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Chyvy:
Hello wonderful mamas. Pls what can I use for my baby's hair to enable it grow faster and softer? My baby had 'ela' which chopped off her hairline. The ela is gone now but how do I make the areas affected regrow? Thanks

Pls what did you use to treat the elaa?

mytestimony:
The nurse specifically said mothers I am noy saying u should give pcm o. But depending on ir baby's reaction u know what to do
So I was wondering if the pcm can be avoided. Please do u give pcm for all immunizations. Does it include first immunization. Bcg hep b
Thanks

Anyways, different hospital wt different practice. D first immunization we were still at the hospital when my baby was given and it was d matron hersef dt ordered d staff nurses to gv d babies pcm. At d 6wks appointment too, immediately after the shot d matron will tell you to gv pcm.
Wetin d nurse cm say mk u gv d baby... What does she mean by "u know what to do"

Pls mothers, to d rescue. What can I use to treat elaa..... Its on my baby's bum. His hair is also reversing and ppl are saying the elaa is d cause. Pls help o

mytestimony:
After vaccination when does baby's body start to get hot?
If baby's body is not hot must pcm still be given?

Oh pls don't wait till d body gets hot before you give d pcm. Gv it immediately after the injection or immediately u get home. And u might even have to repeat it if/when fever sets in. Some nurses will say gv baby thrice daily after d injection.
With my baby, he developed fever within 24hrs but it receded within 48hrs.

Besides huggies n pampers, which other good diaper do you know?

Nita2013:
It's very normal dear. New borns most times poop after every feed. Between 6-9 times is normal.

NoQualms1 post=31933292:
@cancerlib, it's normal. they poop a lot at that age. Don't worry, you will still be the one to complain that baby has not pooped for days later.

kaffy4bill:
It's normal @ dis stage. Kip feeding

TX for the replies. Are there foods I should avoid eating? MIL said not to drink milo n milk, nt to eat okro, veg oil, orange etc.

Pls mothers, how often should a newborn poo? My 3wks old boy poops like 6-7 times a day, most often whenever he finishes feeding. Am doing exclusive breastfeeding. Mother in law thinks its diarrhea. I checked google and a lot of opinion said its normal.
Am just confused. MIL kept insisting he needs gripe water that he has stomach cramps.

Thnx for the comments

Hello mothers, what can I use to get my belly back? I had a section 2wks ago and my tummy still looks 5mnths preggy. Learnt I cant do hot water pressing cos of d CS. Any idea will be greatly appreciated.
TX in advance

JUMAYIN:
went for another scan today after 2 days of spotting then i waa told my baby isnt growing,12 weeks today....was told its a blighted ovum...av done d evacuation...pray for me to join u guys soonest.GOD has a reaaon for everything

Aww so sorry hun, hold on to ur faith, theres truthfully a reason for everythn.
Throwing plenty babydust ur way

sayoberry:
Long walks
Bouncing on Ur toes (if u can)
Kpekus
Squatting
Dance small Shoji
Drink Milo
Thank me later
He was probably expecting that Ur baby would have engaged. I.e dropping into Ur pelvic preparing to come soon. So with exercises, u can get Ur baby to drop. You will notice the baby had dropped when u get a free space on Ur upper tummy. It will be really free and u ll feel more weight down. Also, Ur tummy will drop, people will be able to tell sef. Although not everybody drops that obviously. Some will drop and it won't be noticeable. So if u can't walk-like me, try voicing on Ur toes or if u have a bounce ball. I don't have one but I have a spring bed. So I sit on it and bounce to da music.

Nb: don't take the Milo part seriously

God bless u. I dnnt av a bounce ball either, but i cn bounce on toes. Wch one is Kpekus

Hi mommas in d house.
Just came across this thread. Am 38wks, ystady was my clinic day and during check -up my doc said he expects d head to be lower than it is. So obviously my baby hasn't engaged, anybody here experienced this? Shd I be worried?
NB: This is my first pregnancy

mirajune:
No big deal. If it's a girl, they can't change it to a boy and vice versa. But I usually tell them the opposite. Waiting for their surprise when they eventually found out.

Lol at telling them d opposite

Is it normal for family to inquire about d sex of an unborn baby and is it ok to tell them?
We r nigerians afterall,lol.
My MIL wants to know, this is my first child and i really want to know if its ok to tell.
TIA

Pls any info will be highly appreciated.
Tx in advance

Pls i need a list of modern yoruba names for boys....if u know one kindly post it.
Modern pls.
Thnx in advance

greatgod2012: And please, don't ask me what i would have done if i'm in your shoe, because i'm a person with zero tolarance for nonsense.

Wishing you goodluck.

I just don't want all the stress to cause me miscarriage, have suffered enough already.
Have decided I won't report him to anybody, I'll give him the silent treatment, if he'll come back to his senses, I want it to be him without d interference of anyone

Hmmm, my story took a different turn.....
When we first got married, we made a decision to wait a bit before procreating (he wanted to be more balanced) asked him how long is a bit, and he said few months. But when months rolled into a year and over a year, his family got on my case especially his mom. When I told them its their son that isn't ready they refuse to accept, after all am d woman, if I want a baby I know how to go about it.
I tried reasoning with him we should try for a baby now but he was adamant, he doesn't want stress for me andhe needs to put some things in place before we talk about babies.
Fast-forward to some months later and I got pregnant. He went really mad, how could I betray him so? Blah blah.
He told me point blank he wants an abortion to which I refused, his family heard about it and told him his callous , ,shouldnt he be happy about it.
This went on for days but he eventually accept and apologise for his actions ans and we movedd on.
When I saw his chat with the lady, this situation crossed my mind , could it be related? That's y I was dazed and confused at first.
When we talked , he went all macho with me and actually confirmed it that hes punishing me cos I tried to prove smart by getting pregnant, and that upon his tears and pleads to abort I was adamant. All d fight in me fled, I just told him hes not even the father of that child ans I told him we have nothing further to discuss.
I went to bed, this morning he asked for food and I told him am never cooking for him again.
He said I like unnecessary wahala, he didn't sleep with anyone, I wasn't even interested and just left

Chillisauce: I don't know it all, but you had all the advice you needed on your "sisters" problem.

Like I said, take a long bath, relax yourself. Your journey just starting. No need getting worked up.

Av bn married even before i put up dt post and lik i said in ds post earlier, ds is a first time for me, my hubby never cheated before and after marriage, ds is his first time. Theres no reason y ill care wether anybdy blvs me on nl or not, ds is cyberworld, i dnt knw u and u dnt knw me.
Stop hijackn my thread by playn knw it all

Chillisauce: And they got married.

Oh, i see where ur confusion sets in. But u need nt jump into conclusion, dt post wasnt for me!
U really dnt knw it all

chaircover: @op is the town that your hubby is travelling to the same town as this woman?

Is this trip to do with work? Is he going with his collegues?i

Anyway this is a face to face issue, so I suggest you ask him to come home first before he goes and you discuss it. If its too late for him to travel today, then he can go tomorrow.

Its nt official, its family stuff. I found out on d girls fb page her town, its even totally off to d state hubby is going.

MizzD: Madam, don't forward the chat to his phone. That will give room for wuruwuru and you will not get to the root of the matter. You need a face-to-face communication to watch his body language, maintain eye contacts and express yourselves clearly without misconception from both sides. Tell your hubby he needs to come home after work before the trip, let him know its urgent and can't wait.

Ps -i have a deep feeling that you are scared of your hubby. And except you are exaggerating the content of the chats, I see no reason why you should not approach, confront and seek explanation from him.

Am nt scared of him just confused. But readn d comments has woken me up to reality

Chillisauce: You knew he was like this, you married him.
He told you not to snoop on his phone, you went ahead and did just that.

The problem is all from you.
You have a problem and not your husband.


Heck who even laughs when she has a proof that her husband was gonna cheat
You probably married him because of the financial benefit and all the package that comes with it.
Your cross .

Icherishu: Haba Chillisauce. I expected more from you than this. She is married to him now and lets move forward for a solution and not blame culture. So will she have done when she suspected everything? Fold her arms and look elsewhere till the man brings the said "friend" home or sleep with her as he is planning to do? Common be pathetic a bit, she is heavy and need our support in this place not to make it worst. Moreover you talk as if you know the Op. Even women that married poor men gets to be cheated on when the man finally gets to be financially independent. So please dear be nice.

Actually i just decided to ignore d comment, hubby and i started from scratch, and even right now its not as if we r flamboyantly rich, we r just average.
Theres no correlatn between d comment and d situatn

mikeywise: then there is no need calling her. try and involve in an activity that will help get your mind off the issue, the mistake u made was not confronting him before he left this morning.
it is easier to uproot a tree at an early stage than trying to uproot it when it has grown to full maturity.
The earlier you confront him, the better for your family.

Its nt too late, he dsnt leave d office till 6-7hrs time, il forward d chat to his phone.

mikeywise: Does your husband know you have her number? why not let some else do the calling?

I suppose he does

MARKone: I would advise you immediately to confront him(not aggressively) with whatever evidence you have before he leaves. If he has conscience, he would probably have a rethink. If you have the other woman's number, call her up to leave your husband alone.I would not advice you to go there to confront two of them. In the fit of anger, anything can happen. Don't forget to always insist on protection during S€¤

I have d girls contact but i cnt call her. Shes a student and shes aware hes married, y shd i belittle mysef

obyrich: Buy 5 packets of condom. Pack it into his luggages. When you presume he will be with the lady, give him a call and tell him you love him. Also tell him to make use of the gift you put in his travelling bag.
Never argue with him on phone over the CD or your reason for doing so. If he comes back demanding reason for your 'silly' behavior, just forward the screenshots to his phone and demand an explanation for it as well. Remember don't argue when he boils over. Just ignore his rantings and blames for snooping on his privacy. Your silence will melt him and bring him to his knees. Then, you can demand for a final severing of his relationship with the woman. Tell him he has to come out clear and make choice between the two of you. No think am too much o. Make u no get high B.P.

Tnx for ds, d gift of condom is too late, hes off to work already and hes travelln frm thr.

Icherishu: Men that their hands aren't clean will always accuse you of snooping. It isn't easy to keep this away but I feel it is still too immature to confront him.

First of all I will form serious sickness, so that he can't travel on Sat but on Sunday so that his time to spend with the lady will be limited or rather he won't travel at all to watch his body language if he is actually upset.

Secondly of it I can get hold of the ladies number, I ll make life unbearably for her by buying bulk sms and bombarding her with the phone with anonymous curse. I

Third, if I can send a guy to that destination to watch both of them. I will do just for evidence. Cos some men are good at twisting things to favour them and make you look as if you are the one with the problems. Or you don't just trust them.

All these it isn't still easy to achieve when you know that he can bang her any moment, I must tell you std, Ebola and HIV is real.

Let me cross leg and wait for pro in the house cos I am a learner.

He works on satdays so hes travelln from work. And sincerely, do i have any business with d girl?

babyosisi: Don't send the texts from the chat yet
If you can get some evidence that they actually were together,better
Get him where he can't deny a thing
Don't try to stop him
Don't give out your ace like that

Prob is i cant tail him interstate just to catch him in d act. He cnt deny his words in d chat, he ws explicit

uboma: @ op, since u already have evidence that they will be hooking up this weekend, why not approach yr hubby abt it. Make him understand yr disappointment in him for lying to u at the onset. Remind him that he's the one that put u in your current condition (carrying his child is not a child's play). And watch his reaction.

greatgod2012: Send back the screenshot you sent to your phone back to his phone with your own phone.
Believe me, he will call for explaination and from there communication starts.

Ill just try these, on one side cn he shift d blame on me for snoopn? So i cn be prepared.
And tx for ur replies

bigtt76: First time and you de complain? Abeg allow am joooor BUT warn am to use condom. Trust me he won't go on that trip again Better than making it a conflict.

Just tell him to have a nice time but play it safe as Ebola is out there ....hin tin nor go stand sef.

Lol

alutacontinua: Come out champion fa?
instead of you to be worried about something they call stds.......what can I say?

My sis, am only tryn to mk light of ds matter cos am pregnant and dnt want to get worked up.
This wkend will b thr first time having sex, he just started d bullshit, dats y am lookn for a way to really address this instead of pushn him further away