₦airaland Forum

VisaOfficer:
These omissions aren't a big deal. If the officer asks you about past refusals, you can explain -- or you might want to mention it right away at the beginning of the interview. As long as you didn't say you were married with three kids in the non-immigrant case, before appearing before us as a never-married fiance case, it's not a problem. We only get excited when it looks like the applicant is trying to conceal derogatory information.

As for your medical record, the paperwork you receive from your panel physician counts, so by the time you see us, you'll have a medical record.

Good luck!

duffie: Please, Are you a doctor or have you had a siimilar issue?

duffie: I currently have kidney stone...and I'm really worried because this hosspital is not it at all. Then I reallly don't want to do surgery but it does not want to pass out. I guess the stone is big.

Efemena_xy: Stories like these make the MrBrownJays and their attitudes to pregnant women look acceptable.

@OP, why should you be having mild to heavy arguments with your spouse frequently? Sounds like you instigate them. Please explain 'heavy arguments'. Do you get violent? Throw things around? Do you have a sharp, caustic tongue that's quick to insult the hell out of the man??

You're pregnant. The least you can do is respect yourself and keep your mouth shut. Why must you have an argument with your husband? Pls don't give the excuse of being hormonal this and hormonal that! Aren't you aware of the complications that can arise from having a high bp, which can be induced from unnecessary arguments?

I'm sorry to say this, but your husband sounds like the more mature one here. Rather than entangle himself with a battle of words, he chooses to walk out of the situation till things cool down. Or what do you expect him to do? Sit down quietly while you heap insult upon insult upon his head? Do you even know what might happen if he snaps?

Or maybe, you really are one of those who has a fetish for violence and only feel loved if your husband plummets the living daylights out of you.

Sorry, but from what you've posted, I support your husband 100%. You on the other hand haven't learnt your lesson. If sitting down to discuss amicably, and keeping your mouth shut while he airs his grievances is too much for you to bear, then don't blame him the day he walks out on you for good... straight into the arms of a more accommodating missus.

Oh, and I need to ask this of you: Didn't you guys date at all before getting hitched? Didn't you study the man before tying the knot and saying "I do"?

PBundles: This story sounds like it was embellished. So they first lost NGN12 MM before they decided they had problem and asked an expert?? Come on. Either this story is juiced or the Bank Manager and his Oga At the Top are daft and should also be fired. Many moons ago when I worked at a branch office in Europe in charge of administrating the ATMs, if EUR 50 was missing it was an issue, forget about NGN12MM ( EUR 50K). As of EUR 500, the matter would be be investigated by internal audit. How are we not sure this security guy is not the fall guy. If you ask me they BM and the boss may have known and ate some of the money and are letting this guy take the blame, who probably has no idea how much he stole in total.

churific: You have to take an extra course in "Evading Death" and "Near Death Experiences" before qualifying to drive in Nigeria. The International License is simply not enough!

*sarcasm