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WebmastersRe: Please What Are The Free Website That I Can Upload My Songs ? by Castamir: 4:10pm On Dec 05, 2019
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Jobs/VacanciesRe: Lagos State Teachers Recruitment 2019 - 2020 (How To Apply) by Castamir: 1:12pm On Nov 11, 2019
Nice
CelebritiesRe: Jack Dorsey Dancing 'Soapy' By Naira Marley (Video) by Castamir: 1:08pm On Nov 11, 2019
lol
ProgrammingHELP --- KARMA! How Can I Do 302 Redirect On Blogger by Castamir(op): 9:36am On Oct 15, 2019
Hey geeks,
I want to do a 302 redirection on blogger but the codes that I found online does not transfer the link juice even though it works. What am I doing wrong?
WebmastersRe: I Need Help . It Is About Jumia Affiliate Marketing Program by Castamir: 8:29am On Oct 07, 2019
Yes, it is important for proper tracking and analytics.
Anita Ihesie has a lot on videos on YouTube on how to set up an account on Jumia affiliate program. Check her out
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=LM-beM8wiBY
WebmastersRe: I Need Help . It Is About Jumia Affiliate Marketing Program by Castamir: 8:19am On Oct 07, 2019
Dear @Silgent
I am NOT an affiliate on the website. Since I have some time on my hands, I will try to create an account and get back to you.
LiteratureRe: HELP!! How Can I Get Paid On Kdp? by Castamir: 5:38am On Oct 05, 2019
Hey bro, just copy the following into your Google search bar "site://ogbongeblog.com connect bank account to Payoneer"
CareerRe: Success Does Not Happen Overnight, Let That Sink! by Castamir: 10:34pm On Oct 04, 2019
Karma is a bitch.

Thank you so much for this wonderful post. It is exactly what I need.
LiteratureRe: HELP!! How Can I Get Paid On Kdp? by Castamir: 9:37pm On Oct 04, 2019
Dearest, getting paid through kdp is not possible through your local bank.
You need to have a bank account in US or UK. And this is provided by Payoneer.com. Sign up on the website and you will be given a bank account.
Check out Ogbongeblog by Jide Ogusanya on tutorial on how to connect your local bank account to Payoneer.

� Keep going bro. You will move mountains.
LiteratureWhere Can I Find Quotes/motivation On Nairaland? by Castamir(op): 9:20pm On Oct 04, 2019
I am looking for someone knowledgeable enough to guide me to the right section where I can find quotes/motivational posts.
BusinessHow To Get I Million People To Give You $1 by Castamir(op): 2:45pm On Oct 04, 2019
This thread is EXCLUSIVELY for cerebral thinkers.
How can you get one million people to give you $1?
Webmasters[AMA] Post Your SEO Problems Here, I Will Help You Out by Castamir(op): 8:21am On Sep 19, 2019
I have built a profitable website within a span of two weeks. This was achieved through constant learning of the ins and outs of SEO.
Post any questions you may have concerning ranking your blog on Google. And I will tackle it well.
RomanceRe: What Is Presently Turning You Off About Your Partner by Castamir: 8:45pm On Sep 12, 2019
Omar09:
Love isn't beautiful as you think. Love is a scorpion that stings to death but only this time its stings comes with an antidote n you don't get to die. But it keeps repeating itself in a sequence not patterned. Like Deja Vu
What a beautiful quote?
RomanceRe: This Is Why You Need To Give Your Wife Permission To Cheat On You. by Castamir(op): 7:38pm On Sep 12, 2019
apokan200:
Your lecturer said that and you believe in his ideology lol,don’t be deceived bro most men says what they can’t do or what isn’t happening in their life,lecturers are like pastors they lie too much and tryna put non existing things in their life into your own mind.no African man can take it not even your lecturer,so he’s fucking lying by saying he’s wife does that with another man
Let's not forget that it worked for him. And it's working for me.
RomanceRe: This Is Why You Need To Give Your Wife Permission To Cheat On You. by Castamir(op): 7:22pm On Sep 12, 2019
MrBrownJay1:
African men should only take 33% of the blame on this issue....the other 33% blame should go to women who indeed make men jump through hoops before they can see the color of their panties, let alone get hitched (in the name of courtship)...and the last 33% should go to Nigerian society who is hell bent on this brideprice thingy, that make men truly believe they OWN their wives outright.

Having this woman (you' ve paid for) go and have sex with strangers, is like buying a cow/car and having total strangers enjoying the milk/drive.... over my dead body.
This is the main root of the problem. No man will forgive you for taking what he got with sweat and blood.
RomanceRe: This Is Why You Need To Give Your Wife Permission To Cheat On You. by Castamir(op): 7:07pm On Sep 12, 2019
missjo:
Exactlycheesy
i understand Nigerian men and their sense of ownership
Bride price in most parts of Nigeria now is over a million naira.
RomanceRe: This Is Why You Need To Give Your Wife Permission To Cheat On You. by Castamir(op): 6:54pm On Sep 12, 2019
missjo:
Probably has something to do with this brideprice thing they keep lamenting about.cheesy
LOL
RomanceRe: This Is Why You Need To Give Your Wife Permission To Cheat On You. by Castamir(op): 6:51pm On Sep 12, 2019
drips8:
The first time I'm hearing about this open marriage thing and it sounds stupid.

What if the man gets a lady pregnant or a woman gets pregnant due to the open marriage agreement?

Couldn't that lead to divorce since the open marriage was all about fulfiling short time desires with another partner?
I am very sure that any of the partners who gets another person pregnant doesn't value his or her health. What if they contact STD?

That will make them STUPID.

But we are not talking about stupid and senseless people here.

We are talking about MATURED men and women.
RomanceRe: This Is Why You Need To Give Your Wife Permission To Cheat On You. by Castamir(op): 6:44pm On Sep 12, 2019
MrBrownJay1:
The reality is that most men (unless physically impaired or with immense age difference) wouldn't accept that their wives got their groove on outside....unless they were swingers.

Africans only believe in open marriage when it goes ONE WAY (aka only man is allowed to fool around)
Brownjay, your point is valid. No one frowns at the man in Africa when it comes to such things.
RomanceRe: This Is Why You Need To Give Your Wife Permission To Cheat On You. by Castamir(op): 6:42pm On Sep 12, 2019
missjo:
You're welcome and yes its a thing,although i fear you are advocating it among the wrong crowd. Naijans are super extra sensitive about things like this so expect some knocks on your digital head cheesy
Lol. You're right. This is Nigeria. Let me go and get a helmet.
RomanceRe: This Is Why You Need To Give Your Wife Permission To Cheat On You. by Castamir(op): 6:35pm On Sep 12, 2019
missjo:
I believe what you're arguing for is an open marriage and if that is the case, lotta people already practice it. It's a choice thing and is so not for everyone.
Wow. Thank you. I didn't know that there is a name for it.
RomanceRe: This Is Why You Need To Give Your Wife Permission To Cheat On You. by Castamir(op): 6:26pm On Sep 12, 2019
Cc Lalasticala Front page please.
RomanceThis Is Why You Need To Give Your Wife Permission To Cheat On You. by Castamir(op): 6:24pm On Sep 12, 2019
Here's the cold hard truth.

Sex is sweet. And 99% of people love it.

And you know what else is true?

Sex has destroyed more marriages than any other thing. This is because we are sexual animals who like to satisfy our urges with someone who we find desirable.

But as God made it, we will continue to find a lot of desirable men and women who are better than the desirable one we married.

This becomes WORSE if our crush is available and agrees to play the game.

What happens next will be that your wife/husband will stop being at the top of your priorities because of that shiny new person you met.

A series of shitty problems will start arising...

And then DIVORCE. Everything including the children gets messed up.

OK.

The scenario of family damage could have been entirely avoided if you knew the two most important aims of marriage.

What are they?

PROCREATION and COMPANIONSHIP.

That's All!

Just give birth to children and enjoy a lifetime of friendship with your wife.

And to stay friends with your partner, you need to give her freedom to do whatever including sleeping with whoever she finds alluring.

Most times, telling her that will make her to WILLFULLY decide not to. That's called reverse psychology.

Other times, they will take the bait and start living fully. But the good thing about it is that everything will still be normal because it's a game that both of you are playing.

And the hook up stories you tell each other will strengthen your bond.

Bad things happen when you decide to control people. People hate those who CONTROL them.

And it doesn't help that we're talking about KONJI here.

Allow people to do whatever they want to do so that you know what they will rather do. And that will solve a lot of problems and answer all your questions before you ask them.

P.S: I LEARNT this from my Biochemistry lecturer. If you see where him and his wife dey like this, you will be envious of how close and happy they are with themselves. And in one of his lectures, he said that his secret to a happy marriage was marrying his best friend and allowing her and she allowing him to enjoy themselves SEXUALLY with others in a coded way. It's been 14 years, and they are still together.

Lol. I copied his method to deal with my girlfriend. Let's just say that I consider myself the happiest man alive.
RomanceRe: There Is Nothing Like Unconditional Love. by Castamir: 5:22pm On Sep 12, 2019
BuikemWillz:
Write-ups and thought patterns like these are sickening to me. The fact you've been unfortunate and have been meeting people that think like you, or know people who have been, doesn't give you the effrontery to posit that there's no such thing as unconditional love. Unconditional love does exist...
Trust me, it doesn't!
WebmastersI Need Writers by Castamir(op): 6:38pm On Sep 07, 2019
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WebmastersRe: If You Have A Blog That Gets At Least Thousand Views Each Day by Castamir(op): 11:49am On Sep 04, 2019
Greengeek:
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WebmastersRe: If You Have A Blog That Gets At Least Thousand Views Each Day by Castamir(op): 10:49am On Sep 04, 2019
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WebmastersRe: If You Have A Blog That Gets At Least Thousand Views Each Day by Castamir(op): 4:19am On Sep 04, 2019
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