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ahuja12:
Eating a viper!

And you think you are enjoying?

Demigod22:
So I met Cynthia immediately we resumed from covid 19 break. We started as friends before the feelings set in. I made my intentions known to her. We usually called each other, but she stopped calling the moment I revealed my feelings to her. I was the only one doing the calls, the texting, we chatted everyday.

She said she doesn't like guys that take alcohol and I stopped. I started attending fellowship because of her, I was visiting hostel always because of her, I joined school politics because of her, I stopped keeping late night because of her. Everything she wanted I was doing, I bought her stuffs too.

The problem was that she wanted friendship and I wanted relationship. I was ready to accept her terms and conditions, like no sex, no visiting. I did all her assignments for her, I gave her tutorials,past questions, even mark her script with sentiment.

I realized how foolish I was trying to love someone that doesn't love me but was only interested in using me. I stopped calling and doing those things for her. One month after she started dating my coursemate. I was hurt but I moved on.

Today, after everything, this wicked girl sent me a message on WhatsApp, asking for my help regarding her project. She said she needs me to give her project topics and guide her. Then I am wondering how some people can be this wicked and heartless.

Although she denied dating my coursemate, she said she doesn't have the ability to love, that was her excuse of not accepting to date me and she said she is not dating my coursemate either, but what guts made her think that I will help her after the treatment I got from her for eight months?

posty56:
una dey try to, how do you comfortably , sleep with person that has been entered by, abgeros , bus driver, cleaners, mechanics, plumbers etc, I am not demeaning their jobs , both most of this profession, requires one to be dirty, them go still use that body enter woman, in short people who patronize ashawo, their lives are empty.

slawormiir:
Damnnn niggar

Nice
But Nigeria brewing nor even fit organise or sponsore any concert for Benin city

Funny enough na we south south dey drink the beer well well pass
Especially Edo state

If you doubt go and meet all these companies selling beer let them release the statistics

Edo state dey beat all other state hands down for the buying of these alcoholic drinks

MuchAdo:
The estate security guards should not only be arrested, they should be flogged silly!

How dare you stop the commissioner of police from entering an estate after having properly identified himself

Who gave them the licence to operate in the first instance

Anybody supporting the estate security guards is a loooonatic!

dangotesmummy:
no be she born the kids? Is it possible to take out the hatred you have for their mother by seperating the kids? Whatever you have against their mother should not have any direct or indirect impact on the kids

Theonlysonofher:
While others are celebrating the new year today I am here sobbing because my marriage is at the verge of breaking.

I loved my wife with all my heart but I don't think I will ever forgive her for what she has done to my mother.

I am the only child of my mother. I have three sisters on my father's side.
I am married with two beautiful daughters. my mother suffered from diabetes, bp and high cholesterol. She is on a special diets strictly no salt or too much sugar.

She came to stay with me because the person who was taking care of her wasn't doing her job properly so I had to bring her to my house so I will be monitoring her health.

I have a house help who prepares all her meals with less salt and she also makes sure she takes her medicines on time without fail.
Everything was fine, my mother is not a troublesome person, she gets on well with my wife and most of the time she is in her room resting.

On the 20th of December my house help had traveled to the village to see her people and she will be back in January 4th so my wife and I have to take care of my mother making sure that her foods is less salty and medicines on time.

Since I am always working so my wife had to take most of the responsibility. It is only for a week and fews days until the house help is back.

She had agreed to take care of my mother during this periods of time and I thought everything was fine but I noticed my mother become distant and tired unlike her and I had no idea that she was actually dying and I have never suspected that my wife was maltreating her.

So Thursday being 30th December I was at work when my wife called and asked me to join her at the hospital because mama had a seizure.

I rushed to the hospital and my mother was in a coma state and I asked her what happened to mama, she said mama woke up that morning complaining about shortage of breath and she told her to go back to bed and rest hoping she will be fine by the time she will wake up.
Only for mama to fall off the ground and started shaking with foam coming out of her mouth.

I was in panicked I couldn't stop praying for my mother to get better and I didn't leave the hospital, my wife went home to take care of the children because she has left them with the neighbour and I had spend all night prayer vigil at my mother's bedside and glory be to God my mother woke up yesterday being 31st but the doctor report was not a good news for me.

Actually my mother was poisoned with salt and guess who did it? My beloved wife couldn't bothered to cook a different meal for my mother, she used to feed her the same meal we ate knowing full well that mama cannot eat the same foods as us because we are salt lovers, especially my wife, she love eating too much salt which I have warned her over and over again because it is also not good for her health.

I confronted her, she said she only fed mama the same meals we ate twice only but according to the doctor it was more than two times.

I am hurt that my wife doesnt love my mother or treat her like her own mother because if she truly loved her like her own mother she would have put her diet on consideration and not allow her to eat the same meal as us. I love her mother and u treat her like my own mother.

It pains me a lot when I remember five years ago when her mother was in coma state and she was staying with her at the hospital, she is her only daughter amongst three boys.

I used to visit them everyday after work, I will bring foods and I have even washed her mother clothes with my own hands, I have done with love because she is my mother. I called my mother in law this morning and I have informed her about what her daughter has done to my mother and she couldn't stop apologising and she is very disappointed with my wife.

But see how she has repaid me by hurting my own mother.

She has apologised to me and to my mother, I have forgave her but I don't think I can stay with her again because one day if I become sick or bedridden she might treat me the same way.

Honestly speaking I am not even at home with her and the kids, I am at my cousin brother's house since yesterday I left the hospital and my mother is still in the hospital because she needs more treatment and hopefully she will recover by next week.

I don't feel like going home today and I don't know when I'll go home but I will always be there for my girls because they are the best thing that ever happened to me.

What other advice would you give me on this situation? What are your thoughts? Thank you for reading all I love this community.

BegAt40:
Never make the mistake of taking your Nigerian wife abroad.

I left Argentina for US last year and I was accommodated by my friend who has been in US for Five years. I often leave for a hotel where I've booked a room earlier for privacy purposes. Until I was a ablr to rent an apartment so before then I stay with my friend and his wife.

While I stayed with them, his wife used to ignite violence mostly at night but my friend used to try his best to make it look like all his well. I left the place totally after a week due to this reason because u don't want my friend to feel bad whenever his wife troubles him. After I left for my new rented apartment, I don't discuss with him regularly anymore like before but I live close to his house and we only discuss once in a while, he works in two different places in the day so he comes one late at night.

I left for UK two weeks ago and I just got a call from him today. He explained that his wife sent him away from home and he was pleading to stay in my apartment. He explained further that he paid for the house in his wife's name. What really pissed me off is when he told me that his wife is now staying with one black American junkie that he's been suspecting to be having an affair earlier.

If not that he's been a very good friend, I won't forgive him and I'll make him roam the street of Chicago like a stray dog.

I HATE SIMPS!

HenryDion:
So, my friend just called me early this morning to let me know that his newly married wife have a tattoo around her vagina area.

I was dumbfounded, cause that can only mean one thing, but we could be wrong.

Right now this so called friend of mine is confused and restless, and they were the 'no sex before marriage' crew.

I didn't bother asking for a picture, even though I was tempted to ask.

Dear NLders, what do you think about the tattoo? Should he be worried?

Jerkbaba:
. Bahd man. Na ajah o.

Jerkbaba:
As I just dey close for the night yesterday dey return back my place, banger just dey blow for everywhere, as I reach junction, see as ashawo just full everywhere! . Small girls of 16, 17 with big nyash just full everywhere! I see one wey I like with very big bumbum I for pick her but the money wey remain na suya I use end am. Cased close!

GoodHardDick:
It was 31st December and so I asked this girl out, she accepted. No dulling and no time to waste at all, I took her to an hotel, bleep the hell out of her. She was just 20 .

After the hot bleeping, this girl called and said that was the best sex she ever had and was in love with me (scam), she kept calling every seconds and was acting all nice, she even planed on coming to cook for me (which I rejected immediately).

Only for her to finally open up and told me she had a baby for a guy when she was 18 and the baby daddy is currently 19 years and she's 20 (meaning she seniors the baby daddy) that the baby stays with her parents and so on.

Before this, I have already deleted her number and move on to the next available banny to knack.

Guys be careful with these girls, most of them are looking for a guy to hook and control. Only a simp will fail for their manipulations. this is a new year. No guy should simp around!

flyinnizam:
Jubilations as my brother brought home this 2 bushpig this morning. New year don set for us o.

iamoyindamola:
Atleast I am not a thief like you

iamoyindamola:
Lmao so you can scam me

iamoyindamola:
Mumu
Hungry mofo looking for where to sell outdated phones

Bodmum:
maybe you Will sell those Samsung's to him at 35k or he should go and Rob because of overpriced Sammy.

iamoyindamola:
You should Bleep off instead and stop forcing your over prized crap on him

michael77777:
go and ask your mom why you are so stupid

Bodmum:
no be scam you scam somebody last week wey them come arrest you?

Icumsa45:
I doubt if the proceeds came through music. Congratulations though, you just snitched yourself to the IRS.

PrinceOfLagos:
And your Instagram "Likes" no reach 700

Mhykel217:
Ogaa him no tell u say na brand new or london use him need.

Mhykel217:
He bought what his money can afford nd u still de para... o gan o

Mercychen:
Good for her.

Now because it's a lady settling for a carpenter, she's tagged pretty and described as "proud" but if a guys settles for a pepper seller, the girl will be called all sort of demeaning names and the boy tagged "simp".

Her choice.