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GreatAchiever1:
There are lots of guys who are none of the above but the question is, will you find them attractive? are you ready to help them build?

Keep waiting for a woman to help you build you here, Lol... better dey marry rich monkey than build shit!, reason why as a man when you're doing fine always remember your woman and most people loitering around are there because you're wealthy, enjoy yourself and your sweat to the fullest, don't let anyone no matter who they are manipulate or blackmail you!, If you like Jonse e go clear for your eyes later!, it's mean and hard world for a man... so when you soften it for yourself, you deserve every right to enjoy it!!!

Chicagograduate:
I don't believe this man is making a legitimate money

Make your legitimate own and shut up!, jealousy!

EreluRoz:
She's somehow right but nairaland is not the best place to have reasonable discussion.

Women are not created to provide, it is against their nature, it makes them become masculine and vulnerable to other men. It takes a strong and well disciplined woman to provide and still remain faithful, well, not much of such women exist these days.

Men should learn to be traditional and provide, stop stressing your women and putting them in vulnerable position to other men.

Also learn to be submissive, keep quiet when he talks and when he chooses to marry a second wife accept his wish and be submissive as a wife should, same tradition says so!, umu ngwere!

westlius:
Thats why I hate celebrating tins,
My wedding made me noticed I got lil friends and much crowd.
Pls note never take any food/drinks from anyone in an occasion, no matter how close you are, always go directly to the source(caters) before eating/drinking

Exactly same thing on my wedding!... no one is truly a friend, na to just dey your dey, jealousy full everywhere now!

kalufelix:
even after the endless givings expect vigourous disrespect and disregard...women feel like they deserve a trophy when they insult and disrespect a man...

Seriously very funny and weird gender!

bukatyne:
Eyah! Sorry that
1. There is no woman of value in your lineage
2. You are so mentally poor that the only thing of value to you is money.

It is well with you.

There's no woman of value anywhere in terms of money, all women wants to receive and receive all the time, you can deny it BTW, it's lots of women nature to be delusional so I'm not surprised, lastly you said I'm mentally poor by thinking money is the only thing of value to me but you tied your number 1 reply to same money??, Hahaha, if money is not valued than any other thing on earth Nairaland won't be existing, Dangote and the rest of the elites won't be competing for the richest men in the business world, now who's mentally poor again?, most definitely YOU!

Rokiat:
You get what you put in.

Rubbish Analogy... most women out there are manipulative and 419!, never seen any woman add any damn value to a man in reality, it's always give me and receiving, please stop posting lies and nonsense here!

officialwdhtv:
Marriage benefits women more than men — Lady says

Take a listen!!!

#wetindeyhappentv


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WWmAcPGcyBY

Where's that nonsense and rubbish @Jennyclay

Prigidypogodo:
a lesson to you bigots
over here we don't tolerate shitt because it's my tribe or whatever.
if you fucck up you'll be treated squarely.
Igbos are unique.
nobody dey feed anybody because we dey work hard individually so you don't expect us to start bootlicking the rich among us in whatever they do right or wrong like some certain people.
If you be billionaire na for your pocket nobody cares.
that's the mentality of an average igbo man.
we don't entertain mediocre over here.
The man messed up real big just like an average Nigeria rich man that thinks he can intimidate people using his connections.
unfortunately you can't get away with some things in this digital age.
he's reaping his reward and no sorry for him.

You're right...but he didn't mess up!, no one Will allow another person ruin his business!

123yes:
This is a lady who knows the importance of a man in her life. An epitome of a good and faithful wife. Some ladies after the man finished training them will now know that the man is an illiterate and doesn't fit them and will tell the man to say how much he spent on her head.

They never Jam!

shortgun:
Nonsense!
What's the duty of the Canadian police and customs?
One will expect that a stolen vehicle will not be processed for export in Canada with a click a button.

I thought as much... why even allow the cars get into Nigeria?

Vixlot:
#1.5million not 159

Nawao for op
Nawao for moderator

Initial amount was 1.5M which is the 1k dollars... he was subsequently given additional 100k dollars with assistance from donations made by people, read well before you comment!

Promax4321:
She lack home training, she is used to such bad character, she wasn't brought to do obeisance to elders which manifested openly.

Some stupid people will have excuse to this stupid child. We should train our children manners so that will naturally behave well and won't disgrace us in public.

All your family awon STUPIDITY!, Animal!

flokii:
She lacks manners.. sitting down to shake her late father's senior age wise says a lot about her upbringing. Awon omo akebaje.

Go force her to stand and greet naa... useless thing!, like you're better off than here?, someone mourning her parents and sibling, should stand and greet, do you know if her thoughts are even together there??, you're a mad man!

Great woman not losing failures who call themselves feminists!

dominique:
Your man that agreed to marry your bestie despite your critical condition nko? We should not beware of him abi?

Just saw in the video that she cannot move from her neck down. That so sad, I hope she's getting enough care and support

See them!...always trying to rope in the man... why would she even accept the man if she's not interested in him before her ordeal??, many of you women are evil, the man too na hopeless and very useless human!

FreeStuffsNG:
Speaking on the perks as well as the disadvantages attached to relocating abroad, especially being a celebrity, Femi Brainard said it is better to be celebrated and be a prince in Nigeria than to move abroad and be a nobody. He also noted that his wife does not love it at all.

Eni awifun Oba je o gbo.

Many of them are so stuck now that they can't even be as sincere to themselves as he is.

It's nothing but a wrong mindset to think that you will resent your own land/ country and expect that you will prosper on that land or overseas, it's impossible!

When you are not blessed in Nigeria, it's not because others are not doing well here in Nigeria, for most of you, you were horribly raised with the wrong mindset and indoctrinated to hate Nigeria by some of your parents who were part of those behind the multiple problems now facing the nation so you ended up and continued your life in a circle of negative minded unpatriotic people. You curse Nigeria, the land curses you back in multiple folds and nothing you sow in the land will prosper but if you bless Nigeria, the land blesses you back in multiples.

Until you wish Nigeria well and do your best in patriotism, you will never be blessed by this land and if you carry your resentment and hatred for Nigeria overseas, the rejection by Nigeria will follow you like your shadow.

The grass is always greener on the other side until you get there. What you are doing here in Nigeria is so valuable that if you nurture it well, you will one day be going overseas for business/ professional travels and enjoy vacations with your family and friends. And even if you still don't go overseas, you will be happy, safe, fulfilled and blessed here in Nigeria.

God bless Nigeria for ever! Check my signature for free stuffs!

Super Story!... tell that to the unpatriotic western citizens doing fine in all endeavours of there lives, religion has destroyed this nation... Not patriotism and finally that guy is ashamed because he has pride, outside naija nobody send your Papa, Nigeria is a useless country and needs total overhauling, let me see how being realistic affects my growth all round!, mtcheeww

Must be an Southern woman!

money121:
Nigeria can destroy, break and humble anybody. The ex-customs boss, Hamid Ali was a spartan and disciplinarian to the core, yet see what the customs he headed for 8yrs was still doing under his nose. No sign that anything changed under him just like Buhari, his boss. Corruption was allowed to eat too deep into the fabric of this nation and I'll still never forgive IBB for it


So sad🥲🥲🥲 Won ti paa Nigeria si ara too bad

No be only Spartan and disciplinarian!... all of them na accomplice, just that some sabi cover there criminality than others with zealousness, they're all criminals!

Beverlyjean:
We abide by 2 different set of rules ... we care and get scared if our man goes into financial turmoil..... most women will leave their man if he stops providing... but men will not leave us If we are broke ... we will never date or marry broke men , if we do , we will be disrespecting them ... while a man will not marry a slut , if he does , he will be disrespecting her ... we are wired different, male and female.... and women have to accept that

You're really a smart woman!

tiffanyfan:
There are five reasons a woman gets attached to a man after sex.

✓ Women naively believe what they hear.

The way to a woman is through her ears. For a man to sleep with a woman, he says what the woman wants to hear:

“You are the most beautiful woman I’ve ever met. You are so smart, focused and intelligent.”
This way, she doesn’t feel like he’s taking her for a fool. And whoops, she falls to his trap!

✓ Women believe in love.

Outside marriage, men are just cheaters (irresponsible men). For men, there’s no love gained or lost. After sex, a man walks away with zero feelings. The game is over. She’s left confused and wounded. Women don’t easily slow down after intimacy.

✓ Women are more emotional by nature.

The woman’s body releases volumes of oxytocin during intimacy. This is the hormone responsible for bonding. She naturally gets emotionally attached to the man she slept with. And the more time he took with her, the more attached she becomes.

✓ Women are nurturers by nature.

Women unconsciously nurture relationships the same way they nurture babies. Women foster and nourish whatever comes their way including grownup men.

✓ Sex for women is an act of submission.

When a woman sleeps with a man, she totally trusts him. In sex, a woman surrenders her life, will and body to the man to do with her as he wishes. That’s why women get broken to pieces when relationships break down.



Fritzy

Super story!... a woman's emotion is not stable!!!

PROPEACE:
Well, it is a wicked person's favourite quote truly! If you pay fees for a girlfriend and refuse to support your loved ones in need, you don't need me to tell you what you are.

And you think I will be that foolish to pay schools fees for a girlfriend not wife??, Godforbid!

PROPEACE:
Many of the people saying "I will pay her school fees" will abandon their siblings and even parents and be screaming "nobody owes you anything" (wicked man's favourite slogan) whilst paying the fees of a strange woman.

No body owes you anything truly!

EreluRoz:
Then no need for the relationship.

If you start being calculative and acting smart with your partner then it's best you go your seperate ways.

I don't even understand what you young people call relationship these days

What are you sacrificing as the woman is the major question!

What thousands if not millions are looking for is what you're complaining about??, you're just being ungrateful... Will social life pay your bills??, I don't think you've been in very serious need for money before!, you don't know what God has done for you, ask him for forgiveness, there are bars, restaurants, parks, gym, sport centers and social clubs everywhere, all these I mentioned requires one thing, MONEY!, my brother ask God for forgiveness!

Britishcoins:
I paid 2.5m, people may say it is costly but I am OK with it..

I am a novice on car, and I can't assure of getting it for you... Just like I said earlier, I have never plan buying car this month, it is just came and I grabbed it

Okay bro, I understand... I just don't want to make mistake by buying a car that'll be in the mechanic always

Justkatty:
I can see where the problem is coming from....not my fault though
Deal with it, so you won't go mad at the end.

Deal with what??, your head no correct, you want a man to pick a poor woman and make her family and hers life great, just because she's a woman and beautiful??, who will help the man assuming he's poor or goes broke?, una dey live for lalaland hahaha

Christianoir:
It is weird, I don’t talk with my neighbour, we only greet nd hail each other that where it end, but I haven’t really have any meaningful conversation with them before and it bother me sometimes tho.. I’m mostly an introvert nd the shy type. Is something wrong with me, sometimes I want to speak to them, but me speaking to them will mean being friendly, which I’m avoiding, ever since I rented this compound I’ve avoided trouble. Nd I’m someone who cares about what people say or care about the opinion of others, things get to me easily tho

Do they see me as a proud/arrogant person.
I’m I weird. Is there people out there like me who have neighbors like me.

Im a student tho.

Please ignore my typo error.

It's like that everywhere!... if dem dey form for you, you too ignore and form for them!, no one is more special!

Britishcoins:
This particular one I bought was brought by a man direct tokumbo and has been parked because he has many cars, so he just recently want to sell it since he is not using it

Can he get anyone for me?