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if money grew on trees,i would live on trees permanently
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if money grew on trees,

thought i was the only person, their service gets poorer each passing day, atimes i have more than 2000 on my phone and i still have to go to a payphone to make calls, complained to customer care to no avail, they had better do something fast

i so miss MrBrownJay, you dey always speak truth, i had an experience some weeks ago, met a lady and we became friends,i was bored one day and invited her to my house,on getting there,she saw i had quite an array of shirts and asked for a couple of polo shirts.I gave her 2 not cause i wanted anything in return but cos i had much and could part with a few, after that episode,i tried calling her,texting her and pinging her but she did not respond to any of them, one week later she pinged me and she said she had been going through issues that was why she didn't keep in touch.After pressing her for the details,she said " if you must know i am trying to raise money for my school fee and i am 60k short.I have been trying to get it from anywhere, i didn't wana tell you about it so you wouldn't think am taxing you and not check on me again", mind you this is a girl that gave me the impression she was comfortable and she was still seeking admission next fall, when i confronted her with the story she told me,she flared up and told me to stop asking her smart questions that i should go ahead and just help her and if i wasn't ready,i should let her be, if she had been polite about it,i might have helped her with something but she felt since i was on the verge of asking her out,then i must cater to her whims and caprices

Now Sexskillz, what do you call that?

no phone number,email or price, so how do you intend to sell this car?

add this one, dont ask for something your parents cannot afford to own or buy you,if you must have it, work for your money and buy it

i have read a lot of posts bashing Nigerian girls and most times,i just read,laugh and move on but i've decided to reply to this, most  comments here are  always

you are rolling with the wrong kind of ladies  or roll with a girl that is employed, truth is even the employed ones make crazy demands, most of the female folks that comment here say they are not like that but i doubt if their  boyfriends share this same sentiments, it's so easy to hide behind a computer monitor  and claim to be what you are not but truth is that most naija girls size you up before going out with you

a girl i respected told me a  relationship is about what you can get and another categorically told me yesterday that money and love goes together and that men were created to spend and spend, she even said givers never lack but she likes receiving, i asked her since she likes receiving,that means she would always lack and want but she said she would always have, i said "why wont  you have when i have 100k and you take 50k and collect additional 20k from like 5 more guys", please tell me who is richer?

I met a girl and we exchanged numbers,i called her just twice and the next thing is that  she wants to borrow 50k from me, another claimed to be independent and she is currently working and studying for her Phd but every time she comes to my place,she MUST wana go with something or i buy her's for her, the list is endless

Instead of the ladies taking this in bad faith,why not tone it down if some of these threads talk directly to you and if you have friends that are like that,let them know a relationship is not just about asking and asking and asking, peace

was this car converted from RHd to LHD?

how much are you willing to deal for last now?

am not a student of Economics so i can't understand somethings, if the USA Federal Reserve has been printing money thereby devaluing the Dollar,why has the Naira not appreciated against the Dollar? Naira still exchanges close to 160 over the counter against the dollar

well said, looks more like an 02-06 model with a redesigned Front and Rear but i bet it will be packed with the latest Technology

thumbs up omega25red, money in exchange for sex is simply prostitution, no other name

thanks for the pictures but i don't want a right hand drive

anyone have something??

waiting

we dey wait

that is way too much, a friend wants it for school runs, i have seen one for 1.7, just wanted to get a better bargain on nairaland

still waiting for others

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needed as quickly as possible as money is cooling off in my account right now
bus must be Lagos cleared
4 cylinder petrol or Diesel Engine
with or without A.C( with AC will be a cherry on the cake)
with or without passenger seats at the back but must have windows

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Oga Bizzbooks, sent you an email, expecting your reply, thanks

@Loluosas, if you read my first post,you would understand i wanted to know if i was the only one who think Prostitution is not justified, i talked of how i had a conversation with my girlfriend bothering on the topic, typical of most nairalanders not to read a post and just jump into it, go back and read more slowly

@All, thanks for all your sensible contributions, amazingly, most folks went about passing their points across without insulting or abusing people with different opinion, a feat which seems rare on nairaland these days

@Upendo, seems u wana put words in Coogar's mouth but he doesn't wana tag along, truth is we've all been at that point or are currently at that point

where we ask ourselves some questions, "is this person with me for what they can get?" Coogar doesn't wana feel  he dated or is dating a p.r.o.s.t.i.t.u.t.e

cos truth be told,most relationships in Naija these days is about what i can get, imagine your girlfriend saying she doesn't feel appreciated and you ask her

why, she replies that  you don't give her gifts as often as she feels she should get them, not that you don't give oh but they don't come regularly

@ Coogar, you harsh oh
@ Upendo, prostitution has different faces these days, a friend of mine is on facebook and a girl he does not know suddenly adds him, next they exchanged BB pins and the girl was always available to chat with him, the guy had to go and look at his profile picture again to confirm that it is not Boris Kodjoe or Tyson Beckford's picture he put up there, he didn't have to wait for long before the girl billed him since he wanted to meet her, since she stays in Lagos and he resides in Ibadan,she asked for transportation fare of 20k payable into her account before she moves an inch, shey she wan take Concorde Jet from Lagos to Ibadan for 20k? the said girl has a regular boyfriend oh,

so prostitution has many faces these days, you just have to shine your eyes well to know you are being taken for a long ride

@Coogar, i get your point but don't you think you are derailing? the thread is not about how guilty someone feels at the end of lying to a woman  or what emotions are involved or not, men lie and women lie, if everyone were to stay out of a  r/ship cos of that,i guess we can count on our fingers how many people are in a relationship

the question is: is there ever a justification for prostitution?, like 2buff said, do not judge but i am not judging, i just cant see any story one would tell me that would justify willingly prostituting without a gun being held to their head, even then, we still got choices

@Mynd 44, the last time i checked, prostitution is the act of providing sexual services to another person in return for payment, we can therefore infer that it's not just those that stand by the road side are prostitutes, your facebook girls equally are

there was this girl then that  got admitted into pre-degree in OAU, less than 2 months into when  she was admitted,every  guy wanted to bone her cause she was very busty, she started selling to everyone that could pay for it, her Elder brother was in the same school and was always giving her problems and told their parents, she organized for boys to teach her brother a lesson so he doesn't disturb her "business" henceforth

she is from a comfortable family and she still does it till date, on a bigger level though, i guess she equally has a"story", even Assassins and dare devil armed robbers got stories too

@Chibaby, the question i asked is  what if there is nobody to buy whatever the person prostituting is selling, wont they reach within them and find that one thing they can do to earn a living, be it a little talent that they  could harness, most of those that prostitute know it is a quick sure way of getting money, what about the comfortable ones from rich homes that  still delve into it, what is their story??, you need to be around when some of them boast, gross but when u can them p.r.o.s.t.i.t.u.t.e,they bring the roof down on you

@2buff, there  are able bodied men that p.r.o.s.t.i.t.u.t.e for cash too or drive a  nice car, what is their story?
seems the society we live in justifies everything nowadays, if someone does something that is bad,the defense is that  they are at-least not as bad as the next person

@ Upendo , that is nice coming from a lady

i was having a conversation with my girlfriend on prostitution and i told her i felt there is no justification for selling your body, she told me the story of

a  girl who had an evil step mother that refused to allow her and her siblings go to school, the girl had to p.r.o.s.t.i.t.u.t.e to survive and send her siblings to

school but i asked her "what if there were nobody for her to sell her body to,wouldn't she think outside the box and  find some other means of

earning a living like learning a craft?"

the question i am asking is " is there any fulfillment at the end of acquiring whatever one set out to acquire after selling their bodies, be it good 

grades,certificate or material things?"  male and female alike

i asked her if she would p.r.o.s.t.i.t.u.t.e if she were confronted with some difficult  situations but she didn't give me a clear  answer

she argued that i was taking such stance because i had never  been in some tight situations, are there folks out there who feel there are times when

prostitution can  be justified " those who willingly go into it and not forced into  it" or am out of touch

this is not a gender bashing thread as this post covers both males and females, i just want to be enlightened

thanks for a good deal, we negotiated for HP Mini, 1GB RAM and 250GB Hard disk but you gave me 1GB RAM and 320GB for the same price, thanks a lot

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if you cant deliver at that price, let me know what your best price is

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no email and no phone number or any means to contact you, best deal indeed

i left my numbers there so contact me if you are really interested

i have $1000 LR available for sale at 165 Naira, call me on 08077750954 or 08030430000 for inquiries

besides changing the color, why is the car this cheap cos i must admit that it's close to a steal for that price, is there anything wrong with the engine or transmission??