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Maeve7:
Why are you so concerned to be called wicked? The fact that you gave in because you were afraid the crying would have a negative impact on her after CS shows that you are not wicked.

Why is it so important which church you people go to? Take turns. This time it’s her church, next time it’s your church. Problem solved.

Right thing is to follow him to his church not hers!, I wonder why you all love all these soft narratives, a man is tye leader of his home, I don't even pity men like him, he's obviously a very big SIMP!

BlindAngel:
That's the church she was attending before we got married, so I don't want to stop her in order for it not to seems like I'm wicked and for her not to call me names.

Yesterday she reminded me that after our marriage my family forced her to do thanks giving at our church. She has been saying this for long, but stopped, until yesterday.

I told her that doing thanks giving at our church is now a bad thing or something that's forceful?

She cried a lot yesterday because of our argument of this naming.

Same tears she used in forcing me into getting married to her when I wasn't in anyway ready.

Nawa oo, na your kind of man many of them out there dey find, weak men who has no standards and principles, before I married my wife has become a member of my church already, you gave room for all these manipulations from tye onset so carry your cross!, a wife is to be submissive to your will not you doing that and that's not wickedness, God no dey your church?, are you worshipping devil there??, kai alot of you men are annoyingly very weak, Godforbid!

vanvickie:
Continue giving room for manipulations...

Someday the pastor will also be the one to determine something more than just the name of your child... BTW.. Ain't both of u supposed to be attending the same Church? Smh.

Walahi many men are finished!... I can't even fathom going to my wife's church, I dey mad??, shey God no dey my own church??, weak men everywhere!

vanvickie:
Continue giving room for manipulations...

Someday the pastor will also be the one to determine something more than just the name of your child... BTW.. Ain't both of u supposed to be attending the same Church? Smh.

Walahi many men are finished!... I can't even fathom going to my wife's church, I dey mad??, she God no dey my own church??, weak men everything!

BlindAngel:
Good afternoon Nairalanders, my wife gave birth last week which was Saturday July 13th, that day was also my birthday, she gave birth through CS, this is our first child, and it's a boy.


This week Saturday is our baby's naming ceremony but my wife is insisting that her pastor must be the one officiate the naming the child, we've been disagreeing over this for some couple of days now,

she has called me all sorts of names, insulted me that I'm a very wicked man that I have no conscience, that after she pain and tearing she went through and still going through, I can't make this as a sacrifice for her, that I choose my family over her. She said so because my family also insist too that the naming must be done by our pastor.

But she's keying on the fact that she won't agree for the naming to be done in my church that it must be done by her pastor, she has cried and insulted me regarding this. Yesterday when we were arguing about this same particular issue she starting crying endlessly and calling me a wicked man.

I have finally agreed for her to use her pastor to do the naming, although I don't know her pastor and haven't seen him before, but I only agreed because of the CS operation she did while giving birth, her endless crying might affect her, if not there's absolutely no way possible I'd have agreed.

I must say that she doesn't know the repercussions of what sha has done by challenging my authority and always wanting to have her way with tears all the time. But time sha tell, I'm in so much rage right now, and I'm trying my possible best to control myself and not to loose my anger over this.

Carry your cross, una wey dey agree to marry this kind rebellious women una head no correct!, imagine struggling to make money when nobody even send you as a man then finally marrying trouble with same hard earned money, Godforbid!

franchasofficia:
Whatever you do, just don't let her cry and lay a curse on you out of heartbreak and sincerity of heart.


It's always dangerous, it has ruined many men years later even when they think they have become great, that curse of a heart broken woman they intentionally deceived will always bring negative result. Don't listen to those cheering you on, they won't be there in some years to come when you will be suffering the consequences of your intentional deceit of a honest girl that trusted you today

Rubbish, was she raped??, if na by all these Karma BS, all these our wicked leaders for don die since for looting this country dry!

Nonexisting:
If she is a virgin and you know in your deepest heart that you don't have any true feelings for her, please let her innocent pussy be. Don't be a simp but don't be heartless as well. Taking a girl's innocence by pretense of love is a crime against humanity and karma will come for you.

Super story... why Karma no come for women that took men's virginity?, ndi eberibe!

Says a mořon who doesn't know his ancestors took native soils from the indigenous people, he should go back to Europe (Spain) that's his origin

STEWpid:
C h a i..




No gree for anybody is the slogan!!

Koret guy!

The evils amongst them should start collecting hot hot!!

You Must Respect Your Host!!!

Not when the host spoils my phone!

Righteousness2:
This matter could very well be bigger than what the Ordinary sees or knows.

There are certain degrees and levels of Evil certain persons have entered into and signed with the devil in the name Wealth, Fame, etc.

The devil has nothing free to give. Some of these Evil deals come with Certain crazy and satanic Conditions which must be adhered to else they lose their lives.

I know a Certain Guy who signed with the devil in his desperate search for fame and Wealth.
He was 3 conditions which one was Never to eat anything a woman cooks.
He did so until the day of reckoning came. He visited his parents , his mum gave him Meat pies which she baked. He forgot his deal with the devil and ate the meat pie.

As soon as he took a bite, tears came frim his eyes! He remembered the deal with the devil. It was too late. Strange events/ Troubles began from all quarters.
All the millions in his 3 bank accounts Mysteriously vanished with a balance of 6000, 6000, 6000 in the three accounts.
Houses/ shops Mysteriously got burnt to ashes.
He was in danger and about to killed when he ran to GOD OF CHOSEN like a Mad man .

It took the Mercies of GOD to Deliver and Save His life.

The Blessings of GOD Makes rich and adds no sorrows.
That of the Devil comes with Enough Baggages of Sorrows and destruction of the soul in Hell fire

Please stop all these rubbish!... there's nothing spiritual about him abandoning his mom, nawa for you oo

Sonnobax15:

I watched the video yesterday on TikTok but it was Shatta wale's cousin who was crying for help, saying Shatta has abandoned his mother......I don't know if the story is true or not,but if it's true,then Shatta no try at all....

How you go loose guard your momsy,no matter wetin don happen pass in the past to the extent of her suffering and crying for help from the public...

People wey their mothers still dey alive no know wetin God dey do for dem.....

Sometimes dem Mamas get problem oo... imagine giving them money and food stuffs and they give to other family members who are not even in good terms with you, what I give to you is for you alone as my mom not a anyone, if they need my help they should come to me directly if there conscience is clean.

nairalanda1:
True, but sometimes, some women marry at the right time, and nothing happens too.

Infertility is not an easy thing to predict. You can have someone like the mother of one of our prominent journalists who had him at the age of 34, as her first child, married a year or two before having him,(and some think that is late self). or someone like my former boss' wife who married at the right time and waited 4 years before first child dropped. ...later three more dropped...or like the wife of one trader my mother knew...married at 20, waited very long to have child no 1, and yes, they went to hospital eventually after struggling.

Excuses upon excuses!... the chance of this BS happening is very very low with a young woman of 19 to 25 years, the younger a woman is the more fertile she is, it's been proving several times, exceptions are not the norm on this topic!, just that many women love being lied to and deceived!, if you pass 26 as a woman make hay!

onumadu:
It is not the extra pounds. It is the HEIGHT.
How TALL ARE YOU?
If you are tall enough, you're good to go.
Most wives of rich men I see everyday are tall.
Poor men dey manage short babes.

See mumu mentality... so you never see rich tall men marrying average and short women that are beautiful?, must everyone be tall!? Mtcheeww

fxexperts:
Nkita.. Nkita.. Ndiala.. Awon werey...

You go soon dye this night!... you never know where dey! E go be for you, no worry!

fxexperts:
ndiala.. ode. Ewu gambia...

Nkita ara... oloshi, koni dafue!

fxexperts:
Ode olodo raba raba..

Onye eriri eri
!

fxexperts:
Olod raba raba.. bastard of a thousand generation.

That's what your whole generation are!... onye ara!

fxexperts:
It is your entire generation and parents that are a bastard of a thousand wasted sperm.

It's yours, I SAID IT FIRST!!!

fxexperts:
Call your mother and father that, ode of Africa. Ewu gambia..

Call your generation and whole family that... bastard of a thousand fathers!

fxexperts:
you are really a dumbo, is church the only thing he mentioned there.

Call your father that when you see him... stupid idiot!

fxexperts:
So this ode pick out only this one thing from the others item the guy posted to jubilate about. some of you are really funny.

You're the real ode here!... which country church has any economical value to the society??, IDIOT!

Pastoshizzy:
I still wonder why this generation like giving unnecessary attention to irrelevant people.

It getting easy to gain people's attention by just making noise about the people that really matters.
Even if hin no prostrate, e no mean say people wey dey hin level no fit corner am give am a well deserved slap on behalf of ..abi wetin be VDM again?
First that nuisance called "Portable" (at least that one be artist) then this dark boy with data subscription.
What exactly does he do for a living.
Oh no!
Influencer again!

Go give am slap naa... see failure wey no fit stand for anything dey talk, make dem insult your mama make we see how you go feel, idiot!

OkpaNsukkaisBae:
But Cubana is a private citizen. He does not hold any executive power.

Talking about philanthropy, he built a church in Oba, constructed rural road, empowered the youth of his town. What else do you want?

Is church a company or factory??, mtcheeww

FAT saved him... you see everything that has disadvantage has advantages, get fat today it might save you 🤣🤣🤣, thankGod he survived!

Marvieduke:
If you truly loved her you won't have that thought of something may go wrong, I don't want to sound like because I am woman, well it's up to you to decide

Which kind nonsense blind love be dat??, what if she couldn't take in?, mtcheeww

DonEd:
Or better still, get her pregnant while u guys are still dating.

That's if it's ur fear

Na the ultimate be dis!!!

DARLINGTON869:
Gbamsolutely. Can't agree more. Check most of them defending that nonsense tapswap, they mostly jump from one trending thing that promises money to another thing and another thing. No base, no specialty, no visible legitimate skill that is steadily been put to use to earn money. I wondered it this was how china youths grew and developed to make chinea what it is today. Spits

Tells us one thing you've produced!... how have you added value to the society?, not spitting like king cobra upandan!

LIES, THEY DID AMA WITH TON TODAY ABOUT THERE LAUNCH!

Mjshexy:
You're mannerless young man, run along

Tell your father that when you see him... spoilt brat!

Seagodess:
He's not wise.. pls don't say anything stupid under my post if you want it to be well with you.. thanks

You're the very stupid one not him!

1Sharon:
She's looks 16

Yes, the younger the better, not when she's 30 and tasted 100s of dicks... tueh!

KingLennon:
As long as she gives him peace of mind. Average looking ladies are the wife material these days while the beautiful ones are for nakking ....Who else have noticed?

You're very observant!