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BritneyStacy:
Am 24yrs old and just married for 3months in marriage. Married to a nice dude, godly aand very homely. Am proud to say his type is rare. He is not perfect, he has his flaws just like I do(I can be very annoying) but that's wat makes us imperfect. I need decent and very responsible suggestions like you would give a sister or friend on how to solve or manage this problem. Bobo doesn't last in bed. Since we married even on the wedding night, he doesn't last more than 3mins. Am worried. Once he releases, he will cuddle me and den sleeps off with me in his arms. I feel bad discuSsing the issue with him again and again because each time I bringup the issue, I could see the shame and shyness written all over his face. I hate seeing him feel like he is not a man. I understand he is still new in it as I was the first girl he has ever had sex with(one reason am proud of him tho I wasn't a virgin when I met and he knew). We had sex just 3times through out our 1yr 9mnths relationship and I wasnot worried because I was happy to be in a relationship that wasn't so sexual yet we could still see how much we loved and adored each other. How do I get him to improve his Perfomance without jeopardising my marriage? Am beginning to loose interest in sex andjust be satisfied with his romance because he is good at that. But then I wonder, how long will I have to cope with that? SUGGESTIONS PLZ

diddydiva:
well its ya opinion

you are entitle to it

OgheneTegadj:
u people should be moderate about ur SME charge.. here in delta state I buy 1 GB for 1500 naira. ur charge is less cheap.why is some higher and some cheap.

Am an MTN SME Data Share Reseller and User, that's a fact, but it got me thinking, other networks have lower tariffs but lots of people still prefer MTN. I did some research and here is my findings.


According to the research, here are the top 20
Fastest Internet Service Providers and their average
speeds:

1. PROVIDER LIR 13.98 Mbps
2. Netcom Africa Limited 12.19 Mbps
3. Galaxy Backbone Plc 11.91 Mbps
4. Smile Communications Ltd 7.51 Mbps
5. MTN Nigeria 6.93 Mbps
6. SWIFT NETWORKS LIMITED 6.65 Mbps
7. MainOne Cable Company 5.89 Mbps
8. IPNXng 5.21 Mbps
9. VDT Communications Limited 4.80 Mbps
10. Suburban Telecom 4.73 Mbps
11. Internet Solutions Nigeria Limited 4.45 Mbps
12. SPECTRANET LIMITED 3.92 Mbps
13. NGCOM 3.61 Mbps
14. Wireless Broadband Internet service 2.64 Mbps
15. Spectranet Ltd 2.63 Mbps
16. Coollink 2.41 Mbps
17. Swifttalk Limited (NG) 2.34 Mbps
18. Mobitel Nigeria Limited 2.03 Mbps
19. EMTS Limited / Etisalat Nigeria 2.01 Mbps
20. Globacom Limited 1.86 Mbps
Another interesting take away from the report is the
ranking of the three major cities according to internet
download speeds. Lagos boasts the fastest internet in
Nigeria with an average of 4.08Mbps, Abuja comes in
second with an average of 3.34Mbps and Port Harcourt is
3rd with an average of 1.03Mbps.

Mbps means Megabits per second

You can see that MTN is number five with 6.93Mbps with ETISALAT coming in at Number 19 with 2.01Mbps while GLOBACOM stays at Number 20 with 1.86Mbps, which means Airtel has no place on the top Twenty.

it is suffice to say that when it comes to speed MTN is the answer, but if you are looking less speed where you have to reload Nairaland page 5-6 times before it comes up, any of Network is the answer.

I choose speed, where I can download a full teen wolf season 3 worth 1.68GB under 1 hour.

this is my opinion but you are free to add yours.

dont forget, 1GB goes for 1150 with Charismaticdave. and 1100 for the first 5 callers everyday on 07060565920.

thanks

MyBarca:
They have vowed to make Nigeria ungovernable if they lose by forming a parallel government when they lose.

LagosBoi2:
Let the heavens fall

I and my entire household will choose APC first then other political parties and PDP last...PDP is the worst of all parties in Nigeria...All their ambition is centered around looting...there is no plan for the common man

#IHAVEDECIDED

cocostrawberry:
I am quite disturbed at the moment. Something my boyfriend said has been playing on my mind over and over

So my boyfriend of 6 months has been trying to get me to Nigeria for sometime now. So one day I asked him why is he so in a rush to take me to Nigeria. ... His reply was he wants to use me for rituals


Now at first I took it as a joke that he was teasing me however he never said he was and perhaps he was actually saying the truth.

Am I being paranoid?? Or do I actually have reason to be concerned. Why say something like that in first place?

Is this Nigerian humor that I perhaps am not getting?

Am very confused. I wanted a Nigerian perspective on this that's why I am asking here

Mayor21:
So much rape news these days, what's naija turning into?

lordthree:
Lately, I and my girlfriend have been having problems so we broke up two weeks ago and immediately my best friend heard about it she has been behaving weird. She called me to her place and when i got there she was in her underwear and told me to help her pick out clothes to wear it took like ten mins and she was in her underwear all through. She even rubbed her butt a couple of times asking what i thought about it .

Another day while we were talking, she asked if i found her attractive and i said i did but we are just friends then she asked why I'm not emotional with her, i said i have a girlfriend, she said "you have an ex" while saying this she had her hand on my thigh and was stroking it. It took the grace of God to leave there without doing anything

I'm confused. Do i go ahead and give her what she wants or do i just wait till i get back with my girlfriend because we have been dating for a while and sometimes we break up.I'm just confused.

cozy7:
DID U INTENTIONALLY SKIP D AREA WHERE GEJ AND D PETROLEUM MINISTER WERE MENTIONED OR U JUST HV POOR SIGHT?

Feraz:


How did you survive throughout those trying times?

All these ladies shouting 'real men', do you mind defining what a 'real man' is?

mcdokwe:
I read a lot about how men who hit their partners are nothing but beasts, I nearly joined the bandwagon of accusers because I couldn't fathom how uncontrollable one's temper could be as to turn one's partner to a punching bag.

Don't get me wrong, I deeply regret I ever hit her, unfortunately that is one reason that apparently hold water as a reason for leaving even though she never gets to tell the whole story.

She had been a very good girl, and even till date, the only girl I have lost myself in love to. Yes, I have been a broke ass nigga and thankfully she could be a low maintenance lady.

She once told me how some of her stupid friends asked if I have hit her before obviously looking for shortfalls to convince her she shouldn't be dating me and how she proudly told them I hadn't for once.

In fairness to the truth, I learnt a lot from her and having her taught me how to treat my sister who was her age better.
At a point in her life, she had no genuine friend and would always moan to me how bad some friend or the other treated her and how she wasn't interested in their friendship anymore and I had to constantly remind her that people are different and so with their motives, I always encouraged her to try to understand such motives before writing them off.
I literally became her only friend and unfortunately shoved some people who could have been some sort of relief aside so much that we had just each other
Days became weeks and months and she conceived for me and a lot started changing about her. Maybe in her bid to feel acceptable, she got entangled with people she wrote completely off before, this wasn't a so much of a challenge because atleast she could whine less about them to me, her dress sense changed and she turned deaf ears to my appeal for explanation, I had to adapt to some of those challenges but unfortunately those friends became more valuable to her than myself even though we had a child coming and lived together, she shared less of her worries with me but would tell them even the minutest detail of our relationship which were frequently misrepresented maybe in a bid to gain sympathy which she eventually got. They explained my actions and inactions better than I could and she could go for days without talking to me so long as the meal was provides and the babies need met, she opted for a break anytime I told her of her upsetting attitude and the need to work on it, but would never tell me of her own misgivings towards me even when I plead so I could work on myself too, but would rather discuss unthinkable issues with her friends.

Fast forward to that particular day, a lady who I encouraged her to make friends with because of her distress and the feeling we could be of help to sent a text to her sim which happened to be on my phone saying she needs to know when I left the house so she could come over and I was wth! This is some one I brought in, someone whose coming means she is to fend from my toil, and I asked what it could be that I did that should warrant such. I sent her a text telling her never to bother coming anymore as I wasn't leaving the house that day anymore. She called her back and asked her only God knows what and my lady went up in frenzy insulting me not minding that a third party was there.
Minutes later the other girl stopped by to apologise stating that I misunderstood her text but my girlfriend continued the insult asking why she should bother to explain or apologise. After a while every other person left and she became apologetically cosy, well I shrugged her off knowing her being apologetic doesn't stop her from insulting me the next minute if she felt like, and true to my prediction, even while she was still being sorry, her words turned from being apologetic to outright insult, calling me unprintable names and how I am a hopeless orphan (I lost my dad the previous year and my mum is still very much alive and she is so lettered and knows what an orphan means) well I said something too of her family because I was hurt but could never match her with words and I made to leave the house in that fit of anger. But she locked the door and wouldn't let me. She turned apologetic again and then insulting, in that state all I could do was pity her because I couldn't imagine how someone could be so unstable, I was visibly frustrated and made to leave the house which she wouldn't have either and I had to forcefully remove her from the way. She came back hard on my, making for anything. That could be converted into a weapon, thankfully I was stronger and made her efforts futile. I pinned her to the ground with the intention to make her realise I am stronger than our love sessions where I played weak to let her have an upper hand so she could give up already, but the moment I released her a bit, she reached for my phone and smashed it on the floor repeatedly, I regrettably gave her some blows and because I didn't want it to continue, opened the door so a neighbour could come in a stop the fight. I later stormed out with the child and headed for a family who had rendered enough care to us and she later found her way there, I expected her to behave more in their presence but that was to wishful of me and unfortunately the ladies couldn't stop me as I gave her even deadlier blows but mehn, she never really got enough.

She was later forced into one of the rooms in the apartment and locked up with the baby.
After a while I walked to that point seeing how pitiful she looked asked her with tears in my eyes why she was acting the way she does to which she replied with a tone that could melt the devil's heart that she didn't know and was sorry. We packed up and went back home to the astonishment of all who saw us fight. Needless to say we made love that night after which she confessed she never knew I could hit her even after I was with her at the delivery room and declared no woman should be beaten by her man. She also owned up and apologised for pushing me to that point.

She also told me how a particular friend of hers who came in after the fight had told her not to have sex with me that night and all that.

The relationship lasted for a little longer without fights and she left while I was away for reasons still not clear to me, and looking back I regret that I ever let her pushing me to the point of hitting her but I still believe firmly that she deserved it.

lolaxavier:
Guy, we are not clamouring for a magician, we are asking for a change. No one says Buhari will turn Nigeria to Canada in even 10 years. What we are saying is that we cannot continue to keep pace with failure. We cannot continue to glorify underachievement. We cannot continue to use the public funds to buy shoes for GEJ. At least, his message was that he had no shoes. By now, he must have bought enough. Then let him go away and let other people buy shoes too...

ilotriouzAY:
Can you fall for someone you've never met? Maybe you met on social networks , but you've never met the person

Vitaglyde:
What is happening in this country

blaze2cool:
1. Nutrient Absorption : Noodles inhibit the absorption of nutrients for the children under 5.
2. Cancer : The ingredient in the instant noodles called “Styrofoam’, is a cancer causing agent.
3. Miscarriage : Women who are Eating instant noodles during their pregnancy causes miscarriage, because it affect the development of a foetus.
4. Junk Food : instant noodles are enriched with full of carbohydrates,but no vitamins, fiber and minerals. This makes the instant noodles considered as a junk food.
5. Sodium : Instant noodles are power packed with high amounts of sodium. Excess consumption of sodium leads to heart disease, stroke, hypertension and kidney damage.
6. MSG : Monosodium Glutamate is used to enhance the flavour of instant noodles. People who are allergic to MSG consume it as part of their diet, then they end up suffering from headaches, facial flushing, pain, burning sensations.
7. Overweight : Eating Noodles is the leading cause of obesity. Noodles contains fat and large amounts of sodium, which causes water retention in the body and surely it leads to overweight, and obesity leads to heart problems.
8. Digestion : Instant noodles are bad for digestive system. Regular consumption of instant noodles causes irregular bowl movements and bloating.
9. Propylene Glycol : The ingredient in the instant noodles called “Propylene Glycol” which has a anti-freeze property. This ingredient is used because it prevents the noodles from drying by retaining moisture. It weakens the immune system of our body. It is easily absorbed by the body and it accumulates in the kidneys, heart and liver. It causes abnormalities and damage to thoseareas.
10. Metabolism : Regular consumption of instant noodles affect the body’s metabolism, because of the chemical substances like additives, coloring and preservatives inside the noodles.
Please share to others, you can’t know all things so try to reach others. Thanks.


http://inspiredyouthng..de/2015/02/oh-my-goodness-10-reasons-you-should.html?m=1

headboyprince:
hw dare you quote me to insult me like this. And who even told you i will waste my precious time and money on punting. Punting is not a business and can never be business. It is just an investment and a dangerous one for that matter so any one talking about punting as a business is deceiving you.
Okay let me ask you a question since you started punting and since you started following the op post(solution tipster) hw much have you made punting even the op himself still sells tips and ebook to make money why cant he just do betting alone no betting is 70% accurate in betting you are considering the risk and profit each strategy has to offer the higher the risk the higher the profit and the lesser the risk the lesser the profit. Imagine puting down 1000 to @ odd 1.3 that is 300 now if you win 3 times and lose once you will still be at loss of 100 the bookies are the ones making the real money and not the punters. Even if you buy all the ebooks in these world of sport betting it does not still guarantee money everybody has to come up with his own strategy based on your bankroll and target for the month because eveyone has different taste and once greed comes in you lose all your bankroll and that is where your unending problem will start. So stop decieving yourself the o.p will never tell you the real truth about sport betting.

Because the main problem in punting is not bad game analysis but individual greed which comes from within
Iam even tired of typing

nani667:
I'm always down with using Legitimate data... I detest all these cheat of a thing.... So I'm inclined to agree with your post.... But apparently you only opened this thread, and posted this message cos you're a data reseller, to help your hustle...., Which is all well and good... But the Irony of all this is that technically the MTN SME data plans you sell is not legitimate...., as MTN didn't make this plan for resellers such as yourself....

So basically you're "Cheating" too

dpoladapo604:
We have been together for over six months. I love her so much (never fell so much in love) and she's so crazy in love with me too. she's such a wonderful lady I've ever met. she would do anything just to prove and protect our relationship.

Early January this year she came to my place to spend few days. during her visit, I one day took her phone and checked through her bbm I saw her chat with one cleric (Alfa) asking the man to help her about a shocking dream she had about me and also talking about d previous guy she was dating before I met her. I was so confused I couldn't talk till she left but on her way to the park I ask her if she was cheating or something and she assured me that she's all mine.

So the following day after she left I called her and told her that I went through her phone and I observe that she's still having some affairs wit her previous boy friend, she first started talking angrily that why should I go through her phone without her conscience but after few minutes she called back and started begging not to be annoyed by the way she talked regard me checking her phone. after a lot of begging I told her I'm no more annoyed but I warned her not to go to the Alfa because I could observe that the Alfa has other interior motive from the way he was chatting and she promised not to visit him.

So last Tuesday she came to my place and I tried to go through her chats on bbm and to my biggest surprise my lady was asking the man to pay her the money she spent on abortion to her (omo I was so shocked) I couldn't blv my eyes,I saw a part where the man was asking if she love him and she said no...dat thats why she couldn't keep his pregnancy. I kept it for good days till when she was about to leave this morning. The question I threw at her was "did you really did abortion?" she was shocked and started swearing with the holy book...I asked her to bring her fone and I viewed the Alfa's pics and asked if dis was d same Alfa I asked her not to visit and she said no he's the not him. I showed her the pics I tuk from that chat....she was shocked and accepted she slept with him but she did no abortion saying she only want to use that to get money from the Alfa. I asked her why....but she kept saying she didn't know how it happened. she was just begging and crying. the reason y I was so pained is that I warned her not to go to him but he go against my warning. I love her but I'm not comfortable with her. after too much begging and crying I told her I've forgive her.

Please is it advisable to go on with this lady?...I'm confused because I'm still in luv with her I can't just let her go but something keeps telling me that I may regret go on with her. AND IS IT WRONG FOR PARTNERS TO CHECK EACH OTHERS FONE?