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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by SaucyBenks(m): 11:07am On Feb 24
Divay22:

Amen!
I say a big Amen to that cheesy
as expected.. I seen your other replies to comments so this isn't surprising...
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Divay22(f): 11:17am On Feb 24
SaucyBenks:
as expected.. I seen your other replies to comments so this isn't surprising...
Okay okay okay.
Can you lemme alone now grin cheesy cheesy
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by SaucyBenks(m): 11:24am On Feb 24
Divay22:

Okay okay okay.
Can you lemme alone now grin cheesy cheesy
was I pulling you before? I expected this kinda reply too... I remembered those times you use to fire guys here back to back in the days... Never knew you could be this cool and have conversations with a guy on nairaland as I've seen in your previous convos... But your ways of replying to discourage a guy who's trying to strike a convo with you when you don't want to is heartbreaking... But not for me.

I know what your reply to this will be like tho...
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by pointblank247(m): 11:38am On Feb 24
Chase money and ladies will chase you because most of the matured ladies know a man with prospect.
If your mind begin to tell you that your girl is cheating, you are most likely to be right.
It is also important that your girl is afraid of what you might do when she misbehaves.
Some ladies need hot slaps once in long while to stay focused

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Divay22(f): 11:40am On Feb 24
SaucyBenks:
was I pulling you before? I expected this kinda reply too... I remembered those times you use to fire guys here back to back in the days... Never knew you could be this cool and have conversations with a guy on nairaland as I've seen in your previous convos... But your ways of replying to discourage a guy who's trying to strike a convo with you when you don't want to is heartbreaking... But not for me.

I know what your reply to this will be like tho...
Hmmm
Now i know what this is all about...

Okay.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by BronzeMajik(f): 11:47am On Feb 24
I'm never going into any long distance relationship again, its barely worth it, apart from being emotionally draining, financially its suicidal, heaven knows my bank account was red all through last year.

And, dating a guy who is always broke is a big No, the rate of begging you for money all the fuckin.g time increases, I'm sick and tired of it, it's so annoying everyone should have their own Money in relationships and stop leeching, well... I've learnt my lessons I'm never helping any guy out again in the name of relationship.

Abuja guys.. anyone do they enjoy begging or what?

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by SaucyBenks(m): 11:48am On Feb 24
Divay22:

Hmmm
Now i know what this is all about...

Okay.
grin just as my girlfriend would reply grin grin grin grin
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by SaucyBenks(m): 11:49am On Feb 24
BronzeMajik:
I'm never going into any long distance relationship again, its barely worth it, apart from being emotionally draining, financially its suicidal, heaven knows my bank account was red all through last year.

And, dating a guy who is always broke is a big No, the rate of begging you for money all the fuckin.g time increases, I'm sick and tired of it, it's so annoying everyone should have their own Money in relationships and stop leeching, well... I've learnt my lessons I'm never helping any guy out again in the name of relationship.

Abuja guys.. anyone do they enjoy begging or what?
and on top of that, you still give am pussy join... That guy wicked oo
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by BronzeMajik(f): 11:51am On Feb 24
SaucyBenks:
and on top of that, you still give am pussy join... That guy wicked oo
aren't you funny..... he wasn't wicked sir, just plain stupid.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by SaucyBenks(m): 11:57am On Feb 24
BronzeMajik:
aren't you funny..... he wasn't wicked sir, just plain stupid.
well, even though you've learnt your lessons, don't let it make you loose a good man who has real intent... I don't mean the stoopid ex that drained you but your next man which I'm sure you'd carefully look into before saying yes to....
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 12:05pm On Feb 24
BronzeMajik:
I'm never going into any long distance relationship again, its barely worth it, apart from being emotionally draining, financially its suicidal, heaven knows my bank account was red all through last year.

And, dating a guy who is always broke is a big No, the rate of begging you for money all the fuckin.g time increases, I'm sick and tired of it, it's so annoying everyone should have their own Money in relationships and stop leeching, well... I've learnt my lessons I'm never helping any guy out again in the name of relationship.

Abuja guys.. anyone do they enjoy begging or what?
Many Abuja guys are just fake, they boast and all but when u get to really know them, u discover they don't even have. God help us. The ones that are even OK are not loyal
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by BronzeMajik(f): 12:20pm On Feb 24
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Many Abuja guys are just fake, they boast and all but when u get to really know them, u discover they don't even have. God help us. The ones that are even OK are not loyal
Sis, I regret meeting him, I entered into the relationship with 6 figures in my account, made extra more, the young man was always having financial issues, always asking for loans I know he wouldn't be able to pay back, begging for free money, bought him a phone which he later sold, mehn I give up on men especially Nigerian men, I just couldn't do it anymore I had to flee I'm beginning to rethink this love thing it's a scam there should be a written agreement before the start of every relationship.
may I never come across any broke nigga again in my life especially those from the Abuja broke guys association grin .

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by BronzeMajik(f): 12:23pm On Feb 24
SaucyBenks:
well, even though you've learnt your lessons, don't let it make you loose a good man who has real intent... I don't mean the stoopid ex that drained you but your next man which I'm sure you'd carefully look into before saying yes to....
of course thanks for the advice, i appreciate it, I think I'll enjoy single hood for now and try to focus on my business and rebuild my dead bank account.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by SaucyBenks(m): 12:42pm On Feb 24
BronzeMajik:
of course thanks for the advice, i appreciate it, I think I'll enjoy single hood for now and try to focus on my business and rebuild my dead bank account.
i wish you all the best....
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 4:28pm On Feb 24
BronzeMajik:
Sis, I regret meeting him, I entered into the relationship with 6 figures in my account, made extra more, the young man was always having financial issues, always asking for loans I know he wouldn't be able to pay back, begging for free money, bought him a phone which he later sold, mehn I give up on men especially Nigerian men, I just couldn't do it anymore I had to flee I'm beginning to rethink this love thing it's a scam there should be a written agreement before the start of every relationship.
may I never come across any broke nigga again in my life especially those from the Abuja broke guys association grin .
Its well dear. You really tried buying a phone for a man
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by BronzeMajik(f): 4:29pm On Feb 24
NwanyiAwkaetiti:
Its well dear. You really tried buying a phone for a man
lol
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by rossovu(m): 4:47pm On Feb 24
BronzeMajik:
Sis, I regret meeting him, I entered into the relationship with 6 figures in my account, made extra more, the young man was always having financial issues, always asking for loans I know he wouldn't be able to pay back, begging for free money, bought him a phone which he later sold, mehn I give up on men especially Nigerian men, I just couldn't do it anymore I had to flee I'm beginning to rethink this love thing it's a scam there should be a written agreement before the start of every relationship.
may I never come across any broke nigga again in my life especially those from the Abuja broke guys association grin .
cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Vibesking(m): 5:09pm On Feb 24
Divay22:
I don't know how to cheat.. But would love to learn it.

You don't have to "learn" it. As a Nigerian girl cheating has been in imprinted in your DNA. You just need time to discover your true nature.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Divay22(f): 5:13pm On Feb 24
Vibesking:


You don't have to "learn" it. As a Nigerian girl cheating has been in imprinted in your DNA. You just need time to discover your true nature.
Hahahahaha
Still counting on that time.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Vibesking(m): 5:21pm On Feb 24
Divay22:

Hahahahaha
Still counting on that time.

Whatever
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 8:34pm On Feb 24
BronzeMajik:
Sis, I regret meeting him, I entered into the relationship with 6 figures in my account, made extra more, the young man was always having financial issues, always asking for loans I know he wouldn't be able to pay back, begging for free money, bought him a phone which he later sold, mehn I give up on men especially Nigerian men, I just couldn't do it anymore I had to flee I'm beginning to rethink this love thing it's a scam there should be a written agreement before the start of every relationship.
may I never come across any broke nigga again in my life especially those from the Abuja broke guys association grin .
Way to go, girl!
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by BronzeMajik(f): 8:47pm On Feb 24
Angela777:
Way to go, girl!
grin thanks
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by evolved: 6:47am On Apr 03
BronzeMajik:
I'm never going into any long distance relationship again, its barely worth it, apart from being emotionally draining, financially its suicidal, heaven knows my bank account was red all through last year.

And, dating a guy who is always broke is a big No, the rate of begging you for money all the fuckin.g time increases, I'm sick and tired of it, it's so annoying everyone should have their own Money in relationships and stop leeching, well... I've learnt my lessons I'm never helping any guy out again in the name of relationship.

Abuja guys.. anyone do they enjoy begging or what?


If he's always asking you without reciprocating. Then you shd be sure he never saw a future with you. A man who intends building a family he wants to head with any woman. Would not willingly do what he knows will erode that headship in any way. Not being the full breadwinner is an erosion of headship.

It's a different thing if he asks every now and then perhaps for small things. But for a man to turn you to ATM, gurl, you shda japa-ed since
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by morningstar55(m): 1:23pm On Apr 03
evolved:



If he's always asking you without reciprocating. Then you shd be sure he never saw a future with you. A man who intends building a family he wants to head with any woman. Would not willingly do what he knows will erode that headship in any way. Not being the full breadwinner is an erosion of headship.

It's a different thing if he asks every now and then perhaps for small things. But for a man to turn you to ATM, gurl, you shda japa-ed since
Stop wasting your precious time advising them fine boy seekers...Most Abuja girls are plain silly
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by BronzeMajik(f): 1:33pm On Apr 03
evolved:



If he's always asking you without reciprocating. Then you shd be sure he never saw a future with you. A man who intends building a family he wants to head with any woman. Would not willingly do what he knows will erode that headship in any way. Not being the full breadwinner is an erosion of headship.

It's a different thing if he asks every now and then perhaps for small things. But for a man to turn you to ATM, gurl, you shda japa-ed since
thanks.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by BronzeMajik(f): 1:37pm On Apr 03
morningstar55:

Stop wasting your precious time advising them fine boy seekers...Most Abuja girls are plain silly
I'm not an Abuja girl, neither am I based there, helping someone out gat nothing to do with being stupid.

P.s I might have over exaggerated a wee bit, I'm grateful I have the money at least.
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by morningstar55(m): 2:56pm On Apr 03
BronzeMajik:
I'm not an Abuja girl, neither am I based there, helping someone out gat nothing to do with being stupid.

P.s I might have over exaggerated a wee bit, I'm grateful I have the money at least.
If you were only helping out...there shouldn't be regrets
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by logan2(m): 3:21pm On Apr 03
never take women seriously, never treat a woman with specialty cool
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by uchechefaith(f): 3:49pm On Apr 03
mikaelangelov:
It's not yet an ex relationship but I believe by weekend it will be.
Finally it's over
I've been too easy and simple for the bae aswear, and even she herself says that, I girl I've never shouted on before, never cheated on her, she will never say that I've failed getting her whatever she's requested for, a girl that I've fed comfortably since early 2018 till now, just name it, yet bae still got the guts to cheat me countless times, cheated on me with random guys that can't even match my shoes even though they're all older than I am, aborted babies for them and I still care for her, buying her life relief drugs during the recuperating stages thinking it's menstrual related issues, got her a job so she wouldn't be idle, best way she could make me proud is to become a cum-bag to her boss who offers her nothing, just because they all offer her marriage which I don't want to tell her first because I want her to learn a skill this 2019 first, before I'll think about tying the knot with her, my only crime was loving her too much, well next 60 days I'll be moving permanently to Copenhagen so I guess marrying a white chick is the next thing,

infact I know that I've reached my boiling point and enough is enough

never believed someone like you is still on this planet, are u an angel?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 3:57pm On Apr 03
morningstar55:

Stop wasting your precious time advising them fine boy seekers...Most Abuja girls are plain silly
Fine boy seekers? Best to b with someone you happy with all round. Abi fine boys no be human being? Will aliens date them?
Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by Nobody: 4:01pm On Apr 03
morningstar55:

If you were only helping out...there shouldn't be regrets
Don't encourage such. No one wanna go into a relationship that will drain them instead of adding Value.

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Re: What Is The Biggest Lesson You Learnt From A Past Relationship? by morningstar55(m): 6:49pm On Apr 03
logan2:
never take women seriously, never treat a woman with specialty cool
You may be right

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