Phones › Re: Etisalat Released New Data Plans Check It Out by buoye1(m): 1:48pm On Jun 04, 2016 |
MTN is very poor in my area.... GLO rocks jooor |
Sports › Re: Muhammad Ali's Visit To Lagos In 1964 (Pictures) by buoye1(m): 1:43pm On Jun 04, 2016 |
Legendary |
Sports › Re: Kanu Nwankwo, Peter Rufai In Bauchi For Novelty Match.Pics by buoye1(m): 1:42pm On Jun 04, 2016 |
What time is the match and is the gate free... Wanna watch |
Crime › Re: Oshiomhole Threatens Court Action Over ‘criminal’ Bills, Mass Disconnection by buoye1(m): 8:14am On Jun 04, 2016 |
Let's wait and are |
Politics › Re: 8,300 Petition UK To Return Nigeria’s Stolen Assets by buoye1(m): 8:10am On Jun 04, 2016 |
UK is cocastically corrupt |
Education › Re: 16 Pictures Some Students Playing Bet9ja Virtual Soccer Can Relate To by buoye1(m): 7:45am On Jun 04, 2016 |
ThatNaijaNigger: if u never take a chance or risk how the Bleep u gon get rich? There are other ways to take risks and chances not on sport betting |
Business › Re: 6 Months After! Fidelity Bank Apologizes To Lady After Calling Them Out Today by buoye1(m): 9:30pm On Jun 03, 2016 |
They are so slow in responding to customers problems |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Kaduna Government Creates 130,021 Jobs In 365 Days by buoye1(m): 4:00pm On Jun 03, 2016 |
Hannysmilez: Exactly. He has created a lot of jobs for the masses. Maybe some of them aren't permanent,but isn't a temporary job better than no job at all? I've seen it and its true. Thanks,its better a temporary job than none at all.... |
Celebrities › Re: Jim Iyke & Chris Attoh In Texas, On The Set Of "Closure" by buoye1(m): 2:23pm On Jun 03, 2016 |
Very lovely picture |
Jobs/Vacancies › Re: Kaduna Government Creates 130,021 Jobs In 365 Days by buoye1(m): 1:44pm On Jun 03, 2016 |
amme1: lies lies lies. I live in Kaduna too. what is a lie biko? You didn't see the construction around SCOA way to NDA in kawo? You didn't see the Kastelea guys on the road everyday? Please let's call a spade a spade |
Christianity Etc › Re: Which Church Do You Attend? by buoye1(m): 11:21pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
BALM and The contemporary worship center of st.Michael Anglican cathedral.. |
Romance › Re: I Beef With Nairaland Cheapest Slüts Hateu2 And Naughtynaughty by buoye1(m): 11:13pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
The lez |
Romance › Re: I Beef With Nairaland Cheapest Slüts Hateu2 And Naughtynaughty by buoye1(m): 11:12pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
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Romance › Re: Is This The Most Endowned Girl in Nairaland by buoye1(m): 6:40pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Straight Outta HELL  |
Politics › Re: Wike, Okorocha, Osinbajo, Amina In Ogoni For The Launch Of Clean-up by buoye1(m): 6:20pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
Politicians will remain politicians |
Politics › Re: Ogoni Clean-up: Jonathan Made A Mistake – Traditional Ruler by buoye1(m): 5:03pm On Jun 02, 2016 |
They won't still accept |
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Phones › Re: #airtel_why Trends On Twitter: See Why Nigerians Love Airtel by buoye1(m): 11:48am On Jun 02, 2016 |
Emmaway: Crappy network crappy in your area but the best in mine..... Stop generalizing broz |
Politics › Re: Office Of The Former Deputy Governor, Asaba: Hilarious Political Signboard I Saw by buoye1(m): 7:28am On Jun 02, 2016 |
Na wa o |
Crime › Re: Woman Burns 19yr-old Girl Alive For Refusing Her Son's Marriage Proposal by buoye1(m): 7:27am On Jun 02, 2016 |
Only in Islamabad  |
Romance › Re: A Picture Every One That Went Through Primary School Can Relate To... by buoye1(m): 7:24am On Jun 02, 2016 |
Real fun  |
Celebrities › Re: DELSU Female Student, Ifeoma Nelly Who Duped Wizkid Fans Home & Abroad Arrested by buoye1(m): 7:23am On Jun 02, 2016 |
Good for her |
Education › Re: 16 Pictures Some Students Playing Bet9ja Virtual Soccer Can Relate To by buoye1(m): 11:31pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
Problem of gamblers |
Business › Re: Rejoinder :how A Guy In Port-harcourt Duped Me Today by buoye1(m): 11:13pm On Jun 01, 2016 |
Welldone....
Let me follow bumber to bumber |
Celebrities › Re: #OneHellOfANiteTour: Chris Brown Announces Wizkid As A Special Guest On Tour by buoye1(m): 4:54pm On May 30, 2016 |
phabulous88: Big ups to Wizkid. I hope Linda Ikeji sees this I doubt she sees anything good than spreading evil |
Politics › Re: Wike Meets With David Moyes, Kanu Nwankwo And Others In Port-harcourt. Photos by buoye1(m): 8:59am On May 29, 2016 |
naijaboiy: [color=#1980BC]What is David moyes's importance/contribution to this event?
Why was he invited? Of what use is he to sport pundits in Nigeria? 
Somebody should answer me....FAST! [/color] He gave Joseph Yobo the chance of his life at Everton! |
Celebrities › Re: I Tried To Get Wizkid In Roc Nation & Drake Copied Wizkid In "One Dance" --Wale by buoye1(m): 11:36am On May 28, 2016 |
Yoruba and Igbo rivalry  |
Family › Re: Help! I Don't Know My Father. I Will Be 29 In Few Months by buoye1(m): 9:25am On May 28, 2016 |
AreaFada2: Dude, money is not everything. His feeling is very natural. He has missed the love of his parents, their rushing back when he's rich won't plug that hole.
In the African setting, a man belongs to his dad's home. No matter who brought him up. A big part of his identity is missing.
Let me relate what happened a while ago. A friend of mine died about two years back. He had a baby with his ex-wife. Things didn't work out and the woman sought divorce. Even though it was the lady who shamefully messed up big time.
Despite his enormous heartbreak, he sought to be there for the child. But the Western lady (this is in diaspora) frustrated all his efforts and kept the kid away. She even fabricated domestic violence to keep him away. But Caucasian neighbours in flats around them said they never heard raised voices in their flat over the years, let alone violence. They all said my friend was a real gentleman. She kept fabricating things.
I think she was & is determined to ensure her child never finds out about her shameful/scandalous behaviour while still married to the dad.
Then work took my friend to another country. Over time, the guy just hoped the ex will change her mind and allow contact. But no way.
I was at an event a few weeks ago and bumped into this lady. I was shocked to hear that she never heard that her ex had died. Or that he had moved to another country to work for years. Let alone that he had a wife and kids after remarrying.
I stopped asking my friend about 5 years after the divorce because each time I did, he felt very sad about the divorce and bad experience.
Now, my worry is what kind of lies has she been feeding that child? How will the child now be seeing African men?
The child probably believes the dad is right there in same city & never cares. Even though he moved abroad a decade ago & and is over 2 years dead. Would she even tell the child that the dad is dead?
How will this affect the child now entering the teenage years? And even as a grown up?
Note: I deliberate used "the" instead of him or her to ensure some anonymity for the child. Thanks for your opinion.... You typed from the angle you're seeing things.... Good day sir |
Autos › Re: Clean Honda Odyssious by buoye1(m): 6:01pm On May 25, 2016 |
Do you have this Toyota corolla? Range of price pls?
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Politics › Re: FG Introduces Automated Payment Of Salaries, Allowances by buoye1(m): 10:10pm On May 24, 2016 |
Fiiine.. |
Food › Re: How I Eat With My Tomato Stew Before Vs How I Eat Now(pic) by buoye1(m): 9:10pm On May 24, 2016 |
So funny  |
Family › Re: 5 Things Only Those Born With A Wooden Spoon Understand! by buoye1(m): 9:09pm On May 24, 2016 |
I just hate poverty... I beg God to bless me ABUNDANTLY with his riches |