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Autos / Re: Fs by bullabong(m): 6:38pm On Jan 25, 2020
Selling
Autos / Re: To by bullabong(m): 6:37pm On Jan 25, 2020
Good evening
Family / Re: My 14-Year-Old Daughter Was Caught In Hotel With Boys, Smoking, Drinking by bullabong(m): 4:27pm On Jan 25, 2020
Queenellahrose:
I’m writing with so much pain in my heart because my only child is giving me lots of trouble. She is 14. Ever since I had her, I cannot conceive again. My husband and I went trough lots of tests we are all okay and perfect so we had to accept that God wanted us to have one daughter for now and we are still believing God for more children. Where do I start we are Nigerian leaving outside of Nigeria (African country) for the past 8 years we also took along my husband niece who is now 17.

My daughter was a very nice and obedient child working hard at school and has always been making us proud but everything changed when she turned 11 years. She started getting in trouble at school, my husband and I are always called for meeting about her not working well and fighting with her classmates and she gets punished almost everyday. We as parents had heart to heart talk. She had made clear that she doesn’t like school and want us to enrolled her at music and dance school. She was only 12. Me and her dad were against it. we had convinced how important education and all we want is the best for her to finish school to have a better job and she can do her music and dance too later.

She was okay and we kept encouraging her and praying for her, things started to get a little bit better even school complained become less. Three week ago I usually leave the house at 6am for work, hubby leaves before me and the kids were still at home getting ready for school and around 11am I received a called from the police asking if I’m mrs o and chi mum I said yes I started panicking because I thought maybe she had an accident or something, the police officer asked me to come at the station.

I rushed there and what I heard broke my heart in pieces. He explained to me that my daughter and niece and other girls were caught at a hotel with boys smoking, drinking and having sex. Actually somebody called the police because they had noticed that under age children entered the hotel which is an offence so when the police came, they had arrested all of them and took them to the station requesting them to give parents details and that’s how they contacted me .

I was ashamed and couldn’t controlled my tears. I wept bitterly because when I thought my two girls are angel in fact they were doing the unthinkable. I bailed both of them and I just hated them I didn’t even talked to them to avoid beating them badly, but later when hubby came I didn’t hide anything from him. He was so angry that he flogged them mercilessly, I felt bad for them but they both deserved it. We took their phones away, tablets and TV in their room and they are banned from going outside apart from school and when they both get back from school they will eat and go and spend the rest of their day in their bedroom until nighttime.

My husband blamed me for everything saying it’s all my fault those girls are becoming bad. The truth is he is the one that has been spoiling them with expensive phones , tablets and designer clothings and pocket money. I was against him pampering them so much because I knew it will come to this but he has always told me he works hard for his children to have better things and now they had become bad, he has put all the blames on me forgetting that it’s all his faults.

We are not in talking terms for three weeks and he is not eating my foods anymore. The whole things just gives me headaches and sleepless night, it’s almost 3am I can’t sleep my head wants to explode with too much thinking.
I am also a parent,the truth here is that you and your husband made her this way. Both parents take the blame.
Did I see expensive phones,tablets , designer clothes and money? For a 14year old? A slay teen has been created.

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Autos / Re: To by bullabong(m): 4:15pm On Jan 25, 2020
Trustme2:

Is there something you're hiding? Even in car adverts abroad, such pictures are always included. So is asking for it to much? If you don't want people to ask questions here, then you better keep your car in your house
Yes.. I'm hiding your head in the engine compartment.
Autos / Re: To by bullabong(m): 3:00pm On Jan 25, 2020
We go
Autos / Re: Fs by bullabong(m): 2:35pm On Jan 25, 2020
Going
Autos / Re: To by bullabong(m): 2:34pm On Jan 25, 2020
Trustme2:

Engine Pics/ Dash Board pic?
nothing wey una no go request
Nairaland / General / Re: Gd by bullabong(m): 4:29am On Jan 25, 2020
Rapt
Autos / Re: Fs by bullabong(m): 4:28am On Jan 25, 2020
Carry go
Autos / Re: To by bullabong(m): 4:25am On Jan 25, 2020
Let's go
Autos / Re: To by bullabong(m): 10:45pm On Jan 24, 2020
Take am
Crime / Re: Police Link Oko Oloyun’s Death To Fraud, Arson In Lagos Office by bullabong(m): 10:38pm On Jan 24, 2020
zeelux97:
Typical nigerian police approach
Must they release all the leads they have, can't they work in silence?
investigation tactics...

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Autos / Re: Fs by bullabong(m): 5:47pm On Jan 24, 2020
Bought toks
Autos / Re: To by bullabong(m): 5:46pm On Jan 24, 2020
Bought brand new
Autos / Re: To by bullabong(m): 8:55am On Jan 24, 2020
Trustme2:
Engine Pics?
when I get home I will snap and send. Car was bought brand new
Autos / Re: Fs by bullabong(m): 7:29am On Jan 24, 2020
Get it
Nairaland / General / Re: Gd by bullabong(m): 7:29am On Jan 24, 2020
Get good
Autos / To by bullabong(m): 7:27am On Jan 24, 2020
It's clean ,
it's
Nairaland / General / Re: Gd by bullabong(m): 5:30pm On Jan 19, 2020
Still
Autos / Re: Fs by bullabong(m): 4:28pm On Jan 19, 2020
Change
Autos / Re: Fs by bullabong(m): 3:36pm On Jan 17, 2020
Going
Properties / Re: House For Sale At Egbeda Akowonjo,alimosho Lg. by bullabong(m): 6:57am On Jan 12, 2020
Gone
Autos / Re: Fs by bullabong(m): 6:55am On Jan 12, 2020
Yet
Nairaland / General / Re: Gd by bullabong(m): 6:53am On Jan 12, 2020
Going
Crime / Re: Husband Sends Wife's Nude To Side Chick by bullabong(m): 8:31pm On Jan 10, 2020
Jodha:


Nah to kick yhu for balls nah..
you wicked o!
Crime / Re: Husband Sends Wife's Nude To Side Chick by bullabong(m): 4:35pm On Jan 10, 2020
Jodha:


There's absolutely nothing he can can do.... he'll just be pained...

E go pepper am die...
if na me I go jack am one day go room go...
Crime / Re: Husband Sends Wife's Nude To Side Chick by bullabong(m): 3:37pm On Jan 10, 2020
Jodha:


What's dangerous about what I said?
Dressing seductively, keeping late nights while he seats and watch?
Crime / Re: Husband Sends Wife's Nude To Side Chick by bullabong(m): 3:30pm On Jan 10, 2020
Jodha:


Lool two wrongs can't make a right...the best thing to do is to work on herself...and ignore him totally...

She should dress seductively and go out frequently... keep late nights ....look hot...

Em go wan die ....
what's it about women and danger?
Crime / Re: Husband Sends Wife's Nude To Side Chick by bullabong(m): 2:59pm On Jan 10, 2020
Jodha:
This man is a disgrace to manhood.....


Ladies what will yhu do if yhur husband does this to yhu?
get his nude and send to all the kids living on same street with him...he messed up big time.
*Thank me later ladies

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Romance / Re: How Do I Break Up With Her? by bullabong(m): 2:51pm On Jan 10, 2020
Favoritefarmer:
During sex and he will take drug to prevent her being pregnant.
A married woman also reached out to me on facebook alleging that my girl is dating her hubby thou i abused the woman of lieing and the woman directed to her particular post. I confronted with her with it, she didn't denied but said no sex between them.
thirdly, she asked for hair and transport fares which i gave and she still asked another another guy and right when she was with me last sunday about to leave for her place she was chatting this guy, 'are we meeting today or not.'
You know my girl denied all charges.
Are you a fool? After all these and you are looking for opinion to act.... Uncle wey mumu
Education / Re: Anthony Obikwelu Invents Machine That Converts Pure Water Nylon To Fuel by bullabong(m): 2:46pm On Jan 10, 2020
Abalado:
Where is the fuel...... Is this one fuel ni
koni da fun iya re
Education / Re: Anthony Obikwelu Invents Machine That Converts Pure Water Nylon To Fuel by bullabong(m): 2:45pm On Jan 10, 2020
Mishael42019:
Hahahah

I pity black people if the white started by constructing death trap like this the world would have been in dark age by now


I spit on this project

I spit on the school that accept such evil

I spit on black r***

I spit on Africa

God bless America
may it never be well with you and all those liking your comment.

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