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Maybe that's just the person she is

how old is the relationship? how old are you guys? Sorry for getting personal here

Immaturity might be a problem here, you can't really blame her,

Build the relationship first, build the trust, and she will become a chatty bird in no time,

apart from your mistyped English, i was able to understand what you are driving at.

there are people like that, she is just out to teach you sense, just that she was sympathetic,

I know of a lady, no matter what you do in secret, she will tell you and whenever she is sad, bad luck, left right and Centre,

when she is happy with you, millions can enter

yinkus4u2c:
u forgot to mention a situation whereby d guy make such a request and as a cheerful giver, she cldnt decline

yinkus4u2c:
u forgot to mention a situation whereby d guy make such a request and as a cheerful giver, she cldnt decline

their middle name is always Animashaun

Akalia:
so? Do u think ur hubby will find it cool if he discovers u share this secret in a forum?

and do you know her house address or phone number, go tell the hubby na

gboromideleru

Akalia:
so? Do u think ur hubby will find it cool if he discovers u share this secret in a forum?

and do you know her house address or phone number, go tell the hubby na

gboromideleru

yemicoal:
bruv asin I tire for d babe, I'm eagerly waiting to see her nude leaked online someday

then you wait till HELL freezes over

yemicoal:
bruv asin I tire for d babe, I'm eagerly waiting to see her nude leaked online someday

then you wait till HELL freezes over

yemicoal:
bruv asin I tire for d babe, I'm eagerly waiting to see her nude leaked online someday

then you wait till HELL freezes over

Amelian:
i hate sending unclad pics, and its a huge turn off 2 me, when few of my exs do ask of it... I will just quickly become numb , some there and then we breakup because I no send unclad pics... I don't give a damn... make he waka. .... mehn! thank God, I didn't fall into such traps... cos I see them as future traps, that could mare one's future, marriage or career... and the last thing I need in my life, are nagging headaches with "had I known" slogan creeping into my brain.
thank God , my honeyboo boo no need unclad pics ....even when he travels for a period of time...we send full clothed pics to one another...mehn I feel safe...thank you Lord

at least you know what you are getting into, not some people posting self-esteemed posts on NL.

prettythicksme:
yea we are so faraway#missing him tho.

missed the misses but now, i sleep with mine, 24/8

irunobo3:
You are a shameless slutt. #no offense

no come NL, dey form holy holy abeg, am sure it's something you can do

prettythicksme:
I do it for my husband and he do it for me too cos we are far away from each other ;Dw

are you sure about the long distance relationship

kristiana888:
I'm beautiful, yet All my ugly friends have. .. why don't I have a boyfriend?

so sorry, but if am a guy that wants to ask you out, i will refrain from doing so because of your jealous attitude


why will you say someone is ugly or beautiful, as beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

change your attitude and thinking maybe then you can meet someone that will date or marry you

not yet or lemme say Never

safarigirl:
I was watching one of Chris Rock's comedy shows recently where he made a valid point that women cannot go back materialistically.

What he meant by this simply is that women just won't fancy dating any guy who is less financially buoyant than their last boyfriend and if they do, they won't be 'feeling' the other guy s much.

I've had conversations with two of my female room mates whose idea of their 'best boyfriend ever' was the guy who spent on them, who got them the expensive stuff and provided them with their heart's desires without them having to even ask. There is nothing any female loves more than when her man gets her some item (be it a shoe, a handbag, a phone etc) she's been pining for without her having to utter a word about it to him. Example, if she's been posting a pic of a pair of shoes on her IG or DP and her man asks why she's so interested in the shoe followed by her shoe size, trust when I say the Shoki the babe will be dancing that day in anticipation of the arrival of the shoes will be enough to send Lil Kesh out of business

Fellas, if you're looking to date a woman whose ex is responsible for half the shiiit in her closet, plus the Samsung galaxy/Iphone she's currently using and you're not loaded, I regret to inform you that you don enter one chance. As in, your own don kpafuka. Like, she most likely will have the same interest in the relationship as the average straight man has in an episode of The Kardashians

This ain't no Dr.Phil so imma give you some straight-talkin' , you want the truth? Well, here it is. You may love her more than that ex did, you may be ready to sell your father's land in the village to provide for her, but all of that will most likely pale in her eyes in comparison to what the mofo ex has done for her.

Women tend to place their wants above their needs. Forget Nollywood movies bro, you're not Ramsey Noah and she's not Genevieve, if she's with you despite the fact that you're 'poorer' than her ex, then know that she's most likely just hanging around until either the ex is released from whatever spiritual bondage that caused him to break up with her or the Lord directs some other rich dude to her stable.

So I explained to one of the two girls that her ex isn't necessarily the best guy she'll ever meet, he just happens to have the funds to express his love as opposed to some other guy who may respect her more and generally be more loving, but is unfortunately, not financially buoyant enough to show he's a better catch. In such situations it's left to the woman to decide what she really wants in a relationship and if she can survive with a man who may not be financially gifted, but possesses other traits that in the long run would be much better than wealth

So on that note, I will agree with emusmith, that love isn't always enough in any relationship, but not necessarily based on the terms he listed in his write-up, which in all honesty, I found some vapid, petty and somewhat shallow (no offence ). Sometimes the psychological make-up of a gender will come into play.

And before the men cry foul, Chris Rock also stated that men on the other hand, can NOT go back Sexually....but I believe that's a topic for another day. Ciao

based on your post, lemme guess you and your peers'ages, 19-25 abi?
why do you think I said that, ladies of that age bracket are
1. immature
2. materialistic
3. on top of their game.

Ask a 30+ year old lady and you will know the answer.
because women can always go back materialistically.

just my thought though.

Charpell:
This list was ranked based on abilities, if you have trouble disagreeing with the list...suggest yours lets compare

#20
Itachi
Itachi was a ninja of prodigious talent, evidenced by the rapidity with which he rose through the ninja ranks. He was equally proficient in all three main types of ninja skill and gained praise from allies and foes alike; Orochimaru, one of the Sannin, openly admitted Itachi was stronger than he was.Even during his final battle with Sasuke, the latter could not defeat him and it was Itachi's illness that killed him in the end.

Being a pacifist at heart, Itachi did not actually like fighting and would avoid it when he could. When he couldn't he would end the fight as quickly as possible, all the while holding himself back. Even when restrained in this way, Kakashi Hatake, Kurenai Yūhi, and Asuma Sarutobi (all of whom were experienced jōnin) were still pushed to their limits against Itachi.

appreciate @op, your list is awesome, but you are looking at sheer ability, your list is okay, but to be a great ninja, you have to be technically, mentally sound, to me, according to Buushin and Shippuden, Naruto is the strongest. Itachi should be up the list a little and according to what I heard about the manga, kakashi should be up also, all the ancient guys should be weeded out

bossminded:
Wild imagination u need to be more creative

Hw sperm go wet jeans? Na borehole?

It can

Same to you

I couldn't help but read that people on this thread are saying gambling is a sin,


Please can you define gambling?

Can you define business?


So people that are operating this sites or this business are into gambling right?


If you can't differentiate the two please, just sharrrrrrrap and stop quoting the Bible or the Quran with your own understanding or your diluted understanding.


Read your Bible very well before answering my questions

Opiosko:
She might have said that as a joke to make u chase harder.. But y are u telling us na? To mock her with u?

Not to mock her but am just asking, and when she knew she loves me, why chase me away?

madgoat:
The OP is a confused fellow

Confused ke

jejemanito:
This lie is not sweet enough

Lie, in what sense?

We are close friends, before we become close friends, I hit on you but you categorically told me, if am the last man on earth, you will enrol in Catholic Seminary, now am married, you want me back.



What are you?

What should I do?

I still don't understand what people mean by 'change', change from what to what, i might ask?


Looking at your own example, the universities that was locked for sometime, why? Did you know they asked for autonomy, and what kind of autonomy you might ask? Let the government fund them and in return the government gets nothing, please if you are into a business and you put money, what do you expect? It was until they removed the autonomy clause from their demands that it was met,
Chibok girls missing is not and will never be the fault of the government, do you understand what's called whistle blowers? There are lots of them in the military, according to an eye witness from the kidnap, it was allegedly that the girls were kept at a spot for three days and nobody bothered looking, am sure if rain falls too much, you will complain about the government,

During Buhari's regime as the HOS, can remember what happened, if you have been born then and if you haven't, you can please read SeUn's post without bias and you will see for yourself.


You are calling APC the change, please can you believe that a 20KM road costs 20billion naira, mathematically, that's 1 billion per Km,

Its a matter of kettle calling pot black,

If Its in transportation alone, i will cast my vote for Jonathan, I want to be able to live in Ibadan and work in Lagos,

Lets vote continuity,
Vote, not fight.

Pedagogue:
Seun,

Thanks for beaming the searchlight on Buhari. You are a great 'JOURNALIST'.

But Seun, we will really appreciate if you can also use your 'journalistic talents' to beam a searchlight on the present government.

Or you don't consider it necessary for Nigerians to REMEMBER that:

1. The Chibok girls are still missing
2. That a dollar to naira is now 210.
3. That our hospitals are under locks and keys.
4. That universities were closed down for 6 months
5. Polytechnics were shut down for 11 months
6. Colleges of education were shut down for several months.
7. Oil theft is at an all time high.
8. Boko haram? They kill people everyday...Just check youtube if you have the heart!
9. Our international reputation? Gone to the dogs...
10. Corruption? Don't even go there! Billions now have wings...After all, Stealing is not corruption!!!

Seun, my point is: we know that Buhari is not perfect. He ruled with force as Head of State. He was ruthess...Yes, we know that!
But how do you expect a man who ruled as HEAD OF STATE to have ruled? It's a no-brainer!

Happily, there's something fantastic about the epistles from the US Library, and that is: BUHARI IS NOT CORRUPT!!! And believe me, he is all we need right now...

Sai Buhari!!!

Cheers

barracud3r:
Nigeria is so far behind ,it's not a joke . one of my best friends is from Peru which is a third world country . below are trains and subways in Lima ,Peru. if they have all these and are still considered third world , you can just imagine how far Nigeria has to go.
Nigerian love celebrating mediocrity. nations are developing at a fast rate,Yet nigerian are celebrating a few mediocre roads,college foot ball stadium, and unneeded flyover in uyo - uyo is smaller than compton or inglewoood which are just sections of LA city. all of the develpment in uyo will decay within the next 8 years and will not be maintained because oil is running out . human development ,just copycat and mediocre duplicate. ignorance and stupidity .

In Peru, how many years was their railway system crippled?

PStacks:
Ðubai wasn't built on promises or procrastination..

2018.

I will this. We will that.

Can't we wake up one morning and the govt says, "as u were sleeping, we have finished building u a railway system"?

Must everything be in promisiorial notes.

Politicians are full of empty promises

Can you name one country that has done things overnight?

spott:
Nigeria and Mexico approached China for credit facility to rebuild their railway systems (and other infrastructures). They both got the credits.
Look at what each country did with the money.
Are you not being short changed?
Don't you deserve Better?

PDP generated 4,000 MW @ $32.4bn in 16yrs while China Generated 22,500 MW @ $26bn

#SayNoToCorruption
#ThingsMustChange

modified

Why are you not adding the pictures of the new guage rail trains that moves at 150 km per hour,

That is corruption, and you are saying change, when you are corrupt, how can we fight it then

Piece of advice from me

You can choose to take it or leave it

You don't have to pick all the games for the day.
Pick one or at most three and move on, as my mentor said, no victor, no vanquish.

Let he who has ears hear

Now to wetin my eyes see for blind date o


This lady got me, but she is the following


1. She snores, men, how can you sleep when the person on your chest or beside you make all those noises as if you are on the highway, and when I told her, she went ballistic that am lying,
2. Too materialistic, I just made a journey from Akure and after using close to 15k to buy things for you, giving you another 3k, you still do as if I have not done enough.
3. Lies, the snoring, i can endure, the materialistic, I can do with, but the lies, no, that I can't do with, every guy is her friend, every lecturer wants to have something with her, every lady wants to sleep with her, Are you the only one?


What really broke the camel's back was this,


She always feels inferior and when you try to tell her,she looks gorgeous, she takes it as an insult.

To the extent that she asked me to leave her house in the middle of the night, with Boko Haram on the loose, and that she was no longer interested in the relationship,


I had to beg her neighbor to sleep in the room, i was later escorted to my cousins house and I slept, the next day, she came and started apologising that it's all a mistake,


But I have learnt my lesson, never to go into any relationship without all the information,


I asked my cousin whether he knew she had a child and guess what, he knew and hid it from me.


She still calls me till today, but it's not possible anymore,

I went, i almost got killed/kidnapped by BH and all you can say, ifs the work of the devil.


Devil Ko, Angel Ni

MhisIjay:
Op Op Op!!!
Hw many tyms I call u
Type dis ur gist once naa
Shuuuu

Make I take my time o, e no easy na

She has a baby for another man already and she hid it from me, a whole three weeks of talking, from life story to sexting, we did it all, but she didn't trust me enough to tell me she had a child, even up till the moment I knew, she hasnt opened up but I kept my cool, when she is ready, she will let me know,

It was later that night that she told me, I just said no problem,


And since I told her, am not into dating parsay, that I was thinking of becoming a FATHER, before I met her, i will want to take this slow, bit not her, she wants the koko that night, she has imagined it enough, she wants to taste it once and for all, make her mind rest,


This lady was a killer, i don't get tired, but this lady got me tired, after the sixth round, I be man na, but I lost the battle, but I didn't lose the war though


But that's not where am going, back to the story, did you remember when Boko Haram attacked Okene and killed some worshippers? The house I was, is not more than a kilometre from the Church

She later came and insisted that I spend the night at her place, I objected at first, am sharp guy but guy I smart o, she begged and begged until I agreed, since I will be spending the whole weekend at Okene, i wanted to take everything slow, but this lady is on fast forward, I had to move with the flow.


It was when we were on the way to her house that it happened.


Guess what

After three weeks of communication, I decided it was time for us to meet

Oh My God, am finally gonna see this pretty angel, i say, i told a bus from Akure to Okene, dropped at the garage then took another cab to the school gate.


When I laid my eyes on her, she was this plumpy and average height lady, we exchanged pleasantries and we heard to my cousins apartment, she went home and promised to check on me later, i said no problem,

I chatted with my cousin about her and he told me she is respectful and caring, that she was made for me

My last girlfriend has just left me and I have decided not to get into any relationship again until maybe when hell freezes over, am heading to the monastery man,

Then out of the blue, my cousin schools at Okene, Federal College of Education, I think, called me, joyfully that afternoon, here guy, I have seen the woman of your dreams, I said guy I have had enough, am not interested.

But he told me when I see this chick, I will change my mind.

So he gave me the number and we started communicating

First week, It was as if he was saying the truth, on the phone, this lady was honest, truthful, clever, pretty, religious and clean