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Please does anyone know how to help? Admissions for fall are in august and the only date available for visa interview is October 4th. Is there anything that can be done or the admissions should be deferred? Someone is proposing paying an agent for a closer date.

@traware brother in life pick your battles. What you see would be difficult to explain to closed minds. Just let this slide. Too much shalaye is not needed those who understand power get your take. When someone can't see your perspective it's best you drop it.

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joeeee240:
I have white friends. NONE of them find her attractive. Nobody calls her attractive. Even online, hardly anyone calls her attractive

Also, She's WAY BELOW in beauty compared to the girls Andrew has

Body no be firewood haha. Stripped of everything money, intellect, physical health, sex and laid bare, a man must reach for his essence. Everything is ephemeral. Socrates said "Man know thy self"

Olayinka8793:
I know the world is unfair, but that unfairness gets even more pronounced and more brutal against people with disabilities like me.

For clarification, my disability is hearing loss in both ears, but I speak fluently and communicate by lip reading (not sign language). I work as a barber with my own salon.

If complete bodied men could suffer the consequences of simping, one wonders what the fate of disabled guys like me would be in the hands of these jezebellic daughters of Eve.

I have really suffered materially in my last two fake relationships.

I have followed the red pilled thread from the beginning (no jokes), taking in its enlightening truth and exposition to the brutal realities of the dating game, and not once was a sentence related to redpill truth was dedicated to the disabled guys out there. This thread seems to have a blantant assumption that all the men who comes across its truths are complete bodied and suffer no disability.

Much as I respect Ubunja, I resent him for not fulfilling his promise to delve into writing liberating redpill truths that focus on the disabled. Only thegidredpiller has taken his time to personally look into my matter, and his advice centered on working to continue to build and improve myself ( worthy advice but I need to get laid, body no be wood, but I haven't been so far able to get a bf to satisfy my desires, only demonic girls attracted to my money and dumping me without seeing their pants)

Please note that by mentioning disabled, I mean guys whose disabilities hasn't prevent them from living a normal productive life, not limited by their disabilities.

Dear Ubunja, does that greenlight, chosen stuff also applies to we disabled but productive guys? Because as your teaching says, chasing girls is a wrong approach that usually ends up in us getting used as we try to win her over.

Wow

Something in me has always loathed the idea and wonder why men craze for it. My head is my crown and only to be bowed down for my maker. Open to discussion though. Guys what's do you think ?

In all my interactions with women i keep two things in mind be open and non judgemental and women would tell you everything especially the truth and in all these interactions i have with women post wall and hoe phase the same conversations spring up. Yes we want a man who is financially ok but does he know his way around my sexuality a.k.a can he Bleep good. Today's women are willing to settle for the financial security but would cheat so as to meet their sexual demands. The sooner men start acquiring this knowledge rather than humping away thinking they are doing a great job the better. A man should be striving to improve all aspects of himself body, mind, soul and spirit. Why ignore your masculine sexuality and think money would replace such? Every aspect of your life needs constant improvement. So if as a man looking at LTR with a woman you shy away from your fitness, sexuality and focus on money then enjoy the repercussions. Cheers

Oshokhai69:
Guy make I give you honest advice wey go serve you well for life. Go and hustle while you are still young and comot eye for toto matter!

What shall it profit a man looking at a long term relationship with a woman(sexual being) to be ignorant of how to navigate her sexuality? Clearly you are naive and ignorant and think money solves all problems. Go ask frutatated married women whose husbands can't give them an organsm in 30+ years of marriage how they feel cheating on them. The women of this generation already have sexual experience way beyond your imagination and you would be lucky to get a virgin because demand far outweighs supply and majority of men would settle for what comes their way. My last response to you tho. @ubunja it would be nice for you write a piece on the stroke game. I would and so many guys here would love to have an exchange and discussion on it. If not here maybe on another thread. Peace

ubunja:
it won't work cause guys are afraid of talking about sex.

Wait men on here don't like discussing sex? Same thing women can't do without discussing amongst each other when they meet? Wow. I don't like fighting doesn't mean I wouldn't train like a boxer and watch a boxing match. Women from head to toe are sexual. Men know this and know peace.A man shouldn't be ignorant of anything no matter if he doesn't apply the knowledge.
@ubunja you could drop an after dark post for those interested.

it would be nice for guys here to share good stroke tips and methods. Staying longer and better diet for stamina bar drugs and aphrodisiacs @ubunja

Lucky Dube Lyrics "Women"
on Apple Music
"Women"

[Verse 1:]
Long ago today; when a man had a final word in the house oh oh
Now a day; women want to be men themselves oh oh
A man said one word she said four words
A man said five words she said anger word
If we done watch out we gone to be destroy by these women
Going down to Chicago men are crying there
In America it is the same
They all have one anger man to be that man

[Chorus:]
We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have (pulse for a second) equal rights

[Verse 2:]
Over my dead body will make tea for a woman
Over my dead body will wash clothes for a woman
Over my dead body will make tea for a woman yeah yeah
All these years we were proud of our young girlfriends
Cause they used to cooked like their mothers
Now a day they dreams like their fathers even more yeah yeah
Going down to Chicago, men are crying there
In America it is the same
They all have one anger man to be save

[Chorus:]
We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have (pulse for a second) equal rights

We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have (pulse for a second) equal rights

We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have equal rights
We want to be free and have (pulse for a second) equal rights

[Chorus: till fade]

CaveAdullam:
LoL!

I guess you all know that I'm more of the chosen theory than approaching. However, I do cold approach depending on my mood that day.

About three weeks ago, I'd approached a lady, what motivated me was her big a$$. (There are some a$$ God built in seven days bro. No jokes! LoL!). She was flowing with my vibes(she asked me "what I wanted from her" ) until her boyfriend called and told her he is no longer in the place he told her to come collect some funds---20K.

To cut the long story short, that disappoinment destroyed the already established rapport we had because from observation she was acting in way so that I will provide her the money. Her mood turned ugly, until I decided to leave her. (I missed that a$$ bro).

Lessons learnt:

1. That girl cried as a result of that disappoinment she had from her boyfriend. All her insinuations indicated she had a genuine desire for him even though she was flowing with my rapport.

2. Even though genuine desire, at the right time and right guy, genuine desire will creep into oblivion. How? I asked her how much is the money and she said "20k", and had it been I pay for sex, we would have negotiated and she will accept because her receptiveness to my approach was good. Too bad, we both knew our game.

3. I was the one pinning for her. Why? Because I was the one that approached her...this is where most guys miss it and do go extra miles to notch the woman by all means. Also, this is where approaching women becomes a sort of dilemma: you don't want to miss her by not approaching and even though she responds, you end up being eager and pinning for her. Abundance mindset here works because it makes you channel your heart to other women, but the higher the number of women, the higher your eagerness.

Anyway, she fell off my radar, and we both moved on.

Thanks.

PS: Ketapu, I'm also in the field too.

Being on this fence too. Checked out of the sexual market a very long time ago. A few days ago at the gym I saw this girl and my male nature kicked in. Naturally once I think about women, the whole process and drama that comes with them, I just shut down and tell myself it ain't worth it especially if she's not the one pining for you. I have always practiced and preached the chosen approach as far back even when the red pill hadn't been codified. So back to my experience I started to think should I cold approach this girl or just forget about the whole nonsense since she didn't come up to me. Then again something else came up to my mind bros it's being Years you approached a lady hope you are not doing it from a place of fear of rejection. I kept on thinking and the next day I actually walked up and had a conversation and did ask for a number and she did give me but it's been days I haven't sent a message. Why? I see the glorification women receive in today's world and I puke especially so called pretty women. I may and may not give drop her a message as my mind is playing tricks with me. All in all a man should always be ready to slam the brakes on a woman as soon as he detects nonsense.

Once again I sympathize with the men on this place because the seeds you sow would only germinate not in your life time but in centuries to come. Just how the prophets of old forsaw what was to come but got stoned to death by the ignorant majority. Stay strong comrades

A country like Nigeria has no business having men that simp, you are already below the food chain in terms of economics and race and all your focus is on spending your scarce resources pleasing a woman? The west might have lost it but their generation of fore fathers were resilient and built a society.

My fear for Nigeria is with the low level of development there is still a high level of no-thinking men and pussy worshippers who just wanna get layed, get married and repeat the process. The west might be crazy right now but with the stories I hear about married Nigerian men being the worst pussy worshippers and can do any and everything to get layed pls get the hell out of that place.

The excitement of Nigerian men to get married and birth children scares me. Then I ask again to what future do you want to give your children? No one is thinking of how to build that nation it's all sex, drugs and procreation on the minds of the upcoming adults.

Why can't the average Nigerian man seem to know how to enjoy himself without a woman's presence? I sympathize with the men on here because it's like being ahead of your time. It's sad how most men are practically useless without their wives or girlfriends and I am speaking not of young adults but also the older men. It's sad how man betrayed God for a woman and the men in this generation would gladly do it again and again.