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paradigmshift:
hollywood has run out of ideas..no better movie to watch...
meaningless series and movies everywhere...
i am now watching Bollywood movies, mhen they are dope with storylines.
bollywood has better storylines than Hollywood..
Indian movies rocks, i am hooked...


incase you need to see some of it... i can drop names...

wow wow wow

lanrexlan:
Can't you see where I said I don't support paedophilia and no Muslim on this thread does?! Are you trying to cherry-pick my words or what?! I was simply exposing the double standards of the guy who keep centering his attacks on Muslims doing it while ignoring the facts that there are many of such cases in the western world where he claimed that 18years is the age for marriage.


For the last time, I don't support paedophilia and I condemn it. Happy?

lanrexlan:
Call those who marry underage girls in America Yerima too. Share the title across boards. Why weren't these guys prosecuted too?!

NB: I don't support paedophilia, just exposing your double standards.

hulk616:
no marvel or Disney movies

isaiah9:
Jesu
Roy my man. Someone wants to pay you $25B for your company but you want to lecture him on how to manage his own company. Nonsense

sino:
Yeah right, I have mentioned earlier that Islam did not come to abolish peoples culture and traditions, rather the filth in them! In an Islamic society, the good and acceptable culture and traditions of the people are well integrated, and the Shariah is the supreme law of the land! Any law that is to be made in an Islamic country must pass through the rigorous scrutiny under the instruments of the shari'ah! If there is no prohibition in the shari'ah, then there is no problem in adopting it as a law.

sino:
In your worldview, you can only see a win-loose situation, never a win-win!

Islam acknowledges the dynamism of the human society, so makes laws which accommodates the ever dynamic society while not compromising on its fundamentals!

While I acknowledge the changes in our society, I also acknowledge the fact there are differences, and would rather advocate for changes if need be, that are not against the moral dictates of Islam!

So it really doesn't matter the age, for perhaps in a decade or more, things might change, and we would need to review the marriageable age again!

sino:
You are funny, did you not know that stating that culture and traditions differ, covers a national law?! When Nigeria Prohibited homosexuals, where did you think the laws emanated from?! I do not need to go into what marriageable ages are in different countries, my statement makes it simple and covers what is obtainable anywhere in the world!

Islam doesn't go against the national law, as do I, but it would be naive of me to start making blanket statements for a specific age when Islam never did!

sino:
First a girl reaching puberty means that she isn't prepubescent, hence, it cannot be classified as pedophilia

Secondly, my guy Lanre had hinted to you as I also had done that what is stipulated is that maturity of the candidates getting married, which entails more than just having a period or having wet dreams. I had stated being responsible for own actions as well as the cultural and traditional qualifications which are not disputed in Islam. Of course, there are more criteria for getting married, especially for the man.

Thirdly, to put it simply, for culture and traditions do differ, hence, what is sacrosanct in Islam is that the female and male getting married must be 'matured' amongst other things!

Please note, in Islam, health issues such as VVF can be considered if well proven that giving birth at such age predisposes the mother to such ailment, although there is the option of C.S., and proper nutrition and prenatal clinics to prevent this....

Singapore1:
this means you disagree with my view.. and i am not offended by it


but you can see here , he adviced you to look at things from different perspective.

then you begin to "list" your achievement in life ...

Empiree:
even Judge Lake from paternity court told these young girls to "ring it" before opening their legs for any guy. That's what Americans called "put ring on it". Don't believe their (guys) words.

Singapore1:
average white man will not tell you he's gay until you ask him, but you see black guy will find a way to shove it down your throat and find a way to bring the fact that he is gay to the conversation, go to tweeter some even pin it on their page, it's annoying. nobody is not saying you shouldn't own your sexuality but don't be stupid about it.

DannyKoice:
It pisses me off too. Some folks for some reason or the other can't seem to see the distinction between race and sexual orientation.

DannyKoice:
Emancipate yourself from victim mentality, for it will only take you so far.

Rilwayne001:
Empiree, please stop giving this^^ guy audience. The little audience he's getting is the major reason why he's coming back and forth with is shallow-minded stupidity. You see how he just refined the same argument again even after the many in-depth explanation as up here. Rather than for him to acknowledge the replies he's gotten so far, he's refining the same questions he's been answered as asking it again so he can further get the attention he's craving for. Smh!

Cheers01:
Says the Muslim who has never one day addressed the issue of VVF as a result of Muslim men in the north sleeping with girls as young as 10 years old.

DannyKoice:
Uhmn... I beg to differ. Black people are not a maligned group, neither are we a "group of oddities" (I don't even know what you meant by that). What you're forgetting is the fact that racism is not limited to a race. Every race has a sense of superiority over other races. Even amongst race, there is tribalism. For instance, the Japanese think they are superior to the Chinese even though they borrowed a lot from the chinese culture. Koreans are discriminated in Japan much more than any other race. In Africa and Europe, we have had ethnically influenced civil wars, etc.

Racism is a universal issue, cuz every race is a freak to another race. In Southern African countries like Zimbabwe and Zambia, the black indigenous population are united in their hatred against whites, so much so that the Zimbabweans federal government was forced to pass a law that no white Zimbabwean must own a land. It's reminiscent of Apatheid South Africa, but this time, against the whites. The West are of the opinion that they are the most civilized culture, forgetting that they borrowed a lot from the asian culture. Christians think Islam is an archaic religion, ignorant of the fact that muslims invented algebra. It goes on and on... so basically, we're trapped in a vicious cycle. It would be more apt to say that Mankind is malignant.

I agree with you that we should endeavour to respect and be more tolerant of the LGBTQI, but lumping Black people in the group of LGBTQI is nothing short of an insult. As a race, Blacks are not oppressed. You cannot be oppressed in your own motherland, can you? You're free to call yourself a maligned person, but you have no right to speak for an entire race. Have a good day.

Saucyxo:
Free of the shackles of religion loool. Who freed you. Imagine you calling me a slave. Anyways my "slavery" is not one that is oppressive. I wasn't forced or born into my "slavery". I wasn't sold into my "slavery" and it's not bred out of desperation.
I, myself, a person of sentient mind chose to serve a master who been serving me loool. If you dont have a Master babe that's on you loool.

How is Islam an Arab religion? Stop reading dancing quotes on reddit and Twitter and actually educate yourself. Ah it's not everyday.

Come on. I find it quite annoying when people read things online, don't think about it and because it sounds logical, they repeat it everywhere.

So you mean to tell me that Islam is a solely Arab religion simply because it happened to originate in Arab. Like ... I dont understand, where should it originate that would make it a non-xxxx religion? Pluto? Obviously the Quran is in Arabic, they spoke ...Arabic? If that's the case, my Nigerian friend, I hope you solely use Nigerian products in native Nigerian languages with native Nigerian ingredients made by native Nigerians. Obviously anything outside Nigeria isn't made for you.

Lol okay ? My religion has taught me more than morals and what it has brought to me is more than how to be healthy and avoid a criminal record.

Lol. I'm a slave but you can't be? Athiestism originated from the west. From white people. :O. Look at you loool slave . I actually wasnt talking about your stance in theism when I called you a slave. I meant you saying you wouldn't mind your woman being topless. You detty liar. All Nigerian men would mind their woman being topless.

It's insane to me that people dont believe in a higher power. Theres no logic to it at all. In the slightest. Most athiests are more critical of religion as if the opposite of not believing in God is to be religious. If you just have a simple logical conversation with them, when they cant run to gimmicks or twitter quotes. They actually are very theist. Even if its aliens or the FSM or a simulation they believe in.

lanrexlan:
How did you see me? I was just passing by.

Firstly, it is unfair twisting Empiree's words, he NEVER supported paedophiles and you know that, just trying to make issues where there is none. But I am not really surprised anyways, it is Logicboy


My stance:
In an ideal society, a 14 years old girl should be in school learning. But unfortunately, we live a highly sexualized (hyper-sexualized) society where everywhere you turn to is about sex and sex. Sex is being promoted every single corner of the world, from billboards to even selling a soap of N100.


Teenagers of today have high sexual drive and they are more inclined towards sex. So, what's the solution? Unfortunately, you haven't procured any solution on how to curb underage sex among teenagers. All those sex education doesn't work. What some are teaching is playing safe and if turns sour to pregnancy, some will encourage abortion. Islam doesn't support "playing safe" for unwedded people cos that's fornication, abortion too is haram. This is a parting line between us, you don't regard those things as fornication or sin.



If a 14 years old girl is already "lambaing" and "lamoshuaging", it is better to "get her married" to the 14/15 years old boy whom they are committing the act together (Paedophilia is marriage of underage girls to older men). When I say "get her married", I don't mean living together as husband and wife. Indeed, they may be young for the traumas and emotionally aspect of marriage and fending for themselves. But by "being married ", they would at least they will have a means to fulfill their urges naturally and lawfully.


This means that both parents will meet and know themselves (as in-laws and fulfil the necessary things for marriage), these teens are permitted to see one another when due and if pregnancy sets in, the girl won't become a baby mama as she is married to the boy. The parents would support them financially and emotionally till they can stand on their feet.

The benefits are:

1) No multiple sex partners.
2) No denying of the pregnancy.
3) No stigmatization for getting pregnant. (especially in this part of the world, Nigeria)
4) No fear of STDs.


Is that not better than sleeping around and getting pregnant, having children from fornication? Ooh, you are an atheist and you have no standards for morals (sorry if I sound offensive). Your brain is your yardstick for morals and values, that's why you can't see anything wrong with fornication and having children outside wedlock.


But imagine a 14 years old girl already having 15 bfs before clocking 20 and they all have sampled her honeypot, what's the dignity in that? (Same with boys) What is the dignity in sleeping around with different girls/boys? Ooh, sorry you are an atheist and everyone is free to do anything they like with their bodies since they aren't hurting others! Zero morals!!!


Bottomline is, as a Muslim parent, if one can get their kids tamed and curbed them from this menace of fornication, that's the best. But if one can't, it is better to "get my kid married" than fornicating under my roof! QED

Saucyxo:
Number 00000000001 slave. Humble servant. At His constant servitude.

Wakanda ko. Kmt. Imagine being a slave to white ideology. Could never be me.

Demmzy15:
Why mentioning me? Honestly you're a donkey and I'm not insulting, if you don't understand what you've written. Reread it aloud, and hear how silly you sound Smh

DandeNumeruno:
ur gay partner?

DandeNumeruno:
u're a pathetic creature. i occasionally troll when i come back from work but u've made trolling a full time job prolly because u still live with mummy & daddy.get a life fagman.

DandeNumeruno:
fagg0t,u are universally disliked or u or are u so stupid that u are just realizing it now. ewu.

do everyone a favour and go hang urself.

Saucyxo:
What will you do if she decides to go out topless?

Rilwayne001:
If you can allow your wife and mom to go for topless party, what should stop you from allowing your 14year own kid get married?