₦airaland Forum

Exgee:
As I am right now, I am overwhelmed.
I don't even have anyone to talk to.
Most people are mean and wouldn't want to listen to other people's challenges.
And when you do the unthinkable, they will start saying why didn't he speak out. Speak out to who if I may ask?

it's a cruel world.you have to go inward and rediscover yourself. Try to enjoy your company.Nobody really cares.

papyjaypaul:
Maybe people learn from experience, don't you think?

sure,you are right.experience is always teaching us.

stuffs2002:
Security all over the world is not tacked on a single day and I don't understand why you would expect the present administration to solve security at the snap of their fingers. Even Obi failed to tackle security in Anambra. Obi only succeeded in murdering over 250 innocent people in Anambra and dumped their bodies into Ezu river.


You have allowed bitterness to cloud your judgement because you can never ever see anything good in Nigeria because you have blocked your heart to any good thing.

So because obi failed in security when he was governor we should expect worse from this government.sometimes I dey wonder the kind human being when I dey share this country with oooo. Na sawdust full some of una head for here.

papyjaypaul:


Sorry for laughing at your situation but did the father get tired of his daughter or she started obtaining her dad that he himself was surprised

Women are special creatures, they need special handling.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=JtH7UmILdII

He knew all these and still fell out with his ex wife?

silaswills01:
This is why we say nigerians deserves all the suffering poverty and hunger


This makes me sick

yes, Nigerians deserve worse leaders.i no dey pitty anybody again.

In case you still have hope that Nigeria will get it right,just know you are deluding yourself.Nigeria will not get better,know this and know peace.everyone should focus on himself/herself to be better. I don't even see the need for election in nigeria.it is waste of resources.

Jerrymanta:
Lmaoooo if dem explain Nigeria to you in the most layman way, trust me you will never understand Nigeria 😂😂😂

that is it....you can never understand this country,don't even try to.

ruthieo:
Read my comment again so you can understand
Not all females are loose even in this dirty society
I am proudly a virgin and I am not afraid to say it
So know this and know peace

Virginia, If person come close now e go discover say no be true.

HenryWilliams:
This part got me.
Before. I buy 10 liters of fuel for 1700 naira.. fire it overnight when EKEDC mess up.
Now I can't even buy 4 litter steady..
Na to dey buy 5k fuel every 3 days inside car and monitor where you drive reach..
It's a crazy country we are in now.

The shit is scary.the shocking thing is this man is barely 2 years in power and still has 6 years to go.

anonimi:
Maybe the 50% who are not in the same boat are the ones who follow Akpabio’s advice.

where you want see free food for this present Nigeria?

100% is correct instead of 50%.The report is been economical with the truth.

odinson1:
If she answer this question, make the world end today
They want to reap from where they didn't sow. Bro, imagine another adult human being like yourself who went to school, being entitled to YOUR money. Is that not madness?

serious madness.the last gal I ended things with,I bluntly asked her what extra value she is bringing to me that would make her demand extra. I told her if she wanted more from me,she should be willing to do more for me and that was the end. I no get time to pamper anybody when no dey pamper me.

ruthieo:
Men are stingy joor😂
Random woman hmmmmm
God abeg
Dey go dey alright

better to be stingy than to be used. You that is not stingy,how many random men have you gifted money?

odinson1:
Men just too mumu
These idiots cannot understand that they're creating a big problem for the rest of us. You can be talking with a girl today, and she's already thinking she deserves the money in your pockets just because she has a vagina.

Why? Well because other men are always spending on her, so why won't she feel entitled to men's money in general? Na God go punish all the foolish men wey dey for this world

As in them don spoil things finish for most Nigerian men struggling to make ends meet. My advice for men is stay away from these women for a while and see their brains reset with time.

odinson1:
Men are stopping these days now sha. Women are always complaining online about how men are stingy and "broke", just because they refused to give them money o

the ones that are no longer giving is probably because they don't have due to the harsh economy.immediately things become soft they go back to their default state of simping. Na this tinubu government dey reset some men head by fire by force.

odinson1:
Oga the men are the root cause. When you have foolish yahoo boys and rich igbo men splashing money on different girls, why won't girls become entitled and expect everyman to just be giving them money for existing?

yes you are very correct.if you don't give them,other men will give them. So it's either you join them in simping or you avoid these gals completely.

Thundafireseun:
2020 when I had my daughter….

I was sending my baby mama 15k every month….
5k for pampers
5k for medicine
5k for Miscellaneous expenses….. don’t forget Nigeria was still very ok

Her father called me that why am I not sending money for feeding to his daughter?
A graduate that was inside his own house…. Under his own roof 😩

just imagine oooo. This thing no be class matter. One babe told me that there is this special joy she gets from eating her boyfriend's money so it's not about having money or not having money.

Nazgul:
Bro leave this change your cycle talk.

In Nigeria today it's almost impossible to maintain communication with a girl for at least one month without her requesting anything from you. Regardless of whether she a working class or a jobless girl. One need must come up provided you've decided to take her seriously.

I once chatted with a girl who works as an accountant with a multinational firm, she earns well, yet we can barely finish a conversation without her telling me to order food for her from glovo. I ended up letting her go.

So remove cycle from your mind. Most girls these days are just greedy.

That is the point... it's not the issue of circle or class...The entitlement mentality nature is ingrained in our Nigerian gals.its something that they are trained to become by mothers and society at large.The solution is avoid Nigerian gals completely if you can or go for foreign gals if you can.

EvilMerodack:
He is right tho

Be specific about the kind of girls you roll with. I use their profession/work place to save contact. If you dey work for big firm or you dey very very succesful in business, i go save am. I no dey do corpers, students and random street ladies



I have never sent Data or Airtime to a lady in 5years. There are also ways you psyhce women in your first few convo that they will be scared to say shii like this

Plus, if woman see say you fit pull higher value women with substance, she no go follow you dey discuss hunger matter

Where you dey jam all these correct women?mind you,woman fit get millions for Aza,still dey ask you for 2k oooo

Nnamdipapa:
Start with a road trip, there is a bus in Bene that goes through Ghana to Gambia. Most Nigerians don't travel and never enjoy their lives before carrying liabilities under guise of settling down.
I am married and have kids and I would give everything to be single with no kids. Do road trips first before flying and you will be surprised what lays out there.
Most Nigerian married me with kids have never really settled down, do not fall for the societal scam.

road trip to Gambia will cost like how much?

JobAndVacancies:
what of us wey don pass 37 but with salary of 40k.
No hope for us be that

the lord is your strength my boss

MrMcJay:
People outside marriage want to get in.

People in marriages want to get out.

the irony of life

Manculated:
Thanks Comrade.

Exactly, I feel so much for the GenZ Ladies, They are unlucky. I have them around me, No Boyfriend, No Calls, Nothing..

Their Mothers aren't helping situation. I know some of them, their Mothers are still singing the "Bring Home A High Value Man" lol. These are Ladies in their late 20's. We still have the ones in their 30's piled up.

In Nigeria currently, Lot of men in their early and late 30's aren't even thinking of marriage due to the diaplated economy. Some do not even have girlfriends to tell you how serious is the situation.

Their mothers are indeed not helping matters.they are still living in wonderland.some are even bragging to their daughters how they had many suitors during their time forgetting that Nigeria of twenty years ago is not Nigeria of today.the earlier the gals start having lower expectations towards their men,the better for them.

Manculated:
I have said it and i will say it again.

If no lady chooses me, I am not getting married. And the attraction and choosing has to be genuine. I have my ways of knowing.

90% of men are the ones who chased and choosed their spouse after sessions and series of beggings before they accepted men proposal. Not me though, It won't happen.

Later one wonders who among the partners is always bringing up threat of divorce lol

you are on point. Be the chosen one and you will enjoy her.also,get her to sponsor or cosponsor the marriage and you are fully insured.

Manculated:
Be like every man eye don clear pass DSTV now due to the Shege wey those people don use their eyes see

shege is necessary sometimes.it resets brain.

Pastors and politicians are the biggest yahoo boys

oluwaahmed:
Jungle never mature yet. By the time tinubu is in his second term, people go dey raid the animal shelter for chow. Guymen go dey chop their dog

exactly,at this point we still dey enjoy...his second term will be much worse.

Hahnemann:
A lot of women share this mindset, it's not a good one but you shouldn't have allowed it lead to a break up

e reach to break up with her...Woman when believe her pastor more than her husband na red flag ...such women easily sleep with their pastors. Many things dey sup behind the scene my brother.

EndRape2:
Some men have taken their wife and the wife family out of poverty , some have built house s for their mother in-law, I know a guy that sent his wife abroad the wife took her mother and almost all her siblings ,

The guy raised his woman and her family out of poverty


Instead of you to go and pray for prosperity so you can be a blessing to your woman and her family you are here talking rubbish.

dey there dey wait for man when go come remove you from generational poverty.You go cry no worry. You get two hands,two legs with a functional brain still dey look for slave when go dey work dey serve you.I blame foolish men making useless gals relevant and entitled.

EndRape2:
Poverty is a disease , only phone you bought for a lady you are calling her broke, you even bought it in credit,

I keep saying this only senseless girls should date a broke guy, it is your duty to provide for your woman, go and hustle if you are broke .

Na men when no get standard dey date hungry gals like you.as a gal,you shouldn't be in a relationship if you can't take care of your needs.relationship is not a job.go and get a job and don't rely on men for survival.