Ablemed:
I'll like to make my story short as possible without much introduction tho. And also a lesson parents/ new couples should learn from my ordeal, Pls read to the end.

Alright So I'm the only male born of my parent among 4 girls, i also happen to be the last born at it. my problem started when growing up, cause my parent aged bfr getting a Male child which was my Dad and his parent cravings, I was pampered when growing up such that my parents would never watch me do stressful things, dictate when I go out and who I moved out with (My mum's own was even worse cause when growing up, if I want to go out, she'll always send me back inside) even during secondary school they had to get a school very close to our house. my sisters were only the ones that would go to mum's shop and make sales while mum would either stay with me at home or if I eventually go the shop sef I'll always sit and just watch. Literally, I'll say I was denied the right to be exposed to lotta things and real issues about life.

And cause I was not the sociable type cause I'll literally stay at home, watch movies, eat and my movements limited, I was exposed to pornography and masturbation at a very young age and I battled that bad habit thr my University days (Did I say my Parents also dictated the University I went to cause it was close to our House to and any small riot in school then the next hour they'll come and pick me back home till every thing dies down)

So guys over time, I've grown to be this boring guy who is shy, timid, suffering from low self esteem and can't give vibe even when gisting with my fellow guys, in which most of them just relegate me to this small boy level. Did I also say I've never had a Girlfriend all my life cause the truth is ion always know what to say or how to maintain talking vibe. At first I decide not to care and just always console myself with I was created like that and just continue my boring life, it has now gotten to the point I'm not rated in anything at all, most people just make friends with me cause of what they can gain from me, I'm not even good in anything, I can't speak clearly, I'm kinda literally mentally dumb and ion see me useful for anyone or anything, perhaps maybe God only, No business sense, no work skill or experience, no trade experiences to

I'm currently a Corp member serving and before then I rebelled against my parent cause they wanted to dictate the state I serve which is our state of residence so I go to my ppa from home but I told them No and even got to a fight to my Dad cause of this issue and we din speak for like 2weeks, he eventually called me and we settled. But the issue now is guys I've got less than two months left for my POP for service and you don't expect me to return home useless to my parent house again?? Tho sincerely thr my service year, I din touch my allowee so I've saved up to 270k so far. the issue is ask me what I want to do with the money? I've got no idea, what business sense or idea? Nothing is coming to my head, infact I don't know. The funny thing is, my roommate is exactly my opposite, very outspoken, bold, full of vibe and bring back different female friends each day, this guy is not really financially buoyant but you see girls cook and travel all the way to give him for us to eat. I just wish I was like him, i wish i had the vibe

I'm 24years now and at this age, no idea bout my future, bout life, I can't even relate with people, I'm just so sad, depressed and frustrated. At the moment the only job coming to my head is the military cause I served in a military barrack cause I choose it myself but most of the junior officers are trashing my interest by telling me not to waste my time say I no go survive am with my nature, that military needs tough people and endurance bla bla and on the other hand, my mum is saying Never she'll never allow me join the military not over her dead body and she's bout recruiting my Dad to and Sincerely I'm frustrated and my depression have taken another turn that over the past weeks I've been thinking suicide and it's getting really high, I say I should type this here bfr the worse happen cause if I can't be useful for myself what really is the point living??

Please this advice is to parent and intending parent/couples, pls and pls expose ur children to life, don't over pamper your kids, work on them to make them sociable and outspoken, I swear you'll be doing them a great favour. For me I thought my parent loved me, I thought they were trying to protect me but they've put me in a deep mess I have to face alone and just I pray I get the opportunity to make things right with me

Buskolo:
I got same mail yesterday, dont bother going, its not a practical job in the sense that you are thinking. Its one of these GNLD

Musafatiu2:
Hello!!!


Please I received this mail today.

Though I apply for it via LinkedIn.

I want to know if it's genuine or not.



CONGRATULATIONS !!!!!
Dear MUSA,
Our team has reviewed your application and you have been selected amongst others to be sent for an INTERVIEW/ BUSINESS CHAT with our esteemed Business Client firm - ODG AFRICA LTD

You will be oriented and assessed to be an EMPLOYPRENEUR ASSOCIATE.

DATE: FRIDAY 9th SEPTEMBER , 2022
TIME: 8:30am.

If selected, you will be:
Working from home 10-30% of the time.
Reporting to the office 4 days in a week.
Attending online meetings via video conferencing apps especially on your off days.
OFFICE ADDRESS: 1st floor, SuiteB 150 Oba Ogunji road, Along the newly constructed Pencinema-Ogba Bridge, Odo Eran Bus stop, Lagos.

This INVITATION IS STRICTLY FOR LAGOS RESIDENTS ONLY.

NB: Kindly acknowledge the receipt of this mail, state your availability and come along with copies of your submitted CV and a printed copy of this your invitation to gain entrance.

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Best Regards,
GRACE MERIT
For Mgt.
ODG AFRICA LTD.

Helpline: tel:+2349025852107 (8am - 6pm)
or visit www.odgafrica.com for more information





Goodluck!

ODG AFRICA LTD
Building Leaders and Businesses.

Kipling:
Pm good people of naira land. I really need help.

I'm in my early twenties and I'm very addicted to pornography and masturbation. My own level of addiction is so severe that when I see people here complaining of being addicted I just laugh.

I started since 2017 and I have been masturbating since then even when I didn't have a mobile to satisfy my addiction, I borrow just so I'll be alright.

Right now, I just finished masturbating about three times in a row since yesterday, even after today I vowed never to masturbate again, went to my history to clear off porn pages. I mistakenly clicked on one and I masturbated again. I really need help all round, when I mean help I mean actual help.

Your suggestions and insults are welcomed. I deserve them.

Ceenachi:
You don't need to fast and pray for this to work for you. You don't even need to be born again.

Just get a razor blade and injure your dis-tin a little. That's all.

That small pain you will be feeling around that area will take away sexual urge.

oyatz:


But those who always scream they are superior to other Nigerians ought to show evidence of this superiority.

WesternOligarch:
Peter Obi. President elect of the supporters club of nigeria.


If we're talking about mediocre leaders your eastern region would take the lead in the regard.....your region is the size of Niger state but receives allocation for 5 states yet nothing tangible to show for it......if you really care about leadership you'd start from your waste land of a region. Nigeria is bad because of rettarded hypocrites like you.

emekachief:
I need Facebook account. It must be more than five years old

Abigail09:





thanks so much. I have seen it

toludadon:



can I pm you?

WaffenSS:


And i insist all the ingredients for escalation were there.

1. The COAS is a HVT for any miscreants, especially Boko Haram. His protection is paramount.

2. The convoy of the COAS is state machinery out for state function. No hoodlums have the right to deny a state convoy right of way. The sirens are there for a reason.

3. The COAS and his entourage begged the shiites to grant the COAS what is essentially his right. At that point he resorted to diplomacy rather than force.

4. The shiites brandished dangerous weapons extremely close to the COAS and his team, vowing death rather than granting right of way. In this era of terrorism.Their posture and disposition was aggressive. There was no reason for the COAS to back down and and let the hoodlums reinforce their thuggery. In the US people have been shot for carrying weapons or threatening police.

I dont know where you got the idea that it's sane and legal to block the road from a state convoy and threaten the chief of the army himself. And if diplomacy wouldnt work, only serving to embolden the shiite thugs, i wonder whether you think it appropriate for the entire nigerian army to yield to such thugs.

IF the army and its chief couldnt disperse the crowd, i wonder how the police could go about it, being less disciplined than the army.

it's time people start respecting constituted authority in nigeria.

Godditex:
Hello Boss! Pls what's your advice for someone like me who's not very strong in driving? I just enrolled in a driving school last week and I have been trying my best.
I hope the instructor will not look down on my Zig-zag driving pattern. Thanks

deobking:
NB is yet to offer employment letters tho'.
Heard induction is 1st Dec and its 5days away.
Av got a feeling they will shift the date since no one has received offer letter to the best of my knowlegde

richcol:
Pls, how long does induction training take?

mychayk:
Pls i want to know if the test is being done location by location. Are they doing for people in Lagos first. I am in the East is it turn by turn for different locations? This suspense is devastating. Somebody help.....

kennykale:
Where is the place na. Ve been in ikotun since 8 and it seems nobody knows the place

Upnepaa:


u dey craze ??
did I mention your moniker ?
I was trying to explain d obvious u are nw cursing my family, may what u wish me be upon u too,
stop being a slave to a politician dat don't give a fuucck about your existence.

Upnepaa:
90% of the people above me are stark hypocrites,and have no sense of reasoning,balarabe musa is obviously speaking d truth,both of dem spent 16 years altogether in power and failed to rehabilitate d road ,now u are sympathising with dem

do you people have conscience at all

why are you defending dis set of people when they don't even give a hoot about ur lives

when will Nigerian youth wake up

I pray ur family members suffer a fatal accident on d road before u realise d man is speaking d truth

UrennaNkoli:
Too bad. Benue state &Kogi state the heart of all evil. I dread those two states alot. Mostly when travelling by road.