₦airaland Forum

skukimania:
Oshiomole, Oshiomogho! Our Edo people wetin "Oshio" mean biko?

Oshio means God in Etsako language

Quelme:
Ishan people and their politics of hate.

Them go hate tire. There vote is not even up to 50%.

Osho all the way!!!

50% Kwa... Their votes is less than 20% oooo. Allow them make noise

With the number of senseless and irresponsible comments am seeing from supposedly enlightened fellows who are supposed to be tomorrow's leaders,... Indeed we deserve the leaders we get.

LilMissFavvy:
He is too old for her and should consider himself lucky that she accepted his proposal. While she should be glad that she will be married by a Christian. I bet no Moslemmm man can treat her better than the Christian brother.

Opinions from religious fanatics like you isn't welcome biko

engineoil:
I am more amused at the discouragement from people based on the fact that the guy is a perfectionist. In reality, perfectionism has levels and also the degree of awareness of the perfectionist also matters.

There are perfectionists whose level of awareness makes them extremely tolerant of others.

In fact, what makes perfectionsm debilitating is the inabilty of the perfectionst to do well in life because they seek perfect situations, environments, or conditions to act. And this could create setbacks/ slow progress for them in life. If he is doing well in life, it means he has his perfectionsm under control.

Come to think of it, there are perks associated with perfectionism too; perfectionists are OFTEN LOYAL, they Keep promises, they are neat, and if they have the resources, they value the family and seek the best for the family cos they strive for a perfect family. However, fear usually creeps in for their partner: they fear being rejected, or being seen as not 'good enough' cos perfectionists exude that mien when they are around people. If you can uphold your basic hygiene qualities, and be accountable in your dealings with them, then you would enjoy your relationship with an ENLIGHTENED perfectionist.

Another issue raised is Age. Age, no matter the gap, is just a number, a 24 yr old lady might exhibit the smartness and maturity of a 40yr old person and someone in their 40s might still be acting childish; Celine Dion, Joke Silva, Macron of France, etc married people 20yrs older than them...and their relationships are a reference point.

Of the issues highlighted, i think religion is the most controversial. A family is supposed to be ONE in everything. Anything that threatens that ONEess is to be dealt with ASAP. Religious diversity often creates division, even among the children, later in life. So, if there's a reason i think you should THINK WELL over this relationship, it is religion...except one of you is genuinely indifferent about it!

Religion wise, he is a very devout Christian...

eyinjuege:
Such people are very difficult to live with.
They may make you want to commit suicide at the end of the day.
She needs to find out why he got divorced the first time. Was it because of this his 'perfectionist, always right ways?'
He's like 20 years older than her, with 2 children she would be expected to look after. Is she ready for that responsibility?
They are incompatible in age, religion, and even their ways. I think she is too young to get shackled with all that.
But it ultimately lies with her. If she believes she can live with him, then she can give it a go

Well said ....

aliyumd:
It will end I tears, premium tears for that matter.

Hmmmm

eyinjuege:
What do you mean by easily irritated?
Kindly give examples and let's see what we have to work with

As in very delicate and over principled.... E.g Everywhere in the house must not have single dirt, room must be perfectly arranged, picks offense if you don't follow what he says etc ...

There seems to be a consensus in opinions.... Quite a big decision!

rockstarB:
Please tell the lady to leave that man. He'll always use her young age to exploit her.

Hmmmm

tobechi74:
Since she is not you, It is not your buisness

Wetin be your own? She asked me to post it, so advice or bounce

Hey fellas! Please advice sincerely as appropriate:....

She's 24 years old, Yoruba, Muslim from Osun State.... He's 45 years old, Christian from Southern Kaduna. He's divorced and has two kids... And okay financially and behaviour wise. A P.hd holder.... He has proposed and she has accepted

But, he is a perfectionist and gets easily irritated.
Should she go ahead with the marriage or call it quits??
Sincere opinions please
Admin please take to front page

I shake my head for my fellow Nigerians in pity! The bulk of the citizens of this country and dumb ass idiots like Yahaya Bello are our major problem in this nation.... Tufiakwa!

Where are those idiotic Trump supporters who always blindly sing his praises Trump is the man oooo The saviour of Christianity, Nigerian Christian's Demi God..... Feel sorry for the dude just wasted by those racist bastards instigated by their stupid master called Trump. How I wish Na one of those Nigerian fanatical Christians that refused to have sense and carry Trump matter for head dey there, so that they can learn the hard way. Nonsense!

larrysworld:
Bros, Coronavirus is real but the mortality rate is so low, it is like 1/5000. That means one person out of 5,000 with the virus will actually die and that one person is dead not because the virus is powerful but because of other underlying health conditions. If the virus was real as they said it, half of Nigeria will be dead by now because culturally we lack personal hygiene. All those numbers you hear them talk on TV is a scam. The virus did not kill them, they died because they have other underlying health condition before catching the virus.

Nawa for you oooo! So over 5% mortality rate is 1/5000 abi? You better be guided and stop deceiving people. From data available, about 1 in 18 persons that get infected will die.....

Group membership still open

I will share my heart story shortly....

Idiataqueen:
Let me follow this thread,wanting to learn my mum language,but it has always been difficult and the worst part of it is that my hobby to be is from Apana,so I don't have choice than to learn estakor.

Write whatever you want to be translated, and get translations

AreaFada2:
Very nice.

Yeah... Thanks

TAO12:
Yeah, I remember those warnings from the Ijaws to the Oba of Benin.

And the Bini monarch actually respected himself. Wow!

Wait, the Itsekiris also once dealt with the Binis?

I could have sworn it was only the Yorubas, the Nupes, the Igbos, and the Ijaws who dealt with the Binis.

Stop taking weed, you will not agree

valirex:
We need our gospel to go viral

Yes oooo