₦airaland Forum

skylane:
hmm I see I can notice d asian part 4rm ur eyes, oh God I love the asians enh,so are u dating a nigerian?

You're a good seer. Yes I am, love-smile.

Cherlene

blackpanther25:
To be honest firstly I do not give a fk who you are or where you come from. Secondly take your own advice because I was not referring to you but MrsChima


Thank you

If so, then I sincerely apologize for my error.

Cherlene

blackpanther25:
you do know that she is not a Nigerian female but an american so cussing Nigerian girls has no effect on her

I must chuckle, please before YOU bring to an end or conclude. I recommend you to be AWARE of your words.

Note: I am a colored SOUTH-AFRICAN. Not an American.

Thank you.

Cherlene

omooba969:
U shouldn't be replying ppl who can't comprehend ur views but quick to misquote or take it outta context---I mean ignorant ones though

Thank you for your response. You seem to recognize my perspective in the context.

Well I did so, so that parallel circumstances can be avoided.

Cherlene

mikron:
And how did u know his comments are genuine? Some guy just went about saying hateful words about Nigerian ladies that are mostly not true instead of u asking him how he came by that generalisation u welcomed his comments as genuine. Shows u re biased in ur capacity as an umpire in this topic. Sorry to say. Naija babes make una come defend una selves here o cos dis guy just finish una. Say all of una dey dirty, poor, uncivilized bla bla bla

Sorry but I think you misinterpreted my reply incorrectly.

Since it is his response and personal involvement regarding foreign ladies and vice versa. Therefore, I reckon it is genuine in addition with his story[contribution].

Thereby I am not going to wrangle about it, with YOU taking a sentence out of a FULL TEXT and conclude I am inequitable.

Thank you for asking.

Cherlene

mikron:
@op u sound like a researcher, are u doing a research on naija men? Just asking

Good day

No dear, I am not doing a study. Only eager to know more.

Cherlene

leanfarmer:
Morning, Cherlene, yeah! Personal experience.I think the downturn in the economy here hasn't made some women financially independent.You can't crucify them.Somehow, they've got to hang on.Some men too would do the same.For white women, however,at least, the ones I've got in touch with, there seems to be this sense of independence: oh, I'm fine...I don't need anything from you..

Good, Thank you for the respond.

Sad to hear, pray Buhari does the needful TO REINFORCE the ECONOMY for the advantage of all Nigerian citizens In Jesus Name, amen.

Cherlene

skylane:
u are welcome charlene,looking part asian right?

Yes to a slight degree, I am a multi-racial colored South-African young lady.

Cherlene

mulattoclaro:
a lot my dear. Foreign girls are more loyal, more respectful, more industrious, more caring and more caring than their Nigerian counterparts. Nigerian girls are hungry, dirty, unkempt, uncivilised, rude, ill-bred and lack courtesy. They believe a relationship is a financial bail-out from poverty and a meal ticket. I'm currently engaged to a Brazilian and believe me it's the best thing that ever happened to me. I don't regret not dating or wanting to marry a Nigerian girl. Not all of them are like that. Let's 98.9% of them are like that.

Goodmorning

Thank you for your genuine response.
Awh, congratulations on your engagement.

Cherlene

leanfarmer:
There's no one size fits all for this.I think foreign ladies are more open-minded.They tell you what they want up front.

Goodmorning

I wonder, If your reply is based on your PERSONAL EXPERIENCE or?

Cherlene

Dreambeat:
@op,I think the foreign women are less hypocritical about their feelings compared to Nigerian women.

Goodmorning

Can I ask? In which way are foreign ladies LESS HYPOCRITICAL regarding their sensitivity?

Cherlene

luvablesam:
I wish I could address this....

Is it a case of not valuing what u have? or a case of pretense towards the foreigners just to appear Good.

Yes Naija Men say the ladies here(Nigerian)use a lot of foul words against the men(I agree).
But a Nigerian Man who isn't even ready to boil water for tea by himself when he dates a Naija babe, cud actually serve his foreign babe breakfast in bed.

Isn't that double standards?....

Seems its in our blood not be nice to ourselves(that I observed).

What really lures the Nigerian Man away is simple.
Thrills, Adventure,money and Some love.



A Nigerian Man would be ready to

Goodmorning

Thank you for your input.

Cherlene

MrsChima:
Thanks sugar.

Super, you're welcome.
Oh congratulations on being number 100 to comment.

Cherlene

MrsChima:
Then you should have made that clear originally then I wouldn't have sensed that.

Carry on.

I believe I wrote the term [foreign] without categorizing.

Anyway, I apologize. Have modified it due to possible misreading.

Cherlene

Ipledge:
oo,Nothing really

You are welcome.

Cherlene

MrsChima:
I think she meant non-African preferably Oyinbo/akata.

I supposed any non-native nigerian female, NOT non-african. Not directing entirely to causasion/white as you sensed.

Cherlene

Ipledge:
what do you mean by foreign ladies,u mean ghanaians and togolese included,or ladies from other race

Thank you for asking. As the word expresses, I mean specifically a non-nigerian.

I am not DIRECTING solely to CAUCASION or light-colored skin ladies/females BUT every female who are a non-native nigerian female.

Cherlene

kevinberry:
Seconded...I love their mentality towards relationship issues...unlike 9ja girls...you hear them saying words like are you not a man,it his responsibility and other stupi.d comments...

I just love their mentality

Positive to perceive how you guys interact.

Cherlene

dlux:
Simple! They love unconditionally. So much so we can't even match up unlike 9ja. They've got issues too but its always worth a gamble.

Thank you for the input.

Cherlene

spacefreak:
Cherlene I really care less about foreign ladies but your profile pics is really doing a good job in changing my mind.

Thank you, smiley face.

Cherlene

leanfarmer:
Well, an uncommon level of understanding.And their ability to adapt to changing fortunes.

Thank you for your answer.

Cherlene

spacefreak:
No it's fine. It was a bit unusual but it's fine. Carry on.

I can comprehend, thank you.

Cherlene

NinoBrown888:
I for one have a thing for foreign ladies..

And I intend marrying a foreigner..

May I ask, what that [thing] is?
You seem CONFIDENT regarding your DECISION.

That is pleasant to hear. Pray God leads YOU to the rightful lady.

Cherlene

spacefreak:
You are not replying company mails. You don't have to be too formal or are you like conducting a research?

Thank you for your counsel, it is JUST HOW I
FANCY it.

Sorry, If my FORMALITY EVOKES you.

Cherlene

esosuo:
Different reasons for different people ,some find More love in foreign ladies ,some see it as an opportunity to catch for better stay package and others mayb naija babes don show dem pepper

Good evening my dear brother

Can I ask, which if the three expressions above do YOU relate to closely?

1 LOVE
2 Documentation/Higher opportunities
3 Troubles/Stress or Pepper as you mentioned by certain Nigerian ladies/females.

Cherlene

skylane:
Naturality, hardly Gold diggers, very free and playful,like d asians very submissive, and lastly to have a half cast as kids

Thank you for your upright reply.
Interesting.

Regards,
Cherlene.

Enegod:
smh...what she said?!

Greetings,

Sorry, could you be more apparant [clear].
Thank you.

Cherlene

iceberylin:
We scared of our own babes...
Ya'll know why

Good evening,

I am eager to know, could YOU be more precise on the word SCARED?

Thank You.
Cherlene

Good evening each and everyone,

Why do YOU think most Nigerian men esteem in FOREIGN ladies, and why do Nigerian men find them exotic?

JUST TO CLARIFY: Foreign as in explicit a non-native/non nigerian female.

NOTE: Only SENSIBLE responses, THANK YOU!

Regards,
Cherlene.

Goodmorning

I positively relate growing up as exhibit, on the
image above.

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
no shakings I dey with you

Thank you, for your EMPATHY.
Smile.

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
personality classified , dis lady is one unique south african who feels nigerian and does tins so unique , I still admire ur use of the english language dear

Good afternoon,

Nawwwh, THANK YOU for your tuneful and affectionate words, my wonderful brother IN CHRIST JESUS.

HEARTILY APPRECIATED!

YES, I have not omitted to call you. Will do so shortly.

Regards,
Cherlene.