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Politics / Re: Fuel Scarcity To Continue Till February 2016 - The Sun by Brytawon(m): 10:36am On Dec 21, 2015 |
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Sports / Guardiola Not Extending Stay - Ancelotti Named New FCB Coach by Brytawon(m): 12:19pm On Dec 20, 2015 |
Pep Guardiola (44) will not extend his contract with FC Bayern München. The German record champions’ new coach from 1 July 2016 will be Carlo Ancelotti. The 56-year-old Italian will receive a three-year contract expiring on 30 June 2019. FC Bayern München chairman Karl-Heinz Rummenigge commented: “We are grateful to Pep Guardiola for everything he has given our club since 2013. I am convinced that Pep and our team will now work even more intensively towards achieving our major sporting goals – especially as it is now confirmed that Pep is to leave FC Bayern.” “Carlo Ancelotti has enjoyed success everywhere as a coach and has won the Champions League three times,” continued Rummenigge. “Carlo is a calm, balanced expert, who knows how to deal with stars and favours a multifaceted style of play – we were looking for this, and we have found it. We are looking forward to working with him.” Carlo Ancelotti commented: “I am very honoured that I will be coach of the great club FC Bayern from next season.” source: www.fcbayern.de/en/news/news/2015/press-release-guardiola-not-extending-ancelotti-new-fcb-coach-201215.php |
Sports / Jose Mourinho Sacked As Chelsea Manager by Brytawon(m): 3:50pm On Dec 17, 2015 |
Chelsea have sacked manager Jose Mourinho seven months after he led them to the Premier League title. The 52-year-old Portuguese had been in his second spell at the club, taking charge in June 2013. Chelsea finished eight points clear last season and also won the League Cup, but have endured a terrible start to their defence, losing nine of their 16 league games so far. Mourinho's final match was Monday's 2-1 defeat at leaders Leicester City. Pep Guardiola, Guus Hiddink, Brendan Rodgers and Juande Ramos have all been touted as possible successors. Mourinho in the Premier League Season Managed Won Drew Lost Win % 2004/05 38 29 8 1 76.32 2005/06 38 29 4 5 76.32 2006/07 38 24 11 3 63.16 2007/08 6 3 2 1 50 2013/14 38 25 7 6 65.79 2014/15 38 26 9 3 68.42 2015/16 16 4 3 9 25 Mourinho's legacy He leaves with Chelsea just a point off the relegation zone and 20 points behind Leicester. Champions League qualification via one of the top four spots in the Premier League looks almost impossible. However, the Blues are through to the last 16 of European football's biggest club competition, where they will face French champions Paris St-Germain in February and March. Mourinho only signed a new four-year contract on 7 August and is Chelsea's most successful manager. He won three Premier League titles, two of those in his first spell between 2004 and 2007. The Portuguese has also won the FA Cup, in 2007, and the League Cup three times - in 2005, 2007 and 2015. Troubles on and off the pitch. It has not only gone wrong in the Premier League for Mourinho, he has also had his issues off the pitch. A 2-2 draw with Swansea on 8 August was overshadowed by a fallout with his medical team, in particular club doctor Eva Carneiro. Carneiro had her role downgraded after Mourinho said his medical staff were "naive" for running onto the pitch to treat attacking midfielder Eden Hazard. She eventually left on 22 September and is now taking legal action against Mourinho and the Blues. Mourinho also received a suspended stadium ban and £50,000 fine for claiming referees were "afraid" to award his team penalties in a 3-1 home loss to Southampton in October. He subsequently had to serve a one-match stadium ban and pay a £40,000 fine for his behaviour during a 2-1 defeat by West Ham, when he spoke to referee Jon Moss at half- time. What now for Mourinho? It is unlikely he will be out of management for long, given his record of success at Chelsea and other top European clubs. He guided Porto and Inter Milan to Champions League glory in 2004 and 2010 respectively, then led Real Madrid to the Spanish La Liga title in 2012. At 52, he is still some way from retirement age, but he has expressed a wish to coach the English and Portuguese national sides at some stage in his career. In fact, he claimed he turned down the chance to become England boss when Steve McClaren was sacked in 2007. Mourinho has a proven track record of bringing success over the short-term but doubts will remain over his ability to build a dynasty. Will that make his candidature less appealing to the kind of club he is used to managing, such as German giants Bayern Munich, rising French stars Paris St-Germain or Premier League duo Manchester United or Manchester City? What now for Chelsea? The Blues may be struggling at the wrong end of the Premier League table, but they are still in the Champions League and both domestic cups, while achieving European qualification is not impossible. The key for any new manager is improving the morale of a talented squad that has underachieved this season. Players such as Hazard, Diego Costa, Willian, and Oscar were key to Chelsea winning the league title but performances have fallen well below the heights they reached last year. After the 2-1 defeat by Leicester Mourinho said he felt his "work was betrayed" by his players, and midfielder Cesc Fabregas has said it is time for everyone to step up. "If you are a big player and paid like a big player, you must play like a big player and behave like a big player," said the Spain international. source: www.bbc.com/sport/football/34670192?ns_mchannel=social&ns_campaign=bbc_sport&ns_source=facebook&ns_linkname=sport |
Education / Re: Four Productive Things You Can Invest Your Time In As An Undergraduate by Brytawon(m): 10:43am On Dec 16, 2015 |
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Politics / BREAKING: EFCC Docks Dasuki, And Others, On Fresh Corruption Charges by Brytawon(m): 11:29am On Dec 15, 2015 |
The Economic and Financial Crimes Commission on Tuesday arraigned a former National Security Adviser, Sambo Dasuki; a former Minister of State for Finance, Bashir Yuguda; a former Sokoto State Governor, Attahiru Bafarawa; Mr. Bafarawa’s son, Sagir; and others on fresh charges bordering on money laundering and criminal breach of trust. The charges against all the accused persons are currently being read to them at Court 24 of the FCT High court, Abuja. We will serve details on the charges and proceedings in court in subsequent updates. The EFCC had on Monday charged Mr. Dasuki, a former Director of Finance at the Office of National Security Adviser, Shuaibu Salisu; a former General Manager at the Nigerian National Petroleum Corporation, Aminu Babakusa; Waripamowei Dudafa (now at large), a former Senior Special Assistant, Domestic Affairs to former President Goodluck Jonathan; and two firms, Acacia Holdings and Reliance Hospitals. They were docked at the Federal High Court Abuja on a 19-count charge bordering on money laundering and criminal breach of trust. source: www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/195212-breaking-efcc-docks-dasuki-yuguda-bafarawa-others-on-fresh-corruption-charges.html |
Sports / Re: NFF Pays U-23 Team $500,000, Each Player Gets $12,000 by Brytawon(m): 10:12am On Dec 15, 2015 |
Sports / Re: NFF Pays U-23 Team $500,000, Each Player Gets $12,000 by Brytawon(m): 9:57am On Dec 15, 2015 |
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Politics / Re: The Caliphate, The Emir And Nigeria’s Master Race (2), By Femi Fani-kayode by Brytawon(m): 9:34am On Dec 15, 2015 |
Here is the Part 1 of this write up
www.nairaland.com/2798760/caliphate-emir-nigerias-master-race#41018479 |
Politics / Re: The Caliphate, The Emir And Nigeria’s Master Race (part 1), By Femi Fani-kayode by Brytawon(m): 9:32am On Dec 15, 2015 |
Here is the Part 2 of this write up
www.nairaland.com/2801066/caliphate-emir-nigerias-master-race |
Politics / The Caliphate, The Emir And Nigeria’s Master Race (2), By Femi Fani-kayode by Brytawon(m): 1:43pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
Is it any wonder that my friend and brother, Governor Nasir El Rufai once warned the Nigerian military against what he considered to be their excesses in the fight against Boko Haram and told them that “anyone, whether soldier or otherwise, that kills a Fulani must consider it as a debt that will be repaid”? Is it any wonder that in 2001 some unscrupulous and irresponsible leaders in the core north invoked “political sharia” as a secret weapon in their attempt to discredit, destabilise and destroy President Olusegun Obasanjo, a southern Christian president? Is it any wonder that in 2001 President Muhammadu Buhari, a core northern muslim, said “what is the business of christians if we muslims chop off our limbs in the name of sharia”, and went further by saying that it is his intention and desire “to spread sharia all over the federation”. Is it any wonder that the same man said in 2014 that “an attack on Boko Haram is an attack on the North?” Is it any wonder that Governor Bello Masari of Katsina state said that there was a link between Boko Haram and the Fulani militants/herdsmen and that they both “kill people and rob them of their property”. Is it any wonder that virtually every single notable southern leader in our political history that has ever aligned with the North, including MKO Abiola, Ken Saro-Wiwa, Isaac Boro and many others who ended up secretly regretting it because after all their noble efforts of regional and ethnic bridge-building they ended up being cheated, insulted, marginalised, humiliated, maligned, misrepresented, used, dumped, jailed or killed? Worse still in the case of Saro- Wiwa, after he was hung acid was poured all over his body in order to remove any trace of him. Is it any wonder that Dr. Junaid Mohammed, one of the leading apostles of Northern hegemony, said that Nigerians should “let the Biafrans go” and that “they need Nigeria more than Nigeria needs them”? Is it any wonder that Chief Bola Ige of blessed memory once referred to the Fulani as “the Tutsis of Nigeria” and that Mohammed Yusuf, a leading core northern civil servant, once referred to the Tutsis as “the Fulani in diaspora?” Is it any wonder that virtually every single courageous, moderate, honest, liberal and truly progressive core northern leader, like Abubakar ‘Dangiwa’ Umar, Nuhu Ribadu, Kashim Ibrahim Imam, Halilu Akilu, Tanko Yakassai, Sule Lamido, Lawal Batagarawa and many others who sought to build bridges of peace and understanding with the South throughout their lives and careers – that insist and insisted on equity and fairness between the ethnic nationalities, that refused to describe their tribe as the “master race”, and resisted racial and religious bigotry, and that deplores injustice and wickedness and that stands up against the excesses of his own leaders and people is persecuted, viewed with suspicion, misrepresented and not allowed to achieve his full potentials by the deeply conservative and reactionary leaders of the ultra-conservative core North? The Bible tells us that “God works in mysterious ways, His wonders to perform”. When the misguided and ultra-conservative leaders of an ethnic nationality in a multi-cultural and multi- ethnic state pride themselves on building an empire, enslaving others, occupying their land and holding on to power by consistently using violence, religion, subterfuge, lies, deceit, manipulation and the shedding of blood, a terrible price has to be paid. God is not mocked and neither does He sleep. He will ask the murderer, where is your brother Abel and He will tell him that “his blood cries out to me from the ground for vengeance”. For those who doubt the veracity of my earlier assertion that every single core Northerner that has ever ruled this country has either died in office or been removed from power and detained for a number of years, permit me to enlighten you. Kindly note the fact that General Yakubu Gowon, General Ibrahim Babangida and General Abdulsalami Abubakar who were also Heads of State of Nigeria and who were also from the north were not core northerners but Middle Belters. That is what set them apart and made the difference. We are talking about core northern leaders here and the bitter and tragic end that each and everyone of them suffered after being Head of State, President or Prime Minister. Consider the following. Sir Tafawa Balewa who was the Prime Minister of Nigeria from 1960 till 1966 was from the core North and he was killed whilst in office. General Murtala Muhammed who was Head of State of Nigeria from 1975 till 1976 was from the core North and he was killed whilst in office. Alhaji Shehu Shagari who was President of Nigeria from 1979 till 1983 was from the core North and he was removed by a military coup d’etat whilst in office after which he was detained for two years during which he almost went blind. General Muhammadu Buhari who was Head of State of Nigeria from 1983 till 1985 was from the core North and he was removed in a military coup d’etat whilst in office after which he was detained for four years. General Sani Abacha who was Head of State from 1994 till 1998 was from the core North and he died under mysterious circumstances whilst in office. Alhaji Umaru Yar’adua who was President from 2007 till 2010 was from the core north and he died under mysterious circumstances whilst in office. No one deserves to be killed or to die in such mysterious circumstances and no one deserves to suffer incarceration unlawfully. I am saddened by what each and everyone of these respected leaders suffered and by what they were forced to go through. I deplore murder, violence, bloodshed and the unconstitutional removal of democratically-elected presidents and prime ministers. I do not relish what happened to any of them and neither do I endorse what befell them. However it is clear to me, as it ought to be clear to any discerning reader, that there is more to all this than meets the eye. It is not a coincidence. There is a clearly established pattern of sad and unfortunate events here that cannot be ignored or wished away and that must be critically examined. In short, there is clearly a bigger picture in all these and a concise message that many of us fail to appreciate, acknowledge or recognise. The bible says “he who lives by the sword shall die by the sword”. The efficacy of this spiritual truism and powerful scripture is better proved and exhibited in our country than perhaps any other. Today in Nigeria God is asking Cain “where is your brother Abel” and this time He must get an answer. Yet who precisely is Abel? The answer is simple and clear: Abel is Gideon Akaluka, the young man from Benue state who was dragged out of a Kano police station by a barbaric mob and whose head was cut off and placed on the end of a long pole for allegedly desecrating the Koran. Abel is the little Igbo girl who was ravaged by kwashikor and starved to death during the Nigerian civil war. Abel are the two young men who were shot to death in Enugu for marching against injustice, for demanding the release of their leader Nnamdi Kanu and for calling for the establishment of Biafra. Abel is the pastor whose church was burnt down, whose family was butchered and who was crucified at the alter by an irate mob of terrorists and Islamic fundamentalists in Borno state. Abel is the Muslim girl who was stoned to death for falling in love with a Christian boy and attempting to marry him in Zamfara state. Abel is the woman who was hacked to death with her children and thrown down a well by a mob of Muslim fanatics in Jos. Abel is the Kataf man that was castrated and chopped into pieces, the southern Kaduna girl who was burnt alive, and the Berom woman who was mutilated and raped to death by Fulani militants. Abel are the five young Igbo traders who were slaughtered in their shops for “not being able to recite the Koran” at Madala market in Niger State. Abel are the 105 brave young soldiers who were attacked with chemical weapons by Boko Haram in Borno State and who our government have refused to acknowledge or honour in death. Abel are the over 200 girls from Chibok, the 170 girls from Bam and the thousands of other young girls from all over the North who were abducted from their homes, schools and communities and who were raped, tortured, enslaved, maimed and murdered in cold blood by Boko Haram. Abel are the hundreds of thousands of Igbos who are always butchered whenever there is any conflict or dispute in the North. Abel are the 21 Shia Muslims who were blown to pieces in Kano by Boko Haram. Abel are the nine young Igbo martyrs shot to death by security forces during a peaceful IPOB march in Onitsha. Abel is the palm wine tapper who was cut to pieces in Delta State and the Royal Father who was hacked to death in Enugu by Fulani militants. Abel is the embattled community in Delta State who were forced to ban the Fulani militants and herdsmen from entering their land due to their consistent acts of rape, murder, terror and violence. Abel are the great souls that the leaders of the core North conspired to destroy by setting them up with trumped up and malicious criminal charges. These include Chief Obafemi Awolowo who was sent to prison for three years on the watch of Sir Tafawa Balewa and President Olusegun Obasanjo who was sent to prison for three years on the watch of General Sani Abacha. Abel is Colonel Emeka Odumegwu- Ojukwu who fought against the mass murder of his people, who protected his kith and kin from Cain’s genocide and who was driven into exile. Abel are the defenceless young Igbo boys and harmless old Igbo men who were rounded up in the town square in Asaba and executed by Nigerian troops. Abel are the 800 innocent souls, including eleven young youth corpers, who were butchered by President Buhari’s supporters in the core North after he lost the presidential election in 2011. Abel are the 350 teachers who were killed by Boko Haram in Borno state. Abel is every single one of the hundreds of thousands of innocent souls who were killed in sectarian violence and ethnic pogroms in Northern Nigeria over the last 55 years. Abel are the so-called wretched of the earth: the weak, the helpless, the voiceless and the downtrodden. Abel is the silent majority who have no voice to speak for themselves, who are not members of the so-called “master race”, who were not “born to rule” and who were cut short and sent to the great beyond before their time. For every nation and every evil seed comes a day of reckoning. In Nigeria we are almost there. It is just a matter of time. Until then Cain, the rejected of the Lord, shall remain rejected and Abel’s innocent blood shall continue to speak against him and his seed. The Lord God of Hosts, the Ancient of Days and the God of All Flesh is speaking and He is saying “let my people go”. The question is whether Cain is listening. Before I conclude this piece permit me to clarify one or two issues. It has been said that I am “anti-core North and anti- Fulani”, yet nothing could be further from the truth. The only thing that I am “anti” is injustice and wickedness. I would like to remind readers that one eighth of the blood that flows through my veins is Fulani and this derives from my maternal great grandmother who was a pure Fulani woman. I am very proud of that aspect of my ancestry and I am equally proud of my almost pure Yoruba bloodlines and heritage. I can hardly be described as a hater of the Fulani when I am partly Fulani myself. However if some believe that criticising the leadership of the Fulani and the atrocious and oftentimes irresponsible way that they have behaved over the last 55 years makes me “anti-Fulani”, then so be it. I would also like to remind my traducers that I was introduced into politics and given my first political appointment in 1992 by a highly respected and much- loved elder statesman who happens to be from the core North by the name of Alhaji Umaru Shinkafi, the Marafan Sokoto. Marafan is like a father to me and he is a man who I cherish. If I was “anti-Fulani” or “anti-core North”, this would not be the case and I would harbour no such affection for this great Nigerian. Again I have defended my friend and brother Colonel Sambo Dasuki, the former National Security Adviser, and resisted the ruthless persecution and misrepresentation that he has been subjected to by the Buhari administration, as much as anyone else over the last few months. This is because his human rights have been consistently violated and, despite the horrendous media trial that he and his associates have been subjected to, I believe that he is innocent of all the criminal charges proferred against him. Dasuki is not just a Fulani but he is a Fulani prince of royal blood and noble heritage. If I “hated” Fulanis I doubt that I would have bothered to stand by him. If I raise issues about the core North or the Fulani, it is because I believe that they can do far better, and I am of the view that they need to do a lot of soul- searching about their role and purpose in a wider Nigeria. If this country is to remain one then the tendency in the core North that honestly believes that the Fulani were “born to rule” must retrace their steps and think again. This point has been eloquently enunciated by Mr. Nnamdi Kanu’s IPOB, the OPC, MASSOB, Afenifere, the Yoruba Council of Elders, Ohaneze, the Ijaw National Congress, the Niger Delta militants and so many other ethnic nationalist and self-determination groups over the years, and who can blame them? Like President Thomas Jefferson, one of the founding fathers of the United States of America, said 210 years ago, “we prefer dangerous freedom over peaceful slavery”. Again like President Kwame Nkrumah of Ghana, the father of pan- Africanism, once proclaimed, “we reject the tranquility of servitude”. Again like Rev. Martin Luther King, the father of civil rights and African- American liberation once said “freedom is never voluntarily given by the oppressor: it must be demanded by the oppressed”. Again like Mr. Yinka Odumakin, the spokesman of Afenifere, said “methinks that it is Nigeria that is dead and that the quest for self-determination is very much alive”. The point is simple and clear: the days of “masters and slaves” or “horse and horse-rider” are long over in our nation. In today’s Nigeria every tribe, every ethnic nationality and every individual, no matter how big or small, must be treated with sensitivity, caution, dignity and respect and must be regarded as equals. If this fundamental principle is not respected and if we refuse to answer the ‘National Question’, I have no doubt that eventually this country will hit the rocks and will break into two or more pieces. Those who choose to misrepresent, misconstrue and misunderstand me may continue to do so if it makes them feel any better. Regardless of what they say I shall continue to stand up for the oppressed whether they be Christian or Muslim, northern or southern or whether they are Yoruba, Igbo, Fulani, Ijaw, Hausa, Edo, Isoko, Tiv, Idoma, Berom, Kanuri, Efik, Ibibio, Nupe, Shuwa Arab or anything else. As long as God gives me life and a strong voice I shall continue to speak the truth, I shall continue to educate others about our nation’s history, I shall continue to resist injustice and oppose evil and I shall continue to treat my detractors with the contempt and disdain that they deserve. Some may hate me for writing this piece and they may seek to discredit and destroy me because of it. This is because the truth hurts and they cannot bear to hear it. Let me assure them that my covenant with the Lord will not allow them to achieve their evil plans for me or mine. No weapon fashioned against me shall prosper and every tongue that rises against me stands condemned. The blood of Jesus speaks for me. The Lord is my shield, my glory and the lifter of my head. He alone gives me utterance, knowledge, wisdom and understanding. He alone gives me courage and strength. He alone do I fear. source: www.blogs.premiumtimesng.com/?p=169965 6 Likes 2 Shares |
Jokes Etc / Re: Arsenal Fans Praying For A Favourable UCL Draw (Hilarious Photo) by Brytawon(m): 12:29pm On Dec 14, 2015 |
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Family / 'I'm Childless! But, My Landlady Is Pregnant For My Husband!' by Brytawon(m): 11:26am On Dec 13, 2015 |
My name is Myra and I'm a very angry and bitter woman. And it's all thanks to the 'witch' called Hetty, my landlady. ********************************************************** Before the 'Jezebel', came into our lives, my husband CJ and I were doing just fine. We had been married for about eight years and though we did not have children, CJ was not too worried. "When the time comes, we will have children. God's time is the best," he often said anytime I grew anxious over our childless state. You know how our African society is. Once a couple gets married, people especially family members, friends, colleagues and other so called 'well-wishers' expect the woman to start popping out babies as quickly as possible. My husband's parents and other family members live far away from us and hardly visit so pressure from their end was not much. All the same, I never relented in my quest to have my own child. I fasted and prayed and cried to God to remember me. But the years went by and there was still no issue. Then about two years ago, we had to move to another apartment from where we were staying in Lagos due to problems with the landlord. He had increased the rent by over fifty percent without warning and threatened to eject any tenant who did not comply. My husband, who felt the new rent was too high for the flat decided we should move. So that's how we ended up in our new place. The house, made up of four flats is owned by Hetty who had inherited it from her parents. She lived in one of the flats downstairs with her two children, both teenagers. Hetty, who is in her late 30s, was said to be divorced or separated from her husband. When we moved in newly, the woman was so nice and helpful to us, always asking if we had any problems. She would invite us to her home and even cook for us. With time, we became very close. I thought in my naivety that she was just being nice. How did I know that she had designs on my husband! Anyway, I found out later that my husband was dating our landlady. It had been going on for months before I knew about it. You see, because of my job I'm hardly at home. My office is in Victoria Island so I leave home early and return home late as well. My husband is a business man so his schedule is more flexible than mine. There are days he does not go out at all, but stays at home and works on his computer and makes contacts on phone. Since the story came out about their affair, friends and other concerned well-wishers have told me that I should have been more careful, that I should not have allowed a woman like her, single and still quite young and pretty to get close to my husband. But what were they expecting me to do, tie a grown up like him up? He's mature enough to know right from wrong and that dating that woman is something he should not have done. ********************************************************** I found out about the affair from a neighbour who had been seeing them going out together and acting like lovers whenever I was at work. I confronted CJ and though he denied it initially, he finally owned up and confessed. He pleaded with me to forgive and forget that it was the 'work of the devil.' "What devil?" I countered furiously. "Instead of accepting responsibility for cheating on me with our landlady, you are blaming the devil!" I was very angry with him and I felt hurt too. What the woman has that I lacked, I wondered, weeping bitter tears. Ok, she was very pretty but I was not bad looking and was even younger than her. CJ promised to stop seeing the woman, also begging me not to go and fight her as we could be kicked out of the apartment. I loved my husband very much and he meant the world to me so I forgave him. Things went on as normal though I was more vigilant this time around. As for my landlady, she travelled with her children abroad for the summer holidays and I did not see her for some time. The children came back and resumed school but she stayed behind for a few more months. When she returned later, it was clear to even a blind man that she was pregnant. I did not think much of it and just ignored her as I had been doing since I found out she was sleeping with my husband. That was until CJ broke the terrible news to me, that he was responsible for her pregnancy! How could this have happened, was the first thought that entered my mind. I was, as expected devastated by the new development. Here was I, married to him for nearly eight years and yet to produce a child. Yet a clandestine affair with our landlady had resulted in a pregnancy. I became ill when I heard the news and had to take some time off from work. When my mother who lived near us heard what happened, she came to spend time with me. It was my mother and younger sister who came with her that went to my landlady's house and fought with her. Much as I hated the woman, I was not in support of physical combat and told my mother to leave her alone. The damage had been done and fighting her would not solve anything, I reasoned. ********************************************************** It was my husband that I was more worried about. He had become so happy since Hetty announced she was pregnant for him. "Finally, I will be a father," he had stated with obvious pride the day he broke the news to me. When I recovered, I called him one day that due to the situation of things, I no longer felt comfortable living in the same compound with the landlady, that we had to move. To my shock, CJ was vehemently opposed to my suggestion, insisting there was no need to relocate. "Hetty will soon put to bed and as the father of the baby, I need to be around to look after them," he said. I was not ready to give in and I gave him an ultimatum: it's either we left or he should forget about me and our marriage. I told him I was not ready to share my man with any woman, least of all that conniving landlady of ours. "I can't stay here anymore. Seeing that woman every day with her big, protruding tummy drives me crazy. I need to get away for my own sanity and peace of mind," I said. That was when he told me that I could do whatever I wanted, that he was not ready to go anywhere. "I'm going nowhere. We just moved here so why would we be moving so soon? Learn to adjust to the situation or ..." he rejoined. Since I'm not ready to adjust, I have begun making alternative plans. My younger sister, who has her own apartment in town, has suggested I move in with her until CJ comes to his senses. I don't know what will happen to my marriage when I leave. I still love my husband and I know he cares about me too, but that woman seems to have cast a spell or used 'love charm' on him or something. I need to get away before I lose my mind with worry and stress. I don't know if I have taken the right decision or not. But I need some space right now before I lose my mind or even die prematurely from all the trouble my husband and his mistress have caused me... THE END! Names have been changed to protect the identity of the narrator and other individuals in the story. source: www.truelifestoriesng..com.ng/2015/12/im-childless-but-my-landlady-is.html?m=1 4 Likes 1 Share |
Politics / The Caliphate, The Emir And Nigeria’s Master Race (part 1), By Femi Fani-kayode by Brytawon(m): 10:47am On Dec 13, 2015 |
“Do not call a conspiracy what these people call a conspiracy, neither fear ye their fear but sanctify the Lord your God in your heart and Let Him be your only fear”- Isaiah 8:12 In an essay titled “Afenifere: A Syllabus Of Errors” which was written in 1998 and published in Gamji.com, Emir Sanusi Lamido Sanusi wrote the following: “Anyone who needs a lesson in how not to be a politician, and how never to win power in Nigeria should study Yoruba politicians. Unless the Yoruba masses disown Afenifere, this group of degree-bearing political illiterates will lead Yoruba land down its own version of a syllabus of errors, an island unto themselves, hallucinating in their own idiocy and content to remain marginalised citizens in their own country while blaming the North for their self–inflicted woes. The syllabus of errors remains a black spot on the history of the Catholic Church. Afenifere will be an even blacker spot on the political history of the Yoruba. Alhaji Umaru Shinkafi’s pedigree speaks mountains of what his political stance would be ab initio. He probably believes, like other Fulani politicians, that the problems of this country have a lot to do with the shift in power away from the Fulani to individuals like Babangida and Abacha, products of “lower cultures”. The Fulani of the North, proud of the history of the Caliphate, remain proud of the roles played by Fulani leaders of the political and military establishment in Nigeria – Ahmadu Bello, Murtala Mohammed, Aminu Kano, Shehu Yar’Adua, Shehu Shagari, Jubril Aminu. They are sad that other Nigerians do not know the difference in ethnic background between say, Murtala Mohammed and Ibrahim Babangida. They do not understand how a man like Abacha, born to a cigarette-seller in Fagge quarters of Kano (and this speaks mountains of him, how he ruled and how he died) can be taken as the quintessential representative of the Caliphate whose head he disgraced and whose culture and values he sought to erode. So Shinkafi probably believes in the need for a power-shift: Back to the Fulani. He may not be alone in this tendency. Politicians like Mahmud Waziri, Bamanga Tukur, Jubril Aminu, even M. D. Yusufu may consciously or unconsciously have similar views. To the Fulani, there is nothing like ceding the presidency or power. If you want it, you work for it…If you lack the stomach to dig in and fight, too bad for you. Southern politicians have always failed to understand the complexity of the North and its politics”. These are interesting words from an interesting Fulani man. The disdain and sheer contempt that Emir Sanusi harbours for non-Fulanis and southerners and for Afenifere and the yoruba people, in particular, remains intact till today. His assertion that “southern politicians have always failed to understand the complexity of the North” is false. I am making this intervention not out of hate but out of love and compassion for those that have lost their lives at the hands of our adversaries over the last 55 years. I am also mindful of the fact that every single person that is a member of the ruling class or that has held a position of leadership in this country between 1960 and today, including yours truly, has to take partial responsibility for the terrible things that our people have experienced over the years… Despite the fact that we southerners understand the nature of core Northern politicians and leaders very well, we have always chosen to hold our peace, condone their excesses, carry their baggage and accept their strange ways and complicated peculiarities in the name of national unity. The truth is that it is Emir Sanusi and his Fulani people that have misunderstood southerners all along. We in the south may be accommodating, tolerant and generous people but our kindness and liberal nature must never be mistaken for stupidity or weakness. That is the mistake that people like Sanusi often make with their racist views and condescending words. He forgets that the culture and history of most of the southern empires and kingdoms predates that of the Fulani caliphate by hundreds of years. 17 years after Sanusi wrote this piece about Southerners I have decided to respond to him by sharing my views about the core North and its Fulani leaders. This is especially so because we have a hardline Fulani conservative at the helm of affairs in our country today. Sanusi wrote his views about the South in 1998 when his fellow Northerner was Head of State but I choose to write my views about the North, not when my fellow Southerner is in power, but rather when a Northerner is President. I have not taken offence at Emir Sanusi’s views about Southerners and I sincerely hope that he and his people will not take offence at my views about core Northerners. This article will not only be deemed as being controversial but its contents will also be keenly contested and scrutinised. This is because I am going to express some home truths here which the majority of our people know to be true but few are prepared to voice. I am making this intervention not out of hate but out of love and compassion for those that have lost their lives at the hands of our adversaries over the last 55 years. I am also mindful of the fact that every single person that is a member of the ruling class or that has held a position of leadership in this country between 1960 and today, including yours truly, has to take partial responsibility for the terrible things that our people have experienced over the years, for the criminal negligence that we have all indulged in, for the shameful conspiracy of silence that we appear to relish and for the abysmal and pitiable situation that we have found ourselves in as a people and as a nation. Those of us who are members of the ruling elite are all, in varying degrees, guilty and it is to partly ameliorate that sense of guilt that I feel constrained to speak out and expose the truth. I am not a racist or tribalist. I deplore violence and bloodshed. I have no hate in me for any individual or ethnic group and I am a firm believer in the view that all men are equal before God regardless of the circumstances of their birth, their creed, their tribe, their nationality or the colour of their skin. Whilst I hold these truths to be self-evident, I also believe that it is incumbent upon those of us who lay claim to being leaders to always speak the truth about the history and unfolding events in our country, no matter how uncomfortable that truth may be. We owe it to ourselves, to posterity and to God to do so. Let it be said many years from now after we are all long departed that within the madness and cacophony of national anguish, servitude and pain and during the course of the brutal and systemic suppression of the freedom and will of a cheated and broken people, there were at least a few voices that were courageous enough to call a spade and spade and to warn about the grave dangers and consequences of ignoring the injustice and wickedness that has thrived in our country from time immemorial and from generation to generation. Despite all the insults, threats, misrepresentation and, oftentimes, slanderous and utterly bizarre allegations that I, my family and my loved ones have been subjected to over the years from ignorant, venal and hate- filled men, I shall be counted among those few voices. If nothing else, that is good enough for me and with that alone I would have made a meaningful contribution to my nation’s history and done my forefathers proud. It is with this in mind that I urge readers to fasten their seat belts and consider the following contribution. Sinister forces and dark elements from the deeply conservative core north have killed more Middle Belters and Southerners than any other in our country over the last 55 years. Worse still, those sinister forces do not just kill but they also establish their own communities in the land and territory of their victims and forcefully occupy it. When Cain killed his brother Abel the bible tells us that God asked him the following question: he asked “where is thy brother Abel?” Cain responded in a defiant manner by asking God the following question in return: he asked “am I my brothers keeper?” God responded by telling Cain that his brothers blood was crying to Him from the ground for vengeance. From that point Cain was afflicted with a terrible curse which could not be lifted because it came from the Living God. Wherever he went, the curse that goes with shedding his brother’s innocent blood followed him. This was made worse by the fact that he refused to repent or show any remorse for what he had done. Everything that he did failed and everywhere he went he was despised, rejected, feared, hated and viewed with suspicion by his compatriots, colleagues and fellow men. Tragedy and misfortune stalked him and he ended up being nothing but a vagabond, a marauder, a parasite and a wanderer in foreign lands. He became a byword and a proverb: a herder of goats and cattle who lived and survived by guile, doublespeak, stealing, pillaging and intimidating others. He became the proverbial leech who made a headway in life only by benefiting from the sweat, labour and hard work of his hosts and benefactors, by sponging off whichever community gave him succour and by resorting to violence and bloodshed at the slightest opportunity and at the drop of a hat. He also acquired an obsession with controlling others and an insatiable lust for power and the perpetual domination, suppression and conquest of what he perceived as “lesser tribes and lesser people”. Simply put he was a dangerous predator who sought to milk others dry and conquer by guile and assimilation. There are comparisons to be made with Nigeria here. Sinister forces and dark elements from the deeply conservative core north have killed more Middle Belters and Southerners than any other in our country over the last 55 years. Worse still, those sinister forces do not just kill but they also establish their own communities in the land and territory of their victims and forcefully occupy it. They have refused to stop doing so and, to all intents and purposes, they have developed an insatiable blood lust which compels them to shed innocent blood at the slightest whim in order to subjugate others and to remain in power. The South, whom our British colonial masters once referred to as the “rich wife”, has effectively become the Abel of Nigeria whilst the conservative core North, whom they once called the “poor husband”, has now become the Cain. For many years the Lord has been asking the core North what they have done to their Southern and Middle Belt brothers and why they keep doing it. For years the conservative core North has responded with defiance and anger and asked God “am I my brother’s keeper?” The result of this open defiance and lack of remorse is simple and clear: it has attracted Gods wrath. Is it any wonder that Boko Haram now ravages the core North? Is it any wonder that every single core Northern leader that has ever ruled Nigeria since 1960 has either been killed or died in mysterious circumstances whilst on the throne or was removed in a military coup and then subjected to a number of years in detention? Is it any wonder that the core North is totally dependent on the rest of the country for its sustenance and economic survival? Is it any wonder that a UNICEF report which was released a few years ago stated that if Nigeria were to ever break up that the core North would be the most impoverished, the most backward, the most unsustainable and the most barren area in the whole of the West African sub-region? Is it any wonder that they were viewed with so much suspicion by others that the core northern states were excised from the country by Major Gideon Orkar in his 1991 coup broadcast and asked to re-apply if they wanted to be part of Nigeria again? Nigeria’s Boko Haram is now officially the world’s most deadly terrorist organisation whilst what they have described as “the Fulani militants” (aka Nigeria’s Fulani herdsmen) are number four. Is it any wonder that according to the same Global Terror Index report Nigeria is now the “third most terrorised nation in the world”, whilst Iraq and Afghanistan remain the first and second and Syria and Pakistan remain the fourth and fifth respectively? Given this, is it any wonder that there are loud and increasingly persistent calls for self-determination in Southern Nigeria? Is it any wonder that the leading South-Western politician within the ruling All Peoples Congress (APC) is secretly complaining and quietly lamenting the fact that he was used in the 2015 elections by the core North simply to put one of their own back in power so that their hegemony could be resurrected and their agenda of perpetual and everlasting Northern rule could be established forever? Is it any wonder that according to a survey carried out this year by Global Terror Index , which was published in the United Kingdom’s Independent newspaper, that two of the four most deadly terrorist organisations in the world today are based in core northern Nigeria and are led, funded, peopled and inspired by core Northern Nigerians? According to the report, Nigeria’s Boko Haram is now officially the world’s most deadly terrorist organisation whilst what they have described as “the Fulani militants” (aka Nigeria’s Fulani herdsmen) are number four. Is it any wonder that according to the same Global Terror Index report Nigeria is now the “third most terrorised nation in the world”, whilst Iraq and Afghanistan remain the first and second and Syria and Pakistan remain the fourth and fifth respectively? Given this, is it any wonder that there are loud and increasingly persistent calls for self-determination in Southern Nigeria? Is it any wonder that the core North is ravaged by poverty, disease, violence, strife, conflict, stagnation and bareness more than anywhere else in our country? Is it any wonder that according to a 2015 UNICEF report Nigeria has the “highest number of child brides on the African continent”, with no less than 23 million child brides in the North? Is it any wonder that according to the World Health Organisation Northern Nigeria has the “highest number of young girls in the world suffering from vagina vesicovaginal fistula (VVF)”, a disease which comes as a consequence of sexual intercourse with young underage girls. Is it any wonder that the core north is afflicted with a self-serving and calculating ultra-conservative ruling elite who keep their own people in perpetual subjugation, darkness and bondage and who come from a distant foreign land called Fouta Jallon in modern-day Guinea? Is it any wonder that most core Northerners name themselves after the towns and villages that they were born and raised in rather than after their families and forefathers? Is it any wonder that we have a nomadic core Northern President who finds it difficult to stay at home? Is it any wonder that a colourful personality from one of the core northern states, who later became a respected traditional ruler, was an Islamic fundamentalist in his youth, was incarcerated for two years for being a radical jihadist, and was one of those that inspired and orchestrated the murder of Gideon Akaluka for “desecrating the Koran”. Is it any wonder that a core northern Nigerian by the name of Omar Farouk Abdul Mutallab, the notorious “underwear bomber” who tried to blow up an American airliner that was filled with passengers in Detroit, told the FBI that his “most trusted mentor” and “favourite uncle” was a well-known and leading core northern leader? Is it any wonder that Bishop Matthew Hassan Kukah, one of the most respected Northern voices in the country, recently said “the northern Muslim elite laid the foundation for Boko Haram”? source: www.blogs.premiumtimesng.com/?p=169949 1 Like |
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Sports / Re: Nigeria Vs Algeria CAF U23 Championship Finals (2 - 1) On 12th December 2015 by Brytawon(m): 5:24am On Dec 13, 2015 |
TimothyNkenu: It's called marginalization not racism. Discrimination from the same race is called MARGINALIZATION while discrimination from different race is called RACISM. 1 Like |
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So I just found something I wrote in the past. I drew a little inspiration from Francine Rivers. I called it Love and Faith. 'Love one another' Jesus said. Sometimes it takes more than eternity to learn how. Sometimes it takes reaching the height of frustration or the depths of depression to look up to love. Sometimes it takes hitting rock bottoms to release yourself to be lifted from the more to stand on a firm foundation. Sometimes it takes a child, lost but laughing, hopeless but happy, weak but willing, to remember how. Sometimes it takes the heart of a child, even though deeply hurt, abused and harassed to learn how. Sometimes it takes another child, sick, forsaken, deserted, but yet so joyous to remember that love resides everywhere. Many times we tend to forget that our lives are controlled by one driving force: Love. We forget to love others, because we want all the love to ourselves. So unlike Jesus. We move on only cause of God's Love. Faith: Our substance of living. We let go of it cause we have lost all hope. Think about a woman in her menopause still hoping for a child. A broke student going out with their ATM and looking at their phone, waiting for an alert. A12year old pressing her clothes to go back to boarding school for her next session even though Daddy lost his Job five months ago. Now that's faith. Keep faith, nurture it, let it grow. Watch what can happen when you do. Faith lights the way but love will keep us on the right path. God will make a way, He always does. |
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It seems like the father Christmas is finding it hard to breathe.... |
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For some past few times, I've sat down and read all you guys comments and I deliberately refused to respond and I'll continue to do so. LVG is not the right man, I agree but true patriotism is not in you guys analysis. THANK YOU! |
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I just couldn't help myself with laughter after seeing the expression on those mens' faces with the caption. Lalasticlala please help put a smile on my fellow NLers' faces.
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