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The answer is not there it is simple na,dat is ehn teresa's dauta is ur wife which in turn gav u a child so this mean dat teresa is ur mother-in-law

Chai because of abroad u wnt to kill the baby you have seen without thinking twice she should be given 50 strokes of the cane

Booty4me:
She must be a bad gal . She must be hard to get She must be stubborn yeah Neatness to a fault Wildness in bed

i cant stop laughing to this. good dreams

tosyne2much:
You can't delete a comment bro


The only thing you can do, is to modify the post and make it blank. Shey u get me ?

thanks

tosyne2much:
u want me to share mine abi ?

tosyne2much pls how do i delete a comment or post

It's sad and very painful i broke up with my b.f i love so much today and he posted it on nairaland as a breakup text i cnt help but cry about it putting it on nairaland oh it hurts so bad

I was there live and direct i don dance tire

Kingsley1000:
op no thanks for wasting my mb

what will i even tell you self

Elizkid:
Nigeria can never forget me nd my family

dats gr8t

falconey:
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lol for me i think it is boko haram or Anini

Snowangel4:
Me

yes miss/mrs snow angel

All this viewers you people dont know how to comment abi?

Good morning dearest NL'S....let us answer this questions below 1.Jamaica can neve 4get =BOB MARLEY.....,..2..America can never 4get MICHEAL JACKSON.....3..South Africa can never 4get MANDELA....4..Argentina can never 4get MARADONA....5...England can never 4get QUEEN ELIZABETH....6..Nigeria can never 4get who...comment your answers...

AfricanApple:
lolzzz, that would be like killing yourself na

the way i go take forget say dat woman na my mama forget bottle for her head eh na only God fit explain

I wil leave the marriage for my mother

Dotwillis1:
Iyanya girlfriend no get no get name?

u no hear say her name na freda francis?

jornie:
you haff join gang abi??....Badbelle gang #okbye

lol ah sorry na dont go i will not join the jang again

This kind mumu fat arrogant actress ish even for small she dey like bag of AKAMU

rexkexmilan:
The Thread is irrelevant!!!

The mumu OP Is Silly!!!


Am Out!!!

why did you call me mumu and silly? When you dnt even kw me i dnt like it o u beta tell me sorry

naijaboiy:
[color=#1980BC]Can you just post every thing once and for all? [/color]

well i finished yesterday is difficult typing very fast because am using a small phone ....sowi

(2)YOU'RE WORTHLESS...Belittling your self-confidence can have a very serious consequences.making you feel as if you are worthless without him, the controlling boyfriend will prey on times that you may be stressed the must.if u have just lost a job or if u are experiencing normal hormonal reactions.this is the time he will strike .he wants you to feel as if life is not worth living without him.it's hard to believe,but his confidence level is actually lower than yours....(1)...NO MEANS NO...this is most upsetting trait that a controlling boyfriend can display if he forces you to do things your will.HE IS NOT IN LOVE WITH YOU..whether he is going for a football game when you hate out door sports even more harsh an act that makes you perform sexually against your will he is not in love with you.not showing you the courtesy to respect your wish is not a behaviour that goes away.this will continue where you wij be treated as an object instead of a person....so sisters try note to fall in to such hands

(4)HE'S ALWAYS RIGHT...in an argument with a controllin personality,it is very difficult for him to accept defeat.the controlling boyfriend will get defensive change the subject or bring up past occurence,when he was indeed correct in order to prove his point with the issue at hand.He may not always be right completely buthe is never wrong.....(3)...CAN'T BUY ME LOVE;Fools gold has been around fos centuries however,a fool and his gold have special meaning to the cöntrolling boyfriend,he buys you nice jewelry,take you to expensive restaurants and maybe offer to pay a debt of yours.he will it is because he loves you.NOT TRUE.he needs to feel superior to you.you now owe him.in his mind.who is the fool?to him you are (lol)

(6).QUESTIONS,QUESTIONS;when you finally break through the chains,and find some free time for yourself be prepared,your controlling boyfriend will interogate you when you return putting himself in a father figure position will install more of a sense of control.treating you like a child that went to the mall,is the kind of humiliatiön in you he is trying to achieve....(5)..NO QUESTION,NO ANSWERS...UNLIKE THE AFOrementioned subject,your boyfriend will come and go as it pleases without answering to anyone especially to you.if you question his where about or activities,he will become defensive.the subject will immediately tranfer from your asking "where were you"? To his come back remark abt how you Nag him too much,or something similar to that effect.he will ignore answering the question,and make you feel guilty for asking it.this is in hope that you will not do it again

(7)..NO MANNERS...in the previous e.g,the"please was left out intentionally.your boyfriend will not be polite.he will not say "thank you","your welcome","please"or even "excuse me"to you it is bcause he is expecting you to comply with his request.He also feels as if you should be thanking him for allowing you do things for him...

(.DO THINGS FOR HIM; "Honey go and pick up some coke for me"it sounds like a genuine request for assistance.if your boyfriend is constantly asking you to run errands without including you as a benefactor,this is anothe sign of the need to feel in control.instead of "pick up some coke for me",it should be we are out of coke.or can you pick up some coke please?"can you see the difference?

vizkiz:
can you dust off your diary and start writing again?

i dont understand you.

(9).DO WHAT HE LIKES;when you do go out to an event that HE chooses.you may not feel like going to a movie or hanging out in a place,but is it what he wants to do,for e.g.also,his turning down an offer to do what you would like is a key sign that he is not flexible.it often leaves the impression He may,or may not,but he is not supportive either way

I will start from down to up...lol (10).if you are in a relationship where it seems that you have no time to yourself,chances are you have a contolling boyfriend.He never wants you to go anywhere without him.There is no more "girls hanging out"for you and your friends,unless he is with you doesn't sound like a good time.....

All you neem is love but unfortunately,love is not everything to some people,they need more.the world we live may be a reason to become paranoid of strangers and suspicious of our family at times however when you are in a relatiönship,those feelings should subside for some,the fear go away without a second thought.for others,it is hard to trust.that is the main reason a boyfriend can become a controlling nightmare.it is hard to pinpoint the answers why this behaviour exist,but,if u feel you are being controlled,being able to identify the behaviour is your step to freedom.Taking the time within yourself and stop the behaviours or multivations that are making you accept an abusive relationship is the next.self-help programs can be a big help when you need to change your expectations of the relatiönship you are in......I WILL TAKE A SHORT BREAK BEFORE KEEP THE POINT$ ROLLING....ENJOY

Is not easy the worst is i did nt even do anytin wrng... I hv neva been left by a man so its not easy tryin to accept dis

Oh God my relationship is almost coming to an end...wat eva it is i leave it for God