₦airaland Forum

A4alpha:
Trust these men in gown at your worst nightmare, some of them even refused to get married knowing fully well they can't cope because during their training in seminaries etc they womanize more than a normal fellow on the street yet they are adamant. They do all sort of dirty things with girls, they are bold to discuss their escapade mind you I live close to one rocka-fella a senior seminarian at that, me believe it's all about the bag (employment) nothing more.
Imagine the danger such fellow will pose to vulnerable people out there. I know one guy who took his matrimonial matter to a so-called priest it didn't end well, they are separated now but na the said priest dey shine the kongo.

People should open their eyes oo fvck the pastor shii

Pastors na business men. Na mumu dey carry him whole life and marriage matter go dey tell pastors. Omo make Una wake up to the harsh reality of this life ooo before it's too late.

Amumaigwe:
Na scope na. The pastor must have preached on how men should make their wives their financial managers and the naive and unsuspecting man was induced to handover the family finances to his wife so that it will be withinn the reach of the pastor-lover. Until we start rationalizing what these goons preach from pulpits with the eisfom of our forefathers, accidents like this will be happening in marriages.

bros, thanks for this comment. In order words pastors help women in gaining full control over husbands. No wonder women are usually more in churches than men so pastor's preaching will be in favour of women else he would lose patronage. If men realised all these things,they would stop going to church.

naijapikin2:
Just watch as these e-holy warriors start castigating ALL pastor's as if their life is any better. I'm not supporting what the pastor (that's if we can even call him a pastor) did. But the moment you make sweeping statements like all pastor's are fake, then I know your head is not correct.

I hope he finds healing. As for me.. if na me the marriage has surely ended

wake up from your dream....All pastors are fake...don't wait till you learn the hard way before you know this.

jrobbins:
are you saying there are real pastors,me I see all of them as job men looking for whom to fleece

when my wife was still in this country, I ensured there was no direct communication between her and any pastor.

heck, she later became like me. we don't do religion.

just regular meditation, believe in the universe, and humanity.

That is what a real man would do. It's a red flag for me once I noticed a woman is religious. You see some women give more respect to their pastors more than their husbands cos they are getting digged by pastor. I would not allow a pastor mediate between me and my wife. If it's only a pastor that can resolve our issues,then make she dey go. I no do again.

Na mumu dey allow him wife go too close to a pastor...These pastors easily sleep with married and single women going close to them all in the name of prayers.

Obi own too much self...so e don reach this extent. This one no go make you win election na.

HellVictorinho9:
Hmmm

Itz a twisted mata

As in

Being outside prison doesnt mean u are TOTALLY FREE


there are tinz dat can be following you
up and down and even into where they bury or dump u after death


dis life get as e be

💯 . You are very correct. Life is deep

DeepSight:
Conformists are weaklings

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That's it...The system want us weak and compliant. I pity person when want please everyone,E go too see shege.

Milekedesigns:
Nigeria will humble you if you’re not careful.

Many people are just existing to avoid being judged. You can’t be quiet, you can’t stay indoors, you can’t even say no—before someone labels you “jobless”, “proud”, or “anti-social”.

We really need to normalize living for ourselves and not for society’s expectations. Peace of mind should be the goal, not fake approval.

To survive this Nigeria,you just got stubborn.No dey send anybody,just do you. If I greet you,you no answer me I stop greeting you.No be the person dey pay bills for me. Life will be much better if we stop forcing people to conform or fit them in a mold.

occfx:
You are very intelligent... I live in a street where everyone is either a civil servant or business owner outside the estate but I do my online things clean and legit from home but they say am jobless. I keep thinking what the hell in this modern age people still think like idiots. However, they are confused because, they see currier bring goods and tools for me and they don't understand. I mind my business because I dont like small talks they say am strange person. Black man is very useless.

it's everywhere in this country... people can't just imagine you being different,it forces them to look at themselves which most don't want to do. Next thing they will do is label you for being different. I made a decision to not give a Bleep what anyone thinks of me.Now they say I don't care,why should I?when I got ridiculed for caring.

Double0h7:
Why does this sound like worshipping people
1 gift I always had since I was a child was not giving a flying duck what people thought of me. I’ve had endless labels thrown at me but they can never stick because I don’t care.

I believe that I have a tribe scattered around my community and the world, and the only way to reach them is to remain authentic.

If I’m not for you then what are we even doing here! Abeg moooove, let better people see me 😁.

That's the right mindset to have to survive in a society that wants you to conform. Remain firm in being yourself.

Goodnewsforlife:
it's not wickedness but the boss get sense pass her.

If I am to do that for anyone I will have the boss sign it that I own at least 20% of the stakes in that company.


The reality is that the world doesn't send u, nobody is ready to look out for u but u must use your head before they use it for u

That's the bitter truth. The world doesn't give a Bleep about your kindness or goodness.

Brazino:
Because he will now be eating free food and free accommodation.

Sometimes, I feel those in the prisons are doing better than some of us outside the prison. They no longer have to worry about what to eat or where their next meal would come from.

No more landlord wahala.

Life is not easy guys. I know what am passing through now

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂


39 more characters needed.......seun allow us comment freely

This is the height of witchcraft....make dem kuku turn us all to almajiri for this country.

3kay945:
As a master holder, I feel insulted and pained by this requirement from the dude.

Chai!

I hope people planning to do masters in Nigeria can learn from what peller is saying. The boy is even generous by saying he would pay 500k. How much is your government paying? We need more of similar statements from him so that we go get sense for this country.

press9jatv:
it's the bad system we are running in Nigeria by the leaders in government thst makes degrees worthless seriously. Unlike in UK and America, it's not bad there. Both bsc and masters degree holders are much employed seriously.

This is the reason why we all need to clamour for good governance,irrespective of your financial status,tribe,religion or class. Bad governance affects everybody in one way or the other but Nigerians are so myopic that they don't think and fight for the collective.You hear some persons making callous statement like "it will favour me and my family".mumu set of people with shallow minds.

press9jatv:
not Good enough here. He's just mocking those that have master's degree and also the students that are in school looking for certificates niiiii.

To you it's mockery,but to me it's an eye opener.He is telling us how degrees are now worthless in our society. Truth is bitter but that's what it is. At this point in time,Nigerians need to face reality and stop wasting their time pursuing degrees. Gone are those days degrees can take you places in this country,now it's a waste of time and resources.

Nice one,the boy is making a point. With your degree,you fit still work for person when no go school. Even Nigeria government is not paying that much to masters holders.Don't blame the boy but blame the country we found ourselves.

[quote author=Paut post=136029306][/quote]lol, reading is not for only academicians. I'm suggesting something you do at your leisure.

Paut:
Are you still putting me in that stress? 🥺
What should I read then?

philosophy,science fiction, psychology.anything that interests you.

obama30:
I have read many comments but no one ask question.

How can someone be raped inside a car. She didn't say bus, any sex inside car is mutual.

You have a vital point. Na mumu dey believe everything when woman talk. Op should involve her parents.Most of the rape cases you hear are consensual

Casham:
My cousin just told me last night that she just got raped on Sunday afternoon/evening (6th July, 2025).

I stay with them for now. She's 18, the first of two daughters and was still virgin (as far as I know). Her only [older] brother is in school.

She's been acting funny since on Sunday evening. She couldn't hold it in anymore and, since there is no one else she could actually confide in, she confided in me. Now she's begging me not to tell anyone and not to cause trouble. She only wants me to help her get a drug (if any) that will prevent pregnancy.

She told me about the man coming to see her in her mother's restaurant and said she was going to talk to the man about getting me a job, but when she went into his car, he forced himself on her.

Honestly I am angry right now! I am angry at three things:

First, I am angry at my family. I have a family where the children are afraid to open up, because if you do, you will be blamed and castigated upon. I understand her fear and apprehension about letting other people know, but I just can't let this go.

Secondly, I am angry at our society. How can a man confidently feels he can force himself on a lady and get away with it? What kind of society do we have?

Thirdly, I am angry at myself. I am angry because I feel helpless. I can't let this thing go. I have to deal with this man, but I don't know how to do it without putting my cousin in a difficult position. I have tried to let her know that it is not her fault and that the man needs to pay for this, but she's been begging me to just let it go. She only confided in me because she's really scared of getting pregnant.

According to her though, there was never any real penetration, but the man (who is a high ranking government official) actually "released" ON her, not IN her. (Does that even make sense?)
How can I handle this issue right now? For me, I am planning to go all out and let hell break loose and let the heavens fall if they have to.

Bros,involve her parents and her brother. Do not do anything on your own. Make you no go cry had I known.

HellVictorinho9:
does this now explain why i have experienced mostly insults,attacks,accusations and hardship since i was born in 1997 as victor omerigwe 4 no reason?

can hellfire be worse?

lol....help me ask am. I have always known that this life right here is hell and there is no other hell waiting for me out there even before I came across ourtruth247 posts.

HEAVEN4444:
it's a very interesting concept and we need you to explain it further as to why being generous is the quickest way to make enemies

it makes people envy you. You might think you are helping but with time they start hating on you and becoming entitled. People don't value free stuffs.

NetbizBoss:
Religion must die for Africa to rise. You cannot forget your root... Your root is the reason you're alive. Any plant the root die is just waiting for wing to pull it down.

They brought religion to Africa just to weaken us spiritually to enable them enslave us. Imagine them telling us our culture and tradition is satanic.The names we bear are satanic. Then they start renaming us and given us their own traditional names in the name of religion.
Our so call pastors and Imam took from there to inductrinate us to weaken us spiritually for their own personal and financial benefits.
Africa must go back to it root for Africa to rise again. The Developed countries did not develop leaving their culture and tradition behind.

Most of the major religious leaders knows this but are afraid to tell African the truth because the will be asked to refund the money they had collected from the public for many years now

You are very correct. They have been scamming us since. I'm glad we are waking up to the truth.The traditional religion they asked us to abandon is even more effective than the ones they gave us.if you know how potent some ordinary herbs are you would not be going to hospital or praying to be healed of diseases.

delan40:
We should pray for God protection always. Some people will still hate you for been generous.

leave that one. E never understand life. Been generous is the quickest way to make enemies.

Celestialsword:
We are living in a wicked WORLD,be discreet in all what you do.

I think they killed him, because he knew them and even at that they were still apprehended.

Crime doesn't pay, trust nobody, even your so called best friends and family members

Trust no body...everyone is a potential criminal. Learn to keep a low profile.

DeepSight:
Refreshing.

Can you summarize your philosophy of life. Why we are here. What brought about this world. What is its purpose. Etc.

All I can say for now is we are not meant to be here. We don't belong here. Who ever brought us here doesn't have our interest at heart. Avoid herd mentality and think freely. Whoever brings fear to you does not want the best for you instead wants to control you. Free your self from every form of control. Look where no one is looking.

DeepSight:
Excellent.

However your use of the term "cycle of samsara" is what drew my attention.

What makes you believe in that cycle.

Furthermore I find that many people belonging to esoteric sects say they have no business with religion but in truth they do have their esoteric sects, such as Eckankar, The Grail Movement, The Rosicrucian Order and others. Do you perchance belong to any such organisations?

The reason I used the word is it saves me the stress of saying "endless cycle of birth,death and rebirth". I don't follow any of those sects. I think freely. Each of those groups you mentioned is part of the controlled system in place to keep us conditioned. At some point in my journey,I have come across different religions and sects and even believed their doctrines.Now,I walk a different path.

tctrills:
Lol
I pointed out how disorganized your argument was.
It is not efficient.
Only a very low intelligence God will depend on reincarnation.
But then you refused to learn.
Clearly you are stuck in your ways and not open to learning as you say.
Reincarnation is a waste of time and experience. This method makes past experiences irrelevant.
If the reincarnated being has no attachment or remembrance of the things he learnt in past life, each past life becomes a waste.
Again, to save us from the stupidity of reincarnation, just make the truth available for everyone at their first trial of life.
Your entire system is a waste of time. Only a low intelligence being would choose that route.

Reincarnation is not for our evolution. Of what use is reincarnation when I can't remember my past life memories?each life time we come blank,no past life lessons and wisdom to apply in the current life time.we end up repeating similar life times countless number of times.it is a trap preventing us from evolving.who ever designed this system does not have good intentions for us.

tctrills:
For no fault of theirs, our ancestors did not hear about Christ or Christianity would they be punished for that or would they be given a second chance?

It is written
Timothy 2.3-4
For this is good and acceptable in the sight of God our Saviour;

4 Who will have all men to be saved, and to come unto the knowledge of the truth.

Also
Romans 10:14
How then shall they call on him in whom they have not believed? and how shall they believe in him of whom they have not heard? and how shall they hear without a preacher?

No one preached to our ancestors so is it the will of God that they also be saved and come to a knowledge of Him?

You are one of the ancestors that you worry about...You are an incarnate of your ancestor.