...I don't want to limit any of us down Just because of marriage..so bros..don't really expect too much and don't really do too much..you be man..have a side chick..get angry and just sleep out most times..there was a day my girls mother came around with her other son..them just full my house but I nor mind because they are fun...my girl made me angry and I yelled at her..even at her mother join...I go work for money and still come home then she would ask me what I want to eat..that question really irritates me..do I ask you when you need money before I provide??...I told her that if putting and making food available before my coming is difficult I would get a new girl for that..her mama start to cry o..she too start to cry...I went inside my room and smoked my weed..I never apologized to her mom..just my girl..but the apology wasn't really good..guess what..all of them woke up since then..this happened last year oo..but now anytime I enter my kitchen there is always food..her mom go clean everywhere..carry food come give me like king..I never marry her pikin oo..we all are happy now..life nor really hard..just make yourself happy because the moment you try to change for someone or something and then they betray you..life would be nothing to you anymore..you go feel like loser..

Ryan03:
with this mindset of yours, it's obvious you don't have a successful or hustling female in your family

hiss...mumu man..lol..the truth is always bitter.