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mistyebby:
Thanks ladies. Actually this is not the first time I'm being matched made. We see this every time especially when people feel u are ripe for marriage. The only problem is i never saw a sign, he was into the relationship than I was. And this was the first time he actually complained of sad moods or anger issues. And he easily gave up.

Well, the thing is this, the guy was into the relationship more than you cos I guess he wanted to take someone to mama come December. Then he took you to his family after which he went solo. My dear, the guy sampled opinion about you after that meeting and the "Nay's" had it.
Who knows, maybe there are other ladys involved too.smh

Bottom line is, let it go. Your sad mood or happy mood, is only a flimsy excuse. Just let it go ok? Move on!

Op, thanks for the information. The addy should be @yahoo.com I guess...
Either ways, the mail keeps bouncing back

Tough situation but the man in question needs to be more considerate. The world doesn't revolve around him alone.

scribble:
I think the mods should modify the title to what happens when you see the biggest ukwu after marriage

This OP sef...

what do you want us to do now? advice u to leave your husband?
anyway, the information you gave up there is not that sufficient, maybe u should paint a scenario to enable us understand u more...

romoruyi:
it has been sent!!!

Pls can u forward it to me too... switomaa@yahoo.com thanks

melvin0004:
gv me ur mail for d materials

Will be grateful if u can forward it to me too... switomaa@yahoo.com

Mrval20: Yeah Physio.
Not what you think though, it was God's plan. Lol.

Ohhh I see...

Mrval20: In a hall at UNEC where students usually go to study at night.

Physio??
Welldone sir! So when others were reading, u were busy...

1one: Errrm.. I didn't see anything you wrote ma'am.

Just "modified. Hope you understand me now"

I mean my original post has been modified. U may wish to go back and read again.

[quote author=1one][/quote]Modified. Hope u understand me now

If d guy is everything I want, i'll be overjoyed to have him but won't get married to him simply because he's a virgin only. Other qualities will be considered.
Again, d fact dat someone wrote jamb 5times b4 making it doesn't in any way mean he's better dan another who wrote it just once and passed
Experience indeed.

Mtchwwww...

Gboliwe: What a dirty young man! Jumped into your bed in your soaked and muddy outfit? Ewwwwww
Tomorrow one sister will be posing as your wife. Tufia!

This poster is a joker

Awww hope I'm not too late... Pls anyone with d questions shud pls help-- switomaa@yahoo.com tenks

ignis: Please, am confused, what is the purpose of this thread?

I just tire... Smh

Mbanu

jmoore: Andyblaze, come and see your future wife.

As in ehhh! Perfect Combo

Lstar4real: U still dey wonder.... Na their house them dey rule na...and the people in the Kingdom are u and your siblings

Lol, I guess so

My mum saved his number wit "King" while my dad saved hers with "Queen" which is wot they call each oda. Just wonder the kingdom they are ruling

bimbcy: kindly send to me too bimbcy4real@gmail.com

@ Oye123 tenks a lot.
I've forwarded same to those dat requested for it.

Oye123: @whizqueen
Thanks, i have seen it.

Pls can u forward it 2 me too? I mean d ACCA study packs for skill level pls I'll really appreciate it. My email- switomaa@yahoo.com

KiddaBlingzz: Not every guy that does something nice for you wants to straff you

I have reasons to believe U although, if she consciously or unconsciously sends any signal, d guy will gladly take it up

Superstar007: The wife material in her shouldn't be anything less than 10 yards

Hahahahahhahahahahhahahahahahha Lwkmh

Romancegirl: Virgins are boring? I beg to disagree due to some flawed assumption made on your post.

- The word 'virgin' isn't specifically designed for some people but non-virgin must have passed the stage.

-Do you mean that whenever a boring virgin girl have sex and becomes non-virgin, she would now be tagged lively, right?

A boring girl is boring wether she is a virgin or not.

Gbam! TenkyU

Afghanistan: Don't worry by the time I spend more money, she go spread tha leg and come to papa.

choi! Spend d money jorr, buh at d end, d joke will definately be on U
But come to think of it, chosing a life of "magaship" isn't such a bad idea u know

Op, I want to believe u hv passed through dat stage (NYSC) and if u've been to camp, u'll know dat they live a regimented life there there r stipulated time 4 everytin there so u don't expect d communication btwn u two to be d same as she may barely hv time for herself.
Again, pls cut dis girl some slack! They left camp 2day to a strange community where they may never hv been to, give her time to sort herself out and stop choking her wit ur hasty conclusions!

WoodcrestMayor: U want make d man dey trample ontop d woman?

As if dats not d typical case of most marriages in Nigeria
Weda educated or not, our men will always want to show they are d boss.
So most times, it works better if d one who wants to be d boss is more educated or @least on d same level wit d lady
Well its my opinion though, "men's Ego" is somefin some of us just can't comprehend. A woman can easily take correction from her educated hubby buh wish I cud say same for d guys.

tebirim: if a female graduate gets married to a male non-graduate, theres really no probs with that. but in most cases (in Nigeria) the man will develop a low self esteem which will definately bring up issues. If the male doesnt work on his self esteem he'll begin to read meanings to the woman's attitude and this in the long run will lead to series of quarell, and no peace in the home and finally divorce.

but if d guy is a free minded person, there wont be any wahala. i wn't advice any female graduate to get married to a male non-graduate cos u will regret it later. the guy will feel u aint submissive and he'l always want to control u in order to feel like a man. in most cases they turn out to be bullies


thats my opinion

OP, this...
Its way better for a guy who's a graduate to stick wit a non graduate dan for a lady who's a graduate to get married 2 a non graduate. Too many insecurities to deal with