₦airaland Forum

Duggedised12:
lol, what type of lawyer are you? I am asking if it is crime in Nigeria you are saying its not bound to happen, i already told you of case that even made it to nairaland front page and the police arrested the guy. Except you be charge and bail lawyer wey nor know the law.

Hahahaa from my message you should deduce if its a crime or not... am only trying to make the topic more elaborate, don't expect direct answers always except you are not intellectual or a juvenile!

Duggedised12:
then why is scam marriage a crime ,still havent answered that

marriage scam is rife in western world, con individuals use that avenue to gain permit/stay in a foreign country, reason why I said its very very rare in Nigeria... no correlation with Nigeria at all, cus I dont think anyone will be that desperate to be a citizen of a country that reject development and full of ardent criminals

Duggedised12:
if it is not an offense then why are marriage scammers arrested? I think false pretence to obtain anything is fraud,i might be wrong which is why i asked for lawyers,so i ask ,are you a lawyer?

if am not, why should I bother replying you of all messages here, false pretence!?... Hahahaa, doesn't work in a relationship or marriage. have a splendid day

Duggedised12:
but there was a case of a guy that promised a lady marriage just to obtain money from her. Also people who did marriage scam have been arrested too. Just asking to learn.

NB: I don't think marriage scam applies to Nigerians in Nigeria, very very rare such a case

Duggedised12:
but there was a case of a guy that promised a lady marriage just to obtain money from her. Also people who did marriage scam have been arrested too. Just asking to learn.

my message is gender stereotyping free, it goes for everyone... even with the intentions of scamming someone its not an offence or breaking of any law, remember its based on love which is mutual consensual. if its on marriage case you guys go for a divorce as simple as that. reason why one has to be wary before mingling and tangling

Duggedised12:
The ways some married idiots were sending DMS on nairaland. Some men are just plain stupid.

I know another one that opened a Facebook account
and even rented an apartment outside lagos to be forming single, i am just waiting till the day the bubble will burst.

Lawyers in the house ,isnt this type of deceit chargeable in a court of law?

Not at all... its love affair, that's your own business if you fall prey to a con lover, seek true love and forget about material things!

TheFacelessMan:
I agree with your message to your dad.

To your mother and generation, slowpoke!

TheFacelessMan:
You have a serious problem....fix it.

See a psychiatrist

he is 100% sane!!!, in fact you and your mad lots are the ones that need to visit yaba left... shithole individual supporting a shithole country

TB9ja:
What Nigerians have failed to realise is that these Americans and many foreigners are intimidated by Nigerians growing take-over in many areas. Snoop must have posted it and maybe felt he was adding to the promotion of a genre that is already flooding his industry. Why do you think DJ City was bashing Wizkid and Afrobeat the other day. Imagine what South Africa's rapper AKA also said after our victory against their football team. Nigerians, we need to stay woke. We are a chosen nation, just that our leaders keep being Judas.

Biafra is and a bit of South west, not be tribalistic and sentimental... if we leave this shithole, its over!!!

Oladefemi007:
This news sweet my Belle
Kudos to EFCC

Thunder fire you there!!!, how about them criminal politicians... in fact thunder fire your belle there idiot!

lonelygem:
If I hear hard work for Una mouth ehn.

I lost reasonable money to Ecobank staff negligence sometimes ago.

I made a transaction which the beneficiary claimed didn't receive and had been debited from my Ecobank account. I insisted the beneficiary should hold on till I confirm what happened from Ecobank before making another transaction.

I went to Ecobank branch and I was asked to fill in a disbursement error form which I did.

I asked repeatedly as I never trusted the beneficiary if I could go ahead and make a new payment to the beneficiary, the customer care lady said a capital yes assuring me the initial fund will be reversed to my account immediately as I'd filled the disbursement error form.

I left and made a fresh payment to the beneficiary, and I forgot about the whole thing..

2days, 5days one week gone no reversal.
I went to the branch again to complain, it was then they started looking for the disbursement error form I filled a week ago.
When they eventually found the form, it was discovered that the form wasn't processed, during the period, the cash cleared into the beneficiary's account unaltered because the form was not processed..

We started sending mails to Lagos office to rectify the issue, the guy in Lagos equally didn't respond tilll about 26days of the whole mess.. We kept calling from the branch phone, the branch manager's mobile number and my personal mobile number, the idiot was not on desk for days, and wasn't responding to mobile phone calls..

When he finally responded after 26days.. He only commented "the transaction cleared into the beneficiary's account" that was how I lost the money..

I quietly stoped using the account for any transaction since 2016. I just counted Ecobank out of my business life.

It may be funny that most employee don't deserve what they actually earn and can be so shameless to come to protest ground without conscience..

Very very useless and annoying staffs, they ought to sack all of them, bunch of imbecilic idiiots!!!

just listen to your self,and the other person interesting findings,what else can your devil infested brain think,repent

really it's a free world... and you nor I can't do shiit about it!

datigbogirl:
Wanna copy Euro why not call it Afro? Which one be Eco? Eco ko Eko hotels ni...

Note its not African Union, its West African countries

Most stupid woman on earth!!!

Rumicarter:
Money Miss Road kind of wedding. But I'm not surprised tbh, they already had like 15 celebrations before this white wedding.

Oh no wonder!

So no way to gather people to showcase there real and valuable talents!?... except this sex shit!?. well I blame our stupid and useless girls who are only good at watching movies, eating and having sex... arrant rubbish!!!

Most ugly rich couple I've ever seen!... even their sense of dressing is ridiculously wack. HML tho.

TOPCRUISE:
Marrying themselves because they are rich. I don't know if the circumstance like this is love or favour or business.
Who wants to associate with an average, hustling, stuggling person or family. Many billionaires don't want that except that person is a celebrity

because poor people have a warped way of reasoning. also they are very ungrateful and religious!!!

datigbogirl:
Abeg how do I go about getting one? I need it for the streets...

Hahahaa, Go to the police sweetie... would have taken you through all the process, but am not in 9ja now

datigbogirl:
You neva jam craze geh, aswear she go dismantle that your spider and turn am to cobweb.

Hahahaha, I have a licensed pistol. she can't dare!!!

nairavsdollars:
Churchill should come and beg Queen Tonto for deceiving her that he is Obasanjo's son which made her marry him

thats what suits you bunch of lazy and gold digging idiots!!!... am cooking the one I will even tell the next idiot I will blow, I've blown like 25 girls in 2weeks since I bought my Toyota spider, imagine when I get my Benz E class, I realized you all are one even my sisters included, Money money money, useless things!!!!

QueenSekxy:
Lol. Has it come to personal attack?
Weak man.

You are very dumb, your type is the problem we have in Nigeria... guys have become more hard hearted even the so called rich ones!, that's y marriage is very limited nowadays because of your stupid ways of reasoning!!!, my guys and I keep fuckiin always no marriage to gold diggers and hores!!!

kevinedet01:
please me why

Nigeria is black listed!!!

Marbella003:
I have a main account but I decided to create this one to post this in order to avoid embarrassment or reveal my identity.

I got married 4 years ago to my husband. He was in his 40s and I was in my 20s. The age difference between us has never really been a problem as we are both educated, well spoken, have similar personalities and share a lot of interests, and as a result we mesh well. My husband is a very caring and thoughtful man. This is one of the traits that made me fall helplessly for him, along with his intelligence and fun personality. I will not reveal anything pertaining to kids as this might punch a hole in my wall of anonymity.

I've always loved my husband and I still do. But I've never really been sexually attracted to him. This is not to say that I find him unattractive. No. He is okay as far as physical appearance goes, but his look has never been the kind to turn me on sexually. To put it plainly, I find that I'm only sexually attracted to young men around my age with tall, athletic bodies and with the energy and agility to please a woman satisfyingly in the bedroom. I met this kind of man in my work place and after we talked a few times I couldn't help but become attracted to him. I realized he was also attracted me, and fast forward to a week ago, we had sex in a hotel room.

I'm ashamed to admit that sex with him was glorious, but it truly was. It was better than anything I had ever done with my husband. I loved how he tossed me around the bed and did stuff to me that my husband doesn't do and I liked how ever part of his body felt firm and strong. After the act I felt a wave of shame wash over me. I recognized that I had committed an atrocity and I knew I had broken my marriage vows. The guilt of what I had done followed me around like a stench. I hated myself for betraying a man that had always loved and cared for me.

The problem I now face is that despite the guilt and the shame I constantly feel, I still yearn to experience another period of sexual bliss with my colleague. I can't help it. I'm torn. I already told my colleague that that one time was the last but deep down I don't want it to be. I know that if I tell my husband about what I did, that it would mark the end of my relationship with my colleague, but I don't know exactly how my husband would receive this information. I don't want him to look at me and see a betrayer of trust; a woman lacking integrity and virtue. No. I even thought of resigning from my job or requesting a transfer so as not to be in close proximity with my colleague but I know that wouldn't solve anything as I still have his social media info and occasionally stalk him(yes I do). I'm so conflicted. I don't know what to do.

you will still go back for more!!!, you better leave his presence (your work mate) by all means if you really want to quit cheating on your hubby

kevinedet01:
Help, abeg. What should I do for admob ads to show. I have app and apk editor that I downloaded from online, I have added the ads to the app with apk editor but is not showing. Is there any trick other than what I did. Abeg make una show me dey way

STOP WASTING YOUR TIME AND DATA!, cus they will never pay you!!!