₦airaland Forum

obongproff:
Hmm. I tot south africans usually diss us? Na wa oh! Dats good to know. And dat kinda makes me more interested in u. I just sent u a PM sha.

I am sorry, so unfortunate to hear.
Can only utter my personal panorama, I try not to condemn.

[NOTE: Which I to almost NO DEGREE/SCARCELY don't]

Yes I noticed you private messaged me.

Regards,
Cherlene.

AfricanApple:
I'm surprised you see it as something difficult to do, if you love someone, these things should come easily to you. everything you wanna do in life is a choice, you can choose to make it difficult or easy for yourself.

now that you are thinking its difficult I don't think you are ready to keep a long term relationship

Greetings,

Agreeable answer. [In one word COMMITMENT]

Regards,
Cherlene.

obongproff:
Lady, u look so cute. Are u a Nigerian?

Goodmorning,

How are you?.
Aawww, Thank you for the compliment.

Sorry to dissapoint you, I am a SOUTH-AFRICAN
young lady. Then again I am relatively fascinated by your culture.

Regards,
Cherlene.

obongproff:
Below are the qualities of an independent and responsible lady.

1. SHE IS ALWAYS PUNCTUAL:
I have met a numba of chics dat are not broke but one tin day all have in common is punctuality. If u have an appointment with dem by 5pm, day will be der by 5pm, worst case 5:15pm or so becos of traffic. And if she is held up in traffic, she will call u to tell u how bad d traffic and also ask u to give her some time. And if it seems like a dead-end, she will call and ask for a reschedule. Why? She knows d value of time and wdnt like to keep u waiting for long.

But for her counter-parts, baba u go wait tire. Day have no value for time cos day are simply on d collecting side of life.

2. SHE LIKES TO GIVE:
When u are dating dis kind of girl, trust me, you will always get sth from her. U wd most likely get a gift on valentine's day, christmas day and on ur birthday. Dis type of chic just feels she has to get u something even if u dont ask. Even if its an 800 naira Bodman perfume or a 200 naira boxers, d most important tin be say she will get u sth. And its not abt d size of d gift but always abt her attitude of giving.

3. SHE HARDLY OR NEVER ASKS:
She hardly asks for airtime, she hardly asks for cash, she wont ask u for her scl fees, or iphone, etc, except she is really stranded and has totally run out of options.

Wot she usually asks for is for ur attention, ur love and care. She mite ask for se.x sha...dat one day. But one tin is sure, she no be sucking blood, and has no plans to turn you into a walking ATM machine.

Why? Cos she doesnt see a man as a solution to all her financial problems. She enjoys d idea of having and spending her own money. She mite not be rich or from a rich family sha but she just like being self-sufficient.

4. SHE CAN HOLD AN INTELLIGENT CONVERSATION:
If u engage her in a thought-provoking conversation, u wd most likely enjoy d ride cos girls like dis usually have sth upstairs. U can reason with her cos she is far beta dan her counterparts who cant talk abt anytin beyond facebook, iphone, bbm, fashion, celebrities and men and dia troubles.

I've neva met a lady in dis category dat was also a sucking blood. And I have neva met a sucking blood dat can hold an intelligent conversation. 15 mins with dem, u feel empty and bored to death.

5. SHE IS CHASING SOMETHING:
This kinda chic is either chasing her studies or working on her career or business or chasing a dream. Day are hardly idle. Even while waiting for dia dream job, day like to engage in sth productive. Day dont like being idle, no mata how small d pay may be. If she cant any job, she mite decide to learn sth just to get herself busy.

6. SHE HARDLY BRAGS:
I have met a numba of independent ladies and I've realized dat dis chics hardly brag. Day hardly form. Some mite put up a stern look just to scare guys away but when u get to know dem, u see dat day are really nice and humble. But broke girls, kai! Na dem form pass, na dem brag pass! Smh.

7. SHE CALLS WITH HER OWN AIRTIME.
She can afford to buy 200 naira airtime to call you. If she is bouyant she will call u everyday. Some will even buy glo or etisalat special packages so day can have more airtime to call u, how sweet

Sucking bloods dont call. Dem no day eva get airtime. Dem go flash u till Jesus comes. Pathetic:@

8. SHE IS NOT ALWAYS AS HOT AS HER COUNTER-PARTS:
She doesnt always show cleavages. She doesnt always wear skimpy and revealing clothes. She mite wear a tight dress or sth revealing once a while, but its neva her trade mark.

And dis is one reason bobos like to fall for d sucking bloods. Becos we are always moved by wot we see, we are naturally attracted to d sucking bloods dat always dress hot, show cleavages and wicked hips, etc, and afta na still us go day complain.

If a lady has at least 6 of dis qualities and more, she is definitely a good wife material.

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I wasnt trying to defend d ladies. I just wanted to let some guys know how to spot a lady dat is not a sucking blood.

Ladies learn from dis so u can earn some respect.

Greetings,

Wow, you truly nailed every fraction, that I IDENTIFY myself with. Bravo!

Have a lovely weekend,
Cherlene.

emusmith:
It's my way of saying Your Attitude Is Catchy! I appreciate your use of Soft words...
I read that and also saved it. Thanks!

To Add: You're a Wife Material.

Awwwh, thank you dear. I am inarticulate [speechless].
Thank you once again, for your mellow and amiable [kind] response.


You are welcome! Merry to know you saved it.

Regards,
Cherlene.

emusmith:
Are you this polite?

Awhh, I aim to be, TO THE BEST OF MY ABILITY.
Kindly read the QUOTATION [attached file].

May I ask why?

Regards,
Cherlene.

emusmith:
You too.

Thank you.

Regards,
Cherlene.

emusmith:
I'm very well...You?
He is able to help us.

Thank God, I am doing super as well.
Amen.

Regards,
Cherlene.

emusmith:
Single?

Greetings

Not wedded nor lone [single].
Currently in a far-off [distant] courtship relationship.

Have a refreshing day ahead.

Regards,
Cherlene.

emusmith:
If you truly desire it, you will soon become it. :,)

Good day

How are you?
Unquestionably I DO. By the grace of our
Heavenly Father.

Regards,
Cherlene.

Greetings

These distinct details are beyond prize [cherished].
I am assured woman like this exist.
Pleased to affirm I AM ONE. Submissively awaiting to do THE ATOP RECOUNTS. [ When married! ]

Regards,
Cherlene.

Good evening

Delightful post. Having a pious relationship is greatly
PURSUED if you truthfully fear and respect The Lord.

I genuinely DESIRE to practice the above mentioned.

Regards,
Cherlene.

akpumping7720:
I rep May 13th!!!

Greetings,

I am similary epitomizing may 13th.

Regards,
Cherlene.

Ask4bigneyo:
I mean NO harm.... Roger that anyway

Thank you for your understanding.

Regards,
Cherlene.

Ask4bigneyo:
Thanks dear....Just kidding anyway. And what do u mean by "Juvenile"? It is not by stature, jst dt i have baby face.

Goodmorning

Oh, my apology. I kindly meant as in young-youthful-juvenile.

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
as for me atleast 5 kids. to start with for my mind but still depends on my to be wife too definitely not two sha cos dat go be dull house oh

Lovely, children are adorable. Packed with pure LOVE
and full of LIVELINESS ( energy ).

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
dats the true africa in you speaking ,large families are always the best to far you can take gud care of all the kids in the proper way and sure no dull moments in the house ,so. far u are financially boiyant to care for all in a proper and. standard way

Rightful response.

Regards,
Cherlene.

Greetings,

I have always desired a large family ( offspring ) and still persisted in doing so. My heart desires 8 graceful
children. Since I presently have two beautiful girls born out of wedlock. For this reason my desire is downsized to 6.

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
a nice one from my almost twin sister

Both thumbs up.

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
it is sure a gud way to appreciate the use of english

Precise, surely is.

Regards,
Cherlene.

Ask4bigneyo:
Hummmn.....Are u kidding me? As ugly as i am. Lolzzz, thanks dear

No dear, I am not jesting ( joking ).
Why such a utterance? Be SELF-CONFIDENT,
you are a nice-looking juvenile male.

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
the usage of the english language so flashy to me and looks like I go need to consult many dictionaries to take dey communicate with u oh

Hehehe dear, having a few inarticulate sounds
( laughing ) here.
Is that not great? I find it pleasing digesting new words.

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
regards. ma ,looks like we are having more people with 3,13 and tpia is 23 we share alot

Wow, thank God. Indeed, without doubt.

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
I will try not to oh

Excellent! Smiling

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
wow ur use of english dey mak me trip oh

Oh, in what manner or way?
No need to dear.

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
yes oh ,looks like we were going to be twins from anoda mother b4 but were seperated by 10 days

Awhh, dear you're making me chuckle ( softly laughing to myself ). I enjoy your jocularity ( funny side ).

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
we. share common favours dear , 3rd and 13th

Correct, we have the figure ( 3 ) in common.
Double superb!

Regards,
Cherlene.

Ask4bigneyo:
God indeed really took His time...
The end result is Muuaahhhhh!!!

Good evening

Awwwh, Thank you for the lovely words.
I absolutely consent with you. God uniformly
shaped you likewise.


Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
can see. d finishing. perfect touches made on u by God ,he really spend so much time forming u to his taste

Thank you dear. Likewise to you.
You are beautifully designed ( formed ).

Regards,
Cherlene.

esosuo:
Why did u come out so late na? was waiting for you but u were not ready , 3rd of May here 10 days apart

Good evening my dear

Aawh, our Heavenly Father was taking a extra period of time defining ( forming ) me. Now you can without fail
see the culminating end result?

Regards,
Cherlene.

Greetings

My natal day ( birth of date ) is,
13 May.

Regards,
Cherlene.

Greetings

I came across NL-nairaland directly through google.
Whenever I researched miscellaneous subject matters
NL-nairaland would constantly emerge.

Was never attentive until after a period. One day my inquisitive enabled me to review NL-nairaland finally.

Regards,
Cherlene.