goddess

RealityShot:
wow!
with all your "feigned" education...smh


BYE! BYE!

bro seems you're suffering from chronic confusion, your brain is obviously struggling to reboot. feigned education fire you there.

you guys should calm, stop washing your dirty linens outside. this is a faceless forum let there be peace please.

Opiletool:

Both can be, however Jealousy can be very vengeful.

OK thanks.

RealityShot:
oya differentiate them

I don't have to do that, it's solely my opinion I do not have to shove it down your throat. thanks.

Blacksavage:

Oya teach us rubbish..
Werey!

your stu.pidity is a source of shame to this nation, I'll advice you not show it off too often.

very wrong, envy is actually it not jealousy.

I have no power of my own, I confess to thee Holy Spirit, take control I have no power of my own � �

DZTech:
1. u both need a heart to heart. tell him it may hurt, but u give ur blessing if he prefers her to u. (if u love someone, set dem free).
2. if ur then both serious, it's time to make plans for d future.
3. if u guys already have, start planning introduction with him- even if it's still over a year or two away.
4. r both ur folks in d know about ur relationship? time to start alternate visits to his and ur siblings/parents.
5. take over d consolation from him- just in case d lady really needs help. after all, everyone is vulnerable to the rebound guy/girl.
6. in d end, na do or die? make una prioritize wetin important. unnecessary delays go cos 'see finish'.
God bless.

*drops pen

thank you very much, we're already planning towards the future.

NwanyiAwkaetiti:
You did the right thing. Off course that won't stop her from further seducing your boyfriend and them hitting the sack. Bronze to b safe, keep an open mind. This one u saying you invested so much don't mean he'll be yours... So just b ready incase of anything to prevent sifia heartbreak and probably suicide. Distance in a relationship is a no-gooder. If he's truly yours, no biitch will steal him away and if he ain't,...

right, thanks a lot.

WisdomHunter:
You did nothing wrong dear, yoh nigga is not telling you the truth he have feelings for her that's why he's not letting her go easily >:

lol, bia have I offended you before?

PrimadonnaO:


Rather than just let him go... give him a chance to prove he's trustworthy. Don't monitor him... face your work and whatever else...carry on as though everything is fine. But it you smell anything fishy, then you're justified to take a walk. By then you'd have known that he isn't worth breaking a sweat over, if he can be so easily stolen.

thank you so much, I appreciate your input.

PrimadonnaO:


Oh, dear... if he had handled it himself, they'd have ended up f*cking.

His telling you became some sort of check...accountability.

Hmmm, from your perspective, I think you're on point.

PrimadonnaO:



Please, don't make excuses for your boyfriend. Suffering a heartbreak isn't novelty. That colleague of his is simply a no-gooder. Why run to a man to give you succour? Your boyfriend, on his part, was wrong to have offered her a shoulder to cry on. Things escalate quickly. Doesn't this colleague have sisters or friends? Why did it have to be a colleague who's in a relationship?

Nonsense is nonsense. Stop excusing your boyfriend's actions. He decided to court trouble the day he started indulging her. You did no wrong! You didn't overreact.

thank you very much ma'am, I'm not trying to excuse my boyfriends actions it's the other way round, I knew she was trying to worm her way into his heart with the closeness love texts and all, he was just too sympathetic to tell her off. my worries right now are she might try harder when he goes back to work and I won't be there to put her in her place, I want to be able to focus on my work without getting worked up, I'm seriously thinking of letting him go.

Headlesschicken:
Hope u would be this understanding if d table Wia to be reversed... Yuh guy no try Sha, sounds like a pant man to me,as an adult whether yuh in a relationship or not dia r some sh!t which u gotta handle yuhself... Relationships dix day's r nufin buh a scam,blotted expectations everywhere... Damn...

lol @ pant man, you hit the nail on the head, I expected him to handle it himself, getting me involved made me feel bad.

ibkkk:


And when you get tired "fighting",please move on with your life. You'll be alright!

of course ma. thanks for the advice.

vingeophysicist:

Thanks dear . I was only advising you.

you're very welcome sir good evening.

vingeophysicist:
Try and read before commenting to avoid insane response.

shut up.

Jirair:

You did the right thing. She likes him and he does too if he has never put a stop to her endearing names and love messages. She's only trying to gain some sympathy by telling him she's going to block his number, but she's not going to do that. Now's the time to draw your man closer because she clearly wants him.

thank you so so much for this, I would do exactly as you've said.

JudgementHammer:
I blame your guy for telling you in the first place, I blame you for seeing the man you're to call Lord in marriage as someone you can confront, the outcome of confrontational attitude when and where its not needed is never good.

All you had to do was ask that you pick the call when next she calls and talk to her politely that who does she want to speak to, then in her ears, you'll call...Honey! Someone wants to speak with you, then hand the phone to him..by doing that, you've helped him resist temptations as d lady now believes in her mind that he trusts you to the level of letting u pick his calls..even though u both orchestrated the act just to help each other at the moment.

Confrontations will give you unrest and troubles. You probably have made him regret telling you now. I'm just imagining how ur bf would cope seeing a malicious colleague at work everyday..its serious! And you know women are gifted in malice!

serious points you made there.
I agree with you, I wasn't thinking right at that point in time, we've always been very open and he tells me what I need to know especially what might jeopardize our relationship, I never intended to spite anyone only wanted to set boundaries and for her to know her limit, my boyfriend is partially to blame here he must have encouraged it, so I don't care if she keeps malice with him or not that's his cup of tea.

I must admit, confronting him has not made me feel any better, I feel worse he shouldn't have put me in that position, a grown man should know what to do at the right time.
thanks for your input.

Joromi12:
such is life madam. Relationship is not by force. It is not a crime for another gal to steal ur bf. I can bet they are already fuking already.

Habaaaa have some chill for Christ sake.

Davash222:
Madam, there are other girls not just the colleague . Stop personalizing dicck. E go reach everybody.

not this one, it's not all about the dicck, we've invested too much in this for one lady to come out of nowhere to destroy it. thanks all the same.

nuggarito:
Nice move. You should fight for what you love.

thank you so much.

IamPlato:
Boyfriend In The House

lol he's not my boyfriend please.

ceeroh:
Cynthia, I thought we already resolved this issue. Why bringing it here?

be serious jor.

ceeroh:
Cynthia, I thought we already resolved this issue. Why bringing it here?

Biko I'm not Cynthia. lol

DZTech:
how come it's u who had to insist he tell her?!
did he 4get he has a woman?!?
shu!
abeg, wehdon my sista!
at d very least he should've introduced her to u so u help him 'console' her, abi?
beta get his guys to warn him seriously o!
Haba!

lol thank you very much.
she already knew he has a girlfriend, my boyfriend and I talk on phone all the time during office hours, all his colleagues know about it, I only insisted he tell her incase she was turning a blind eye, she was laying it on just too thick.

so sorry about it, I'm very sure your finances is not the reason she's acting up, talk to her and know the real reason behind it.

good evening house, your honest opinion is urgently needed, as I feel I went gone too far on this issue bothering me.

this is going to be a long read, apologies in advance.

I've been dating my boyfriend for the past 1 year, we're in love and have always conquered issues threatening our relationship together as a team. about six months into our relationship my boyfriend got transferred, though it wasn't funny we have stayed together through thick and thin.

I love him and he makes me very happy but someone in the guise of female colleague is threatening my happiness, about three months ago he told me about a colleague of his who was going through a messy breakup and confided in him, according to him he's been helping her through it and has been a support system to her, I wasn't comfortable with it and insisted he told her he's in a relationship to discourage any funny feelings arising of which he claimed she knows, a week ago my boyfriend came to my city and as usual we spent time together only to notice the lady just can't stop calling and texting, calling him all sorts of endearing names and love messages, to say my heart flew out of my chest is an understatement, I confronted him and he denied having any relationship with her, after the pleadings and all I decided to hear him out, it seems she's developing feelings for him and I had him call her and tell her to put a stop to it which he did, she apologized and promised to stop.

according to him she called to tell him she was going to block his number and whatnot, it doesn't make me feel any better, I had expected her to take it like an adult and see that she's trying to ruin my relationship.

I feel bad and confused, what do I please?

and where was it written in the Bible that, missionary position is the one endorsed by God

I really don't see why anyone would want to propose in public, it's not like people give a f.uckk about you. do your thing in private and go conquer the world together... simple.

please and please, let the young man go, people have ended their relationships over less serious issues, once a cheat is always a cheat...... please love you more respect your heart and stop putting it through such pains.

remember people don't change.