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Gboliwe:
Nairaland you have it! Please send capricun a PM for directions if you think you can cope.
Thank You man! May you keep shining in your new place

Anyone who needs a job can send me a pm. The job actually taught me a lot of things and gave me wide exposure.
Cheers.

Gboliwe we know each other on my other account

Gboliwe:
Tell us the nature of the job and location, I am certain it will be a big catch to someone in this section. You would be helping reduce unemployment in your own small way.

It's a logistics and operations person job. I do all the IT work also, the person must have a knowledge of Corel draw and be able to use all the Microsoft office packages. I meant all oo.

The job is on the island in Lagos. You must be hardworking as it involves working on weekends.

I believe in miracles

Gboliwe:
She said the two months notice verbally right? She also gave you employment notice verbally abi? When she was doing those, she was being smart by safeguarding herself against any form of lawsuit in future. If she were to be smarter, she would have secured your duties too by tying you down legally- giving you an appointment letter and stating the terms therein but she didn't so she isn't so smart.

So, just for posterity and conscience sake, go to her and speak with her thanking her for giving you the opportunity to work with her. Thank her for everything you know she has impacted and done and drop the news too of you seeming progress. She should understand and be happy for you. If you have someone who can do your job, recommend such to her. Help her train someone who will take over from you. Good luck

I don't think I would recommend anyone to work here, cause seriously I didn't find it comfortable at all.
I would use your advice but I know leaving without notice would hurt her and the company but a man has got to do what he has to do.

I have spent 1year 8 months in my present company. I got the job immediately after NYSC last year. I wasn't given an appointment letter though. I got a Federal appointment on Friday and training starts next week.

Now I need to resign but two of my colleagues resigned last month and my boss was like, now anyone who wants to resign must give her two months notice.

I have started clearing my desk and writing a handover report and i need to resign on Monday. I need help, how do I go about it.
Thanks guys

I vote for Vivly

https://www.nairaland.com/deehvahrzz

check out this lady. all I could say was Jesus

I nominate

www.nairaland.com/sleekyshuga

Raiders:
Yes. If you date or marry the president or a state governor daughter. She will bring luck to you

The most logical post

^^^^^^ mumu post

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captainflash:
get a knife and stap yourself maybe u could see some blood if your skin's not dry. .

Yawns

Make una do na, me I done dey vex. I need to see some blood

ochon:
I hate this shitt. Olu why nau?

Well, don't paste my bars. Keep am, if I wan battle another person in future, I'll use them.

See my friend forming champion. Them go Woop your a55

rozzay:
Yawn* abeg shift

Go and eat poison

rozzay:
And wake up from ur own slumber nobody has posted as much as u btw wat threads did u see me going aroind and how will u know wen u just opened dis acc. Except u have a known Id alredy and u r hiding under dis one. Hater who eva u are hiding under d guise of capricun. Go and die!

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rozzay:
Shut up and mind ur bis he s not complaining is he and stop doing work no pay u r beginning to sound stupid

You're no kid babe. Why are you going round threads begging for advice? Wake up from your slumber, he doesn't like you.

PDP a party with half balls.

rozzay:
He s now a partial flirt. Hehhehehe. Xyn stop na oya advise me

I feel you're beginning to insult Olubukato. What's your problem sef

AmberQueen:

Simple question nah

AmberQueen:
Love saturday...lol

I love Love

Are you in love

rozzay:
I didn't ask u to come an interprete drms na talk I say make u talk, if u no get talk help me waka na

Okay oo, Na my own talk be that.

rozzay:
Haf u heard. Eeehen

Stop dreaming.

MizMyColi:
Bae, sometimes it's better to keep mute.

My mental wits are not up to speed at the moment.

We go yarn later in the day.

Take care hun

Wicked

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I done laugh sotey my belle dey turn me.

https://www.raptitude.com/wp-content/uploads/2012/11/3484077912_0c87cd1b1e.jpg
Love is not what the movies and hit songs tell us it is.

Love doesn’t hurt. If it hurts it’s something else. Fear. Attachment. Idolatry. Addiction. Possessiveness.

Nobody’s heart aches out of love. In pop culture, love gets conflated with desire all the time. From childhood we learn you can like something, or you can love it, as if it’s only different degrees of the same thing.

Love is all selflessness. It’s the opposite of need and attachment. To an individual it’s a sensation of allowing, rather than seeking. Letting go, rather than grasping.

Love is subtle and silent and delicate, and in its beginnings it can be drowned out easily by attachment, lust and fear. Love must have space, and force is what crowds it out. Love is powerful but it isn’t forceful.

Desire is simple and often reckless. We need to manage it carefully to avoid causing harm. Desire is the intention to change something, to reject what it is in favor of what it could be — something better, more secure, more pleasing. Love is the intention to let that thing be for its own sake.

A lot of us grow up thinking that to love is simply to want very badly. It’s hard to be sensitive to love when you’re overrun by desire. Love isn’t something that can be done badly, if it’s love at all. Desire can happen at the same time as love, but it’s not the same thing.

Jealousy isn’t love, nor is it evidence of love. Jealousy is fear. Love doesn’t drive people mad, it drives them sane. Desire, in its different forms, can drive people to do anything. Love never drives people to kill or steal or cheat or worry.

Love reveals itself when you release your need to have the object of your affection, and see that there’s no reason to make it yours. That it exists at all is enough. To love something is to disappear in its favor — to die to your own interests so that it can be what it is.

In evolutionary time, love is new, and we’re still learning to used to it. It’s a much more sophisticated human capability than desire.

Desire’s been around forever. It’s a high-horsepower engine. It’s loud. It handles poorly. It only goes the way it’s pointing. It needs a sober driver, but it makes you drunk.

Desires are personal. They’re attached to you and they end where you end. They can be no bigger than you.

Love is bigger than you. To love someone is for their happiness to be the same as your own.

And so love is the dissolution of the borders between you and me and them. Those lines are conceptual and imaginary anyway, and love gives you vision clear enough to see the world without them.

Your love can’t be reserved for one person. If you only love one person you probably don’t love anyone. Love isn’t something you can aim. The truer your love is — in other words, the less you have it confused with something else — the more generalized it becomes. To love fully is to love all.

It takes practice to give up “good for me” in the name of “good.” In the grand scale of evolutionary time, human beings are only at the beginning of experimenting with this — working with something bigger and more important than personal desire.

But love is already everywhere, at least in the background. It’s too conspicuous to be marginalized, even among a population largely driven insane by mismanaged desire. We need to learn to navigate our desires better in order to love fully. We’re working on it.

It’s an interesting time to be alive. We’re graduating from a culture of desire-driven lives to one of love-driven lives. The solution to the world’s problems will look more and more obvious as more people begin to understand that and make that transformation. The first step is knowing the difference.

Defining it is impossible. You can throw words at it but never pin it down. Nothing is misidentified more often than love. But for now, we can know what it’s not. If it hurts, it’s not love.

http://www.raptitude.com/2012/11/what-love-is-not/

No Victor no vanguish, no loss no gain