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The immediate past governor of Benue State Mr. Gabriel Suswam was arrested in London for battering charges.

Close family sources revealed that the Metropolitan police booked Mr. Suswam into the London City detention center for several hours with a judge setting a bail bound which the detained former governor met before being released.



Police arrested the embattled Suswam in his luxurious London home after they received a distressed 911 call from his wife Yemisi.

She told a dispatcher over the phone that she feared for her life after being physically beaten and brutalized by her husband over a heated argument relating to Suswam’s mistress shido Imo, a former administrative officer at the National Agency for food and Drug Administration and control (NAFDAC).

A family source told the police that Suswam hit Yemisi severally and inflicted injuries on her over shido’s overbearing influence on Mr. Suswam, and who has taken over the former governor’s home as his legitimate wife.

Shido, according to close family source in the know has a child for Suswam and the development had irked the former first lady to see her losing grip of her husband to a mistress.

It was gathered that the former governor had repeatedly declared to Yemisi his wife that he would officially marry shido as a wife and that while Suswam was still governor, the Tiv born shido was the only channel through which the Benue people reached Suswam.

 “She was always helpful to the Benue people, especially the Tiv’s and that was what endeared her to our people. She was always ready to help. If any Benue person needed something from the former governor, shido was always ready to help ensure that they got what they wanted,” the family source said
Battering offence is an offence under the United Kingdom (UK) law an offence against the person Act of 1861. Suswam faces a six months prison term if his embattled wife decides to press charges against him.
A close family source  who spoke to our correspondent disclosed that the British Police are prevailing on Mrs. Suswam to press charges against her husband who the source said is in the habit of abusing the woman often.
As at the time of filing this report, it was not clear whether the Metropolitan Police officials installed electronic device on him to prevent him from jumping bail.

holyteeboy:
Lol thats the wiskid of tomorrow

lol wizkid dy learn work

One word for dis kind, lol chidubem a.k.a Agaba..

Who's BF is dis

[quote author=Minet16 post=35437426][/quote]nice land buying

Two nigerian sisters who live in Georgia, escaped death when fire raised the building and trapped them inside, with almost 122 people losing their houses and with them screaming in the rooms, people who witnessed suggested that they jump through the windows because the fire will burn them all before the fire service will get to them and they did just that...

ijustdey:
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http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/05/2-siblings-docked-over-alleged-assault-on-father/

hahaha una don buy land finish Back to the topic no matter what ur father is doing. U have no right to lay ur hands on him. So as not to insure curse

Dollyak:
Jonathan did more harm than good to us. Was there any major contribution to the east?

nothing o absolutely nothing

aaronson:
I just hope your dreams and aspirations come true for arsenal but first,they should sell all their players plus feeders team and emirate stadium...realize some substantial amount of money,go purchase messi and ronaldo,then rent a stadium,hire some fans to play alongside them before your aforeposted pictures would turn reality.

lol and you support what team?

VictoriaBee:
What an exaggeration filled with lies.
Are you insinuating all girls are hoes and lack boyfriend to the extent they'd start dying for any cute guy.
That's akin to saying, once a girl see a cute guy, she dump her boyfriend.
Trash!

overreacting girl! He simple means she flirts with him, u know communicate like that, u need to adjust ur mindset

starlingslimnet:
You won't get the answer

hmm u sure, think about it again

starlingslimnet:
87 just turn it upside down.

check my signature

wat if I don't turn if upside dwn?

importexpert:
87. turn it upside down

wat if I don't turn it upside down, afterall it's an exam sheet?

importexpert:
87. turn it upside down

lol hmm are u sure?

diamondtutu:
89

Lool u sure?

So dis is a brain teaser and unfortunately many people will fail dis simple test and just so u know it was for primary pupils in Hong kong.. let's see how smart you are!!!

So coming up with this line up, I'm thinking we still need a good striker that can give 20-30 goals a season

Loool feisty huh, u re really getting it twisted I will be the one to train my daughter get it! Nd I can't be a wife beater but can't settle for ur type #depending on ur bf or hubby for everything u need

netizenbuzz:
Yimu
as if u would be the one to train her
when we all knw mothers do the training
or is it after she sees u beating her mother seeing that that's the first thing that came to ur mind. I wouldn't be surprised. See idiots that think it is a wife's responsibility to make sure hubby doesn't beat her. They would be the first to ask what did you do instead of calling out their fellow men. So from ur reasoning it is home training that determines whether you beat your wife or not. Monster!

Feranmicharles:
Who among you whom beat that thief is holy? If there's any,let him come out and stone the thief

Like jesus said in john8:7

comments of a thief

So at the end did he join the queue? Or your effort was rendered effortless

Tuntheycr7:
[b]This morning, as I landed in Lagos, I made to the
nearest GTB to transact. The queue from inside
the banking hall to the bank entrance was crazy.
They are customers who wanna register for their
BVN, I was told. Today is the last day for
registration, they said. I wished them well as I
aligned with the shorter queue for customers
who wanna deposit cash.
Soon, from the BVN queue, a woman began to
scream. The only thing I was able to pick from
the scream, 'se ori meji loni ni? (does he have
two heads?' I stepped out of my queue, to go
and gbeborun, to see what or who was
tormenting this woman. These GTB staff that are
always garbed in white military-like uniform; are
they drivers or security men? About three of
them had just came in with one whiteman. And
they took the whiteman straight to the lady at
the BVN desk. And the lady, too, was already
attending to the whiteman while the queue
watched, and waited, except this woman.
For a moment, I observed things. The woman
screaming against this white supremacy on the
soil of Africa is one local market woman. I
figured through her dressing, the way she tied
her purse around her waist, and when she
lamented that they left their wares to come join
this queue since they heard the exercise was
gonna close today. The men in white and the
whiteman weren't bothered by the woman's
noise. It was a case of allowing the dog bark all
it can till it can bark no more. The people on the
queue were indifferent. Some of them, their
looks carried the undertone, 'shey this woman
wey dey shout want oyinbo to join the queue ni?
Haba!'
I stepped into the circle, calming the woman.
And then, I took the fight from there. I banged
the desk twice, and instantly I got everyone's
attention. How can these men in white bring this
man in and wouldn't tell him to join the queue? I
began. Hey madam, pointing to GTB staff by the
BVN desk, you can only attend to this man when
he joins the queue! Who are you? One of the
idiots in white turned at me. I jega'ed him. I am
a ten year old customer of GTB, I said, with a
brief smile. At this point, everything stood still.
Tell this man to join the queue, I insisted. When
the whiteman's eyes met mine, I expected him to
talk. He didn't. I did the talking. Is this how you
do from where you come from, huh? I threw into
his face. Is this how you will connive with staff
to jump over the queue when at the Barclays
Bank in London or the Royal Bank in Edinburgh
or Dime Savings Bank of New York? Ha, we don't
do like that here in Nigeria o. We follow due-
process. Mafi bredi komi lomi obe je, ogbeni
oyinbo! L'Eko Ile? Oma to sori queue yen ni se.
He folded his arms and looked on imperiously.
At this point, the bank top officials had gathered
around. There were attempts to 'rescue' the
whiteman to their office upstairs. I halted it. The
moment I noticed, I told them that if they go
attend to the whiteman upstairs, I will tell
everyone on the queue to march upstairs, too.
And then, they resorted to begging. And even the
woman whose fight I had taken ownership of
started to beg me. Otito Baba Oko mi, she
pleaded. No, oyinbo MUST join the queue! Their
pleading fuelled my anger. What is that?
These things that come with neo-imperialism
sha. I've also heard about how whitemen smoke
in places marked No Smoking at the Nigerian
airport, and they go, without being penalised as
would Nigerian offenders.[/b]


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100% sure u are guilty of this same quotes

misssclassy:
There are a lot of single ladies out there who are supposed to have been married but still remain single. Most have had relationships and for some reasons such relationship failed, with them being the primary cause of such failures, while some haven't even had the any.
Most times this is as a result of certain reasons that these ladies may be ignorant of

So here are some of those probable reasons why a lot of ladies who seek to marry still end up remaining single.

*Displaying Bad Attitudes
Some ladies tend have very repulsive attitudes that most men can't tolerate. Such attitudes might include being rude, being arrogant, being too hotheaded, not being able to heed to advice and basically not to carrying theirselves in a fashion that is morally acceptable.
Some ladies display egocentric characteristics and believe that men should worship the floor they walk while they are free to act as they like and most men are repelled by such
And most of the time, when all this bad attitudes are pointed out to these ladies, they still don't take heed and still continue in them.

*Ignorantly Joining The Feminist Band Wagon
The cause of feminism is growing rapidly during this our time and a lot of ladies just ignorantly claim to be feminists without even having a complete understanding of what feminism really entails.
These ladies, due to the certain standards they set and their requirements of the opposite sex, they tend to repel men instead of attract them.
Because of their lack of understanding of the concept of feminism, some even begin to grow a gradual dislike for men which they display through certain characters which cause men to pull away from them.

*Placing Too Much Emphasis On looks
A lot of ladies see their looks as their ultimate charm for attracting men. They see it as the only thing men want, and become oblivious of the fact that physical appearance is just a part of the requirements of wife, and they pay less attention to other parts of themselves that might need development.
Instead of them to build on their other qualities, they put all the effort and place too much attention to their looks and ignore certain aspects of themselves that need improvement.

*Not Putting Themselves Out There
There are ladies who sit around whine day to day about being single, waiting for fate to step in or magic to happen.
These ladies forget that life doesn't owe them anything, and that they have to strive and take the bull by the horns if they want to get what they want.
Of course it might be difficult for a lot of ladies putting themselves out there, as there are a lot of hindrances such as the nature of job, certain personalities traits and all that,
but that doesn't mean they shouldn't try to bring themselves out of their comfort zone.

Also, a lot of ladies fear rejection because they might have tried some relationships in times past but failed, and they let this fear creep into them and they become hesitant in wanting to commit to any new relationship.
They fail to understand that they a husband isn't just going to appear at their doorsteps They have to go out, meet people and engage in certain activities aimed at broadening their social circle.

*Being Too Desperate
Due to the fact that most ladies are so eager to marry, most show so much desperation and they end up putting too much pressure on their partners.
Some become to pushy and they constantly pressurize their partners into marrying them quickly, and this can be too demanding.
Men see that overly persistent attitude as a red light and some might even start placing meaning to it and at the end loose interest in the relationship.

*Making Themselves A Burden To Men
A lot of ladies, especially during dating tend to be too financially dependent on their partners for everything and this results in them becoming a nothing but a burden to their partners
They fail to realize that most men want women that can support them financially, not women that would just stay lazy around and expect men to just throw everything on their tables.

*Having Overly High Expectations
A lot of ladies set unrealistic expectations of the kind of man they want. Most of these standards tend to be absurd and unreasonable and it ends up limiting their choices.
You see ladies wanting their "dream' men to have particular physical characteristics, have certain educational status, attain a certain financial height, belong to a particular social class, and more often than not, they don't find men who possess all this qualities in one and keep on searching and searching until it becomes too late.

*Being Too Critical About Everything
A lot of ladies are too critical and judgmental about issues and they tend to always look at things from a pessimistic point of view.
They always tend to see nothing good in anything and they always look for someone to blame their predicaments on. All this can be really frustrating for their partners
Some are not even appreciative of little and always expect more.
They even go all the way to blame their partners for their own wrongs and most men just can't live with them.

*Not Taking Good Care Of Themselves
Although ones physical appearance isn't the most important thing men seek, but definitely, it's the first thing they see.
A lot of ladies tend not to pay too much attention on how they look, or how they dress.
They don't take care of hairs, their shape, their weights and generally, the way they look, some even dress shabbily and tattered and at the end wonder why men don't approach them.
Men are generally attracted to ladies that are attractive and if a man doesn't see a lady as such, he doesn't pay attention to her.

Giving Up Too Easily
A lot of women who might not be having it good in a relationship just tend to throw their hands up in the air and say, “I give up, there’s no point continuing"
But they fail to realize that not every guy they meet is the perfect guy
They forget that each experience be a learning experience, and they get discouraged easily.
They fail to understand that there are always trying times in every relationship and patience and perseverance is needed for things to work things out.

Written By Misssclassy

netizenbuzz:
It is your daughter that would be beaten by her husband. People actually die from this and you think it's funny?

I will not train my daughter to have ur ugly mentality so she can't be beaten by her husband. U get

People like you are always the ones that get beaten by their husbands

netizenbuzz:
Abeg mechonu! It is now you know the society is changing abi? If they tell you to help your wife at home now, you will say it is not a man's job. Good, it is not a woman's job to work too. So don't tell her to look at her mates anywhere. Broke ass niggas are the only ones who talk like you

Nice post sugar

Begonia:
There's a saying, I think in pidgin, about the way a goat stands in the market will determine it's price.
I can't really remember it but I think it can be applied here.
Saying broke guys shouldn't toast you on social media is pointless.
The way you present yourself in the real world (offline) would determine that.
Most times, you're what you attract.
There's a reason why the rich will keep marrying the rich and the poor will keep marrying the poor.
You can't buy class.

Shortyy:
long distance relationship

lol nice punchline

Ode yeye

demmy0325:
Goin by his reactions.. He only wants ur body..


U are wastin Ur time going on a Date with a nigerian living abroad.... They are all fake..



You shud date oyibo man.. Or no oyibo man has ever approach u b4..

prettythicksme:
See thinking what if d guy just love gurls who drink?there are some guys like dat.

but dat doesn't give him the right to judge her personality as not been classy some shit re not meant to be said out loud

redgem:
Ladyboss1 You didn't over react besides the guy had other plans and since you failed his plans, he decided to use mind games on you

clap for ursef mind reader

piicity:
Thank God he enjoys wine and you left him,he will have been dragging you to his side but anyways,is he a whiteman?

dumb Bleep

Nice one, gud for sticking it up to the fool

Trailblazer1:
And that particular tribe are the commercial nerve of Nigeria, that same tribe have made so much money in Lagos that they are almost buying up every land and lagoons in Lagos(ask omo onile in your area), they are survivors.

And I'm proud to be part of them.

mrsefan:
u sleep with another too then 50/50

so people like u still exist [img][/img] nawao