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For 27yrs did u say? Quite sad
Nways mayb its the approach u use
Cud even be something they heard abwt u, etc really cnt  say
I wud asume u hve good intentions for these girls u approachin so wud suggest u speak to a close friend/family. If u go to church, wudnt b a bad idea to explain to ur pastor ur situation or u cud even tlk to God urself  

How is it cheatin wen she da one dat asked u to??

Ok I've read it

U pplz are still sit on ds thread is damaging english?

I doesnt knw it do still exist sef

Anything. do u hve something in mind?

she's outspoken

O my goshh

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Ds topic made me rememba sum Nigerian movie I watched where the prince's wife used to fyt, as in physicaly and literallly fyt everyone in the village, both old and young . But dat still dint stop him from loving her tho she later calmed it

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lol just 10? U Guys are defo in the lead

pc guru:
Love is a concept we humans coined up.as for falling in love.I don't believe in it.I don't believe anything is fated or meant to be.I believe people stick with an individual due to personal reasons.

Exactly my thoughts. I think ppl deceive themselves with the word love  
U stay with a person because u choose to. U leave a person because itz ur choice. Its as simple as dat really IMO.

O ma gosshh I luv ds! Now I can cook all things thru Nairaland dat gives me recipes

r231:
i don settle down b4 we even got married

the marriage na jus formality

Awww dats sweet if u mean dat 4 real  

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Yes it meanz settling ryt dwn and calming urself because Its a whole new era u just stepped into.
If not, it wud b da worst thing dat has eva happened to u ur whole life and in no tym, u wud b steppin ryt out

Mcleo007:
Igbo guys are proud? Why u gurls always say that, I mean igbo ladies? Anyway, I think its common fact yoruba guys are more caring when it comes to making a woman feel so good about herself, which I suppose is the most important and not material things.

They are just proud. They are so into this 'A man cnt do ds' and 'I'm a man tlk'.
They dnt lyk to adjust.
It doesnt me they not caring. They are just hard headed because of their proud nature
But yes I do agree yoruba guyz are caring. Well atleast da 1z I knw

To all those sayin they believe in love, how are u sure its true love? 
Sum1 can say they love u, buy u heaven and earth, spend tym with u and behind your bk still be on their grind 

I conclude, even all these signs we see and believe love exists cud be untrue
Most ppl dat claim they love sum1 wudnt sacrifice, for e.g a liver to their supposed Loved one who needs it when the situation arises but b4 then, they have shown u wat u thot was LOVE *I'm a witness to ds true life example*. Very sad 

Yes itz a beautiful thing. At the end of da day itz one country. I dnt even undastand the whole segregation.
If yoruba and hausa cnt date, what will then be sed of a yoruba dating anoda race completely different from his/herz

Nwayz for me I'm more with yoruba guyz than igboz.  
Igbo guyz are too Poud in general= one thing i dnt lyk abwt em

She's in love

Pweety4me:
[color=#550077]@OP Yes for both, but as for the second question we all experience love in different ways, so we might not see it the same way y'know. [/color]

True say. People have their different definitions of love and wat they think love is. I even heard sumwhere sumtym dat Ghanaian men show love to their wives by beating em Dnt knw how true dat is

190:
Would u answer mine should i answer yours

Sure if I hve an answer

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I've jus added a poll guys pls do put ur votes thru, thanks 

Dyt:
Yh sure Chi
even at his worse behaviour
i still peep at his pics,kiss it n say i love u loads
sighs
he still makes my hrt beat lyk d 1st tym he said he loves me

Awwww how sweet. I guess u've reached ur stage then  

190:

Chi baby in regards to your question!

I wanna throw it back at ya

1) Do you believe 190 loves you

2) Do you believe that 190 @ one certain stage in his life fell in love with you

Pls do answer mine 1st  

upendo 98:
yes i do for 2 big reasons

1. When you love you give. its evident and my reason for living.
2. Love covers multitude of weaknesses/.The reason we are able to live together in this crazy world.

[b]You dont fall in love,you grow in love. People that fall in luv trip coz what they felt was 'puppy love' not 'dog (mature) love'
Now that growing in love is such a process you need lots of grace lol[/b]
cheers.

So when sum1 asks to marry u and wants to engage u, at dat point he is not in love with u since ur sayin it doesnt exist?  

Dyt:
Y.E.S
Y.E.S
wen d feelings comes sm cant even explain its a joy pain thingy

Hmm have u felt it before and are u still with dat same person u felt it for??
U dnt have to answer if u dnt feel comfortable answering  

My mum

She's a freak

Who's talking about Aliens?

I'm hungry

jackpot:
^^you don't mean it? Well I cool pass A/C

@bright
nice reply to dat bus-conductor always looking for awufu things. I call it good riddance to bad rubbish

Good stuff  

Hey guys 

Was with a couple of ppl today and one tlk led to the oda and we got to ds topic, LOVE. Sum argued love is what you make of it, some argued therez nothing like falling in love and dat itz jus ppl deceiving themselves with all the 'I cnt live without u ' tlk , even one went further by explaining that she feels butterflies in her tommy when she's with her oda half and dats her sign dat shez truly in love, etc 

So I decided to throw it out on here to u guyz.

1st question:  Do you believe in love?

2nd question: Do you believe  everybody falls in love at sum stage in their life?

Hey u watsup?

I need as many Summer placements as possible

jackpot:
@cousin

go kiss your wifey

@chi-baby
wats gwan? am doin gr8

Nun much. We dnt see u these dayz hpe errthingz kool

I need one