fellow Nairalanders, please how can a mum manage a toddler of 3 years that is not yet with clear words and also picky with food

Thank you.

Deyonsesi:


Hi, please go ahead with your MSc alone. D stress of the IJMB is not worth it since you already have masters. My verification took almost 11months cos of IJMB

My dear people,please I need a clarification
First, I did IJMB for the first year and entered as direct entry student to 2nd year.I will like to ask that will I process my IJMB transcript for WES this is because I have a MSc certificate too or will just do the Mac qualification and leave others out. Thank you

MizCharm:
Hard to source beauty products might be the way to go.

Thanks mizcharm.but can u possibly give me ideas like precise products that u mean.skin or hair care?

Hi felllow NL,
I need ur true advise.pls i am moving fron uk to nigeria. Next month and i have d grace to carry sone bags.pls advise me on fast selling items.thank you

Gd day mothers pls wt did u use for management of your baby after 2days of curcumcision.

Good morning house.i wwlcomed my prince at 2.55pm yesterday weighing 4.3kg with 2nd degree tear. To God be the glory.BS to follow.

Darling mommas i dey kampe o.just dt i dey wait.mk lo show up o.may God makebit easy for all of us.

So sorry sis.pray u receive double for all ds trouble in the shortest time.be strong.

Bunny19:
Good morning mamas! Hmm.... Allah gives and Allah takes! Am hurting sisters, am really hurting but who am I to say no when God has decreed a thing.

I went for a second opinion and truly my baby is no more. IUFD(intra uterine fetal death) according to the two scans. Remember when I was 6weeks n went for scan, they said d fetus is sharing same space with a submucous myoma,apparently the fibroid grew big and kind of suffocated the fetus.

Alhamdulillah for the experience,after 8yrs of trying I was able to carry a child in my womb for 19weeks, I know am not barren and this just proves it.

Greater things ahead for me, will look into how to get rid of this fibroid then I will try again, I won't give up. I need all d prayers I can get from u all as I go for evacuation.

I love u all and wish my lovely team mates and all wonderful mama safe delivery. N one will suffer any loss inshaAllah. It's well with u all.

Thanks so much sis.love u loads.

pam09:

Well it depends on weather it's normal delivery or cs. First of all stock ur house with all the essentials to last u for at least 3weeks. As long as it's normal delivery then u need not worry all u need is to have a can do spirit, u can be back on ur feet just about immediately after delivery that's if u have no complication as we pray there would be noon. Forget the mentality that u need someone to bath ur baby for u, It's out of fashion already. U can sit on a small chair place ur baby on ur laps and bath him/her in ur bathroom with the water splashing on the flour there is no big deal about in it ,it will get better by the day just be the child firmly with one hand and use low chair to avoid slipping of ur grip. U can as well bath urself but may ask ur hubby to massage u with hot water whenever he is available. Eat whatever u can get and before u realise it, it would be months already. It's all a mind thing so be strong sis u are not in it alone. Lol me am always hyperactive after delivery in fact after my last baby I embarked on a 4 hours journey less than an hour after delivery cos I was already set for the journey and labour started at the takeoff of the journey. Wishing u all the best.

Lovely mothers in the house. good evening ma's.Presently I reside in another country where my people are not living.pls which mum has given birth and how did u cope withoit anyone except ur husband and toddler.am so confused now.pls i need experienced mums to advise me?

Thanks dearest for checking up on us. It is almost d same feeling from my end too.easy carriage to term to all of us.

whyworryPH:
Hello teammates! How are we all doing?
We are seriously counting down to November.
We are now in week 33, 32, 31, 30, and 29.
Can't wait to offload.

Teamies hope we have all shopped and planning to pack?
Remember that the basic things needed at this point is a place for baby to sleep, what to wear and feeding.

If money is an issue, please get OK clothes, wash with dettol and iron when dry.

For baby bed, you can always get those folding ones that comes with net. They cost 1500 and will come in handy at the hospital too.

For feeding, they have the one that comes in a pack and cost 1500 as well. You must not go for Avent sterilising unit or other makes if you don't have the money.

You can always get ori or nkwume (shea butter) as baby's cream, cussons baby powder and oil and Blue seal vaseline.

Please no matter how small start shopping. Some people might give birth late October and so you never can tell when baby will come. Plus, shopping is best done when you still have some energy left.

Please respond and let's know how we are doing.

For me, hmm, there is this pain that happens where I have my tail bone (bum bum bone) especially when I sit for long or wake up from sleep. The pain can be a little distracting.

My bump is looking bigger each week to the point people think I'll drop this month or expecting ejima. It is well o.
Oya over to you teamies... how are you?

1) Vannywealthdesi.............. 23rd Nov
2) bukit05.............................. 9th Nov
3) whyworryPH......................23rd Nov
4) BlessedDiva ...................... still gonna drop Nov
5) Rushingwind05..................19th Nov
6) Sexyjuly................................9th Nov
7 )Maryam1234.......................8th Nov
8 )jennyswtie...........................10th Nov
9)EzyF.....................................1st Nov
10)Ot4bdoo............................
11) Sammybabelious............26th Nov
12)bulunton............................10th Nov
13)Viettastitches....................14th Nov
14)Xzandy...............................19th Nov
15)ayaomen............................15th Nov
16)Anitaamich........................14th Nov
17)seunmarytemi...................9th Nov
18)FashionTrend....................25th Nov
19)Anapuao..............................13th Nov
20)bigbird..................................

I sincerely hope I didn't miss any name. Please mention me if I did.

November mama's how una dey o?

U can try holding olive oil or coconut oil for 5mins in ur mouth against that side and then throw it out.quote author=Dying post=70113014]


I will not like the yabbing of pasting my account here... I will find a way to get the money.. But please hope the panadol extra won't have any side effect on me... I have searched online to see the effect of its overdoze and those things are not friendly at all. Government hospital, are they going to attend to me immediately or i have to get ticket schedule an appointment?[/quote]

Lemon juice and honey used as a cleanser won't be harmful.

munarule:

Thank you beautiful mama. Actually am pregnant and will be due by Dec. I just want something that will lighten my skin and make me more beautiful

Hi mama, for me drinking milk or yoghurt last thing before bed did it in my first pregnancy

mamatweenz:
Mamas I hail ooo how una Dey?
Biko what can i do about this muscle pull Kai I can't even sleep ..never had muscle pull with my first ooo please what can i use for relief I've tried shea butter,aboniki ,different types of balm but it's still my regular night visitor and it keeps me up all night .
Help a sis inu



#teamaugust gradually counting down . Im super excited for us
Safe delivery to the remaining July mama's

Gd evn mamas in the house.please who has experienced navel pulling.a discomfort that feels like your navel is being moved?thank u for responding.

Sorry about dt u can use coconut oil mixed wtvavlittle mercy cream.works for my daughter. Some says cacatin does it .quote author=iwuoahsamuels post=69062193]Rash like between high thigh and waist and another small spot with pus on a 2weeks old.
Been using pampers diaper for new born, could it be he’s outgrown the size? I use about 15 dia
pers daily as I don’t let him sit in wee or poo so don’t get why he would have a diaper rash. What else could this be pls? What say u experienced Mummys
I’m applting aquaphor though and clean with warm water sometimes instead of always using wipes
Anything else I can do?[/quote]

[May God comfort U n gv u your own sooner than u think
quote author=sayoddy post=69086174]I strived but submit to God's will, for He knows all. When it was just few weeks left to August 25th. I fell to labour and before I could say Jack, the water gushed out on first Sunday. I was rushed to nearby hospital where I gave birth to my Angel but she only survived few minutes. Everything happened suddenly but thank God I'm alive because the delivery was serious as the baby was brought buttocks first. I lost lot of blood but I survived it all though my baby girl is no more.

I don't know how to handle the loss especially when my b..bs full and no baby to feed. Pray for me pls[/quote]

Good evening dear Cappo and team mates. Am doing great too.wish us ease all around.

VannywealthDesi:
Hello teammates!
How are we all doing?
I've been good but very busy with work. So I apologise for not always taking our roll call.
I've taken my 2nd TT shot and have begun my intermittent antimalarial drug. I'll be finding my baby's sex next week by God's grace. He/she is kicking very fine.

I'd love feedback from y'all on how you're faring. Even if you can't, a simple hello would suffice. So I know you're good.

We have 18-22wks left. Isn't that encouraging? Only 3months to November. I'm ecstatic!
Hope we've begun shopping, especially first time moms. May God provide money for us to prepare well for the arrival of our babies. Amen.

Let's welcome our newest addition bigbird



1) VannywealthDesi.............. 23rd Nov
2) bukit05.............................. is 9th Nov
3) WhyworryPH......................23rd Nov
4) BlessedDiva ...................... 2nd Nov
5) Rushingwind05..................19th Nov
6) Sexyjuly................................9th Nov
7 )Maryam1234.......................8th Nov
8 )jennyswtie...........................10th Nov
9)EzyF.....................................1st Nov
10)Ot4bdoo............................
11) Sammybabelious............26th Nov
12)bulunton............................10th Nov
13)Viettastitches....................14th Nov
14)Xzandy...............................19th Nov
15)ayaomen............................15th Nov
16)Anitaamich........................14th Nov
17)seunmarytemi...................9th Nov
18)FashionTrend....................25th Nov
19)Anapuao..............................13th Nov
20)bigbird..................................

Hi people,
Pls is there any update on this.
Cc:Iwise

Thanks sis.just a thought.

shhladyj:

from baby no 1 i had swollen leg, i was asked to reduce salt intake, and always place my leg on a stool when sitting, this might help.

Pls get checked more often. Swollen leg is not a good sign ma.

Hannydimples:
My baby hiccups a lot despite the fact that I drink loads of water and my legs are so swollen. Is there any need to panic?
I'm 38weeks already, please let me know what you think mamas.

I experienced it but mine did not come till 4months after d first [quqote author=Nmababy22 post=68496941]Good morning beautiful mummies, pls am confused been expecting my second period but it hasn't come, saw my 1st period last month.. Wanna ask if anyone has experienced it before after child birth, am not talking of delayed period after lochia, mine is that I saw d 1st one after lochia but d second one hasn't come by and am like 5 days late.. Thank you [/quote]

Yes i have .shook it in my mouth for few mins and d pain and odour stopped.
quote author=TiffanyJ post=68174238]
My dear, have you ever tried it? [/quote]

Liftedhands:
abeg educate me more on how your hubby being around might help form baby

Coconut oil or olive oil.
Quote author=ositadima1 post=68172411]

Oil? Groundnut oil, palm oil or engine oil [/quote]

Thanks capo.sex scan would be at 20weeks for me. Happy waddling to all carrying mama's

VannywealthDesi:
Happy 1new month my people!
We thank God Almighty for His faithfulness in bringing us this far. We can't do anything without acknowledging Him because He is our very essence for being. Lord Jesus we give you praise for your unfathomable love and care for us. We thank you for entrusting us with the lives of other humans you have created. We thank yo u for believing so much in us that you allowed us partake in the process of bringing a new human into the world. We believe you can and will take us to the very end of that good place you have in mind for us. We love you because you loved us first and have freely given us beautiful things to enjoy. Please take us safely to the end of this 9months journey, amen.

Lovely, beautiful and strong moms una doh! it's not an easy something joor. I throwey salute to all of us. More strength and grease where it's needed.

We should be between weeks 14 and 18. Isn't it wonderful to know we have just 1 trimester to go? For me it is. We must always endeavour to encourage ourselves no matter how hard it seems.

Who has found out her baby's sex yet? EzyF, BlessedDiva, Bukit05, Sexyjuly, Maryam1234, Jennyswtie, Seunmarytemi and bulunton?

I hope we've taken at least the first dose of TT vaccine for the first timers?
I hope we've also been faithful in taking out prenatal supplements(I haven't been very faithful because I naturally hate drugs. If there's no swallows or papto hide them in, I won't take my drugs. So I try to eat as much fruits and veggies as I can muster. )

Whose still suffering from nausea and food aversion. Hopefully time will alleviate us of those symptoms.

Those of us who have so much burst of energy, do enjoy the time because the days of heaviness are coming(maybe not for all).

In all, do enjoy every single moment of this beautiful journey.

1) VannywealthDesi.............. 23rd Nov
2) Bukit05.............................. is 9th Nov
3) WhyworryPH......................23rd Nov
4) BlessedDiva ...................... 2nd Nov
5) Rushingwind05..................19th Nov please respond so I know you're fine.
6) Ahnie................................... It is well with you
7) Sexyjuly................................9th Nov
8 )Maryam1234.......................8th Nov
9)jennyswtie...........................10th Nov
10)EzyF.....................................1st Nov
11)Ot4bdoo............................
12) Sammybabelious............26th Nov
13)bulunton............................10th Nov
14)Viettastitches....................14th Nov
15)Xzandy...............................19th Nov
16)ayaomen............................15th Nov
17)Anitaamich........................14th Nov
18)seunmarytemi...................9th Nov

Thanks sis.her tongue isclean.quote author=greatp80 post=68078154]

Also try to clean her tongue very well.There tongue when left unclean smells.[/quote]
Pweetiebabe, just be calm.by his stripes ur baby is healed.

Lovely mothers in the house,good evening.pls I just noticed my 15months old daughters mouth is smelly somehow.pls advise me.i wash with aqusfresh paste for 0-2years old and she has got 12 tooth too.although we just treated tonsilitis last week.thank you.

Try holding coconut oil or olive oil in ur mouth for 5mins then throw out.

Welcomme:
Bros good afternoon. This detoil stuff, is it still effective for tooth ache cuz d pain is killing. I don't have money to visit a dentist or to remove it.. Help in suggesting other methods to ease d pain.

Dear doctors in the house.pls my friend has been having a prolonged heavyflow since March. She has been diagnosed of ovarian cyst.pls sir what can she use to stop this flow first.thankyou