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God still loves you!

Wed, 30 Jul 2025

‘I have loved you with an everlasting love;’ Jeremiah 31:3

American pastor Dr Gerald Mann writes: ‘Moralisers are faithful to remind us that King David’s life was all downhill after Bathsheba-gate. They list the litany of his woes: the baby of the illicit union died. He never recovered his moral stature. His sons fought over succession. One of them was beheaded for trying to dethrone him. God deprived him of his grandest dream: building the Temple—too much blood on his hands! But take another look at the story. The opening words of the book of Proverbs silence such sanctimony: ‘The proverbs of Solomon the son of David, king of Israel’ (Proverbs 1:1 KJV). Solomon, the fountain of God’s wisdom, sprang from two people who had adulterated their person and privilege. For all of David’s heroic feats: giant-killing, kingdom-consolidating, hymn-writing, his single greatest achievement was the son of his old-age. Solomon is a monument of contradiction to all the naysaying moralists of the ages. Where else did Solomon get his insight, far-sight, and foresight, but at the knees of two broken souls mended by the fires of forgiveness and given the grace of a second chance … You can begin again after your Bathsheba-gate!’

The Bible warns us about the consequences of sin because anything that has the power to hurt you concerns the God who loves you and wants only the best for you. When you wilfully sin, God won’t let you off, but neither will He let you go! And God’s love for you has no expiration date. He said, ‘… "Yes, I have loved you with an everlasting love; Therefore with lovingkindness I have drawn you”’ (Jeremiah 31:3 NKJV). The truth is, God still loves you!

Now the infamous Coldplay will be famous with Messi....

The need for connectedness

Tue, 29 Jul 2025

‘Being rooted and established in love,’ Ephesians 3:17

Unfortunately, the word fellowship has come to be associated with awkward gatherings in church basements, drinking red punch, and participating in stilted conversations. No wonder people give up on it! Paul describes connectedness as ‘being rooted and established in love’. When a tree puts roots into the ground, it takes in nutrients and water, and the tree grows and has life, but only if it’s rooted. In the same way, we’re rooted, and our souls are nourished in the love of God—and other people. We experience this physically and emotionally when we connect with somebody. When there is an exchange of genuine caring, the roots of your soul get fed. We flourish when we’re connected with God and people, and we languish when we’re disconnected. Emotionally isolated people are more prone to depression, anxiety, loneliness, low self-esteem, substance abuse, sexual addiction, and difficulty eating and sleeping.

One behavioural expert writes: ‘Connection not only helped make us who we are … it helps determine who we become as individuals … In both cases, human connections, mental health, psychological health, and emotional well-being are inextricably linked.’ Even animals that are isolated experience more intensive arterial sclerosis. One author writes, ‘A friend of mine used to have a dog and a cat that fought for ten years. Then the cat died … and the dog wouldn’t eat. Six weeks later he died.’ That’s just a small illustration of the power of connection. This doesn’t mean you have to force yourself to become an extrovert. Some of the shyest people have the deepest friendships because they identify life-giving relationships, plug into them, thrive, and give back. And that’s what God designed you to do too.

Ambitious21:
The real snake killed snake

God is wonderful

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I love the ending of your statement. I will copy it someday.

When you feel blah

Mon, 28 Jul 2025

‘Where there is no vision, the people perish;’ Proverbs 29:18

The word ‘perish’ conjures up images of deterioration and decay, like fruit rotting from within. On what specific day does passion leave a marriage or a worker lose interest in a job that once excited them? Like air leaking silently out of a tyre, what was meant to carry our weight and to power us towards our destiny can now barely wobble. If that’s how you’re feeling now, read this promise, and let it take root within you: ‘He gives power to the weak, and to those who have no might He increases strength. Even the youths shall faint and be weary, and the young men shall utterly fall, but those who wait on the LORD Shall renew their strength; They shall mount up with wings like eagles, They shall run and not be weary, They shall walk and not faint’ (Isaiah 40:29-31 NKJV).

The great apostle Paul told his admirers, ‘… We too are only human, like you. …’ (Acts 14:15 NIV). We are all made of the same flawed material. That’s why we need God’s strength and mercy newly bestowed on us each day (see Lamentations 3:22-23). So, what should you do when you’re feeling blah? Two things. First, if you’re physically tired – rest. Second, think about how God’s family works and stop isolating. The Bible says, ‘Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ’ (Galatians 6:2 NIV). The fact is, you have given to others in times past, now have the grace and humility to receive from them. Reach out. Use your connections. Start reading God’s Word. Listen to uplifting music and fill your space with praise. When you do these things, your focus will change, and your faith will start to rise.

Lol...😂😂😂. Well, let's wait ans see how things unfold in the weeks to come.

What a country we are in? What a law enforcer? How did we get here?

Are you in a stress mess?

Sun, 27 Jul 2025

‘What you are doing is not good. You … will only wear yourselves out.’ Exodus 18:17-18

The Bible says: ‘The next day Moses took his seat to serve as judge for the people, and they stood around him from morning till evening. When his father-in-law saw all that Moses was doing for the people, he said, “What is this you are doing for the people? Why do you alone sit as judge, while all these people stand around you from morning till evening?” Moses answered him, “Because the people come to me to seek God’s will. Whenever they have a dispute, it is brought to me, and I decide between the parties and inform them of God’s decrees and instructions.” Moses’ father-in-law replied, “What you are doing is not good. You and these people who come to you will only wear yourselves out. The work is too heavy for you; you cannot handle it alone”’ (Exodus 18:13-18 NIV). Moses was stressed to the breaking point.

The Latin word for ‘stress’ means ‘to be drawn tight’. Doctors say it’s a precursor to heart attacks and strokes. There is a reason why roads have weighbridges—to ensure that lorries aren’t carrying more weight than they are constructed to haul. Moses’ father-in-law told him that he was wearing himself out. The Hebrew word for ‘wearing out’ literally means ‘to become old’. Moses was growing old before his time. If that’s happening to you, 1) shift gears and start to share the load with others, and 2) spend more time in God’s presence. ‘But those who wait on the Lord shall renew their strength … they shall walk and not faint’ (Isaiah 40:31 NKJV).

Imagine who is talking? 🤣🤣🤣......this David Mark that cannot share none of his ill gotten naira with anyone in Otukpo? The day I leart that he was from that area..... I wept for his clan. Too greedy a man.

.......just learn to be patience. When those gender starts their wahala, it's only God's grace oooo

timilehin007:
So we in Ipaja, Estate are safe abi..? 😒😒

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When God asks you to give

Sat, 26 Jul 2025

‘The Lord will reward each one for whatever good they do,’ Ephesians 6:8

When God asks you to sacrifice on behalf of somebody else, do it. It’s like putting money in a heavenly account. You may not need it today or tomorrow, but when you do, God will ensure it comes back to you in multiplied form. Indian Christian missionary Sadhu Sundar Singh and a companion were travelling through a pass high in the Himalayas when they found a body lying in the snow. They checked for vital signs and discovered the man was still alive, but barely. He had a broken leg and could not walk. As Sundar prepared to stop and help this unfortunate traveller, his companion objected, saying, ‘We shall lose our lives if we burden ourselves with him.’ Sundar, however, couldn’t comprehend leaving the man to die in the snow without an attempt at rescue. His companion bade him farewell and walked on.

Sundar lifted the traveller on his back and, with great exertion—made greater by the high altitude and snowy conditions—carried him onwards. As he walked, the heat from his body began to warm the frozen man, and also keep Sundar’s body warm. Before long, they came upon another traveller’s body lying in the snow, and on closer inspection, they discovered he was dead. You guessed it. It was Sundar’s original travelling companion! So, what’s the lesson in all this? What you make happen for others, God will make happen for you! The Bible says, ‘Serve wholeheartedly, as if you were serving the Lord, not people, because you know the Lord will reward each one for whatever good they do, …’ (Ephesians 6:7-8 NIV).

We at White House down to Command go hear it niyen oooo 🤔

Trouble no dey finish for this world. God save the world

Compassion begins with the word ‘notice’

Fri, 25 Jul 2025

‘When Joseph saw them the next morning, he noticed that they both looked upset.’ Genesis 40:6

Joseph was serving a prison sentence for a crime he didn’t commit, which makes it remarkable that he had the time and energy to care about anybody else. ‘… Pharaoh’s chief cupbearer and chief baker offended their royal master … and he put them in prison where Joseph was, … Joseph … noticed that they both looked upset. “Why do you look so worried today?” he asked them. And they replied, “We both had dreams last night, but no one can tell us what they mean” …’ (Genesis 40:1, 3, 6-8 NLT). Joseph interpreted their dreams, and as a result, the cupbearer got his job back in Pharaoh’s palace.

When Pharaoh had a dream no one could interpret, the cupbearer introduced him to Joseph, who interpreted his dream. As a result, Joseph became prime minister of Egypt and was positioned to save his family from extinction. But there is more to the story. From the family Joseph saved came the Redeemer of the world who saved you. This amazing chain of events begins with two words, ‘Joseph noticed.’ Remember the dying man on the Jericho Road? ‘Now by chance a certain priest came down that road. And when he saw him, he passed by on the other side … But a certain Samaritan, as he journeyed, came to where he was. And when he saw him, he had compassion. So, he went to him and bandaged his wounds, pouring on oil and wine; and he set him on his own animal, brought him to an inn, and took care of him’ (Luke 10:31, 33-34 NKJV). Jesus ends His parable with these words: ‘… “Go and do likewise”’ (Luke 10:37 NKJV). So, ask God to help you ‘notice’ and for the grace to respond.

..... this your pot, how many mouth it will feed? Meat nko?

Maybe Ivory Coast. 🤔....but you need to speak French wella

iwaeda:
Once I entered plane, the first thing I do is to confess my sins and commit my soul unto the Lord's hands. The remaing time,depending on duration, sleep and watch latest films, especially on Emirates, watch live games and news. KLM and Air France, same, but Lufthansa, no comments.

lol.....why no comment on Lufthansa? My maiden first airline out Nigeria in 1993. Then, them and Swiss Air clean die.

Dealing with relationship issues (2)

Thu, 24 Jul 2025

‘Do two walk together unless they have agreed to do so?’ Amos 3:3

Relationships are built on mutual trust—and trust is based on speaking the truth. But there are ways of speaking the truth that help and ways that hurt. The ‘give-them-a-piece-of-my-mind’ approach just drives the wedge deeper. Then there is the Bible way: ‘Instead, speaking the truth in love, we will grow …’ (Ephesians 4:15 NIV). Let’s suppose a couple fights because he is habitually late. How can she make sure her message gets across? Well, she could say to him:

a) ‘I feel frustrated.’ No blame, no attack; just an honest sharing of how she feels. b) ‘When you are late …’ No judging, name-calling, or labelling; just a description of how she sees his action. c) ‘It seems to say to me that my time isn’t really important to you.’ No moralising; just honestly sharing her emotions. d) ‘In the future, can you please try to be on time or call me and let me know when you will be here?’ Instead of focusing on past actions he can’t change, she is telling him what she would like him to do differently next time. e) ‘Would you be willing to do that for me?’ No demanding or taking for granted; just asking for consideration and cooperation. And when he agrees, they have an implied ‘contract’. She thanks him sincerely and rewards every effort he makes to keep his word. In effect, she has just realigned the relationship by making him an ally instead of an adversary. She has also redefined the focus as a shared one, not something she ‘does to him’! Like the Bible says, we can ‘walk together’ when we have ‘agreed to do so’.

What I was talking about this morning on one of the other topics. It is well

Nazgul:
A priestess

oh, Okay.

Thanks.

For me there's nothing wrong in marrying one. Especially if she is been truthful with her spiritual work. Mind you, before both Christianity and Islamic arrived Nigeria. Our forefathers did not play with tradition. A lot of pastors this days can even be more wicked than the traditionalist.

My take.

What's the meaning of Ezenwanyi? 🤔

Not surprised. Half of the country's wealth is in the pockets of the politicians. They kept on flirting with all the political parties. Moving from one party to another. All their ill gotten wealth, they cannot use it to drive the economy of Nigeria. Imagine if we have like 20 Dangote (sincerely investing in Nigeria) things will get better. But all of them are just using our national wealth to enrich themselves. To be honest, I think the British needs to come and re-colonise us again. Things aren't getting better at all. No stable electricity nearly 70 years of independent. Security in the country is -0. Economy is in shambles. Corruption is the order of the day. Come to FCID, Alaagbon and see how corruption is eating all our men in black. It's such a business center. Men in black are so interested in your bail funds than solving the cases itself. It was such a pity what I witnessed there 😭. Truly, this country can't be rule together again. It's dishearten.

Dealing with relationship issues (1)

Wed, 23 Jul 2025

‘But if you bite and devour one another, watch out, or you will be consumed by one another.’ Galatians 5:15

Every worthwhile relationship can experience problems. With that in mind, it’s important to recognise this:

1) Problems are inevitable, normal, and potentially beneficial. They’re inevitable because relationships bring together very different people. They’re normal because all relationships, including great ones, go through ups and downs. And they’re potentially beneficial because, handled effectively, the relationship can grow through problems. 2) Generally speaking, there are three problem-solving styles. a) The avoid style. These are the ‘don’t-rock-the-boat’ kind of people. They bury their feelings without realising those feelings will undoubtedly rise again down the road. They go from clam up, to build up, to blow up, inviting mental, emotional, and physical side effects. Meanwhile, the problem keeps growing, and the unfinished business erodes the relationship. b) The attack style. These are the ‘get-them-before-they-get-you’ people. They’re fighters who refuse to concede, so they inflict wounds on each other, wounds from which it can be hard to recover. The Bible says, ‘But if you bite and devour one another, watch out, or you will be consumed by one another’ (Galatians 5:15 CSB). Why? Because attack begets counterattack, and nothing gets resolved. c) The approach/assert style. These are the ‘no-price-is-too-high-to-maintain-a-good relationship’ people. They’re sensitive to other people’s feelings while insisting that both parties deal directly with the important issues. They avoid blame fixing, attack the issue instead of the individual, and invite others to partner with them in solving the problem and strengthening the relationship. Try it—it works!

Being energised by the work of God

Tue, 22 Jul 2025

‘“My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of Him who sent Me and to finish His work.”’ John 4:34

No one had more energy than Jesus. He got up early, stayed up late, and sometimes pulled all-nighters. Where did He get all that energy from? The answer is found in a fascinating dialogue. ‘… His disciples urged Him, “Rabbi, eat something.” But He said to them, “I have food to eat that you know nothing about.” Then His disciples said to each other, “Could someone have brought Him food?” “My food,” said Jesus, “is to do the will of Him who sent Me and to finish His work”’ (John 4:31-34 NIV).

When you see the word ‘food’, you think energy because that’s what food is. And Jesus makes an insightful point here: God’s will is energising. So, how do you keep yourself energised? By staying in the will of God. Engaging in God-ordained passions and pursuing God-sized dreams is how we produce energy. Nothing energises us more. Don’t just repent of doing what is wrong; replace it with what is right. Paul writes: ‘Therefore, my dear brothers and sisters, stand firm. Let nothing move you. Always give yourselves fully to the work of the Lord, because you know that your labour in the Lord is not in vain’ (1 Corinthians 15:58 NIV). If sin is a waste of energy, which it is, then discovering and fulfilling your God-given assignment in life is the most energising thing that you can do.

sagitariusbaby:
This to me looks like a set-up gift to me. We all know Dangote and his style of business, he is never for the people, not once has he ever been. Let's be careful or else we are gonna learn the hard way. I hope competitors spring up to equate his dominance.

so, what do you suggest? 🤔

There shouldn't be any panic among the tanker drivers. Qualify drivers with heavy truck approved driver license can go and apply for jobs at Dangote.

Excellent news this Monday morning. Others should follow too. Nigeria will be great again.

The secret to success

Mon, 21 Jul 2025

‘Were made strong out of weakness,’ Hebrews 11:34

The so-called ‘secret’ to success is really no secret at all! It’s simply getting back up when life has knocked you down and taking with you into the future the lessons you have learned. In talking about heroes such as Samson and David, the Bible goes on to say, ‘… were made strong out of weakness, became mighty in war, put foreign armies to flight ’ (Hebrews 11:34 ESV). Notice these people weren’t always strong, but they became strong. They didn’t win every battle, but they went on to win the ones that mattered.

In 1928, a thirty-three-year-old American named Paul Galvin found himself staring at failure … again. By this point, he had failed twice in industry, his competitors having forced him to fold up his latest venture in the storage-battery business. Convinced, however, that he still had a remarkable idea, Galvin attended the auction of his own business. And with the $750 he had managed to raise; he bought back the battery eliminator portion of the inventory. With it, he built a new company, one in which he succeeded, one from which he eventually retired, and one which became a household word: Motorola. You have probably heard of it. American business innovator Roger von Oech said: ‘Remember the two benefits of failure. First, if you do fail, you learn what doesn’t work; and second, the failure gives you the opportunity to try a new approach … Most people think of success and failure as opposites, but they both are products of the same process.’ Failure is delay, not defeat. We all make mistakes, especially those who act. It’s only when you become unwilling to risk failure that you stop learning, you stop growing, and you stop succeeding.

RIP to him....read he was killed by cancer. Rest his soul dear Lord.

Where morality matters. 🤔
.....would have thought that this 40 words is gone nii.

It's still well in the sight of God. I can't judge him. 🙏